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X Marks The Spot Sex Position

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Sex Position: X Marks The SpotThe X Marks The Spot sex position is a fun variation on a standing sex position, involving the use of a table and a very willing woman!

How To Do It

In the X Marks The Spot sex position, the woman lies on a table or other elevated flat surface with her rear scooted all the way to the edge. She is reclining fully on her back and is totally relaxed. Her legs are lifted into the air and are crossed at the ankle. The male partner enters her by standing at the table and holding on to her legs or crossed ankles. It’s a fairly simple sex position to get into but is lots of fun for both partners! The X Marks The Spot sex position is one that can be used for traditional rear entry vaginal sex, or it can be used for anal sex as well.

Where To Do It

Kitchen, dining room, home office on the desk or anywhere else you have an elevated surface that would work for this sex position.

Props You’ll Need

Just the table or desk, although laying a towel down first and propping her head up on a pillow may make the hard surface more comfortable for her.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

She enjoys laying down and relaxing while her lover does the work here. The deeper penetration is good for g-spot stimulation and the only thing that would make this sex position better is if he could grind against her clitoris. Unfortunately, he can’t because her legs are crossed.

His O-Meter

3

He likes the X Marks The Spot sex position because it’s easy on him too. He simply gets to stand and thrust! Her crossed legs make for a tight vaginal entrance which feels divine, but he doesn’t get to see a whole lot here with her legs in the way.

XXX Tip

A hands-free clitoral vibrator (one that can be worn) is a great option for the X Marks The Spot sex position if she needs more clitoral stimulation. She can’t really slip her hand in between her legs and get a lot of movement going, but a hands-free vibrator may give her the extra stimulation she needs to go over the edge. He can also reach down and play with her nipples here, or she can do so herself while looking into his eyes.

Twister Sex Position

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Sex Position: TwisterIf you’re looking for a super exotic sex position, the Twister sex position is right up your alley. Challenging yet fun, it’s a must try!

How To Do It

The female partner lies on her right side, and her partner also lies on his right side, facing away from her. He will be positioned with his head to her feet and his feet to her head. Both partners will bend their left knees and lift them up, to create a space where your groins can come together to facilitate penetration. This ends up with both partners in between each other’s legs. Sound complicated! It can be, but if you check out the picture on how to do it, it may be a little easier for you to figure it out.

Where To Do It

The bed is the best place for the Twister sex position since it requires space and is so complicated to get into. You definitely don’t want to be worrying about logistics when you’re busy figuring out how to thrust!

Props You’ll Need

Both partners may appreciate some pillows, but they’re not necessary.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

4

The Twister sex position allows her to grind her clitoris against him during penetration, increasing her orgasm potential and overall satisfaction. This may not be her favorite sex position, but it’s easier for her to orgasm in this one than in many other “exotic” sex positions.

His O-Meter

4

The angle of penetration and the ability for him to thrust in the Twister sex position is a bit difficult for him, but he definitely likes the novelty of this one. He’ll want to try it for sure, but it may not end up being his favorite either.

XXX Tip

Focus on getting a rhythm down with the Twister sex position and getting more experienced at it instead of worrying about how to make it hotter. If you can accomplish this sex position and stay in it for any length of time, you’re doing good!

Yoga Master Sex Position

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Sex Position: Yoga MasterFor the athletic man, the Yoga Master sex position is an exotic rear entry position that is a perfect fit for the super adventurous couple.

How To Do It

The female partner lies on the bed on her stomach, with her hips at the edge of the bed and her torso hanging off. She rests her hands and head on the floor while he mounts her from behind on the bed. Her legs are closed and straight, and his are as well, lining up with her legs. He penetrates her from behind and uses his hands to arch his back up (almost like the Sun Salutation yoga move) and thrust. This is a fairly difficult position to do, but can be highly rewarding for the couple who enjoys very exotic sex positions.

Where To Do It

This is a sex position to use on the bed. You’ll be using the edge of it, but it’s just not one you can do anywhere else.

