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Lotus Sex Position

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Sex Positions: LotusIf you want to experience the utmost intimacy with your partner during sex, the Lotus sex position is definitely the way to go. While relaxed and sitting with each other, you can slowly rock back and forth and gradually work your way up to an intense orgasm!

How To Do It

The Lotus is probably the most intimate sex position out there. If you want to fully connect with your partner emotionally and physically during sex, the Lotus is the way to do it. Both partners sit cross-legged facing each other, but the female partner will actually sit on her lover’s lap with her legs wrapped around his hips so their pelvises touch. Once in position, it is more difficult to “thrust.” Sex in the Lotus position involves more “rocking” than it does thrusting. This is what makes the Lotus one of the more unique sex positions that isn’t as difficult to achieve!

Where To Do It

Floor, bed, large rocking recliner, anywhere you have enough space

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

4

Women love the Lotus sex position! Not only does she get an extra dose of the physical and emotional intimacy she craves, the rocking and pelvic grinding does an excellent job of stimulating both her clitoris and her g-spot. This is definitely a position that she can orgasm in!

His O-Meter

If he’s the sensitive type, he’s going to like the emotional connection he gets out of the Lotus too. Men generally dig anything their partners are into, simply because they’re psyched to have a partner who is actually enjoying herself. The rocking motion, however, will put pressure on his penis in a different way, making it feel unique and extra pleasurable for him.

XXX Tip

He should give her oral sex before getting into this incredible intimate sex position. She will literally explode on top of him!

Delight Sex Position

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A variation on Missionary, the Delight sex position is simple but both intimate and erotic. It’s a perfect sex position to use if you want lots of eye contact, but it’s also great if you want to get kinky and watch the action down below. You definitely want to try this one, or use it again and again!

How To Do It

This is an exceptionally easy sex position to master and is highly arousing and satisfying for both partners. The female partner simply sits on a bed or chair with her legs spread and her feet flat on the floor. The male partner gets on his knees and aligns his pelvis in between her legs for thrusting. It’s simple, but both partners get an exceptional amount of pleasure from the Delight!

Where To Do It

The sofa, edge of a low bed, or chair are perfect for this position.

Props You’ll Need

A soft blanket or pillow for his knees will make this position more comfortable for him.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

3

While this sex position allows for a fair amount of clitoral and g-spot stimulation, that’s not what a woman is going to like best about the Delight. Since she is face to face with her partner, she is going to get a lot of emotional satisfaction here. It’s a very intimate position, which is definitely going to be right up her alley.

His O-Meter

3

A man will like any position that a woman likes – and let’s face it, guys get pleasure from almost every sex position because of the way a man derives pleasure from sex. It’s not as difficult to please a man as it is a woman. This isn’t one of the sex positions that is totally going to “WOW” him though.

XXX Tip

For even hotter intimacy, she can lean forward and cuddle against his chest. Or, if she wants to entice her man, she can lean back and allow him to play with her nipples or massage her clitoris.

Cradle Sex Position

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Sex Positions: CradleThe Cradle sex position is definitely considered an “exotic” sex position, and it can be a little difficult to master, but is highly rewarding if you do. The female partner needs to be fairly flexible, but if she can bend this way, it gives her partner a great show and the perfect angle for nipple or clitoral play.

How To Do It

The male partner kneels and rests his rear on his feet. The female partner straddles his pelvis and then bends backward, with the help of her lover’s hands supporting her lower back. When the position has been achieved, it will look almost exactly like the Bridge with the female partner’s hands resting on the floor and her back arched – with the exception of her rear resting on her partner’s legs. This sex position is a little easier for the female partner, and still lends an “exotic feel.”

Where To Do It

On the floor is ideal for this position, but a firm bed will work as well.

Props You’ll Need

A soft blanket or thick towel to go under his knees for comfort.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

2

While this sex position is a little more comfortable than the Bridge, it only allows for slightly more clitoral friction. This makes it a little easier for her to reach orgasm, but not much. With lots of foreplay beforehand, however, her partner can make sure she’s turned on enough to have a better chance of reaching the big O.

