The Ear Warmer sex position is a simple variation of the Spread Eagle, where she has more control and may be more comfortable than with her legs spread.

How To Do It

The female partner lies back and spreads her legs long enough for her partner to lie on his stomach and place his head in between to give her oral sex. Instead of keeping her legs spread like with the Spread Eagle sex position, she closes her legs somewhat, resting her inner thighs on either side of her lover’s head. This gives her more control during cunnilingus, and many women may be more comfortable with their hips at this angle.

Where To Do It

The bed is a super comfortable and familiar area to do the Ear Warmer sex position on, but it can also be done on the edge of the bed (with her partner resting his knees on the floor) or on a couch.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for her head, and possibly under her lower back to place her hips at an angle that makes oral sex easier for him to give.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

5

With increased control and comfort, she can really lie back and relax in the Ear Warmer sex position. She loves receiving oral sex, and in this position he’s totally and completely focusing on her pleasure.

His O-Meter

1

The Ear Warmer sex position may not be his favorite if he wants to have more freedom for head movement. He may feel a little confined with her legs pressed up against his head.

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He can easily use one of his hands to stimulate her g-spot while he’s licking her clitoris, which will bring her to orgasm even faster.

The Bottoms Up sex position is an oral sex position for her that puts her in an extremely vulnerable yet naughty and erotic pose! Only for the adventurous!

How To Do It

The female partner lies on a surface on her back, grasps her hips and raises her buttocks in the air, letting her legs fall back towards her head. The male partner rests his weight on his knees and helps hold her hips for stability as he goes down on her from above. What makes the Bottoms Up sex position so incredibly naughty is that it completely exposes both her vulva and anal area for him to stimulate with his mouth as he pleases. This is an oral sex position that should definitely only be performed by couples who are extremely comfortable with each other, and women who are exceptionally self-confident!

If she is not able to get into this position, have her pull her knees to her chest and spread her legs as far as comfortable.

Where To Do It

The bed is the best place for the Bottoms Up sex position simply because the female partner is in such an awkward position that she’ll take any bit of comfort she can get. This can also be done on the couch, but the floor is going to be a little too firm for her to truly be comfortable there for any length of time.

Props You’ll Need

She may want a pillow for her neck and upper shoulders. A Liberator Wedge is a great way for her to easily stay in position without getting too tired from holder herself up.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

4

If she’s super adventurous and kinky, she will absolutely love the Bottoms Up sex position. She’ll love feeling spread out and vulnerable to her partner! If she’s not very flexible, however, this position may be fairly uncomfortable for her. It’s definitely one she’ll want to try though if she’s comfortable with her partner.

His O-Meter

2

He will enjoy the Bottoms Up sex position if he really digs giving oral sex, or even if he likes giving analingus. This sex position doesn’t force him to crane his neck in any way, making it one of the more comfortable oral sex positions for him.

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If he doesn’t want to perform analingus but still wants to introduce anal play to make the Bottoms Up sex position even kinkier, he can use his fingers or small anal toy to stimulate that area while he licks and sucks on her clitoris.

The Spread Eagle sex position is a classic oral sex position for her and is a tried and true standard for many couples. Although it lacks the “exotic” factor, it’s a favorite among women because they can simply lie back, relax and enjoy the pleasure!

How To Do It

This is the “Missionary” of oral sex positions for her – it’s the most common oral sex position for women, and it’s actually a favorite, simply because the female partner has the ability to relax and focus on the pleasurable sensations she’s receiving. For many women, relaxation and focusing is key to achieving orgasm! The female partner lies on her back with her legs spread, and her male partner situates himself in between her legs so that he can give her oral sex. It’s simple but very, very effective!

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor, any flat surface

Props You’ll Need

Pillow for her head and lower back (a pillow under her lower back will tilt her pelvis up and give her partner more access to her vulva)

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

5

Women love the Spread Eagle oral sex position because they’re able to lie back, relax and enjoy everything. They only have to focus on what feels good, which can be exactly what a woman needs to reach orgasm.

