This is a kinky variation of the basic Missionary sex position. The twist is that her hands (and/ or feet) are tied to the bed, or simply restrained in some way.

How To Do It

Traditional missionary position is often also called “Man On Top” and rightly so – the male partner assumes the dominant position on top of the woman, who is lying on her back. Her legs are spread enough that her lover can thrust, but they’re not raised up or resting on his shoulders. While the she can thrust some, the primary work done here is by the man.

Because Missionary is very passive position for the female, it doesn’t take much for the man to totally dominate her mentally and physically. The dominant sensation is increased even more when her hand and feet are restrained!

Where To Do It

The bed is best for this one.

Props You’ll Need

Soft ropes or silk ties for securing her to the bed.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

4

The basic Missionary sex position can be “boring” to say the least, but this “twist” really makes it hotter!

His O-Meter

5

If he is a dominant man, he will love this. More timid men may feel overwhelmed by this one.

XXX Tip

Purchase an Under The Bed Restraint Kit to easily secure your lover whenever the desire strikes.

The X Marks The Spot sex position is a fun variation on a standing sex position, involving the use of a table and a very willing woman!

How To Do It

In the X Marks The Spot sex position, the woman lies on a table or other elevated flat surface with her rear scooted all the way to the edge. She is reclining fully on her back and is totally relaxed. Her legs are lifted into the air and are crossed at the ankle. The male partner enters her by standing at the table and holding on to her legs or crossed ankles. It’s a fairly simple sex position to get into but is lots of fun for both partners! The X Marks The Spot sex position is one that can be used for traditional rear entry vaginal sex, or it can be used for anal sex as well.

Where To Do It

Kitchen, dining room, home office on the desk or anywhere else you have an elevated surface that would work for this sex position.

Props You’ll Need

Just the table or desk, although laying a towel down first and propping her head up on a pillow may make the hard surface more comfortable for her.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

She enjoys laying down and relaxing while her lover does the work here. The deeper penetration is good for g-spot stimulation and the only thing that would make this sex position better is if he could grind against her clitoris. Unfortunately, he can’t because her legs are crossed.

His O-Meter

3

He likes the X Marks The Spot sex position because it’s easy on him too. He simply gets to stand and thrust! Her crossed legs make for a tight vaginal entrance which feels divine, but he doesn’t get to see a whole lot here with her legs in the way.

XXX Tip

A hands-free clitoral vibrator (one that can be worn) is a great option for the X Marks The Spot sex position if she needs more clitoral stimulation. She can’t really slip her hand in between her legs and get a lot of movement going, but a hands-free vibrator may give her the extra stimulation she needs to go over the edge. He can also reach down and play with her nipples here, or she can do so herself while looking into his eyes.

The Reverse Jockey sex position is a fun twist on the traditional Missionary that allows him to be in complete control of the thrusting and stimulation. In this position, he sits atop his partner much like a jockey sits atop a racing horse, leaning forward and downward with the movement.

How To Do It

The female partner lies on her back a la traditional Missionary. The male partner “mounts” his lady facing her head, but instead of putting his legs in between her spread legs, he is going to be putting one leg on either side of her. Her legs are mostly together instead of spread open for his penetration. When he thrusts, he’s going to lean forward and down slightly, using his whole body to move instead of just his hips and buttocks.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, backseat of the car. This is a great sex position to use anywhere there is a narrow space and neither partner can afford to spread their legs wide.

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

The Reverse Jockey sex position is good for her because there is more friction between her and her partner when her legs are pressed together. This is a good position for clitoral stimulation.

His O-Meter

4

With her legs pressed together, her vagina feels much tighter to him. Although he won’t be able to penetrate as deeply here as with other sex positions, the Reverse Jockey sex position will squeeze his penis firmly, creating an entirely new sensation for him.

XXX Tip

The Reverse Jockey sex position is an excellent “male dominant” sex position. Take this a step further by incorporating a little BDSM or role play where she is in the submissive role.

The Missionary Reversed sex position is a fun one to try if his penis is fairly flexible and he’s up for something a little more exotic. Some guys aren’t going to dig this position because it requires them to thrust at an exceptionally odd angle, but other guys will enjoy how different this sex position is from traditional Missionary.

How To Do It

The female partner will lie flat on her back with her legs slightly spread. Her partner will then position himself on top of her, however, he will be facing her feet instead of her head. His legs will also be spread enough so that they can rest on his lover’s shoulders or on either side of her head. To penetrate, he’s going to push his penis downward with his fingers at the base of it, and slowly enter her. This can be quite stressful for a man’s penis, so it’s important to be extra lubed up and go very slowly.

WARNING: If this move hurts at all, stop immediately! Remember to thrust slowly. In rare cases, a penis can fracture when enough pressure is put on it. This usually happens suddenly, when the penis is at an odd angle and thrusting too fast. A penile fracture is characterized by intense, immediate pain, sudden bruising and often an audible “fracture” sound is heard. If this should happen, do not hesitate to seek immediate medical attention. The Missionary Reversed sex position is not dangerous in and of itself, but you can prevent any problems by being responsible.

Where To Do It

The Missionary Reversed sex position is best performed on a wide open space like the bed. Because you’re so focused on doing this correctly, you don’t want to be crammed in the car or even on the couch for this one.

Props You’ll Need

Lots of lube! Make sure you are both good and slick before attempting this position.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

3

She’ll dig this sex position because it’s an exotic one that doesn’t involve her getting into all kinds of crazy contortionist positions. The man has to do the gymnastics on this one!

His O-Meter

1

It’s going to take a very brave man to be able to do this sex position and get off on it. The penis just isn’t designed to bend this way. For him, the Missionary Reversed sex position is more about novelty than anything else.

XXX Tip

Use a liberator wedge to make the angle of penetration better for most men.

The Meet N’ Greet sex position puts the thrusting responsibility on the female partner, although she is still on bottom like in traditional Missionary. Instead of him thrusting down into her, she is pushing her pelvis up towards him and doing a majority of the movement. Hot!

How To Do It

Just like in traditional Missionary, the male partner is on top and the female partner is underneath him with her legs spread on either side of her lover’s hips. He is resting his weight on his knees and his hands, which are on either side of her torso. However, instead of him moving down to thrust into her, she is going to raise her hips again and again to meet him. This requires a good bit of space between both partners, so he will need to prop his torso all the way up on his hands, almost as though he’s in the Doggy Style position.

Where To Do It

Couch, backseat of the car, floor, bed and anywhere else you would use the Missionary sex position.

Props You’ll Need

He may be more comfortable with a pillow under his knees if you’re using the Meet N’ Greet sex position on a hard surface, such as the floor.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

Although she has a better chance of grinding her clitoris against him since she’s in control in the Meet N’ Greet sex position, a woman isn’t used to thrusting and may tire out quickly. She may not be able to keep this going for very long if she’s not fit or strong.

His O-Meter

4

He digs the Meet N’ Greet sex position because he gets to watch her thrust up towards him instead of the other way around. It’s a welcome change of pace, and he totally loves the idea of her being so hot and turned on that she’s got to grind against him!

XXX Tip

It’s a great opportunity for her to show him just how eager she is, and to really put on a show for him, by playing with her breasts and clitoris while he watches on in ecstasy.