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Text Your Ex Back Review

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While the idea that you can save your relationship and get back together with your ex via text messages may seem a bit ludicrous at first, if you’re hurting after a break up and want your partner back, this is definitely something you’ll want to give a shot. Texting is rampant these days, with everyone and their dog having a cell phone.

Many people communicate with their phone through texting only, and others text far more than they actually talk to people on the phone. When you think about it that way, using texting to get your relationship back on track doesn’t seem like such a silly idea, now does it?

The Good

While using your cell phone to repair your relationship after a nasty break up seems way too simple to be true, Text Your Ex Back is actually chock full of great tips and resources. You’ll learn why your relationship went south, how you contributed to it, and what to do to get it back. And you can do all of this by just using your cell phone. Fancy that!

Perhaps the true meat of the guide here is not necessarily what buttons to push on your phone to make your ex magically appear back at your side (although you’ll get plenty instruction on what exactly to do), but the pearls of wisdom about how relationships and break ups work. To be honest, anyone who has ever gone through a break up will find a lot of use out of this guide. Even if you don’t have a cell phone and are using dial up internet. Really.

The Bad

Text Your Ex Back isn’t a terribly fun read. Chances are, if you’re even looking at this product, your heart is open and bleeding all over the floor already. The guide requires you to take a good, hard look at yourself and your relationship, and requires you to analyze all the different things that contributed to the break up. This. Is. Not. Fun. Period.

But it’s necessary – absolutely necessary – if you even want to have a prayer of getting your relationship back. If you’re at the place where you’ll do whatever you need to do to get your ex back, then this is the guide for you. If you’re still being cocky and blaming your partner for everything bad that ever happened in the relationship, you are definitely not emotionally developed enough to get any value out of this guide and you’ll likely put it down before you even get to the good parts.

But if you’re ready – really ready – to do what it takes to get your ex back, Text Your Ex Back is an invaluable tool. Nothing worth getting comes easy, and if you really believe that your ex is a person worth getting back, then the road to get there is not going to be easy. Take it or leave it, but that’s the way it is.

The Bottom Line

Text Your Ex Back is an excellent guide to getting your ex back – although it’s not the most “fun” read out there. You really need to be in a place where you can take some criticism and some self examination to heart and use it to better yourself and correct the mistakes you’ve made. If you’re not emotionally “there” yet – where you can admit fault, forgive yourself, forgive your partner and move forward – your cell phone isn’t going to help you one bit.

But if you’re ready, really ready, to get your ex back, Text Your Ex Back will get you going. It will take you from examining what went wrong in your relationship and how you played a part, to repairing your relationship using just your cell phone. In all honesty, this is one of the most unique break up advice guides. Even if you don’t end up getting back together (which is entirely possible, because the book makes no guarantees), you’re going to have way better relationships in the future because of this guide. However, the author’s understanding of relationships, break ups and the differences between men and women are your most powerful ally and chances are, if you do what the book says and give it your all, you will get back together with your ex. What are you waiting for?

The Full Text Your Ex Back Review

A break up is tough, but it’s a safe bet that you’ll experience a break up at some point in your lifetime. They suck pretty hard, even if you’re the one that did the breaking up. They especially suck if you’re not the one who did the breaking up. So what do you do if your relationship is over and you’re realizing that you most definitely do not want it to be over? Is there any hope of reversing the break up and saving your relationship?

Fortunately, the answer is yes!

You are not doomed to be alone for the rest of your life. The fight isn’t over yet!

Esteemed relationship and seduction guru Michael Fiore (you may have seen him showing off his mad texting skills on the Rachel Ray show) gives us Text Your Ex Back – a guide on how to use something as simple as text messages to bring your faltering relationship back to life.

But does it WORK?

Why Texting Is Such A Great Idea

The idea simply sounds too good to be true – a few simple text messages to each other and you and your  ex are back on track like nothing ever happened. Well, maybe it’s not that good, but Michael points out from the get-go why texting can be so darn effective if you’re trying to repair your relationship.

