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Prison Guard Sex Position

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Sex Position: Prison GuardThe Prison Guard sex position is a wonderfully submissive (on the woman’s part) position that allows for both vaginal rear entry intercourse and anal sex.

How To Do It

The Prison Guard sex position is a fairly easy position to get into since both partners are standing. The female partner is standing up against her man with her back to him and is bent over almost as far as she can go. She will bring her hands up behind her back for her partner to grasp and hold on to as he thrusts, mimicking “handcuffs” and lending the Prison Guard sex position its name.

Where To Do It

Standing sex positions are exceptionally versatile when it comes to where you can do them. You can do them in the middle of the living room with plenty of space, or in tighter quarters like the bathroom or even a closet. You can do the Prison Guard sex position almost anywhere you can stand!

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

If she enjoys being very submissive, she’s going to love the Prison Guard sex position. She’ll also like it if she enjoys lots (and lots!) of the intense sensations that deep penetration gives. However, it’s not going to be her favorite if she can only get off with more clitoral stimulation since this sex position doesn’t afford any clitoral friction at all.

His O-Meter

5

He really enjoys the Prison Guard sex position because it allows him complete control over his partner! She is deeply submitting to him, and not only does he get to “bind” her wrists with his hands, he gets to watch the action as he thrusts. If he enjoys being dominant, this is likely to be one of his favorite sex positions.

XXX Tip

The Prison Guard sex position can be used for really kinky, naughty anal sex but only if both partners are no strangers to anal play. This is not an anal sex position for beginners, however, it can be really hot for lovers who have done anal a few times before.

Pretzel Sex Position

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Sex Position: PretzelThe Pretzel sex position is a seated sex position that creates intimacy between both partners with its face to face rocking and grinding.

How To Do It

To get into the Pretzel sex position, the male partner must sit on a flat surface and lie back some, resting his weight on his hands behind him. His lover will then straddle him, lowering herself onto his penis. She grasps the back of her thighs and holds her legs up with her knees slightly parted so her partner can come in between them. The male partner then sits up so he is face to face with her. As he sits up, he will hook his legs over her arms and around her body, completing the “pretzel” configuration.

Where To Do It

The bed is your best bet for the Pretzel sex position. This is a difficult position to get into and maneuver in, so you’ll want the comfort and familiarity of your bed.

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

1

She’ll like the face to face intimacy of the Pretzel sex position, but that’s about it. This isn’t going to be on her “favorites” list, and it’s probably not one she’ll suggest to try. She might be on board if her lover is really into the exotic sex positions, but the penetration isn’t very deep here, and her clitoris isn’t adequately stimulated for her to be able to build a good orgasm.

His O-Meter

1

He likes the novelty of this sex position, but his penis is bent at a slightly awkward angle and thrusting is fairly difficult here – it’s mostly a rock and grind sort of motion. He’ll for sure want to try this move because it’s so exotic, but it’s not going to be one he does regularly.

XXX Tip

Focus more on actually getting into the Pretzel sex position than on making it hotter. You’re doing good if you can get in it and actually have sex for more than a few minutes!

Piston Sex Position

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Sex Position: PistonThe Piston sex position is a great standing position for athletic couples, and affords for super deep and exotic penetration. It’s definitely a must try!

How To Do It

The male partner stands with his back to a chair or couch, facing his female partner. He lifts her onto his penis (which is no small accomplishment) and she rests her feet on the surface behind him, using the leverage to help with the thrusting movements. The Piston sex position isn’t easy to do for most couples, because it requires plenty of arm strength on his part to hold almost her entire weight, and lots of leg strength on her part.

Where To Do It

Anywhere in the house where you have a surface she can rest her feet on.

Props You’ll Need

Couch, chair or other comparable piece of furniture.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

3

Although the Piston sex position may require her to have substantial leg strength, it’s worth it for all of the clitoral friction she gets. With as much effort as she is putting into the thrusting, it may be difficult for her to focus on building an orgasm, but if she’s very athletic, it won’t bother her a bit and she can truly enjoy what this awesome sex position has to offer!

