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Fire Hydrant Sex Position

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Sex Position: Fire HydrantThe Fire Hydrant sex position is a fun rear entry position that will bring out the animal in both partners! It’s easy to do, but also super sexy. It’s a simple variation on Doggy Style that mimics a dog “peeing” on a fire hydrant, hence the name. The position creates deeper penetration and gives both partners access to her clitoris.

How To Do It

For the Fire Hydrant sex position, you’re both going to get into the traditional Doggy Style sex position first, with her on all fours and him on his knees entering her from behind. She will simply lift up one of her legs at a ninety-degree angle, hooking it around his hip and buttock.

Where To Do It

Couch, bed, car, floor and anywhere you would do Doggy Style!

Props You’ll Need

If not having sex on a bed or other comfortable surface, a soft blanket laid out will protect the knees of both partners.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

3

While the Fire Hydrant sex position doesn’t afford a lot of clitoral stimulation, it does provide great access to the g-spot, and even the a-spot with penetration being so deep.

His O-Meter

4

He loves the animalistic feel of this sex position, and loves grabbing on to her hips and pulling her towards him as he thrusts. He’ll really like her leg hooked around him, and he can even reach down and stimulate her clitoris and labia with his hands as he gets his groove on.

XXX Tip

If you have a large mirror, set it on the floor and have sex on it. The Fire Hydrant sex position opens her legs up for a very nice and ahem…not modest view of the action!

Feedbag Sex Position

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Sex Position: FeedbagThe Feedbag sex position is an interesting oral sex position for her that can be a little challenging for her but is very rewarding once it is accomplished.

How To Do It

The female partner lies on the couch with her rear at the edge of it and her legs and feet hanging off. Her partner then kneels in front of her, lifts her buttocks with his hands and places her legs over his shoulders. It’s a tight fit for his head to get in between her legs, but it can be a lot of fun once you get into the Feedbag sex position.

Where To Do It

The couch is the best place for the Feedbag sex position.

Props You’ll Need

She may want a small pillow for her neck and upper shoulders, and he’ll appreciate a pillow, blanket or towel for his knees to rest on instead of the floor.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

3

The Feedbag sex position probably isn’t going to be her favorite position to receive oral sex in, but hey, she’s getting oral sex so it’s all good, right? Her legs aren’t spread very wide at all here, so her lover has limited access to the nerves on her inner labia and even parts of her clitoris. She’s also in a bit of an awkward position, however, the blood rushing to her head here can intensify her orgasm if he can get her there.

His O-Meter

2

If he really likes being enveloped by his lover’s vulva and legs, he’s going to love the Feedbag sex position. Supporting her weight like this isn’t too difficult for him, but he’ll likely enjoy other oral sex positions if he wants more control or freedom of movement.

XXX Tip

He can easily reach forward and caress her thighs and belly, as well as stimulating her breasts and nipples with his hands!

Face Thrust Oral Sex Position

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Sex Position: Face ThrustIf he likes being in control, the Face Thrust oral sex position is an incredible turn on for him – however, some women may find it a little uncomfortable.

How To Do It

The female partner lies on her back on a surface, with her head propped up on a pillow. The male partner straddles her chest on his knees, bringing his penis close to her face. He can grasp her head and use it to help him thrust in and out of her mouth. The female partner does very little in the Face Thrust oral sex position.

Where To Do It

A bed is sure to be the most comfortable place for this sex position, however, it can be done on the couch or even on the floor if her head has enough support.

Props You’ll Need

You’ll need one or two pillows under her head and neck for support, and to raise her head enough for penetration.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

1

The Face Thrust oral sex position is probably not going to be her very favorite, simply because it can be quite uncomfortable for her. It’s easy to get a neck cramp in this position, and since her partner is in total control, she has no say over how fast she gives him head or how deep the thrusting goes. This can easily lead to gagging and difficulty breathing.

WARNING: It’s a good idea to develop a safe gesture she can use to let him know if he’s getting too freaky or if she’s uncomfortable in any way. Both partners need to agree that if the safe gesture is used, the action stops immediately.

His O-Meter

5

Most guys love the idea of being in total control of a blowjob, even if they don’t get to actually do it very often. In the Face Thrust oral sex position, he can hold her head while he thrusts in and out of her mouth, which is a huge fantasy for a lot of men. He totally digs this sex position!

XXX Tip

Since her hands are free, she can use them to caress his lower back and buttocks. If he likes anal play, she can gently play with this area using her fingers, or even massage his prostate gland – just use lots of lube first!

Face Straddle For Him Oral Sex Position

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The Face Straddle For Him oral sex position is a primal, sexy way for her to submit during oral sex for him. He loves how animalistic this sex position is!

How To Do It

The male partner gets on all fours, and the female partner lies down on her back with her knees bent and her feet flat with her head underneath her partner’s hips. This allows him to bend down slightly and penetrate her mouth and throat with his penis from above. She can grasp his hips and buttocks and pull herself up to him or pull him down to her.

Where To Do It

Due to the amount of space required by the Face Straddle For Him oral sex position, it is much easier to do this on a bed – however, it can be done on the couch or floor but it isn’t as comfortable.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow under her head will not only make her more comfortable, but it will lift her head and neck some to help her reach him without having to strain so much.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

2

The Face Straddle For Him oral sex position may be one of her favorites if she likes for him to have control of the thrusting during a blowjob, but if she doesn’t, she won’t like it very much. If he thrusts too fast or too hard, it may be uncomfortable or painful for her and she may have a difficult time breathing.

WARNING: A safe gesture in this case is an exceptionally good idea, so she can quickly and easily let him know if he needs to stop because he’s making her uncomfortable or she can’t breathe very well.

His O-Meter

5

He enjoys how submissive his partner is in the Face Straddle For Him oral sex position and how in control he is over the thrusting. He also likes how “primal” it feels with him on all fours!

XXX Tip

If he enjoys having his prostate stimulated – or even if he just enjoys a little anal play, she can easily reach around and use her hands to give him a little naughty pleasure.

Ear Warmer Sex Position

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Sex Position: Ear WarmerThe Ear Warmer sex position is a simple variation of the Spread Eagle, where she has more control and may be more comfortable than with her legs spread.

How To Do It

The female partner lies back and spreads her legs long enough for her partner to lie on his stomach and place his head in between to give her oral sex. Instead of keeping her legs spread like with the Spread Eagle sex position, she closes her legs somewhat, resting her inner thighs on either side of her lover’s head. This gives her more control during cunnilingus, and many women may be more comfortable with their hips at this angle.

Where To Do It

The bed is a super comfortable and familiar area to do the Ear Warmer sex position on, but it can also be done on the edge of the bed (with her partner resting his knees on the floor) or on a couch.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for her head, and possibly under her lower back to place her hips at an angle that makes oral sex easier for him to give.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

5

With increased control and comfort, she can really lie back and relax in the Ear Warmer sex position. She loves receiving oral sex, and in this position he’s totally and completely focusing on her pleasure.

His O-Meter

1

The Ear Warmer sex position may not be his favorite if he wants to have more freedom for head movement. He may feel a little confined with her legs pressed up against his head.

XXX Tip

He can easily use one of his hands to stimulate her g-spot while he’s licking her clitoris, which will bring her to orgasm even faster.