Guy on top, doggy style. Guy on top. The same sex position over and over can really bring your sex life down and many positions that men use aren’t all that great for women. But here’s the good news – men generally like any sex position as long as his penis is . . . well, you get the idea. So ladies, here are four awesome sex positions you need to try tonight!
Woman On Top
Okay, we’ve all heard of woman on top. We’ve all done woman on top. But here’s a reason that you need to make the woman on top position one of your regular, go-to sex positions. Did you know most women can climax when they’re on top? That’s because the angle between your man’s penis and your g-spot is perfect for just the right amount of stimulation.
The Variation: Face your man’s feet instead of his head. This is called the “Reverse Cowgirl” position. This gives your guy a great view of your backside and you can even use a vibrator in this position to stimulate your clitoris and make this position mind blowing.
Sitting Face To Face
Have your partner sit Indian style on the bed or couch, or wherever you like. Face him, and lower yourself onto his penis, wrapping your legs around him. This sex position is great on a bed because the springs inside help your partner to propel you up and down because he’ll be doing most of the work. Why is this position great for women? The face to face contact and emotional intimacy you can experience in this position is off the charts.
The Variation: Both of you will still be sitting, but try facing away from your partner. This is almost a sexy, sultry version of Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost.
Side By Side
Many “new sex positions” are invented by a bunch of guys sitting around a conference table with stick figures, trying to find the weirdest ways they can fit them together. Right? Okay, maybe not, but to for a woman who is looking up new sex positions to try, some of these acrobatic moves can seem downright outlandish. Are they really supposed to work? In the Side By Side position, you are simply lying down and facing your partner with your legs intertwined so his penis can enter you. This requires no special maneuvers, yet gives you the emotional and physical intimacy you need to have an orgasm.
The Variation: Try this position while you’re facing away from him, like spooning. Hold a pillow to your chest and groin for better control and let him reach around and fondle your breasts.
Don’t be afraid to try new things in the bedroom, but remember that you don’t have to act like you’re from the Cirque du Soliel just to please your partner either. Find positions that you and your partner both enjoy and rotate between them when you have sex so your sex life doesn’t become stagnant. Focus more on spending time with your partner and enjoying the sexual sensations you’re sharing with them instead of focusing on getting to the Big O. Chances are, the Big O will come on it’s own, no pun intended.