Props You’ll Need

She will definitely want a pillow if her head is on the floor!

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

1

She may not like the Yoga Master sex position as much as he does, simply because there is very little in it for her unless she really enjoys rear entry or anal penetration. Her clitoris is well hidden and neither partner can really reach it to stimulate it. Also, because of the position of both his legs and hers, he can’t penetrate her very deeply, especially if his penis is smaller. However, if she enjoys exotic positions, she will like how different this sex position is from others.

His O-Meter

3

Although the Yoga Master sex position is strenuous on him, he’ll like how unique and exotic it is if he’s adventurous. The flexible man with strong arms will likely not have much difficulty with this sex position, however, getting the thrusting action down pat can be a bit difficult.

XXX Tip

Practice this one by starting with basic Rear Entry using a Liberator Wedge. He can also achieve a similar effect by standing and bending her over the back of a sofa or chair.

Wheelbarrow Sex Position

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Sex Position: WheelbarrowThe Wheelbarrow sex position is definitely one of the favorites for guys who enjoy exotic sex positions. With him in total control, she’s at his mercy! It’s an excellent position for guys who really like a “butt view,” although this may not be her favorite sex position. However, it’s certainly a novelty that you’ll want to try!

How To Do It

The male partner stands normally, with his feet about shoulder width apart. The female partner will get on all fours a la Doggy Style and back up to him until she’s close enough that he can bend down and pick her up from the waist. He will pick her up and position her hips in line with his, entering her from “behind.” This requires a bit of strength on his part, but it shouldn’t be too difficult. She will spread her legs out, allowing him to get a good grip on her hips and thighs to allow for thrusting. Her hands are still positioned on the floor, supporting the majority of her weight.

Where To Do It

In a room with plenty of space on the floor, without furniture in the way. The Wheelbarrow sex position definitely requires one thing, and that’s space!

Props You’ll Need

She might want a towel, soft blanket or rug to put her hands on to prevent rug burn or irritation on her palms.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

2

There’s not much in it for her as far as the Wheelbarrow sex position goes. It’s an awkward position for her to get into, and for her to stay in. The blood will rush to her head, making her a little dizzy, and she may not be able to keep it up for long. However, some women who enjoy the exotic sex positions will certainly dig the novelty here.

His O-Meter

4

He is in complete control during the Wheelbarrow sex position, and he loves it! The view is great, he’s comfortable standing up and it’s just all around a super hot sex position for him.

XXX Tip

Ease into this one by having her down on her elbows on a bed or sofa. As she gets stronger, you can try a full Wheelbarrow.

Viennese Oyster Sex Position

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Sex Position: Viennese OysterThe Viennese Oyster sex position is deliciously naughty, although it is difficult to master for most women. However, if you can, the rewards are great!

How To Do It

The female partner lies on her back, raising her legs and wrapping them behind her head. Her ankles should be crossed, however, this is quite difficult for women who aren’t extremely flexible! He enters her quite easily because her entire groin is exposed, and he should be resting his weight on his hands instead of his partner. He can distribute some of his weight on his knees to make it even easier on both partners.

If the female partner has trouble getting her feet to rest all the way behind her head, this position can also be achieved fairly well by simply having her partner push her legs down enough so that each ankle is on either side of her head. (This would be a modified version of the Viennese Oyster sex position).

Where To Do It

Bed. She needs lots of space for this one.

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

1

The Viennese Oyster sex position is going to be more difficult for her than pleasurable, unless she’s literally a gymnast or a contortionist. Even if she can get into this position, it’s going to be fairly awkward for her and she’s not going to be able to keep it up for an extended period of time. For her, this sex position is more of a novelty than anything else.

His O-Meter

5

It’s unfortunate for him that she doesn’t really get off on the Viennese Oyster sex position, because he loves it. She is completely and totally spread out for his pleasure, and the feeling of his penis sliding in and out of her without her thighs or anything else getting in the way can’t be beat.

XXX Tip

This sex position is super hot already, and there’s not much else you can do when you’re occupied like this.