  • Texting is private and intimate, yet often takes place in very public settings. Texting is like having a secret conversation with your ex in the middle of your busy lives.
  • Texting allows you to talk to your ex without the pressure of confrontation. Confrontation can be disastrous, especially if the relationship didn’t end well. Texting allows you to talk to each other without the heat.
  • Texting allows you to build the intimacy and desire back into your relationship in the middle of your day to day activities. Everyone is busy with day to day stuff, and they don’t always have time for romance or even a decent conversation with someone. But with texting, you can converse with your ex in an intimate way, all throughout walking the dogs, taking care of the kids, working, grocery shopping, etc.
  • With texting, you are in TOTAL CONTROL of what you say to your ex. You can review what you’ve said before you sent it, edit it and make sure you’re saying the right things before the message ever gets to your ex. This can cushion the blow of the break up, because often after a break up, things are said that neither person means, or the tone is mistaken, etc. With your cell phone, you can send the right messages every time. 

Examining Your Break Up

The first few chapters of Text Your Ex Back are pretty tough. You’ll learn why you and your partner broke up and what caused the relationship to go sour in the first place – and there’s almost always more than one, singular cause. If you have any feelings whatsoever, you’ll be able to admit fault and use this section as a tool to realize what mistakes you made in the relationship and how you contributed to the break up.
You’re probably not the only guilty party, but realizing the hand you lent to the demise of your relationship is the first step to repairing it. If you’re not ready to take a good, hard look at yourself in the mirror yet, Text Your Ex Back is not for you and you’re probably not going to get your ex back at all. Good luck with that!
Yes, it sucks to have to admit fault. If you were the one who was broken up with, figuring out what you did wrong can be like rubbing salt in an open wound. But it’s completely necessary if you ever want a shot at getting back together.

What You’ll Learn In Text Your Ex Back

  • Why your old relationship is dead and why you’re never, ever going to get it back (but you can STILL get your ex back!)
  • How to forgive your former partner and how to forgive yourself
  • How dating other people can help you get your ex back (it’s true!)
  • What to say – and what not to – during your first few text messages
  • What kind of texts to avoid at all costs! 

Text Your Ex Back even goes into so much detail as to prime you for what to say next depending on what type of response you get. Michael Fiore makes it so easy, you really can’t go wrong! The texting part is easy – so if you can make it through the beginning of the book, the rest is a cake walk. There are also tons (TONS!!) of examples you can use, which is excellent for people who get stuck thinking about what to say or how to say it. Tailor the examples to you and your former partner’s personal experiences and it’s in the bag. While Text Your Ex Back makes no absolute guarantees that this method will get you back together with your former love, it does guarantee that if you put the effort in, you’re going to be better at relationships and a better person over all. How could you possibly lose?

Getting Him Back Review

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Getting Him Back will help you figure out what went wrong in your relationship and how to get him back for good. It doesn’t have to be over!

Michael Webb, one of the world’s top selling romantic authors, brings yet another great book on how to win an ex back – except this time, it’s a guide on how SHE can win HIM back after a breakup! Getting Him Back is short, sweet and to the point, yet packed with lots of information. It not only shows how a woman can completely redesign herself and her behavior so the relationship will actually work on the next go round, but also how to get his attention and convince him that she is, in fact, a completely different, more mature and forgiving person.

Micheal also has a series of other great books available that will definitely help bring the spark back between you and your ex when you get things going again between the two of you:

300 Creative Dates – Use these great date ideas to show your ex that your new romantic, fun and adventurous side.

Blow By Blow: Expert Tips On Giving Mind Blowing Blowjobs – Use these oral sex tips to make your ex melt when you do finally get him back in the sack with you!

The Good

Getting Him Back is actually quite short, but there is no lack of information within. It has only 6 chapters, so you can have it read quickly, which means you’ll already be on your way to put your game plan into action. Michael outlines step by step what you need to do and how you need to act to get your ex thinking about you again in a good way.

There’s not a lot left to be desired here – Michael covers the basics of a breakup, cautions against the wrong reasons to want to get back with someone and teaches you the importance of creating a better, kinder, more forgiving you. Honestly, even if your ex moves on and finds someone else, you’re going to benefit from the introspection you’ve done through reading Getting Him Back. Your next relationship may very well be the best you’ve ever had.