His O-Meter

3

He likes holding her up and thrusting deeply into her, although the Piston sex position can get quite tiring for him. If he’s very fit, he’ll be able to keep it up for a little while, but not necessarily long enough for both him and her to have an orgasm. This is a fun sex position to try for a little while before moving on to something more comfortable.

XXX Tip

Both partners are going to be pretty occupied with supporting their weight and getting the movement down pat, so focus more on that than what you can do to “spice” this sex position up. The Piston sex position is pretty hot in and of itself!

Peek-A-Boo Oral Sex Position

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Sex Position: Peek-A-BooAn interesting twist on oral sex for him, the Peek-A-Boo oral sex position is something fun to try when you want something different, but not too exotic.

How To Do It

The male partner lies on his side on the bed, and his partner lies perpendicular to him, with the majority of her body behind him. He spreads his legs slightly and she brings her head up to his groin from behind, resting the weight of her head on his inner thigh.

Where To Do It

Because of the space required for the Peek-A-Boo oral sex position, the bed or floor is your best bet – however, the bed is going to be infinitely more comfortable for both partners!

Props You’ll Need

A few pillows for him will help prop his head up and make him more comfortable.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

2

The Peek-A-Boo oral sex position is comfortable for her to be in, and it helps prevent neck cramps. This is a big plus for her, because it means she can continue giving oral sex for a significant period of time. She also has partial control here, and if he doesn’t use his hand on her head, she’ll have full control of the depth and speed of penetration.

His O-Meter

4

He enjoys the Peek-A-Boo oral sex position because it allows him to grasp her head and thrust if he wants, or just lie back and relax, enjoying the sensations! He digs looking down and seeing just her head “peeking” out from in between his legs to suck him off!

XXX Tip

Since her hands are free in the Peek-A-Boo oral sex position, she can easily either give him some anal stimulation if he’s into it, or reach down and stimulate herself with her fingers or a sex toy so she gets some pleasure out of it too!

Missionary Reversed Sex Position

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Sex Position: Missionary ReversedThe Missionary Reversed sex position is a fun one to try if his penis is fairly flexible and he’s up for something a little more exotic. Some guys aren’t going to dig this position because it requires them to thrust at an exceptionally odd angle, but other guys will enjoy how different this sex position is from traditional Missionary.

How To Do It

The female partner will lie flat on her back with her legs slightly spread. Her partner will then position himself on top of her, however, he will be facing her feet instead of her head. His legs will also be spread enough so that they can rest on his lover’s shoulders or on either side of her head. To penetrate, he’s going to push his penis downward with his fingers at the base of it, and slowly enter her. This can be quite stressful for a man’s penis, so it’s important to be extra lubed up and go very slowly.

WARNING: If this move hurts at all, stop immediately! Remember to thrust slowly. In rare cases, a penis can fracture when enough pressure is put on it. This usually happens suddenly, when the penis is at an odd angle and thrusting too fast. A penile fracture is characterized by intense, immediate pain, sudden bruising and often an audible “fracture” sound is heard. If this should happen, do not hesitate to seek immediate medical attention. The Missionary Reversed sex position is not dangerous in and of itself, but you can prevent any problems by being responsible.

Where To Do It

The Missionary Reversed sex position is best performed on a wide open space like the bed. Because you’re so focused on doing this correctly, you don’t want to be crammed in the car or even on the couch for this one.

Props You’ll Need

Lots of lube! Make sure you are both good and slick before attempting this position.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

3

She’ll dig this sex position because it’s an exotic one that doesn’t involve her getting into all kinds of crazy contortionist positions. The man has to do the gymnastics on this one!

His O-Meter

1

It’s going to take a very brave man to be able to do this sex position and get off on it. The penis just isn’t designed to bend this way. For him, the Missionary Reversed sex position is more about novelty than anything else.

XXX Tip

Use a liberator wedge to make the angle of penetration better for most men.