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Squat Sex Position

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Sex Position: SquatThe Squat sex position is a challenging standing position that requires lots of balance on the female partner’s part. It’s fun to try if you can do it!

How To Do It

For the male partner, the Squat sex position is particularly simple, because all he’s doing is standing in front of his partner, who is facing away from him. She stands on an ottoman or stool (a chair is likely going to be too high) and squats down, bringing her buttocks close to her lover’s groin. He holds on to her hips as he thrusts. The Squat sex position is great for both rear entry and anal sex!

Where To Do It

Like with almost all standing sex positions, the Squat sex position is very versatile as to where it can actually be accomplished. You may want to do it at home where you have access to different things for her to stand on (this will help you achieve a comfortable height), but it can be done anywhere you can stand.

Props You’ll Need

An ottoman or stool for her to stand on.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

1

The Squat sex position is more difficult for her than it is pleasurable. She may dig the deep penetration, but she has to balance herself in such a way that it may feel like she’s going to fall off the stool or ottoman with the thrusting. It’s also going to be very easy for her to get leg cramps in this position, even if she’s quite athletic.

His O-Meter

He totally loves the Squat sex position because it’s easy for him to do and shows off his lady, and he gets to watch all the action. If he a butt man, he’s really going to enjoy caressing, squeezing and playing with her buttocks. Though, he may be disappointed if she can’t keep this sex position up for long, but it’s definitely one that is difficult for her to stay in for any significant period of time.

XXX Tip

If both partners are into anal play, he can easily use his hands, fingers or a sex toy to give her anal stimulation during intercourse.

Side Saddle Sex Position

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Sex Position: Side SaddleThe Side Saddle sex position is a unique twist on Woman On Top and can be fun for both partners but it is a little more difficult for her than it is him.

How To Do It

The male partner lies on the edge of the bed or the couch, completely flat. The female partner stands at his hips, facing away from him, and lowers herself onto his groin, with her feet still on the floor. Her body will be perpendicular to his and she will be facing away from him throughout lovemaking. She will use her legs and arms to push herself up and down on his penis.

Where To Do It

Couch or the edge of the bed.

Props You’ll Need

He may want a pillow, but it’s not essential, especially when you’re engaging in the Side Saddle sex position on a comfortable surface like the couch or bed.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

2

This can be a difficult sex position for her to master and enjoy, simply because she is responsible for all the movement during sex. The Side Saddle sex position requires substantial strength in the arms and legs, and a certain amount of stamina and endurance as well. If your legs and arms aren’t muscular and used to physical strain, you’ll notice your thighs, calves and arm muscles start to burn after just a few minutes of moving yourself up and down. However, athletic women may truly enjoy the control they have in this sex position!

His O-Meter

4

The Side Saddle sex position is a breeze for him, because all he’s doing is laying there! He’s quite comfortable here and can relax and enjoy the sensations as long as his lover can keep it up. He’ll enjoy letting her “take the reigns” for a little while!

XXX Tip

She can make the Side Saddle sex position more enjoyable if she thinks of her man as a” living Sybian”. He is a penis for her to ride and enjoy. He by the way will greatly enjoy her confidence and freedom!

See-Saw Sex Position

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Sex Position: See-SawExpress your intimacy and achieve intense orgasms with the See-Saw sex position. This is an easy one to do that both partners really enjoy!

How To Do It

The male partner sits on the floor, or the bed, with his legs stretched out and supporting his weight on his arms behind him. She straddles him, facing him, with her feet flat on either side of her lover’s hips. She sits on his lap with her legs spread wide for penetration (and for a great view for him!) and rests her own weight on her hands, which are behind her and grasping his ankles or shins. She does most of the work here, lifting herself up and down on his penis.

Where To Do It

The bed is the most comfortable place to do the See-Saw sex position, but any wide open space (like the floor) will also do.