The Bad

A little manipulation is required on the woman’s part to break down the emotional barrier that a guy puts up after a breakup. Without this manipulation, he may never see you in the new light you’ve cast yourself in, which is essential for him taking you back. However, some women may find the some of the tips, including the suggestion to find another love interest that is richer and smarter than your ex to make him jealous, a little juvenile. But what any girl reading Getting Him Back must realize is that to win a man back for good, you first have to get yourself back in his sight, and that’s not always easy to do.

The Bottom Line

Getting Him Back is an excellent guide on how women can get the men that they’ve loved and lost back into their lives. It’s a shorter, easier read than many other similar products out there, but only because Michael gets right to the point. There’s not a lot of fluff here – if you want simple, easy to understand steps that will increase your chances of getting back in his arms for good, this is the book you want to read.

Some women may feel a few of the suggestions are a little manipulative, but a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do. The main focus of Getting Him Back is creating a new, better person and shedding whatever issues contributed to the breakup in the first place.

The Full Getting Him Back Review

A breakup doesn’t have to be the end if you want to be with someone – and that’s what Getting Him Back is all about. It shows you how to figure out what went wrong in your relationship and how to get him back step by step. The guide starts off with a series of deep, thought provoking questions about your relationship and what possibly went wrong. While you’re giving your ex some time to breathe and heal from the emotional pain of the split, you’re going to be doing some truthful examination of yourself and you’re going to get real with yourself. Some questions that may shed some light on the breakup are:

  • Do you miss him or just the two of you together?
  • Are you looking to the future for the right reasons?
  • Do you simply need to win?
  • Could you be happy alone?

Yes, these are some tough questions and they’re probably not ones you want to truthfully answer. However, without digging deep and truly examining yourself and the root of the breakup, you’re never going to be able to get your ex back, or if you do, it’s not going to last very long.

Some things you’ll learn in Getting Him Back:

  • Why giving your ex time to breathe after the breakup is important
  • How to make that time work in YOUR favor
  • How to create a completely new you
  • The #1 SECRET to getting him back
  • 3 simple steps to get your ex to REALLY start noticing you again
  • How to use the “I just want to be friends” situation to your advantage
  • 10 things you NEVER want to forget when trying to get your ex back
  • 6 key ingredients in a successful relationship

Essentially, Getting Him Back is a guide that every woman should read if she wants to get back with the man she’s lost to a breakup. To be successful, there may be a few difficult revelations, big changes and decisions to make, but in the end you will either get your man back, be a better person for it or both.

Getting Her Back – For Good Review

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Getting Her Back For Good has helped many men reunite with their exes. If you want to get YOUR ex back, you’ll definitely want to read this!

Michael Webb, also known as the “Oprah Love Expert” and the “World’s Most Romantic Man,” brings yet another great guide to the table – Getting Her Back – For Good –  that shows men who have lost the loves of their lives get them back and never let them get away again. Michael has many other great titles on relationships, dating and sex, including 300 Creative Dates and Lick By Lick – How To Go Down On A Woman And Have Her Begging For More. Learning how to do the latter might not be too bad an idea if you’re really trying to win her back!

The Good

Getting Her Back – For Good is not a guide full of fluff that will get her attention, nor is it a book about tricks to use to win a girl back or ways to manipulate a woman into wanting to be with you again after breaking up with you. This book is designed to help men who really want to figure out what went wrong in their relationships and to fix the core issues that dissolved the partnership.

Getting Her Back – For Good has lots of great material in it, from start to finish. It is a long and bulky read, but totally worth it! The information gleaned from this guide will not only help you change yourself so that your ex will want you back, it will also help you to learn how to be a better partner if you end up moving on to a new relationship with someone else. Reading this guide is a win-win – you’re going to benefit a great deal from the deep self examination that this book has you go through.

The Bad

What is great about Getting Her Back – For Good can also be looked at from a different perspective – not everyone will want to hear what Michael has to say in this guide. In fact, it’s a little like “tough love.” Lots of guys make mistakes in a relationship and it can be very difficult for a man to look at himself in the mirror and really look at what he did to contribute to the problems in the relationship.

The words in this guide aren’t sugar coated – so if you’re looking for a “pick me up” book that will show you everything she did to mess up the partnership, then you’re barking up the wrong tree. You’re not going to feel any warm fuzzies when you read Getting Her Back – For Good. You’re going to examine every aspect of yourself and your relationship with a magnifying lens, and you’re going to learn how to strip away the facade and look at what’s really there.

