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Hot Seat Sex Position

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Sex Position: Hot SeatThe Hot Seat sex position is a combination of Woman On Top and rear entry. It’s perfect for when you’re craving something a little naughty, but not too difficult to do.

How To Do It

The male partner sits with his knees bent and his feet flat on the floor, supporting his torso on either a pillow or two or with his elbows. The female partner lowers herself onto her lover facing away from him, with her back to him and her legs bent in a similar way to his. Her hands are on his hips (not his stomach) to allow her to bear her own weight and use her muscles for thrusting and movement. You may only be able to achieve a grinding or rocking movement in this position, but many couples will enjoy how slow and sensual it is.

Where To Do It

The Hot Seat sex position is great for the couch or a sturdy reclining chair, although it can also be done on the bed with pillows under the male partner for support.

Props You’ll Need

Pillows! Lots of them for him!

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

3

Her arms can get plenty tired in the Hot Seat sex position, and there’s little clitoral action going on here. However, the angle of penetration is such that it affords excellent g-spot stimulation! She may be able to coax herself to orgasm here, especially if she reaches down and stimulates her clitoris with her hand or a sex toy.

His O-Meter

3

He enjoys being “ridden” in the Hot Seat sex position, but there’s really nothing for him to look at other than her back. Since guys are visual creatures, they need to be able to see what is going on to really get off. But that doesn’t mean this position is a total bummer for him.

XXX Tip

If the female partner has enough upper arm strength to lift herself up and down during lovemaking, it will allow her partner to see him sliding in and out of her, greatly increasing how hot the Hot Seat sex position is for him!

Handstand Oral Sex Position

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Sex Position: HandstandThe Handstand oral sex position is an oral sex position for him that is challenging yet very exciting if he can pull it off! Adventurous couples only.

How To Do It

The male partner does a handstand on the floor, with his legs straight up in the air. The female partner kneels in front of him, facing his groin, so she can perform oral sex on him.

Where To Do It

The Handstand oral sex position is one to try at home – there’s a definite possibility of falling! He’ll probably want to do it on the floor as he won’t be able to support himself on the bed or other soft surface.

Props You’ll Need

He may want to lean with his back against the wall for more support as he’s doing the handstand. She may be more comfortable with a pillow under her knees.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

2

She’ll like the fact that it’s him getting into wacky sex positions instead of her, because it’s almost always the other way around!

His O-Meter

2

If he can pull off the Handstand oral sex position, it’s pretty fun for him. The blood rush to his head can make it more pleasurable, but on the other hand, he may find it difficult to maintain a strong erection with the blood going in the opposite direction. Also, the angle of his penis is a bit unnatural, so she definitely needs to be gentle here and not go too fast.

XXX Tip

Don’t worry about trying to spice up the Handstand oral sex position – this one is plenty hot on it’s own if you can actually do it!

G-Force Sex Position

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Sex Position: G-ForceIn the G-Force sex position, deep penetration is achieved in a unique way. It can be uncomfortable for the woman, but it’s also really hot!

How To Do It

The male partner kneels in front of the female partner who is on her back, with her knees together and drawn up towards her chest. He then lifts her hips up to meet his and enters her, with her feet either flat on his chest or in his hands. This interesting sex position can be used for both vaginal intercourse or anal sex, however, it’s not a good position for anal sex beginners. If you’re just starting out with anal play, try another sex position first.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor or even the car if you’ve got a big enough back seat! Just remember that the G-Force sex position can be rough on a woman’s neck and upper back, so make sure you’re selecting somewhere that is going to be comfortable for her.

Props You’ll Need

She will really appreciate a pillow under her head and possibly one under her shoulders. If you’re doing this position on the floor, lay down a blanket or towel first. Carpet burn hurts!

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

3

It can be a bit uncomfortable with the awkward angle created in the neck and shoulders area, but with proper support like a pillow or rolled up towel, she should be able to stay in this sex position for a decent amount of time. It definitely allows for super deep penetration, which many women will enjoy!

