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Wildfire Erotic Massage Oil – And You Thought Sex Was Good Before…

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I recently was introduced to Wildfire Erotic Massage Oils. They make all-natural intimacy products, and I was lucky enough to get to try them! I got the “All My Love” Gift pack with the Wildfire All Over Pleasure Oil. They offer three scent variations of this oil:

  • The Orginal All Over Pleasure Oil
  • Black
  • Enhance Her

Powerful aphrodisiacs from around the world infuse these Australian-made erotic massage oils – which you can smell as soon as you open the bottles. Seriously, they smell AMAZING!

Wildfire All Over Pleasure Oils claim the following four uses:

  1. Sensual Lubricant
  2. Intimate Body Massage Oil
  3. Nourishing Body Moisturizer
  4. Luxurious Bath Oil – Anyone who knows me, knows how much I love a mid-afternoon bath and a glass of wine!

At first, I was skeptical. How could one little bottle of oil work in so many ways? Plus, I’m not typically into the smell of natural, vegan products. They would usually smell relaxing to me, but not exactly sexy…

So how did these oils perform at the four different uses? In a word, impressively.

The Good

Firstly, all the oils are olive oil-based. They perform surprisingly proficiently at all four functions. Second, only to the bath, my favorite use of this magic elixir is as a massage oil. Even after the most stressful day, a whiff of one of these babies plus some sensual rubbing wipes everything away and immediately gets both of us going.

It’s a simple transition going from sexy massage oil to lubricant once things get heated up. Effective and long-lasting, these oils are some of the best lubricants I’ve have tried.

Baths are my ultimate stress relief. Since being introduced to Wildfire erotic massage oils, my mid-afternoon baths are now sprinkled with the pleasure oils, too. Some of the residues stay on your body afterward, leaving a subtly sexy scent.

If the bath residue isn’t enough, I rub some more of my favorite scented pleasure oil on afterward. It relaxes me and guarantees some cheeky behavior from my man immediately afterward. Plus, it keeps my skin really well hydrated.

Okay – onto the stuff that makes each of these products so special and sensual. As mentioned, all of them are olive oil-based, but the added aphrodisiacs and essential oils make each one exquisite and unique in their own way.

The Orginal All Over Pleasure Oil

Wildfire Massage Oil - Original
Wildfire ORIGINAL is packed with erectile and libido herbs that enhance your performance and longevity in the bedroom.

I’m pretty happy with myself for sticking to the logic that the namesake product would be the best – and I was right. The Original All Over Pleasure Oil works well at all functions as mentioned above, but I like it best as a lubricant and for when he works his massage magic on me.

It’s got ylang-ylang, and jojoba oils in the base which are incredibly heady and sensuous scents. The addition of Muira Puama, Horny Goat Weed (yep, that’s its name) and Tribulus – all naturally occurring aphrodisiacs – do something to us. Literally within a matter of seconds, we’re both turned on and rearing to go.


Black

Wildfire Massage Oil - Black
With vivid new fragrances and newly discovered herbs, Wildfire Black will ignite your passion like never before

When we’re looking for something a little more intense, we go Black. My guy appreciates the intoxicating scents, and it’s his request for a massage oil every time. Jojoba and Brazilian Ginseng give it an earthy aroma – something I would usually find off-putting, but the proportions of scent in the oil seem right. Also featuring Muira Puama and Horny Goat Weed, the Black potion adds powerful Ginkgo Biloba aphrodisiac plus damiana, more ginseng, and patchouli.

This oil is intense. But sometimes intense is what we need. 😉


Enhance Her

Wildfire Massage Oil - Enhance Her
Wildfire Enhance Her is specifically formulated to increase a woman’s pleasure and help her escape into a world of new sensations with exotic feminine fragrances and textures.

This oil was made for women. I mean, the name is ‘Enhance Her’ and claimed to be specifically formulated for female arousal but, little old skeptical me still had my doubts. I bathe in this oil and lather it on my body regularly – and I’m still not over it (a rarity, for me!). Now, although it’s for women, when I wear this as a moisturizer or fresh out of the bath, hubby cannot keep his hands off me. That’s because it’s got the same olive oil, jojoba and added aphrodisiacs as the other oils, which are now familiar to us, but has the added floral sweetness of Marigold, chaste tree berry and wild yam.


The Bad

Massage Oil And Condoms
Never use oil with latex condoms. The oil can actually break down the latex and cause the condom to fail. :/

The All Over Pleasure Oils are oil-based, which means they are not safe for use on latex condoms. For committed relationships or those riding solo, these oils will become your new bedroom besties. And remember – even if you do use condoms, you can still try out three other unique uses that guarantee to get you going. The oil-base also means your bathtub may need a scrub after use as a bath oil!