The epiphanies that you’ll inevitably run into when you read this book aren’t comfortable ones and they’re not happy ones either. You’re going to realize your mistakes and if you’ve ever had difficulty admitting what you’ve done wrong, this book will be a difficult read. That said, there is nothing in this guide that isn’t absolute truth. The truth hurts, but taking a long, hard look at yourself and your issues is the first critical step to changing things to get your ex back permanently.

The Bottom Line

Getting Her Back – For Good isn’t your run of the mill “do this, this and this and you’ll have her back forever” type of guide. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. This guide requires you to have an open enough mind to look at what you’ve done wrong in the relationship and how you can become a better person with whom your ex will want to be with. Not every guy is going to want – or be able to – read this book.

It brings up some truths about men and how they behave in relationships that just aren’t easy to face. However, if you do read Getting Her Back – For Good, you will be better for it. If you take Michael’s advice and apply it to your own behavior and relationships, you stand a very good chance of getting the girl you want to be with back.

The Full Getting Her Back For Good Review

Getting Her Back – For Good has helped many men reunite with their exes. If you want to know what went wrong in YOUR relationship and get her back – read this! If you’re expecting a step by step guide that shows you how to dress better, comb your hair and get involved in volunteering to win your girlfriend or wife back, you’re going to be disappointed. However, if you TRULY want to dig deep, down to the root of the problems and solve them so you and your partner can have a happy, fulfilling long term relationship, this book is going to be your new best friend.

Here are some great things you’re going to learn in Getting Her Back – For Good:

  • The #1 SECRET that causes women to snap – and how to fix it
  • Why almost every breakup is the exact same
  • What a woman needs in a relationship and what she wants in a man
  • The RED FLAGS you missed that were telling you your relationship was headed downhill
  • What REAL intimacy is
  • What she really wants during sex
  • “Power Tools” that will help all relationships

What Was YOUR Breakup About?

Although Michael explains that the dynamics behind almost every breakup are the same, the “surface reasons” for the break up are usually never alike. For example, if you cheated on her or if she cheated on you, or if you two simply “grew apart.” Michael outlines each unique break up situation and tells you what SHE wants to hear. There’s also a great section on things that you can do to help get her back and things you absolutely shouldn’t do and avoid at all costs.

Overall, Getting Her Back – For Good is a great guide that will help men to understand where their relationships went wrong and how to fix them. It may not be an easy read and it may not be super fun to look at yourself in such a glaring light, but if you want your girl back, you’re going to have to buck up and see the truth. Even if you don’t end up getting your ex back, what you’ve learned from this guide will help keep you from making the same mistakes in the future in a different relationship.

4 Ways To Get Your Girlfriend Back

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A relationship ends, and both parties move on to bigger and better things, right? Not always. Everyone, sometime in their life has been disappointed in love. Breaking up is hard to go through, especially if you are not ready for it. If, after a breakup, you realize you still want your ex back, you need to be proactive about it. In order to do so, you need to reflect back on your relationship and try and understand where it went wrong.

The Pattern Of A Relationship

Generally speaking, most relationships follow a predictable pattern. There is the honeymoon period where you first meet someone and everything is wonderful and new. They can do no wrong and you can do no wrong in their eyes. The sex is fantastic, the chemistry electric but after while, this starts to feel more comfortable rather than exciting. You start to adjust to one another, make compromises, and at this point, the relationship changes again. I call this the “establishment” period. At this point, cohabitation often occurs, a little “nesting” starts to rear its head and “she” and “he” become “we.”

A little further down the line comes the “disenchantment” stage where suddenly the little quirks that amused you and you were willing to overlook now start to bother you and in fact, often become the “bone of contention” as a means to “pick a fight.” This is the true test of a relationship and it is this particular phase of the relationship that you need to reflect upon. If you believe you can save your relationship after this deep reflection then you need to do the following:

Apologize!

