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Orgasmic Sex Positions Review

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Orgasmic Sex Positions can rev up your sex life dramatically! If you want ones you can actually DO, this guide is much more useful than the Kama Sutra!

Gabrielle Moore produces yet another highly informational ebook in her sleek, easy to digest format. As visually and mentally engaging as the others, this book is an easy read and an even easier resource to flip through and reference back to. Take your time when trying these out though – there are a lot, and they’ll lose their luster if you try to go through ten in one night. Pick one, work on mastering it and giving your girl an orgasm, and then move on to the next one. That’s the true key at becoming a master of different sex positions!

The Good

Orgasmic Sex Positions is an excellent resource on a variety of different sex positions that you can use to spice up your love life. The guide includes pictures and a description for each sex position, so it’s not at all difficult to figure out what you need to do, where your body parts need to be, where her body parts need to be, etc. and so on. Also, one of the most unique things about this guide is the “Climax Cue” excerpt at the bottom of each sex position. This explains how a woman reaches orgasm in that particular position and how you can tell. This is absolutely indispensable information that almost EVERY other sex positions guide has failed to achieve! Just this information alone is worth the price of the entire book, not to mention all the other cool tips inside.

The Bad

While Orgasmic Sex Positions is primarily about sex positions, it can be a little confusing at first when the book launches into several pages about female orgasms. Granted, most of the people who are looking at this guide are men who want to introduce their female partner to new sex positions and spice up their sex life, so most of the information is useful anyways. However, since this is a guide about sex positions for couples, it can leave the reader feeling a little lopsided as the information provided about a woman’s pleasure during sex heavily outweighs the information provided about a man’s.

The Bottom Line

Orgasmic Sex Positions is a really great guide on new and different sex positions you can try, and how they relate to the female orgasm. While men who can’t help their partners reach orgasm will benefit the most from this book, couples of all kinds will have tons of fun trying out these new positions – and the men will be incredibly thankful for the “Climax Cues” that let him know when his lady is loving it and about to reach peak and when she’s not. While the guide does at times beat you over the head with female pleasure instruction, there are plenty of people out there who could really use to read it! All in all, this is a great guide to get if you want to try some new positions out or find fun twists on your old favorites.

The Full Orgasmic Sex Positions Review

Sex positions can add a lot of variety to a boring sex life, or they can keep one fresh and exciting if you continually incorporate new sex positions into your routine. However, using your imagination can get you so far. Enter Orgasmic Sex Positions by popular sexpert Gabrielle Moore. Although many of her other sex improvement resources are far better than this one, you just don’t want to miss the laundry list of different ways to have sex – especially if you have trouble being sexually creative.

This guide is probably the best at educating men who have difficulty helping their partners reach orgasm how to do so with the use of a variety of different ways to have sex. Couples who have no trouble with orgasms and who just want to try some fun, new sex positions may find the approach a little “female pleasure instruction” heavy. However, that is not to say that couples of all kinds can benefit from this resource.

What You’ll Learn In Orgasmic Sex Positions:

  • All about the female orgasm
  • Details about a woman’s anatomy and how it plays into which sex positions you should choose
  • A chronology of a woman’s pleasure, from beginning to end
  • What the heck a “symphysis” is and how it can help you (and your partner) reach orgasm during sex
  • What to say and do during sex to make her feel sexy
  • How to properly do the Coital Alignment Technique
  • How to make missionary even more fun
  • How to tell if she’s faking orgasms (and what real orgasms look like)
  • How to give a woman multiple orgasms!

Orgasmic Sex Positions also includes a Q&A/Troubleshooting section, which can be helpful for guys who are having specific issues with trying new sex positions or helping their partner to reach orgasm.

You’ll also learn:

  • What to do if she’s not into it (so you can get her into it)
  • What to do if sex hurts
  • Why lube is absolutely IMPERATIVE during sex – a lot of people skip this and wonder why the sex is mediocre at best
  • What to do if your partner has gotten “desensitized” by her vibrator or sex toys
  • What sex toys to use during sex that enhance the sensations you create, not overpower them

Just remember that if you’re a guy who hasn’t been able to easily help his girl reach orgasms, that this book is right up your alley. But it’s not the only one you want to get if that’s where you’re coming from. Sure, different sex positions are great and all, but they’re not going to be wholly responsible for your lover’s pleasure and satisfaction no matter how many cool new ones you use. Many men make the mistake of thinking that what feels good for him feels good for her too – but such is not always the case. Just because it feels awesome when you stick it in her 20 different ways, doesn’t mean it feels as awesome on her end.

Consider investing in an oral sex guide for women, or a comprehensive lover’s guide in addition to this one if you have trouble helping your girl reach the big O. You’ll be glad you did.

Best Sex Positions Of 2011

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Sex positions can take dull sex and make it even better. They can even make or break your sexual escapade! For example, men who want an even better orgasm can flip their girl over doggy style (after giving her an O of her own, of course) and penetrate her from behind. On the other hand, if she’s about ready to climax and he switches things up, her orgasm is usually ruined and she has to start all over.

