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Ear Warmer Sex Position

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Sex Position: Ear WarmerThe Ear Warmer sex position is a simple variation of the Spread Eagle, where she has more control and may be more comfortable than with her legs spread.

How To Do It

The female partner lies back and spreads her legs long enough for her partner to lie on his stomach and place his head in between to give her oral sex. Instead of keeping her legs spread like with the Spread Eagle sex position, she closes her legs somewhat, resting her inner thighs on either side of her lover’s head. This gives her more control during cunnilingus, and many women may be more comfortable with their hips at this angle.

Where To Do It

The bed is a super comfortable and familiar area to do the Ear Warmer sex position on, but it can also be done on the edge of the bed (with her partner resting his knees on the floor) or on a couch.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for her head, and possibly under her lower back to place her hips at an angle that makes oral sex easier for him to give.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

5

With increased control and comfort, she can really lie back and relax in the Ear Warmer sex position. She loves receiving oral sex, and in this position he’s totally and completely focusing on her pleasure.

His O-Meter

1

The Ear Warmer sex position may not be his favorite if he wants to have more freedom for head movement. He may feel a little confined with her legs pressed up against his head.

XXX Tip

He can easily use one of his hands to stimulate her g-spot while he’s licking her clitoris, which will bring her to orgasm even faster.

Downward Stroke Oral Sex Position

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Sex Position: Downward StrokeThe Downward Stroke is a fun and exciting oral sex position combining a handjob and a blowjob in a way that is comfortable for both him and her. This is a must try!

How To Do It

The male partner stands with his feet a little wider than shoulder-width apart, enough for her to get in between his legs to perform fellatio. The female partner sits on the ground in front of him, facing away from him, and then leans back enough so that her head and mouth are in a good position for oral penetration. She will use her hand to guide his penis into her mouth, and also to stroke the base of his shaft while she sucks on the head. He can also move up and down by bending his knees.

Where To Do It

The Downward Stroke oral sex position is an easy one to use on the go, simply because all it requires is for the guy to drop his drawers. So for a quickie blowjob in the bathroom or in the closet at a friend’s house during a party, this sex position is great. Of course, it’s also good for home use and still fun if you’re completely naked.

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

1

The Downward Stroke oral sex position is simple for her to get into, but it’s bound to give her quite the crick in the neck.

His O-Meter

4

He loves the combination of oral and manual stimulation in the Downward Stroke oral sex position! This is a great one for guys who have trouble reaching orgasm during oral sex alone, because the heavier stimulation can bring them to climax much easier and much more quickly.

XXX Tip

She can use her other hand to stimulate her clitoris or to use a sex toy, which will give him an awesome show to enjoy while she’s performing oral sex!

Deep Victory Sex Position

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Sex Position: Deep VictoryThe Deep Victory sex position is a bit difficult for women who aren’t flexible, but if you can do this one, the deep penetration and intimacy are worth it! It’s an excellent sex position for g-spot and a-spot stimulation, and the ability to look at each other face to face during sex makes this one a must try.

How To Do It

The female partner sits on a surface like a counter top or table that is roughly level with her partner’s groin. He will stand and pull her legs up over his shoulders before entering her, and her feet and ankles will be resting on either side of his neck. Again, this can be a very difficult position for some women to get into, because it’s more suited to athletic women who are quite flexible.

Where To Do It

Any surface that is level with the male partner’s groin.

Props You’ll Need

If he is on the short side or the surface you’re using is on the high side, he may need a footstool to get himself high up enough to facilitate comfortable penetration. She may also want a towel, soft blanket or pillow under her rear.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

2

If she’s not flexible, she’s not going to like the Deep Victory sex position very much at all. It’s going to be awkward and uncomfortable for her, and she may not be able to continue in the position for very long. However, if she’s an athletic girl with flexible legs, this sex position really isn’t going to be that difficult for her. If you can get into this position comfortably, don’t skip out on it, because the g-spot stimulation in the Deep Victory sex position is incredible!

His O-Meter

4

He loves this sex position because it’s easy to get into (for him) and it’s on the exotic side without being too over the top or impossible to do. He can’t really watch what is going on down there, but he loves the way she is spread out and waiting for him. He digs the deep penetration too and this is sure to be a position he can’t last long in!

XXX Tip

Save the Deep Victory sex position for laundry day and do it on top of the washer during the spin cycle. The vibrations will drive you both absolutely insane! Talk about hot!

Deep Throat Oral Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Deep ThroatThe Deep Throat oral sex position is definitely a favorite for guys, because it creates some of the deepest oral penetration he’s ever had during a blowjob!

How To Do It

The female partner lies on the bed in such a way that her head is draped over the edge of the bed, facing up towards the ceiling. Her partner then kneels and crouches in a way that allows him to penetrate her mouth, resting his weight and controlling his movements with his arms on the bed. The Deep Throat oral sex position allows her throat to be elongated so he can penetrate deeply, and it also helps her suppress her gag reflex.

Where To Do It

The bed is the best place for the Deep Throat oral sex position!

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

2

If she likes being submissive, the Deep Throat oral sex position is going to be one of her favorite ways to give her lover a blowjob. If she prefers to be more in control during oral sex, she’s not going to like that he is in complete control of how fast and deep he thrusts into her throat.

His O-Meter

5

He absolutely loves the Deep Throat oral sex position. It affords him the deepest oral penetration possible, and allows his penis to be stimulated orally from shaft to tip. He also loves being in control, but he’s got to watch how deep and fast he thrusts.

WARNING: A safe gesture is probably a good idea here, so she can easily and quickly let him know if he’s hurting her or making her uncomfortable in any way.

XXX Tip

She can reach down and stimulate her clitoris with either her hands or a sex toy. He’ll love the idea that she’s so turned on by the Deep Throat oral sex position that she can’t help herself, and he’ll also love being able to look at both himself penetrating her mouth and her stimulating herself to orgasm.

Ballerina Sex Position

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Sex Positions: BallerinaThe Ballerina sex position is a popular standing sex position that is an excellent choice for very flexible women! Women who aren’t as flexible may find this position difficult to get into and stay in though, so if you can’t hike your leg up that far, consider another position or practice stretching until you can comfortably get into the Ballerina.

How To Do It

In the Ballerina sex position, both partners are standing facing each other. The female partner raises one of her legs all the way up, resting her ankle on her lover’s shoulder. Yes, she has to be incredibly flexible to do this! He holds on to her leg with one hand and her hip with the other and is responsible for the majority of the thrusting movement.

Less flexible women can simply wrap one leg around her lovers waist – a.k.a. the Dancer sex position.

Where To Do It

Standing sex positions are awesome to do in tight spaces, like when you want a quickie in the closet at a party, or are at home and don’t want the kids to catch you.

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

2

She’s going to be more concerned about stretching comfortably and staying upright in the Ballerina sex position, so she’s not terribly into getting an orgasm out of it. If she does get into it though, the penetration is deep enough to elicit g-spot stimulation and possible orgasms!

His O-Meter

4

He totally digs her leg raised like this, and if she can do the Ballerina sex position, he’ll be convinced his sex life is awesome. Guys tend to like more exotic sex positions (you know,  the ones where the woman is folded up like a pretzel in a near impossible configuration), so this is high up on his “I just want to try this” list.

XXX Tip

Try the Ballerina sex position outside the house. Slip into a public bathroom stall and get it on there (just don’t touch anything!), or in a dressing room at the department store.