His O-Meter

5

He absolutely loves the G-Force sex position, because he gets to see pretty much everything! It’s just as good as the Reverse Cowgirl in terms of how much he enjoys the “show.” The deep penetration is nice for him too, and if he gets to do anal like this, he’ll be totally stoked.

XXX Tip

He can hold her feet in his hands to control the angle of penetration and the spread of her legs.

Grasshopper Sex Position

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Sex Position: GrasshopperWhile the Grasshopper sex position causes the penis to bend in an awkward way, this position can be super erotic for the flexible man. If you like exotic sex positions, the Grasshopper is definitely one you’ll at least want to try.

How To Do It

The female partner lies on a flat surface on her stomach, with her legs stretched out. She’s supporting her torso up on her arms, or she can lie her head down on a pillow if she likes. The male partner does all the work here like in the Jockey sex position, but it’s a little more challenging for him because the angle of penetration causes the penis to bend in an unnatural way. He will sit on the back of her thighs just under her buttocks and point his penis downward to enter her. His legs are open and each foot is on either side of his lover’s waist, and his hands are behind him and by her feet, supporting his weight. The Grasshopper sex position is definitely one that he wants to be very erect before trying – a soft or semi-soft penis isn’t going to penetrate very well in this position at all.

WARNING: Go slow when trying this, and if the angle of penetration is at all uncomfortable or painful, stop immediately! Some men just don’t have the flexibility to do the Grasshopper sex position and that’s perfectly okay. You don’t want to end up with a penile fracture just to say you tried this position.

Where To Do It

Although this can be done on any flat surface with enough space, the bed is probably a better bet than the floor for the Grasshopper sex position. Since you’re so focused on the angle of penetration and just how to get going in this position, you don’t want to have any logistic worries added to it.

Props You’ll Need

She may want a pillow to lie her head on if she’s not holding her torso up with her arms, but it’s not necessary.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

1

He’s not grinding up against her clitoris in the Grasshopper sex position and because his penis is at an awkward angle, she’s not going to be getting much g-spot stimulation either. This is, however, a comfortable position for her so it’s one that she can stay in while her lover works on getting penetration and thrusting to work.

His O-Meter

1

The odd angle that the penis must be bent to be able to penetrate isn’t comfortable for many men, and even if he does get it in, the thrusting action is going to be hard to figure out too. Since the Grasshopper sex position isn’t a super great one for him or her, it’s really just a novelty sex position to try. However, if you do accomplish it even for just a short period of time, doing something so different and exotic can be really hot!

XXX Tip

Don’t worry about trying to make this sex position any hotter than it already is. You’ll be doing good to just get into it and actually thrust.

Frog Leap Sex Position

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Sex Position: Frog LeapThe Frog Leap sex position is a super naughty twist on Doggy Style that gives him full access to her and facilitates super deep penetration. It’s hot!

How To Do It

The Frog Leap sex position gets its name from the way the female partner is positioned for thrusting. She is on her hands and feet with her knees bent, as though she were getting ready to play the childhood game “leapfrog.” The male partner sits on his knees behind her like in traditional Doggy Style and holds on to her hips while he thrusts. This creates deep penetration and new sensations for both partners!

Where To Do It

The floor is probably the best place for the Frog Leap sex position, simply because the female partner needs a hard surface without a lot of give to it to maintain her balance.

Props You’ll Need

He might want a pillow for his knees, and a large soft blanket is always nice when you’re dealing with carpet. Carpet burn is no fun and can lead to interesting conversations the next day at work.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

2

The Frog Leap sex position is an awkward one for her to get into and stay in, unless she’s on the thinner side and has a lot of strength in her legs.

His O-Meter

4

He really enjoys the control he has in the Frog Leap sex position, and it’s comfortable for him because he isn’t doing anything differently than he normally does in the Doggy Style sex position.  He will also enjoy the view, especially if he prefers butts to breasts, or likes anal play at all.

XXX Tip

Do it on the bed and have her grab on to the headboard or on a landing with a railing that she can grab on to. This will help support her and make this move super hot!