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Basic Rear Entry Sex Position

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The Basic Rear Entry sex position is probably the easiest way to get started with rear entry, apart from Doggy Style. When he thrusts, he can stimulate her g-spot in a unique way, and the closer her legs are together, the tighter it feels for him. This is definitely a must try!

How To Do It

The female partner lies on her stomach, propping her upper body up on her elbows. Her legs are slightly spread apart with her knees bent and feet in the air. The male partner approaches her from behind and drapes his pelvis over her rear, so his penis can enter her vaginal opening from behind. He supports his body weight with his knees and his arms, which are positioned with his palms on the floor on either side of her upper body. The rear entry sex position can also be used for anal penetration.

Where To Do It

Couch, bed, floor, any flat surface

Props You’ll Need

A small pillow under her pelvis can raise her bottom to shorten the angle of entry for a man with a shorter penis.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

2.5

While rear entry does provide a unique angle to her g-spot, unless her partner’s penis is on the longer side, she’s not likely to get as much pleasure from this as she would if she were on top. However, if his penis is big enough, this could stimulate her g-spot in ways she’s never felt before!

His O-Meter

5

This sex position is one of the better ones for guys. The difference here is that her legs are somewhat closed and her buttocks are tight together, making her vagina feel much tighter to him. This increased friction is enough to send him over the moon!

XXX Tip

Since she gets pretty much zero clitoral stimulation in this sex position and he can’t really reach down there and do it because he’s supporting his weight on his hands, the female partner can get a lot more pleasure out of this position if she stimulates her clitoris herself. Since the floor is supporting most of her weight, she can use one of her hands to reach down and stimulate her clitoris either with her fingers or a small vibrator like a bullet.

Lotus Sex Position

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Sex Positions: LotusIf you want to experience the utmost intimacy with your partner during sex, the Lotus sex position is definitely the way to go. While relaxed and sitting with each other, you can slowly rock back and forth and gradually work your way up to an intense orgasm!

How To Do It

The Lotus is probably the most intimate sex position out there. If you want to fully connect with your partner emotionally and physically during sex, the Lotus is the way to do it. Both partners sit cross-legged facing each other, but the female partner will actually sit on her lover’s lap with her legs wrapped around his hips so their pelvises touch. Once in position, it is more difficult to “thrust.” Sex in the Lotus position involves more “rocking” than it does thrusting. This is what makes the Lotus one of the more unique sex positions that isn’t as difficult to achieve!

Where To Do It

Floor, bed, large rocking recliner, anywhere you have enough space

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

4

Women love the Lotus sex position! Not only does she get an extra dose of the physical and emotional intimacy she craves, the rocking and pelvic grinding does an excellent job of stimulating both her clitoris and her g-spot. This is definitely a position that she can orgasm in!

His O-Meter

If he’s the sensitive type, he’s going to like the emotional connection he gets out of the Lotus too. Men generally dig anything their partners are into, simply because they’re psyched to have a partner who is actually enjoying herself. The rocking motion, however, will put pressure on his penis in a different way, making it feel unique and extra pleasurable for him.

XXX Tip

He should give her oral sex before getting into this incredible intimate sex position. She will literally explode on top of him!

Delight Sex Position

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A variation on Missionary, the Delight sex position is simple but both intimate and erotic. It’s a perfect sex position to use if you want lots of eye contact, but it’s also great if you want to get kinky and watch the action down below. You definitely want to try this one, or use it again and again!

How To Do It

This is an exceptionally easy sex position to master and is highly arousing and satisfying for both partners. The female partner simply sits on a bed or chair with her legs spread and her feet flat on the floor. The male partner gets on his knees and aligns his pelvis in between her legs for thrusting. It’s simple, but both partners get an exceptional amount of pleasure from the Delight!

Where To Do It

The sofa, edge of a low bed, or chair are perfect for this position.