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

For the See-Saw sex position to truly be effective, she must be totally and completely comfortable with her partner. Since she is open and displayed for him to see every inch of her in this sex position, she’s got to be comfortable with herself as well. Confident girls will like this sex position because it gives their lovers such pleasure to see them spread out. She’ll also enjoy the intimacy of being able to look him in the eye as they both experience orgasm.

His O-Meter

5

He’s comfortable in the See-Saw sex position, and he really enjoys it because he can simply sit back, relax and watch as she grinds, rotates and thrusts all over him. With her legs spread open, he can see everything that is happening, and that kind of visual stimulation is exactly what he needs to take a hot sex position to the next level.

XXX Tip

The more she gets into the show for him, the better this position will be!

Reverse Jockey Sex Position

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Sex Position: Reverse JockeyThe Reverse Jockey sex position is a fun twist on the traditional Missionary that allows him to be in complete control of the thrusting and stimulation. In this position, he sits atop his partner much like a jockey sits atop a racing horse, leaning forward and downward with the movement.

How To Do It

The female partner lies on her back a la traditional Missionary. The male partner “mounts” his lady facing her head, but instead of putting his legs in between her spread legs, he is going to be putting one leg on either side of her. Her legs are mostly together instead of spread open for his penetration. When he thrusts, he’s going to lean forward and down slightly, using his whole body to move instead of just his hips and buttocks.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, backseat of the car. This is a great sex position to use anywhere there is a narrow space and neither partner can afford to spread their legs wide.

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

The Reverse Jockey sex position is good for her because there is more friction between her and her partner when her legs are pressed together. This is a good position for clitoral stimulation.

His O-Meter

4

With her legs pressed together, her vagina feels much tighter to him. Although he won’t be able to penetrate as deeply here as with other sex positions, the Reverse Jockey sex position will squeeze his penis firmly, creating an entirely new sensation for him.

XXX Tip

The Reverse Jockey sex position is an excellent “male dominant” sex position. Take this a step further by incorporating a little BDSM or role play where she is in the submissive role.

Rear View Mirror Sex Position

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Sex Position: Rear View MirrorIf you’re looking for an exotic yet easy to do rear entry sex position, the Rear View Mirror sex position will definitely fit the bill. It’s fun to try!

How To Do It

The male partner sits on a surface like the floor or bed with his legs stretched out, and spread apart slightly so his lover can fit in between them. The female partner then lies on her stomach in between his legs with her head facing his feet, and her legs spread wide enough to allow his torso in between them. It may take some practice to align your groins perfectly, but it is possible!

In this position he won’t be able to do much of the thrusting, so she will be in charge of the rhythm and depth of the thrusts. The Rear View Mirror Sex Position is similar to the Reverse Cowgirl sex position so if this one feels awkward, try that one first.

Where To Do It

Since a fair amount of space is required for the Rocking The Boat sex position, you’ll want to do it on the floor or the bed. A couch or other narrow space just isn’t going to work out as well.

Props You’ll Need

A blanket or thick towel will make this position more comfortable on the floor.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

3

While the Rear View Mirror sex position is fairly comfortable for her, the angle of penetration may be a bit awkward at first, as well as getting the hang of thrusting. In this sex position, it’s less actual “thrusting,” and more of a rocking, grinding motion. This, however, can help stimulate her clitoris for more orgasm potential!

His O-Meter

3

He likes the view in the Rear View Mirror sex position, however, it may be a bit of an awkward angle for his penis to bend. If he’s very flexible in the penis, it may not be a big issue and he can enjoy the rocking and grinding while he gets to watch the action!

WARNING: If there is any discomfort in this sex position, stop immediately! The angle of penetration might cause the penis to bend in a different direction than you’re used to. This can take some adjusting to, so go slow and if it’s uncomfortable or painful at any point, stop and try a different sex position.

XXX Tip

His hands are in the perfect position to smack her rear or even engage in some anal play if she’s okay with it. That can make the Rear View Mirror sex position even more naughty!