So it’s safe to say that learning about the greatest ones to use (and for what) is something you definitely want to do before you slide between the sheets again with your lover. Check out our favorite articles of the past year and have fun trying them out in 2012!

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Some fun ways of incorporating new positions into your sex life:

  • Aim to try a new one each week. If you want, keep a journal of notes about what you and your partner both liked and disliked about that particular position.
  • Create a “fantasy box.” This is a fun way to introduce pretty much anything into your sex life without intimidating you or your partner. Write down a few new positions on pieces of paper, fold them up, put them in the box and shake them around. Pull one out and give it a try! The anticipation of not knowing what is coming next is incredible. If you’re really creative, you can decorate your fantasy box too!

Q&A: Sex Positions And How She Can Last Longer When She’s On Top

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Sex positions can help you go faster in bed or last longer, depending on which ones you use. Different sex positions help accomplish different things, such as reaching the g-spot better or providing more clitoral stimulation.  Many women like to be on top to speed orgasm up, but there are a lot of women that can actually climax too quickly this way! Here’s how to last longer when riding your man.

Question: My boyfriend really likes it when I’m on top, but I’d like to know how I can last longer in this position. After 2 minutes I get tired! If I let myself go and enjoy, I get paralysed by the pleasure, if I try to focus I lose it. Please help me!

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Why Girl On Top Is So Great

This sex position is great for many women, because it allows them control over basically every aspect of sex with their partners. When a woman is on top, she can control the pace, as well as the angle and depth of penetration. Having her man underneath her and being in control of everything will often help a woman reach orgasm faster than during other sex positions like missionary or doggy style.

Unfortunately, it’s easy for a woman to get tired when she’s riding her man, because she’s basically the one doing all the work. Her legs or arms may cramp up, or she may get a cramp in her hip depending on what angle she’s at. If she’s trying to go faster after her orgasm so that her man can catch up, she may get tired quickly and be uninterested in continuing, especially if she’s already “gotten hers.”

Go Slower

If you tend to get tired easily when using woman-on-top sex positions, try going slower. Ladies, you don’t have to reach climax within minutes of getting on your guy, just because you can. Stretch it out and make it last – not only will going slower feel better and allow your pleasure to really build, it will also help your guy catch up to you more easily when you can’t hold it in anymore. You’ll last longer because you’re not getting tired as quickly, and also because you’re concentrating less on reaching orgasm and more on prolonging intercourse.

Also, try supporting yourself some with your arms, or use pillows so that your partner can take over some of the thrusting when you get tired. He can do this easily by lifting his legs up a little, bending his knees and putting his feet on the bed (or the floor, couch or wherever you’re at), allowing him to use his feet and legs as leverage to thrust. Not only will this give you a break from doing all the work, it will feel really amazing for him!

Change The Angle And Depth Of Penetration

If you find that you’re just simply reaching orgasm too quickly when you’re on top and your guy is lagging behind, you may need to change the angle or depth that your partner’s penis penetrates so you don’t get too excited too fast. Pull back a little bit and don’t bump up against his pelvis if you notice that gives you a lot of stimulation to your clitoris. Or, sit back or move forward a little to keep the head of his penis from rubbing so much against your g-spot.

Try The Reverse Cowgirl

One of the best sex positions for women to last longer when she’s on top is the reverse cowgirl. This involves a woman riding her man, but while facing his feet instead of his torso. Not only does this give your guy quite the show, it also helps you to keep from reaching climax too quickly. This is because you’re not grinding your pelvis so much against his and stimulating your clitoris, and his penis is also at an angle that doesn’t rub the g-spot as much.

Trying Different Sex Positions

While you may really enjoy girl on top sex positions, if they’re not working, they’re not working. You may need to switch to something else – at least for a while anyway – so you’re not climaxing so fast and leaving your partner in the dust so to speak. Finding different sex positions that allow you and your partner to orgasm closer together (or even have a simultaneous orgasm!) may soon become your new favorite.

Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable. If you’re stressing out over not being able to last very long in one sex position, just try another and go with the flow. Experiment to find what works! Chances are, it’s going to be more than one thing that does the trick, but it just may not be what you expect.

The Best Sex Positions You’ve Never Tried

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Sex positions can get old if you’re using the same ones night after night. Do you wish that you could break out something new from your “bag of tricks” that would feel amazingly good to your lover, whether it’s she’s your long term partner, or a girl you just met?

There’s probably nothing worse than the feeling that comes when you know that your partner is bored with you in bed. While you are thinking about how you can keep things interesting, fun and fresh, you also might be worried that if you try anything too drastically new, that you might scare her off for good.

Well I’ve got good news for you. Some of the most amazing sex positions that I (and most women) ever experience are not much more than slight modifications to some of regular positions that we all know and love. In this article, I’m going to show you how to perform a few of my absolute favorite positions, as well as some tips you can use increase the intensity further still.

Straddle Missionary

Missionary is the original man-on-top position, and the most common one for most people. It also happens to be one of my favorites or clitoral stimulation, and that great feeling of really being stretched out, when we make a slight adjustment.