Props You’ll Need

A soft blanket or pillow for his knees will make this position more comfortable for him.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

3

While this sex position allows for a fair amount of clitoral and g-spot stimulation, that’s not what a woman is going to like best about the Delight. Since she is face to face with her partner, she is going to get a lot of emotional satisfaction here. It’s a very intimate position, which is definitely going to be right up her alley.

His O-Meter

3

A man will like any position that a woman likes – and let’s face it, guys get pleasure from almost every sex position because of the way a man derives pleasure from sex. It’s not as difficult to please a man as it is a woman. This isn’t one of the sex positions that is totally going to “WOW” him though.

XXX Tip

For even hotter intimacy, she can lean forward and cuddle against his chest. Or, if she wants to entice her man, she can lean back and allow him to play with her nipples or massage her clitoris.

Cradle Sex Position

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Sex Positions: CradleThe Cradle sex position is definitely considered an “exotic” sex position, and it can be a little difficult to master, but is highly rewarding if you do. The female partner needs to be fairly flexible, but if she can bend this way, it gives her partner a great show and the perfect angle for nipple or clitoral play.

How To Do It

The male partner kneels and rests his rear on his feet. The female partner straddles his pelvis and then bends backward, with the help of her lover’s hands supporting her lower back. When the position has been achieved, it will look almost exactly like the Bridge with the female partner’s hands resting on the floor and her back arched – with the exception of her rear resting on her partner’s legs. This sex position is a little easier for the female partner, and still lends an “exotic feel.”

Where To Do It

On the floor is ideal for this position, but a firm bed will work as well.

Props You’ll Need

A soft blanket or thick towel to go under his knees for comfort.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

2

While this sex position is a little more comfortable than the Bridge, it only allows for slightly more clitoral friction. This makes it a little easier for her to reach orgasm, but not much. With lots of foreplay beforehand, however, her partner can make sure she’s turned on enough to have a better chance of reaching the big O.

His O-Meter

3

While supporting her weight on his thighs might be a little awkward for him, the main issue here is for men with a smaller penis. Since his thighs are pressed together, only a bigger penis will have enough length to come out from in between the thighs and penetrate his partner fully. If this position can be achieved well, however, he will enjoy the view. It might be a little difficult for him to thrust though.

XXX Tip

Guys, spread your legs a little wider to allow your penis more room to penetrate. You might have to support your girl’s hips a little more if your legs are spread, but it will be well worth it! The position will feel better to both you and your lover.

Butterfly Sex Position

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Sex Positions: ButterflyAnother variation on the standard Missionary, the Butterfly sex position is easy to do yet very satisfying for both male and female partners. There isn’t quite as much eye contact here, but the female partner is still positioned in such a way as her lover can stimulate her nipples and clitoris with his hands.

How To Do It

The Butterfly is a much easier version of the Bridge. The male partner is in the exact same position actually – on his knees, in between his partner’s legs. However, instead of arching her back up off the floor, the female partner will support herself on a flat surface that is raised. This is the easiest to achieve on a bed. The female partner will lie on the bed with her pelvis at the edge of the bed with her feet flat on the floor. If the bed is very high, the male partner can stand, but a lower bed will work better if the male partner would rather be on his knees. He can hold on to her hips for leverage and more control over thrusting. This position is much better for the female partner than the Bridge because it allows her to relax and use something else to support her weight – giving her a better opportunity to actually enjoy it.

Where To Do It

Edge of the bed.

Props You’ll Need

Bed (the lower, the better – a futon would also work well in the flat position)

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

This position is actually fairly comfortable for her, allowing her to experience everything more fully. The g-spot penetration is fair here, while the penile clitoral stimulation isn’t superb. Make it better for her by using a vibrator on her clitoris!

His O-Meter

3

This sex position is comfortable for him as well, but it’s not as exotic as he’d like it to be. He does have control over his orgasm here, but it’s just not as exciting for him as the Bridge.

XXX Tip

A vibrator on her clitoris is the perfect way to give her more pleasure, and if she’s enjoying it more, so is he. She can hold the vibrator or he can – both are fun ways to put a twist on this sex position!