So many “fools of love” out there say, “treat em mean, keeps em keen” and they are so far off the beaten track that they will never find their way on the path to true love. It takes strength of character and great sacrifice to apologize particularly if you do not believe you were in the wrong. However, sometimes it really is worth “losing a battle to win a war.” Once you have taken this first step, the rest is not that difficult to follow. Remember, it takes two people to have a successful relationship and knowing exactly what to apologize for is crucial.

Talk Things Through Face To Face

Invite your ex to meet you at a time and place convenient for you both where you can sit down and talk. The idea is to be quietly assertive, not forceful, but intent enough to get her to agree to meet you face to face. You both need to chat about the issues objectively, without blame and maturely. If necessary, suggest couple counseling with a therapist so she can see that you are serious in your quest.

Give Her Time And Space

This is probably one of the hardest things to do but by allowing your ex space not only gives her a chance to calm down and reflect, but also to miss you and it is true that as time passes, one only remembers the good times. By allowing a little time to pass, takes the heat of the anger out of the equation and emotions to settle into places of calm. This can only work in your favor.

Treat Her Like A Lady

This doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to take her on a triple Treat of Champagne Breakfast, Balloon and Boat Ride but it does mean you need to do things differently! She is the most important person on earth to you; show her this in your actions, not only in your words! Treat her like a lady and show your romantic side. A little bit of romance goes a long way!

How To Seduce Your Ex With A Kiss

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Kissing tips for your ex may seem like pointless since you broke up, but the right kissing tips can actually seduce them into wanting to get back with you! First, you’ve got her to agree to going on a make up date with you but you are both aware of the need to the trust between the two of you to be rebuilt. So it’s time to take it slow. Agree on the limitations between the two of you upfront so there is no misunderstanding because believe you me, when you have finished with your lips, she’ll be begging for it!

Start Off Slow

With agreement at hand, you have to respect the decision to take it slow! However taking it slow doesn’t necessarily mean just holding hands. You’d be surprised as to how erotic, exciting and anticipatory restricting your physical contact can actually be.

There are many types or sorts of kissing that dangle on a continuum that ranges from foreplay to after play like a g-string on a wash line. These kisses range from playful kisses like the chocolate kiss to the cold, peeled grapes kiss. Have I got your attention now?

Don’t Kiss Just Her Mouth

The Kama Sutra lists 19 different types of kisses, but now is your time to invent more! Pay attention to the areas of her body you have neglected before. Just because you are kissing her doesn’t mean you have to restrict yourself to her lips. Why don’t you pay lavish attention to her legs, working your way along her legs, always remembering your self-control. Start at her little toes, to the top of her leg, then back down to her ankles, knees and so on, occasionally blowing against the back of her legs, alternating between hard and lighter breaths. This technique is sure to leave her begging for more!

The Chocolate Kiss

There is also the Chocolate Kiss. What women wouldn’t enjoy this one? It’s always best to use a smooth, creamy chocolate that melts easily in your mouth. The smoother the better, obviously! Once the chocolate starts to melt, kiss her and twirl your tongues around hers.

One could also use hard but small pieces of candy, mix up the colors and try and guess at the different flavors, the fun part being trying to steal her bits of candy as she does yours.

Other creative contributors to “sweet kisses” are caramel, strawberries and cream, which involve the seductive licking of spoons, feeding one another strawberries, exchanging the strawberries with whipped cream between each other’s mouth.

The Champagne Kiss

Champagne or fizzy drink can provide a different sensation so the more fizz, the better. When you are ready to kiss her, take a sip and keep some in your mouth, dribble some into your partners’ mouth gently so that you share more than spill into one another’s mouth.

Use Your Teeth

Okay, so we’ve spoken about lips, but what’s inside the lips besides the tongue are the teeth. Now that’s an interesting thought. Starting slowly, simply graze parts of her body as you kiss her, using the edges of your teeth almost like fingernails, or as you would your tongue, lightly tickling her shoulders, arms and hands. Suck on each one of her fingers and, as you remove them from your mouth, softly apply pressure using your teeth.

Nibble Her Skin

If she enjoyed this, try lightly biting the back of her neck or other body parts in between passionate kissing. Don’t overdo it and remember, when you feel you are going to lose control – STOP! Your agreement was to take it slow, to build trust and I can assure you, by the time the next date night arrives, she will be ready to jump your bones!