The next time you are on top, ask her to put her legs together while you spread yours a bit. You should now be straddling her while remaining face-to-face. This will help you to slide against her clitoris with every thrust you take. Since her legs are together, she will also feel tighter for you and also make you feel much wider for her.

To create a feeling of complete surrender, pin her hands down to the bed. You can also sit upright, which will allow you to thrust much faster and harder. Remember to have enough lube on hand, because this position can go from amazingly pleasurable to uncomfortable pretty quickly.

Fork And Spoon

In the spooning position, both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, while you enter her from behind. You will be doing most of the work of work in this position for both penetration as well as other stimulation including kissing her neck, fondling her breasts, or massaging her clitoris, with either your fingers or a tiny vibrator.

After you’ve been enjoying the spooning position for a few minutes, you can try an amazing variation; where she will move her bottom leg under your top leg, and her top leg on top of yours. This will allow your bodies to become wrapped up in each other’s, which helps to build incredible levels of intimacy while giving her very deep penetration.

For even deeper penetration still, lift her top leg towards the ceiling while you lean your body away from hers. This will give you an angle that allows for much deeper penetration, as well as a great view to look at.

Froggie

The Froggie position is a variation of Cowgirl, where you are laying on your back, and she crouches on top of your penis while still on her feet. This will give her tons of freedom to ride you very vigorously while putting less strain on her knees. However, it does work several muscle groups in her legs and core, so she has to be fit in order to sustain this position.

If you really want to give it to her good, grab her waist or ass and pull her on to your penis. She can place her hands on your stomach, chest or the beds backboard to brace herself. This will also give her a chance to relax while you take over, thrusting upwards from below. And for even MORE stimulation, you can always slip a small vibrator in between her legs and right on to her clitoris.

The point of all of these positions is to help give you a little creative insight in to what it takes to be a truly amazing lover. The next time you have sex, go ahead and give some (or all) of these positions a try, and of course feel free to use your imagination to come up with some new variations of your own.

5 Wet And Wild Sex Positions

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The sex positions you can get into in the bedroom will only take you so far when it comes to trying new things. A lot of sex positions can end up being very awkward, especially if you and your partner aren’t extremely flexible or don’t have the right kind of furniture to help you out. However, you can spice things up by bringing in the element of water. Not only is having sex in the water extremely hot, it can help you get into sex positions that you never could before!

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Sitting On The Edge Of The Pool

This one is easy and probably a little cliche, however, there’s a reason it’s so popular. Sometimes it can be difficult to get into sitting sex positions in the bedroom (or even out of the bedroom). The pool adds the sexy, sultry element of water to your sexual escapades, but it’s really the ledge of the pool that gives you the advantage here. The female partner sits on the edge of the pool – usually on the shallow end – while her partner stands at an area in the pool that allows his groin to meet up with hers. After your hot sex-a-thon on the side, you can slide into the pool and cool off!

Up Against The Wall Of The Pool (Or On The Ladder)

Standing sex positions are even more difficult to do in the home than sitting ones, so if you really want to get into a standing position, the pool is really going to be an asset for you. Find an area of the pool where you can stand up, but the water should be high waist or chest level on the male partner. Use the wall of the pool for support – or the pool ladder to help you, but the key here is that the water will help make the female partner feel lighter and easier to lift up and onto the man’s penis. Underwater, the woman will feel fairly weightless, allowing both partners more movement and freedom in the standing sex positions.

Missionary Position In The Jacuzzi

Sure, the missionary position may be played out, but if you hop in the Jacuzzi first, the hot, bubbling water will turn it into a completely amazing experience. This is a great way to try the missionary position if you love doing it that way, but you’re tired of the same old, same old. Find one of the places in the Jacuzzi that is contoured and designed for a person to lie down in the tub but not be completely covered in water – these are usually on the sides of the Jacuzzi. Either partner can lie down – have the man lie down if you want to do girl on top. You’ll love the feel of the hot, steamy water around you and your partner as you get it on!

Doggy Style In The Shower

Often, the shower is the most convenient place to have sex in the water, because if you don’t have access to a private pool or Jacuzzi, you can forget those unless you want to get busted in the pool of a hotel! Shower sex can be lots of fun if you have a big enough shower or tub, but a lot of people don’t. Doggy style, however, is the best sex position to use in the shower if you don’t have a lot of room. Turn the shower on so you can feel the hot water running over your bodies, and get it on! You can vary the angle of penetration by having the woman put her hands up on the ledge of the tub instead of the bottom.

Scissor Position In The Tub

If you have a longer tub, you can use the scissor sex position as well. Have the woman lie on her side in the tub and raise on leg as high as she can. Then, the man will straddle the leg that is resting on the bottom of the tub and start penetration sideways. Her leg can comfortably rest on his shoulder if she’s flexible enough. You probably want to do this with the woman’s head facing away from the faucet, or she might bang her head into it and get quite the shiner! Run the water for a few minutes if you want a couple of inches of water in the bottom of the tub to splash around in, or turn the shower on to feel like you’re doing it in the rain!