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Bridge Sex Position

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Guys will love the show a woman gives him when she bends over backward in the Bridge sex position. It’s a fairly difficult position to master, and can be hard on a woman. However, longevity is not necessary for this position – it’s a great one to try for a little while before you switch to something else.

How To Do It

The female partner will place her hands and feet on the floor while lying on her back and push herself up into a “bridge” position with her back arched and stomach curved towards the ceiling. The male partner kneels, aligning himself with his partner and gently guiding her hips as he thrusts. In this sex position, the female partner can lose her balance quite easily, and only very flexible women will be able to comfortably have sex in this position. However, her arched back and exposed body give him a very nice view!

If this one’s too challenging, try The Bridge sex position.

Where To Do It

Floor

Props You’ll Need

A pillow or folded towel for under his knees – rug burn hurts! Placing an ottoman underneath her back for support can help her stay in this position longer.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

1

This can be an extremely uncomfortable sex position for a woman to get into, even if she is flexible. She may only be able to keep it up for a few minutes at a time, which is completely normal. Ladies, if you find this sex position just doesn’t do it for you, don’t be surprised. It’s difficult! Even if you do achieve this position and can keep it up for some time, the angle of penetration doesn’t provide for good clitoral or g-spot stimulation. This one’s more of a novelty for your guy.

His O-Meter

4

He will love how exotic this sex position is. It’s almost as if his partner is splayed out just for his viewing enjoyment, and in a way, she is! Since she gets very little out of this sex position, it’s pretty much all for him.

XXX Tip

Guys, play with her nipples or rub her clitoris during the action to make it a little more enjoyable for her – and you!

 

Drill Sex Position

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Sex Positions: DrillFeel every inch of your partner during sex with the intimate but still naughty Drill sex position! It’s a sexy twist on standard Missionary, and allows for super deep penetration. This will result in intense g-spot stimulation for her and a mind-blowing orgasm for him! Definitely a must try.

How To Do It

The Drill is almost identical to the Deck Chair, where the female partner is lying on her back with her partner positioned in between her legs. The main difference here is that instead of raising her legs up where her knees bend at a 90 degree angle, the female partner wraps her legs around her partner’s hips, resting her ankles against his back. This position provides more physical intimacy than the Deck Chair or even Missionary, because the position of her legs allows for only minimal separation of skin contact. Enjoy feeling every inch of your partner with this sex position!

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor

Props You’ll Need

Any sex position where the female partner is on her back can be made more comfortable with a pillow under her lower back.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

4

With her legs wrapped around his lower back, she can keep herself pressed up against him and use her legs muscles to grind her pelvis against her partner’s. This provides for awesome clitoral stimulation! Combined with deep penetration, a blended orgasm is definitely possible in this sex position.

His O-Meter

4

Because he is on his knees instead of holding up the majority of his own weight with his arms (as he does in the traditional Missionary position), he can focus more on the pleasure than the actual mechanics of it. This is often a more natural sex position for men than the Missionary.

XXX Tip

Synchronize your movements so that you’re always moving together. Leave the lights on and make deep, sensual eye contact. Go slow and enjoy every sensation and every moment – your orgasm will be incredible!

Shoulder Holder Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Shoulder HolderGet the deepest possible penetration and awesome g-spot stimulation with the Shoulder Holder sex position! You really can’t get any deeper than this, and the stimulation feels great for both partners. Some women might not be able to keep their legs straight, so bend your knees a little if you have to.

How To Do It

The Shoulder Holder is another twist on the Missionary, but is a little more challenging. The female partner rests on her back with her legs straight up in the air, and the male partner sits up on his knees to penetrate her. Her legs will rest gently on his shoulders. This move can be a little more difficult for women who aren’t as flexible in the legs. Ladies, feel free to bend your knees gently if your legs begin to feel too stretched.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor, reclining chair

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for her lower back increases comfort and g-spot/a-spot stimulation.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

4

The Shoulder Holder is one of the sex positions that allows for the deepest penetration. This allows her to fully feel him inside of her, and he can reach her a-spot easily in this position. With plenty of foreplay and clitoral stimulation, she can achieve a really intense orgasm in this position.

His O-Meter

4

He will love the view in this sex position! It’s another sex position in which he is the dominant partner, and this can be exceptionally erotic for him. He can grab her legs or hips and use them as leverage to thrust even deeper. He will really enjoy being able to feel every inch of himself inside her.

XXX Tip

To give him a super sexy view, she can spread her legs in a “V.” This allows him to see and enjoy all the hot, sweaty action!

Deck Chair Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Deck ChairThe Deck Chair sex position is a deep penetration twist on Missionary that both partners will really enjoy! It’s simple to do, but deeply satisfying for both partners. Get the deep sensations of Doggy Style or Rear Entry with the eye contact and intimacy of the Missionary sex position.

How To Do It

The Deck Chair sex position is very similar to the Missionary, with the exception of where the female partner places her legs. In this position, she raises them up with her knees at a 90 degree angle. Her legs are simply lifted up, not hooked around his backside or resting on his shoulders. This position is really great for g-spot or even a-spot stimulation because it facilitates much deeper penetration than the Missionary position does.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor – this one is pretty flexible on the where.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for her lower back can make this position more comfortable, especially if you do it on the floor. It will also help tilt the pelvis for even deeper g-spot and a-spot penetration.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

4

She loves this sex position because it gives her a much better angle for g-spot stimulation. It’s much more likely that her partner will rub her just the right way in the Deck position than in the traditional Missionary position. She can spread her legs a little or a lot depending on her mood.

His O-Meter

4

If she gets off, he gets off. Enough said.

XXX Tip

He can lift his knees a little for more leverage and control over penetration.

Dancer Sex Position

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Experience incredibly hot, “I need you right now” sex with the Dancer sex position! It can be a bit difficult to master if you’re not used to standing sex positions, but if you can get aligned properly, it’s a super hot yet still intimate sex position to try. He feels totally in control here!

How To Do It

Both partners stand to face each other (like regular Missionary only upright) and the female lifts either leg, causing her knee to bend at a 90-degree angle. This makes it easier for the male partner to thrust while gripping her leg, thigh or buttocks for leverage. This sex position is super sexy because it’s often thought of as the “I need you now” sex position. It’s as though neither of you wants to take the time to find somewhere to have sex, take your clothes off and lie down – you want to do it right here, right now.

Where To Do It

The Dancer sex position works anywhere you can stand!Sex Positions: Dancer

Props You’ll Need

A wall or chair if you’re not particularly strong or don’t have good balance. Leaning up against the wall can make this position more stable.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

3

Standing sex is hot. It’s primal and conveys that he wants her now and can’t wait. This is very erotic for a woman – girls love to be wanted, craved and desired. If she’s so desired that he can’t bear to wait to have sex with her until he gets to the bedroom, she’s totally into it.

His O-Meter

4

He loves standing sex just as much. He loves feeling dominant and in control. This sex position makes him feel totally in control and very much like a man.

XXX Tip

This sex position is awesome for public sex because you can do it pretty much anywhere. It’s quick, it’s dirty and it’s totally hot. Guys, make it even hotter by throwing your girl up against a wall (firm but not too hard, you just want to knock the wind out of her a little) and grabbing her leg, hitching it up around your hips. Make it clear that you want her now, right now.