The Cradle sex position is definitely considered an “exotic” sex position, and it can be a little difficult to master, but is highly rewarding if you do. The female partner needs to be fairly flexible, but if she can bend this way, it gives her partner a great show and the perfect angle for nipple or clitoral play.

How To Do It

The male partner kneels and rests his rear on his feet. The female partner straddles his pelvis and then bends backward, with the help of her lover’s hands supporting her lower back. When the position has been achieved, it will look almost exactly like the Bridge with the female partner’s hands resting on the floor and her back arched – with the exception of her rear resting on her partner’s legs. This sex position is a little easier for the female partner, and still lends an “exotic feel.”

Where To Do It

On the floor is ideal for this position, but a firm bed will work as well.

Props You’ll Need

A soft blanket or thick towel to go under his knees for comfort.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

2

While this sex position is a little more comfortable than the Bridge, it only allows for slightly more clitoral friction. This makes it a little easier for her to reach orgasm, but not much. With lots of foreplay beforehand, however, her partner can make sure she’s turned on enough to have a better chance of reaching the big O.

His O-Meter

3

While supporting her weight on his thighs might be a little awkward for him, the main issue here is for men with a smaller penis. Since his thighs are pressed together, only a bigger penis will have enough length to come out from in between the thighs and penetrate his partner fully. If this position can be achieved well, however, he will enjoy the view. It might be a little difficult for him to thrust though.

XXX Tip

Guys, spread your legs a little wider to allow your penis more room to penetrate. You might have to support your girl’s hips a little more if your legs are spread, but it will be well worth it! The position will feel better to both you and your lover.

Guys will love the show a woman gives him when she bends over backward in the Bridge sex position. It’s a fairly difficult position to master, and can be hard on a woman. However, longevity is not necessary for this position – it’s a great one to try for a little while before you switch to something else.

How To Do It

The female partner will place her hands and feet on the floor while lying on her back and push herself up into a “bridge” position with her back arched and stomach curved towards the ceiling. The male partner kneels, aligning himself with his partner and gently guiding her hips as he thrusts. In this sex position, the female partner can lose her balance quite easily, and only very flexible women will be able to comfortably have sex in this position. However, her arched back and exposed body give him a very nice view!

If this one’s too challenging, try The Bridge sex position.

Where To Do It

Floor

Props You’ll Need

A pillow or folded towel for under his knees – rug burn hurts! Placing an ottoman underneath her back for support can help her stay in this position longer.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

1

This can be an extremely uncomfortable sex position for a woman to get into, even if she is flexible. She may only be able to keep it up for a few minutes at a time, which is completely normal. Ladies, if you find this sex position just doesn’t do it for you, don’t be surprised. It’s difficult! Even if you do achieve this position and can keep it up for some time, the angle of penetration doesn’t provide for good clitoral or g-spot stimulation. This one’s more of a novelty for your guy.

His O-Meter

4

He will love how exotic this sex position is. It’s almost as if his partner is splayed out just for his viewing enjoyment, and in a way, she is! Since she gets very little out of this sex position, it’s pretty much all for him.

XXX Tip

Guys, play with her nipples or rub her clitoris during the action to make it a little more enjoyable for her – and you!

Get the deepest possible penetration and awesome g-spot stimulation with the Shoulder Holder sex position! You really can’t get any deeper than this, and the stimulation feels great for both partners. Some women might not be able to keep their legs straight, so bend your knees a little if you have to.

How To Do It

The Shoulder Holder is another twist on the Missionary, but is a little more challenging. The female partner rests on her back with her legs straight up in the air, and the male partner sits up on his knees to penetrate her. Her legs will rest gently on his shoulders. This move can be a little more difficult for women who aren’t as flexible in the legs. Ladies, feel free to bend your knees gently if your legs begin to feel too stretched.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor, reclining chair

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for her lower back increases comfort and g-spot/a-spot stimulation.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

4

The Shoulder Holder is one of the sex positions that allows for the deepest penetration. This allows her to fully feel him inside of her, and he can reach her a-spot easily in this position. With plenty of foreplay and clitoral stimulation, she can achieve a really intense orgasm in this position.

His O-Meter

4

He will love the view in this sex position! It’s another sex position in which he is the dominant partner, and this can be exceptionally erotic for him. He can grab her legs or hips and use them as leverage to thrust even deeper. He will really enjoy being able to feel every inch of himself inside her.

XXX Tip

To give him a super sexy view, she can spread her legs in a “V.” This allows him to see and enjoy all the hot, sweaty action!

The Deck Chair sex position is a deep penetration twist on Missionary that both partners will really enjoy! It’s simple to do, but deeply satisfying for both partners. Get the deep sensations of Doggy Style or Rear Entry with the eye contact and intimacy of the Missionary sex position.

How To Do It

The Deck Chair sex position is very similar to the Missionary, with the exception of where the female partner places her legs. In this position, she raises them up with her knees at a 90 degree angle. Her legs are simply lifted up, not hooked around his backside or resting on his shoulders. This position is really great for g-spot or even a-spot stimulation because it facilitates much deeper penetration than the Missionary position does.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor – this one is pretty flexible on the where.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for her lower back can make this position more comfortable, especially if you do it on the floor. It will also help tilt the pelvis for even deeper g-spot and a-spot penetration.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

4

She loves this sex position because it gives her a much better angle for g-spot stimulation. It’s much more likely that her partner will rub her just the right way in the Deck position than in the traditional Missionary position. She can spread her legs a little or a lot depending on her mood.

His O-Meter

4

If she gets off, he gets off. Enough said.

XXX Tip

He can lift his knees a little for more leverage and control over penetration.