If you imagine the Cowgirl sex position but with the man on top, you have the Cowboy sex position. It’s a fun twist on missionary, or “him on top” sex!

How To Do It

The female partner lies on her back with her legs pressed together, as if she were in the traditional Missionary sex position. Her partner will then straddle her with each leg on either side of her to penetrate. He’s sitting straight up, “cowboy” style. He’s not used to thrusting like this, so it may take some time for him to get the hang of it.

Where To Do It

A flat surface such as the bed, couch or floor will be best for the Cowboy sex position. This can be a fun one to do outdoors while camping or doing something else “rugged” or “outdoorsy.”

Props You’ll Need

Depending on where you do it, she may want a pillow or two under her head, or you may want to spread a blanket out first.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

2

Because he is sitting straight up, it pretty much nixes any hope of constant clitoral contact for her. She does enjoy watching him go at it though, and the g-spot stimulation isn’t too shabby either.

His O-Meter

3

He likes being in control in the Cowboy sex position, but he may view this as a traditional “girl on top” sex position so he may or may not want to try it. Because her legs aren’t spread too far apart , the penetration is nice and tight even though it’s not as deep as it is in other sex positions.

XXX Tip

She may be able to reach down and stimulate her clitoris in the Cowboy sex position, allowing her to receive more pleasure here. However, a hands free clitoral vibrator that can be worn is a fun addition that will heat this sex position up for sure!

The Coital Alignment Technique sex position can be used to increase a woman’s chances of orgasm in the Missionary sex position. It’s a slight variation on Missionary that allows for her clitoris to receive more stimulation than in actual Missionary, making it a great sex position to use when she wants to feel dominated by him but doesn’t want to compromise her orgasm.

How To Do It

Assume the traditional Missionary sex position. The male partner will shift “up” slightly, while the female partner will shift her hips “down” slightly, allowing her clitoris and pubic bone to come into contact with the shaft of his penis and his pubic bone. Once you’re “lined up,” there’s not much in and out action that’s going to happen – in fact, you want to try not to break the contact between the clitoris and pubic bone as much as you can.

So how exactly does this work? Since he’s not thrusting in and out per se, he’s going to be using more of an up and down grinding motion. This will create some thrusting, but not your typical “all the way in, all the way out” sort of motion. She’s going to do her best to grind against him in the same way, keeping her clitoris pressed up against him to receive the stimulation the grinding motion causes. This move actually takes some practice to really get the hang of it, but it’s totally worth it when she gets to have an amazing orgasm with him on top.

Where To Do It

The bed is best for the Coital Alignment Technique You’ll be focusing so much on lining yourselves up properly and grinding against each other that you don’t want to add any logistical problems that a different location may cause.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow under her lower back can help angle her pelvis in such a way that it’s easier for her to grind against the shaft of his penis and pubic bone.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

5

Once you get this right, she’s going to love the Coital Alignment Technique. Sometimes a girl just wants to lay back and let her guy take the reins, but this often means giving up the possibility that she’ll have an orgasm. However, with the Coital Alignment Technique, she can feel dominated by her guy and get off at the same time.

His O-Meter

3

The Coital Alignment Technique isn’t quite as good for him as it is for her, because he’s having to move differently than he normally does. It’s not a smooth in and out motion (which is what a guy really responds best to), but he’s having sex so hey, it’s all good, right?

XXX Tip

Get synchronized so you’re both thrusting and grinding in a smooth motion together. Gaze deeply into each other’s eyes and use this opportunity to connect emotionally as well as physically. When you get good at the Coital Alignment Technique, you can easily use it to achieve simultaneous orgasm!

A variation on Missionary, the Delight sex position is simple but both intimate and erotic. It’s a perfect sex position to use if you want lots of eye contact, but it’s also great if you want to get kinky and watch the action down below. You definitely want to try this one, or use it again and again!

How To Do It

This is an exceptionally easy sex position to master and is highly arousing and satisfying for both partners. The female partner simply sits on a bed or chair with her legs spread and her feet flat on the floor. The male partner gets on his knees and aligns his pelvis in between her legs for thrusting. It’s simple, but both partners get an exceptional amount of pleasure from the Delight!

