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Seated Scissors Sex Position

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The Seated Scissors sex position is a fun position that allows her to be on top and get great clitoral stimulation too.

How To Do It

The male partner lies on his back on a bed and spreads his legs with one knee bent. His partner gets on top of him with her legs intertwined with his. She is facing away from him, straddling his thigh so her groin is pressed against his leg and he is able to penetrate her. It’s similar to Reverse Cowgirl, but she is riding his leg instead of his torso.

Where To Do It

The Seated Scissors sex position requires so much space that you’re better off doing it in the bed. While the floor will work, the bed is certainly the most comfortable option. If you do decide to do it on the floor, make sure you have plenty of blankets and pillows! It’s also a fun sex position to do outdoors on a picnic blanket if you have enough privacy!

Props You’ll Need

Blankets and pillows depending on where you are.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

4

She likes the Seated Scissors sex position because it’s exceptionally easy for her to get clitoral stimulation. She can grind her clitoris up against his thigh, and with some lube, it can feel absolutely fantastic. And unlike traditional Scissors, she is in full control of the movement.

His O-Meter

3

He likes watching her enjoy this one! She is in control, however, so it may not be as orgasmic for him as some of the other positions.

XXX Tip

This is a great position to add either a clitoral vibrator for added clitoral stimulation or a small butt plug to really ramp it up.

Against The Wall Sex Position

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Sex Position: Against The WallThe Against The Wall sex position is a kinky variation on the Bodyguard sex position.

How To Do It

In this variation, the man pushes her against the wall and enters her from behind. Like Bodyguard, height differences between partners can make it a little more challenging so you may need to plan ahead and take advantage of stairs or make sure you had a step stool handy. He can kiss or gently bite her neck, pull her hair and talk dirty in her ear!

Where To Do It

Shower, closet, bathroom, anywhere else you can stand and have a wall to press against.

Props You’ll Need

Footstool for the lady if she’s petite. This will help better line up your genitals for ease of thrusting.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

3

Up Against The Wall can be really exciting for her but requires quite a bit of mental foreplay ahead of time to get her in the mood.

His O-Meter

4

This position provides the perfect opportunity for him to really bring out his alpha male personality!

XXX Tip

This is a great sex position to use in the shower or hallway. To really spice it up, try a dark room or closet.

Spork Sex Position

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Sex Position: SporkThe Spork sex position is a sweetly intimate, side by side sex position you can use for rear entry vaginal sex or even anal sex if you like. A must try!

How To Do It

Assume the traditional spooning sex position, with both partners lying on their side and the male partner resting the front of his torso and groin against his partner’s back and rear end. Instead of leaving the legs straight like in the spooning sex position, the female partner will draw her legs all the way up against her chest so she is in the fetal position. Her partner will draw his legs up slightly to curve around her form, and will wrap his arms around her torso.

Where To Do It

The bed is of course the easiest place to use the Spork sex position, however, you can get creative with it. Try it on a picnic blanket out in the middle of a field, or in the back of a pick up truck!

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

1

The Spork sex position isn’t as exciting for her as other sex positions because her clitoris is almost completely non-accessible and her g-spot doesn’t get much action either. This is more of a novelty for her than anything else.

His O-Meter

3

He enjoys the intimacy of the Spork sex position, as well as the rear entry angle. However, he doesn’t get much of a view here and can’t really see what is going on, so his visual system isn’t going to be as stimulated as it is with other sex positions where he can watch the action.

XXX Tip

She can turn her head to gaze deeply into his eyes and make a soulful, intimate connection during lovemaking. He can also reach around and fondle her breasts and nipples while in the Spork sex position.

 

Scissors Sex Position

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Sex Position: ScissorsThe Scissors sex position is an exotic sex position that is easy to do and is a great sex position to use when others won’t work, like during pregnancy.

How To Do It

The male partner lies on his side on a bed and lifts one of his legs so that his legs are wide open. His partner lies on her back or side perpendicular to him, straddling his leg and thigh that is lifted so her groin is pressed against his and he is able to penetrate her. He can grasp one of her legs and she can support her weight on her arms to help with thrusting.

Where To Do It

The Scissors sex position requires so much space that you’re better off doing it in the bed. While the floor will work, the bed is certainly the most comfortable option. If you do decide to do it on the floor, make sure you have plenty of blankets and pillows! It’s also a fun sex position to do outdoors on a picnic blanket if you have enough privacy!

Props You’ll Need

Blankets and pillows depending on where you’re at.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

4

She likes the Scissors sex position because it’s exceptionally easy for her to get clitoral stimulation. She can grind her clitoris up against his thigh, and with some lube, it can feel absolutely fantastic. That, coupled with the unique angle of g-spot stimulation, can make the Scissors sex position extremely orgasmic for her! Although this is an “exotic” sex position, it actually works quite well during pregnancy, when a woman isn’t able to lie flat on her back in the later stages of pregnancy and can’t be on top when she gets bigger.

His O-Meter

4

He likes being able to watch her get off in the Scissors sex position, and the angle of penetration makes sex feel different and new for him too. This is a great sex position to use if you’re looking for a fairly easy to accomplish exotic sex position!

XXX Tip

This is a great position for her to reach down and stimulate her clitoris during sex either with her fingers or a good clitoral vibrator.

X Marks The Spot Sex Position

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Sex Position: X Marks The SpotThe X Marks The Spot sex position is a fun variation on a standing sex position, involving the use of a table and a very willing woman!

How To Do It

In the X Marks The Spot sex position, the woman lies on a table or other elevated flat surface with her rear scooted all the way to the edge. She is reclining fully on her back and is totally relaxed. Her legs are lifted into the air and are crossed at the ankle. The male partner enters her by standing at the table and holding on to her legs or crossed ankles. It’s a fairly simple sex position to get into but is lots of fun for both partners! The X Marks The Spot sex position is one that can be used for traditional rear entry vaginal sex, or it can be used for anal sex as well.

Where To Do It

Kitchen, dining room, home office on the desk or anywhere else you have an elevated surface that would work for this sex position.

Props You’ll Need

Just the table or desk, although laying a towel down first and propping her head up on a pillow may make the hard surface more comfortable for her.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

She enjoys laying down and relaxing while her lover does the work here. The deeper penetration is good for g-spot stimulation and the only thing that would make this sex position better is if he could grind against her clitoris. Unfortunately, he can’t because her legs are crossed.

His O-Meter

3

He likes the X Marks The Spot sex position because it’s easy on him too. He simply gets to stand and thrust! Her crossed legs make for a tight vaginal entrance which feels divine, but he doesn’t get to see a whole lot here with her legs in the way.

XXX Tip

A hands-free clitoral vibrator (one that can be worn) is a great option for the X Marks The Spot sex position if she needs more clitoral stimulation. She can’t really slip her hand in between her legs and get a lot of movement going, but a hands-free vibrator may give her the extra stimulation she needs to go over the edge. He can also reach down and play with her nipples here, or she can do so herself while looking into his eyes.