His O-Meter

3

While supporting her weight on his thighs might be a little awkward for him, the main issue here is for men with a smaller penis. Since his thighs are pressed together, only a bigger penis will have enough length to come out from in between the thighs and penetrate his partner fully. If this position can be achieved well, however, he will enjoy the view. It might be a little difficult for him to thrust though.

XXX Tip

Guys, spread your legs a little wider to allow your penis more room to penetrate. You might have to support your girl’s hips a little more if your legs are spread, but it will be well worth it! The position will feel better to both you and your lover.

Butterfly Sex Position

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Sex Positions: ButterflyAnother variation on the standard Missionary, the Butterfly sex position is easy to do yet very satisfying for both male and female partners. There isn’t quite as much eye contact here, but the female partner is still positioned in such a way as her lover can stimulate her nipples and clitoris with his hands.

How To Do It

The Butterfly is a much easier version of the Bridge. The male partner is in the exact same position actually – on his knees, in between his partner’s legs. However, instead of arching her back up off the floor, the female partner will support herself on a flat surface that is raised. This is the easiest to achieve on a bed. The female partner will lie on the bed with her pelvis at the edge of the bed with her feet flat on the floor. If the bed is very high, the male partner can stand, but a lower bed will work better if the male partner would rather be on his knees. He can hold on to her hips for leverage and more control over thrusting. This position is much better for the female partner than the Bridge because it allows her to relax and use something else to support her weight – giving her a better opportunity to actually enjoy it.

Where To Do It

Edge of the bed.

Props You’ll Need

Bed (the lower, the better – a futon would also work well in the flat position)

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

This position is actually fairly comfortable for her, allowing her to experience everything more fully. The g-spot penetration is fair here, while the penile clitoral stimulation isn’t superb. Make it better for her by using a vibrator on her clitoris!

His O-Meter

3

This sex position is comfortable for him as well, but it’s not as exotic as he’d like it to be. He does have control over his orgasm here, but it’s just not as exciting for him as the Bridge.

XXX Tip

A vibrator on her clitoris is the perfect way to give her more pleasure, and if she’s enjoying it more, so is he. She can hold the vibrator or he can – both are fun ways to put a twist on this sex position!

Boss’s Chair Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Boss's ChairIf he wants to be in control of oral sex, the Boss’s Chair sex position is to go with! It’s a very sexy form of submission on the female partner’s part and is also an easy position for her to give head in. With reduced neck cramps, she’ll have lots of stamina here.

How To Do It

The Boss’ Chair oral sex position is another commonly used one, simply because it’s easy to do and can be done almost anywhere a man can sit! The male partner sits on the edge of the couch or bed, or in a chair, and the female partner kneels in front of him, leaning down to give him oral sex. It’s an excellent position for him to be able to watch all of the action!

Where To Do It

Chair, couch, edge of the bed, anywhere he can sit. This one is particularly hot when performed with her under his office desk!

Props You’ll Need

Pillow for her knees or buttocks (if she prefers to sit)

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

1

If the female partner is on her knees, this oral sex position can definitely create neck cramps for her. Her neck is bent at an odd angle if she’s leaning over him, and it may be difficult for her to keep up for any length of time. This can be easily remedied though if she simply sits cross-legged in front of him instead of on her knees. This way, her face and head are level with his genitals (depending on the height of the bed, couch or chair you’re using) and she won’t have to bend her neck as much.

His O-Meter

5

This is another oral sex position that guys love – but then again, there aren’t that many positions that guys won’t like if they’re getting a blowjob. What men love most about this position is that they’re comfortable, but they’re also sitting up so they have a good view of what she’s doing. Ladies, keep long hair tied back so he can actually see you suck him off – if your hair is all around your face, he might think it’s Cousin It giving him head instead.

XXX Tip

Ladies, let your man hold a camera (or he can use his camera phone) to video the blowjob. The Boss’ Chair oral sex position makes for excellent POV (point-of-view) style porn for him to fantasize about you later!