Where To Do It

The sofa, edge of a low bed, or chair are perfect for this position.

Props You’ll Need

A soft blanket or pillow for his knees will make this position more comfortable for him.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

3

While this sex position allows for a fair amount of clitoral and g-spot stimulation, that’s not what a woman is going to like best about the Delight. Since she is face to face with her partner, she is going to get a lot of emotional satisfaction here. It’s a very intimate position, which is definitely going to be right up her alley.

His O-Meter

3

A man will like any position that a woman likes – and let’s face it, guys get pleasure from almost every sex position because of the way a man derives pleasure from sex. It’s not as difficult to please a man as it is a woman. This isn’t one of the sex positions that is totally going to “WOW” him though.

XXX Tip

For even hotter intimacy, she can lean forward and cuddle against his chest. Or, if she wants to entice her man, she can lean back and allow him to play with her nipples or massage her clitoris.

Another variation on the standard Missionary, the Butterfly sex position is easy to do yet very satisfying for both male and female partners. There isn’t quite as much eye contact here, but the female partner is still positioned in such a way as her lover can stimulate her nipples and clitoris with his hands.

How To Do It

The Butterfly is a much easier version of the Bridge. The male partner is in the exact same position actually – on his knees, in between his partner’s legs. However, instead of arching her back up off the floor, the female partner will support herself on a flat surface that is raised. This is the easiest to achieve on a bed. The female partner will lie on the bed with her pelvis at the edge of the bed with her feet flat on the floor. If the bed is very high, the male partner can stand, but a lower bed will work better if the male partner would rather be on his knees. He can hold on to her hips for leverage and more control over thrusting. This position is much better for the female partner than the Bridge because it allows her to relax and use something else to support her weight – giving her a better opportunity to actually enjoy it.

Where To Do It

Edge of the bed.

Props You’ll Need

Bed (the lower, the better – a futon would also work well in the flat position)

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

This position is actually fairly comfortable for her, allowing her to experience everything more fully. The g-spot penetration is fair here, while the penile clitoral stimulation isn’t superb. Make it better for her by using a vibrator on her clitoris!

His O-Meter

3

This sex position is comfortable for him as well, but it’s not as exotic as he’d like it to be. He does have control over his orgasm here, but it’s just not as exciting for him as the Bridge.

XXX Tip

A vibrator on her clitoris is the perfect way to give her more pleasure, and if she’s enjoying it more, so is he. She can hold the vibrator or he can – both are fun ways to put a twist on this sex position!

Feel every inch of your partner during sex with the intimate but still naughty Drill sex position! It’s a sexy twist on standard Missionary, and allows for super deep penetration. This will result in intense g-spot stimulation for her and a mind-blowing orgasm for him! Definitely a must try.

How To Do It

The Drill is almost identical to the Deck Chair, where the female partner is lying on her back with her partner positioned in between her legs. The main difference here is that instead of raising her legs up where her knees bend at a 90 degree angle, the female partner wraps her legs around her partner’s hips, resting her ankles against his back. This position provides more physical intimacy than the Deck Chair or even Missionary, because the position of her legs allows for only minimal separation of skin contact. Enjoy feeling every inch of your partner with this sex position!

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor

Props You’ll Need

Any sex position where the female partner is on her back can be made more comfortable with a pillow under her lower back.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

4

With her legs wrapped around his lower back, she can keep herself pressed up against him and use her legs muscles to grind her pelvis against her partner’s. This provides for awesome clitoral stimulation! Combined with deep penetration, a blended orgasm is definitely possible in this sex position.

His O-Meter

4

Because he is on his knees instead of holding up the majority of his own weight with his arms (as he does in the traditional Missionary position), he can focus more on the pleasure than the actual mechanics of it. This is often a more natural sex position for men than the Missionary.

XXX Tip

Synchronize your movements so that you’re always moving together. Leave the lights on and make deep, sensual eye contact. Go slow and enjoy every sensation and every moment – your orgasm will be incredible!