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Meet N’ Greet Sex Position

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Sex Position: Meet 'N GreetThe Meet N’ Greet sex position puts the thrusting responsibility on the female partner, although she is still on bottom like in traditional Missionary. Instead of him thrusting down into her, she is pushing her pelvis up towards him and doing a majority of the movement. Hot!

How To Do It

Just like in traditional Missionary, the male partner is on top and the female partner is underneath him with her legs spread on either side of her lover’s hips. He is resting his weight on his knees and his hands, which are on either side of her torso. However, instead of him moving down to thrust into her, she is going to raise her hips again and again to meet him. This requires a good bit of space between both partners, so he will need to prop his torso all the way up on his hands, almost as though he’s in the Doggy Style position.

Where To Do It

Couch, backseat of the car, floor, bed and anywhere else you would use the Missionary sex position.

Props You’ll Need

He may be more comfortable with a pillow under his knees if you’re using the Meet N’ Greet sex position on a hard surface, such as the floor.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

Although she has a better chance of grinding her clitoris against him since she’s in control in the Meet N’ Greet sex position, a woman isn’t used to thrusting and may tire out quickly. She may not be able to keep this going for very long if she’s not fit or strong.

His O-Meter

4

He digs the Meet N’ Greet sex position because he gets to watch her thrust up towards him instead of the other way around. It’s a welcome change of pace, and he totally loves the idea of her being so hot and turned on that she’s got to grind against him!

XXX Tip

It’s a great opportunity for her to show him just how eager she is, and to really put on a show for him, by playing with her breasts and clitoris while he watches on in ecstasy.

Lunge Sex Position

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Sex Position: LungeThe Lunge sex position is a fun twist on Woman On Top that allows for super deep penetration – the only trick is, the female partner must be quite flexible.

How To Do It

The male partner lies on his back with his legs spread open a little past shoulder width. The female partner begins to come up in between his legs (almost as though this was Missionary but with her playing the role of the man), and raises one leg up and hooks it around his hip, resting her foot on the bed and against the outside of his buttocks. The other leg is still straight and positioned in between his legs, flush with the bed. The Lunge sex position gets its name because it looks like the female is doing a “lunge” type of stretch as she lowers herself onto his penis.

Where To Do It

This is one you’ll want to do in a bed. You’ll want all the comfort and space you can get here.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for him is nice, especially if he wants his head supported so he can see more of the action.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

3

Although the Lunge sex position allows for fairly good clitoral friction and excellent deep penetration and g-spot stimulation, it can be quite difficult for a woman to get into and stay in – and even harder for her to figure out how to thrust in. She must be pretty flexible to pull this off comfortably, but if she can, the mix between clitoral friction and deep g-spot stimulation can result in some powerful orgasms.

His O-Meter

4

He likes the Lunge sex position because it allows him to lie back, relax and enjoy her taking control. He also likes to watch her here, because if she lifts the bent leg ever so slightly, it provides him with a pretty decent view of the action.

XXX Tip

He can reach up and play with her nipples in the Lunge sex position, or if both partners are feeling extra naughty, he can reach around to her backside for some anal play, since the position of her legs leaves her anal area exposed.

Licking The Flagpole Sex Position

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Sex Position: Licking The FlagpoleThe Licking The Flagpole sex position is a comfortable oral sex position for both her and him, that leaves her spread open wide for the ultimate pleasure.

How To Do It

The Licking The Flagpole sex position is easy to get into. The female partner simply lies on her side on the bed, with the leg that is touching the bed bent at the knee to help give her stability. She then lifts her other leg high in the air, placing her hand on her thigh to help hold it up. The male partner then lies on his side perpendicular to her, resting his head on the thigh of the leg that is resting on the bed while he goes down on her.

Where To Do It

This is okay on a floor or other wide open space, but both partners will appreciate the comfort of the bed with surrounding pillows.

Props You’ll Need

Pillows to support him and her as needed.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

4

She loves being spread out for him, because the Licking The Flagpole sex position gives him access to every nerve in her clitoris and labia. The only caveat in this position for her is that if she’s not very flexible or athletic, she may have trouble stretching her leg that high and keeping it there for a significant period of time. If she does, it’s fine to put a slight bend in the knee of the leg that is being held up in the air to make it more comfortable.

His O-Meter

2

He enjoys the comfort of this position, and it’s very easy on the neck. Since her inner thigh is supporting his head, he’s quite comfortable and relaxed while giving her oral sex.

XXX Tip

If she enjoys anal play, the Licking The Flagpole sex position is perfect for him to give her simultaneous oral sex and anal stimulation with his hands. It’s a great way to make this sex position even more naughty than it already is!

Leg Up Sex Position

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Sex Position: Leg UpThis hot oral sex position for her is simple for both partners. The Leg Up sex position gives him full access to her, while making it easy for her to watch.

How To Do It

The female partner stands side by side with a chair, couch, low table or other surface and raises her leg at roughly a ninety degree angle so she can rest her foot on the surface and spread her leg. Her partner sits on the floor cross-legged beneath her, with his head positioned in between her legs. He can grasp her hips or play with her breasts while he goes down on her in the Leg Up sex position.

Where To Do It

Anywhere you have the appropriate furniture!

Props You’ll Need

A chair, couch, low table or bed that is the proper height for her to rest her foot on so that she is comfortable. He may also want a pillow, small blanket or a towel to sit on, as he will be sitting on the floor.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

4

What she loves about the Leg Up sex position is that  she’s comfortable but spread open wide enough for him to access her most sensitive parts. She can watch the action here, which is not always the case with oral sex positions for her. This is an entirely new way for her to experience oral sex! The one downside is that it may be difficult to reach orgasm from the standing position.

His O-Meter

3

He’s comfortable in the Leg Up sex position too, and loves being able to grasp her buttocks or raise his hands up and fondle her breasts while he goes down on her.

XXX Tip

Her hands are fairly unoccupied in the Leg Up sex position, so she can use them to either stimulate her own nipples or reach down and spread her labia wide for him. The latter will take the Leg Up sex position up a few notches and make it way hotter than it already is!

Laptop Sex Position

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Sex Position: LaptopThe Laptop sex position is an interesting variation on the Assisted Lotus, and although it looks difficult, it’s really not. It’s definitely a must try!

How To Do It

The male partner sits in a chair normally, with his lover sitting on his lap, facing him. Instead of wrapping each of her legs on either side of the chair, she will put each foot on either of her partner’s shoulders, resting the back of her knees on his shoulders and her calves and feet on the back of the chair. She can grasp his neck to help maintain her balance, but he should be holding her lower back to help keep her steady.

Where To Do It

This is an awesome sex position for a quickie at the office or anywhere else you see a chair and an opportunity!

Props You’ll Need

A chair. Almost any chair will work, but for the Laptop sex position, you may want to use a more comfortable chair like a recliner or a nice office chair.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

She enjoys the deep penetration that the Laptop sex position affords, because it’s perfect for g-spot stimulation.  Some women may need more clitoral stimulation to orgasm than this position can give, but it’s still a great one to try.

His O-Meter

He loves the feeling of his partner’s legs around his neck, and enjoys the deep penetration sensations. The Laptop sex position is perfect for “breast guys,” since he is eye level with her chest!

XXX Tip

The male partner can really focus on her breasts here, caressing them with his mouth, lips and tongue. This will help her to reach orgasm even faster too!