The Bottom Line

These oils blew my expectations away. Next time, I will be purchasing the full-sized bottle of each oil :). My recommendation if you don’t want to shell out the cash for all three, then go for the Original All Over Pleasure Oil. It has all the crucial ingredients and effects of the other oils but keeps it simple and sexy at the same time. It’s rare that we find a product (even perfume or cologne, for Pete’s sake!) that we both find appealing – but the Wildfire Original seems to be that product.

Next, we’ll be testing out their Arousal Oils, Edible Body Butters and Mood Mists so stay tuned!

Pjur Lube & Personal Products Review

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Pjur lube is made in Germany with only the finest quality ingredients. It truly is top of the line lube and a little really does go a long way. You’ll love the silky smooth feel of the lube and the fact that it doesn’t dry out as easily as other lubes. In repeated testing, Pjur trumped all other lubes in the categories of silkiness, long lasting and comfortable to use.

The Good

What is great about Pjur lube is that it has everything you’ve been looking for in a lube and more. If you’ve searched for the right lube and keep coming up with half empty, sticky bottles on your nightstand, it’s time to chuck those in the trash and see what Pjur has to offer. It truly is one of the best (if not THE best) personal lubricant manufacturer out there. Here’s what Pjur lubricants do, that most other lubes don’t:

  • Silky and natural feeling
  • Closest to natural vaginal secretions
  • Non-sticky
  • Doesn’t dry out easily
  • A small amount is usually all that is necessary, so the bottle lasts a long time
  • Some specialized products aren’t available anywhere else, such as the Woman Cream Glide
  • Natural ingredients that don’t harm the body
  • Doesn’t burn or itch both male or female partner
  • Anal glides are specifically formulated for anal play (either penetration or with sex toys)

The Bad

Pjur lube is high quality – so you can’t get it at your local drugstore or supermarket. There are plenty of lubes available at supermarkets, but none of them last as long or feel as natural as Pjur. You’ll have to order Pjur lube online and it’s a little more expensive than other brands, but it is well worth the investment. Also, it can be somewhat difficult to select the product that is right for you, because there are so many products to choose from!

There is the option of purchasing a few small “trial size” products, but not in all the products that are available. Also, it would be neat if more products were available with a pump (who wants to grab a lube bottle to add more when you already have sticky, wet hands?) but this caveat is negligible compared to what you’re getting when you get authentic Pjur lube.

The Bottom Line

Pjur lube is hands down the best lube available. When compared to well known national brands, Pjur trumps the competition again and again. When other lubes get sticky, Pjur is still silky smooth and wet. With plenty of products to choose, you can be sure that there’s a Pjur product that will meet your needs, whether you’re looking for an all natural lube, a silicone variety, a lightweight variety for masturbation or anything for anal sex, you’re going to find exactly what you need in the Pjur line of personal products.

Pjur lube isn’t available at your local supermarket, but it’s well worth the purchase and waiting for it to ship to your home. Although it is more expensive, only a few drops does the trick, so you are definitely investing wisely and will most likely save money in the long run. If you’re looking for the perfect lube to keep handy by the bedside and use for with sex toys or during whatever activity you want, Pjur lube is exactly what you want!

The Full Pjur Lube & Personal Products Review

Lube is necessary for great sex. Pjur lube tops all other lubes during testing time and again. Find out why YOU need Pjur lube instead of what you’re using!

Original Bodyglide

This is probably the most widely used Pjur product of their family of lubes, and it is the most basic. It’s a silicone based formula that can be used for pretty much anything. Water free and non-pore blocking, this lube is perfect for extended sex sessions to anal sex and masturbation. It’s also preservative and oil free, so it’s completely condom safe.

Pjur Gel

This product is similar to the Original Bodyglide, but it is a thicker gel formula. It is also silicone based, and it does get a little stickier simply because it’s a thicker lube. This is an excellent product to use for anal play, because it’s nice and thick and doesn’t dry out easily. It’s not likely that you’ll have to apply much more throughout sex. It is also suitable for vaginal sex but can be a little difficult to wash out afterwards for a clean feeling.

Pjur Light Silicone Lube

If you’re looking for a silicone lube in it’s lightest formula, this is the one you want to get. It’s so light it almost feels like water based, but you can definitely tell that it’s silicone due to the fact that it lasts longer and feels a little “oilier.” Again, this product does not contain oil so it’s perfectly condom safe. This is a better choice if you choose to use silicone lube for vaginal sex.

Pjur Aqua Lube

This is probably the most popular water based lube that Pjur manufactures. As far as water based lubricants go, this one takes the cake. It’s super silky and feels almost exactly like natural vaginal secretions. It can be used simply to condition the skin if you have a dry vagina, or it can be used during sex for the smoothest glide possible during penetration. It’s non-toxic, doesn’t contain spermicides, and is stain free and tasteless, so you could theoretically even use it for oral sex if you like (although most people prefer flavored lubes for oral sex). This product even claims that no clean up is required!

