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Laptop Sex Position

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Sex Position: LaptopThe Laptop sex position is an interesting variation on the Assisted Lotus, and although it looks difficult, it’s really not. It’s definitely a must try!

How To Do It

The male partner sits in a chair normally, with his lover sitting on his lap, facing him. Instead of wrapping each of her legs on either side of the chair, she will put each foot on either of her partner’s shoulders, resting the back of her knees on his shoulders and her calves and feet on the back of the chair. She can grasp his neck to help maintain her balance, but he should be holding her lower back to help keep her steady.

Where To Do It

This is an awesome sex position for a quickie at the office or anywhere else you see a chair and an opportunity!

Props You’ll Need

A chair. Almost any chair will work, but for the Laptop sex position, you may want to use a more comfortable chair like a recliner or a nice office chair.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

She enjoys the deep penetration that the Laptop sex position affords, because it’s perfect for g-spot stimulation.  Some women may need more clitoral stimulation to orgasm than this position can give, but it’s still a great one to try.

His O-Meter

He loves the feeling of his partner’s legs around his neck, and enjoys the deep penetration sensations. The Laptop sex position is perfect for “breast guys,” since he is eye level with her chest!

XXX Tip

The male partner can really focus on her breasts here, caressing them with his mouth, lips and tongue. This will help her to reach orgasm even faster too!

Kneeling Embrace Sex Position

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Sex Position: Kneeling EmbraceThe Kneeling Embrace sex position is a sweet and sensual combination of sitting, rear entry and woman on top that is orgasmic for both partners.

How To Do It

In the Kneeling Embrace sex position, the male partner sits on a flat surface on his knees, with his knees together or spread only slightly apart. The female partner sits in a similar manner on top of her partner’s lap, facing away from him. Her knees are spread slightly to give her lover better access to her vagina.

Where To Do It

While you can do the Kneeling Embrace sex position on the floor, it’s going to be hard on your knees if you choose to do so. You’ll want the comfort and space of a bed or futon folded down. This could, however, be a fun sex position to try outdoors on a soft bed of grass!

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

2-3

If her lover has a smaller penis, the penetration isn’t going to be as deep in this sex position as others. However, she may enjoy the unique intimacy here, and the fact that he can reach around and fondle her breasts or clitoris.

His O-Meter

3

Because his legs are pressed together, his entire penile shaft isn’t going to get stimulated here, so the Kneeling Embrace sex position may not be his favorite. However, he’ll enjoy caressing and kissing his partner’s back as she grinds and thrusts against him.

XXX Tip

Either partner can reach forward and stimulate her clitoris for more orgasm potential for her, and if you’re fairly adventurous you might also want to try anal sex in the Kneeling Embrace sex position. This may work better for women who are new to anal sex since penetration isn’t quite as deep as with other anal sex positions.

Life Raft Sex Position

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Sex Position: Life RaftThe Life Raft sex position is a fairly easy but exciting twist on Doggy Style, and is especially fun for the male partner. This is definitely a must try, whether it becomes one of your favorites or not.

How To Do It

The female partner lays on the edge of table, desk, or bed on her belly with her knees bent and spread a little further than shoulder width apart. The male partner comes up behind her, lifting her knees and hitching them up around his hips where he can penetrate her. This may be easier to do if he penetrates first, and then wraps her legs around him. She’ll will continue to keep her legs wrapped around him while he thrusts.

Where To Do It

The Life Raft sex position requires a bed or other surface like a desk or table that is approximately hip height.

Props You’ll Need

A blanket or thick towel is recommended if a desk or table is used. It will make this position more comfortable for her.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

2

The Life Raft sex position is a bit of a novelty position that she’s not going to get much from in and of itself. She can reach her hands down and stimulate her own clitoris for more pleasure during intercourse, but unless she really digs rear entry or anal sex, this is not going to be at the top of her list. It is, however, fairly comfortable for her since her lover is supporting her legs, so most girls don’t have a problem giving this one a try for their partners.

His O-Meter

3

This is a great sex position for “butt guys” but “breast guys” aren’t going to like it as well as other sex positions that showcase his lover’s rack. It may get a little tiresome for him to hold her legs up and thrust at the same time, but the Life Raft sex position is still a fun one to try, because you never know – he really may like the angle of penetration here and how she’s spread out and waiting just for him!

XXX Tip

Add a pillow or rolled up towel under her hips to enhance the angle of penetration.

Joystick Sex Position

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The Joystick sex position is a wild ride for both partners! It’s not difficult to do at all, but produces intense orgasms for him and her. Very hot!

How To Do It

The male partner sits on a flat surface like the bed or the floor and reclines, resting his weight on his elbows. His knees are bent and his legs are spread a little further than shoulder width apart. The female partner then straddles one of his thighs, facing away from him with her vulva pressed against his inner thigh and her buttocks facing her lover’s penis. She lowers herself down on to his penis and uses his leg to grind her clitoris against during intercourse.

Where To Do It

The Joystick sex position requires some space, so a couch, chair or the backseat of the car isn’t a good option for this. Try the bed, the floor or anywhere else you have a fair amount of space to spread out.

Props You’ll Need

Pillows to help prop him up and a blanket for the carpet if you choose to use the Joystick sex position on the floor.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

5

She loves the Joystick sex position because she’s literally using his thigh as her “joy stick” – she can rub and grind her clitoris up against his inner thigh while riding him, creating intense clitoral friction and incredible orgasms.

His O-Meter

5

He also loves the Joystick sex position not only because he gets to see everything go down, but also because he takes great pleasure in her ecstasy. She can control her own orgasms here, so it’s a good option for men who aren’t too skilled at pleasing their partners during sex. “Butt guys” will love this sex position, because it provides a unique way to caress, fondle and play with her buttocks.

XXX Tip

Put a few drops of lube on the inside of his thigh where she’s going to be rubbing her clitoris for an ultra slick, orgasmic feeling. She can also make the Joystick sex position better for him by turning around and making eye contact with him as she grinds against his thigh and fondles her own breasts.

 

Jockey Sex Position

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The Jockey sex position is an old favorite for both rear-entry vaginal intercourse and anal sex. It’s fun to do and comfortable for both partners. The position of her legs makes for a super tight entrance, either way, making it hotter for him and her.

How To Do It

This is a fairly easy position to get into and is exceptionally comfortable for the female partner. All she does is lie on her stomach with her legs together, and he does the rest. He will straddle her on his knees, with one knee on either side of her hips and one hand on either side of her shoulders. This is partly why it is called the Jockey sex position – it looks kind of like a jockey riding a racehorse!

Where To Do It

This is a great sex position for the bed because it allows the female partner to be even more comfortable. But it can be done on the couch, the floor or anywhere else she has enough space to lie down.

Props You’ll Need

She won’t mind a pillow to lay her head on, but it’s not necessary.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

1

While the Jockey sex position is ultra comfortable for her to get into and stay in, it really doesn’t do much for her in the way of orgasms. Since she is face down, her clitoris is getting pretty much zero action, and unless she really digs rear entry vaginal intercourse or anal sex, this sex position is going to be something she does for him.

His O-Meter

4

He enjoys being in control here, and if he’s a “butt guy,” he’s going to like this position even more. The tightness of her entrance created by her legs being pressed together is a huge plus for him too!

XXX Tip

For more enjoyment on the female partner’s end, she can slip her hand in between her legs and stimulate her own clitoris during sex. This also works well (or even better!) if she’s using a sex toy like a clitoral vibrator.