His O-Meter

1.5

This is probably the least favorite oral sex position among men, simply because it can make for some serious neck cramps! It’s not easy getting the angle right when licking, and the neck can bend in an odd way. Some men may not be able to keep this position up long enough to actually bring their lovers to orgasm. He also can’t reach down and stimulate himself very well.

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Guys, slip a lubed finger inside her vagina and gently massage her g-spot while you lick her clitoris (after she’s warmed up and turned on of course!) This will increase her chances of orgasm and if you do it well enough, you may even get her to squirt!

The Face Straddle sex position is an excellent oral sex position to use when the female partner wants to feel in control of oral sex, and the male partner wants to feel a little submissive. It also gives him a great view of her body as she writhes in pleasure!

How To Do It

Face Straddle is an oral sex position for her and it can be a lot of fun if both partners are very comfortable with each other. Some women may not like the idea straddling their partner’s face, while some men won’t like the fact that they have limited head and neck movement – especially if she starts getting into it and grinding her pelvis into his face.

However, for some couples, this move is really hot! The male partner assumes a lying position and the female partner lowers her genitals over his face, straddling his head with each leg on one side of his head. There are a couple different ways to do this, but both require her to rest her weight on her knees. She can lean back and rest the remainder of her weight on her hands, or she can lean forward and get on all fours. Either way, this provides her lover with complete access to her genitals.

Where To Do It

Couch, bed, floor, backseat of the car, anywhere with enough space to lie down

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for his neck is a definite must!

Her O-Meter

4

This is an excellent oral sex position for her because she feels more in control here. She can move her pelvis to guide her clitoris to where she wants it to be, and she can rock and move in a way that gets her closer to orgasm – she’s not relying only on him to get her there.

His O-Meter

3

Many men enjoy this position, because they feel a little submissive here. Also, if a man isn’t that good at oral sex, he may feel better that she can maneuver herself so that she gets more pleasure, rather than relying only on him and his tongue movements to get her off.

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Guys, reach down and masturbate while you’re giving her oral sex. She won’t necessarily be able to look behind her to see what you’re doing, but the idea that you love eating her out so much that you can’t help but touch yourself is extremely erotic for her – especially considering that many women think guys feel like giving them oral sex is a chore.

One of the more “kinky” oral sex positions for her, the Reverse Face Straddle sex position is not for the shy or timid woman. Because it involves her partner’s face and nose so close to her backdoor, she needs to be super comfortable with her partner. But it’s an excellent position for couples who enjoy anal sex play!

How To Do It

This is an oral sex position for her that requires quite a bit of confidence on her part and both partners definitely need to be comfortable with each other. A sexy shower beforehand is also a must! As with the forward facing version of this oral sex position, the male partner lies on a bed, couch or the floor (any flat surface will do) and the female partner straddles his face, with one leg on either side of his head, resting her weight on her knees.

The difference with this position is that she’s not facing his head, she’s facing his feet, as in the “Reverse Cowgirl” sex position. He is able to perform oral sex on her from behind, and this is actually an excellent oral sex position for couples who enjoy analingus. Because her rear is right in his face, she’s going to feel much better if she’s doing it with a man she feels comfortable with, as well as if she’s clean and trimmed or shaved. He’s going to feel better about it too!

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, backseat of the car, floor, any flat surface

Props You’ll Need

Pillow or rolled up towel to support the male partner’s neck

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

3

This is an oral sex position that really kinky women enjoy! Because she’s so exposed to him, she’s definitely got to have some confidence – and they both need to be comfortable with each other. If she’s shy or doesn’t feel clean down there, this position could really backfire. But for women who want oral sex that is a little naughty, this position is a great one to use!

His O-Meter

3

Men who like to be dominated (and men who like things a little kinky, or have a butt fetish) will really enjoy this oral sex position. Guys, you can up the pleasure factor for yourself by reaching down and masturbating while you’re giving her oral sex. Since she’s facing your feet, she’ll be able to see you touch yourself and it will turn her on like you wouldn’t believe!

XXX Tip

If you’re into analingus, this is definitely the time to try it. Use a dental dam for ultimate safety. Definitely discuss this beforehand though – guys, you don’t want to surprise her with a tongue up her bum if she hasn’t agreed to it first!