Pjur Basic Waterbased

This is probably the most basic, inexpensive water based lube that you can get from Pjur. But that doesn’t mean that it’s an inferior product! After rigorous testing, the basic formula still came in high above other popular competing brands. If you want to try a Pjur product but want something a little more affordable, this one is your best bet. It’s condom safe, body safe and can be used for any activity you like, from foreplay to hot and wild sex.

Pjur Med Natural Glide

By far the favorite out of all the Pjur products, the Med Natural Glide is the closest thing to natural vaginal secretions that you’re going to get. With the exception of the fact that it is usually cool when it comes out of the bottle, you really can’t tell a difference between this product and natural wetness! This is a water based lubricant that uses only all natural ingredients including pure plant glycerin. It’s also free of paraffin products, colors, perfumes or anything synthetic. This is the perfect product for men and women who have very sensitive skin down there! This product does not burn or itch and the silky glide is superior over all the others.

Woman Cream Glide

Now this is an interesting concept! Many people choose to use petroleum jelly as lubrication during sex or anal sex, because of it’s thick, gel/oil like consistency. This can be very dangerous if you’re using condoms or dental dams, because petroleum jelly will break those right down (you might as well not use them if you’re using petroleum jelly). Besides, who wants to put crude oil products in their “down there” areas?

The Woman Cream Glide is a water and silicone based mixture that looks, feels and acts almost exactly like petroleum jelly! Fans of super slippery, thin water based lubes aren’t going to like this product, however, if you’re using petroleum jelly or would like to, you need to use THIS PRODUCT! This stuff stays where you put it and is a perfect companion with sex toys, both for vaginal and anal use.

Analyse Me Relaxing Anal Glide

Desensitizing lubes are a huge “no-no” when it comes to anal sex – if anal sex hurts at all, you need to be able to feel it. So if you numb that area with a desensitizing lube, you’re really not doing yourself any favors. Pjur, however, has come out with their own version of an anal lube that uses pure, gentle jojoba extract to relax the anal sphincter without desensitizing it. This lube is perfect for anal sex beginners, or anyone who just wants to experiment with anal play and would like a lube that helps relax the muscles a little.

Kama Sutra Love Liquid Review

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Kama Sutra Love Liquid water-based lubricant is formulated without sugars, and is specifically designed to be gentle on feminine tissues. It is lightweight, dermatologist tested, and suitable for all sex toys.

The Good

The Classic Kama Sutra Love Liquid is water based, therefore, it is safe to use with all sex toys, and it doesn’t leave, and it requires very little clean up. Unlike most water based lubes, this product does not get sticky or tacky, it simply absorbs into the tissues, leaving them highly moisturized.

This lube does not contain any yeast-promoting sugars, so women can rest assured that their hours of pleasure  during sex won’t be resulting in hours of discomfort later when they realize they have a yeast infection.

The Bad

Although the Kama Sutra Love Liquid fares much better than most water based lubes, it still requires multiple applications during long lovemaking sessions.

Because it is water based, this lube is not best suited for sex or sex toy play in or around water. Try a thicker gel lube or a silicone based lube if you want to play in the water! The tingling and warming lubes can be a bit intense and may not be the best option for anal sex.

The Bottom Line

Kama Sutra Love Liquid is an overall great water based lube. It feels silky and almost natural to the touch. This lube doesn’t get sticky or tacky, instead, it absorbs into the skin leaving it moisturized and requiring very little, if any, clean up.

The Full Kama Sutra Love Liquid Review

Kama Sutra Love Liquid may look like just another fancy lube, but this water based personal lubricant proves to be worth the extra pennies. It offers a very silky, almost natural feeling, and it lasts quite a bit longer than most other water based lubes without getting sticky or tacky over time and when exposed to air. This product does not contain any yeast-promoting sugars, so it’s a great option for sensitive women, and those prone to yeast infections.

Kama Sutra Love Liquid comes in a 3.4oz unique bottle that features an easy to use pump that allows for easy application while keeping the spill factor to a minimum. No one likes to have to grab their bottle of lube to apply more when they’ve already got a very sticky hand, and no one likes having to wash the lube bottles along with the sex toys. This handy pump makes it easy to apply more without the mess.

It’s available in the very popular Classic (unscented) option as well as the Tingling Peppermint and Warming Cinnamon varieties. A word of caution on the tingling and warming lubes: they are pretty intense and not highly recommended for anal use. Some cooling and warming lubes offer only slight sensations, but the Kama Sutra line of lubes offer sensations of a much higher caliber than other products on the market. If you find that you enjoy the Peppermint or Cinnamon lubes but they’re just too intense, try mixing in a few drops of the regular water based lube. They’re compatible with each other, and the water based lube will dilute the Peppermint or Cinnamon lubes to give you only light tingling and warming sensations.

All in all, the Kama Sutra Love Liquid – in any “flavor” – is a great option for both men and women. Can be used during sex, masturbation and is safe with all condoms and sex toys.