The Inverted Spooning sex position is a unique position for side by side fun that is a bit kinkier than traditional spooning. It’s exotic yet still intimate!

How To Do It

The male partner will lie down on his side on a flat surface, and his partner will lie on her side facing away from him, with her back to him. However, she will lie with her head to his feet and her feet to his head. He can place his hands on her thighs or hips to help him thrust.

This one will work a little better for most couples if they both bend at the waist just a bit. This makes for a better angle of penetration. Otherwise, his penis can be at an uncomfortable angle.

Where To Do It

The Inverted Spooning sex position requires a great deal of space lengthwise, since both partners are completely stretched out. The bed is perfect for this, although the floor will work as well. If you have a futon or pull out, you can use that for a bit of a different venue.

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

She likes the Reverse Spooning sex position because it’s easy for her lover to reach around and fondle her clitoris, or she can do it herself. She can also fondle her nipples during lovemaking and he can too if he is able to reach.

His O-Meter

3

“Butt guys” will love this sex position!  It’s a kinky twist on traditional spooning and is definitely one he will want to try. He likes the view, and the feel of her butt grinding up against him.

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She can raise one leg up to allow her lover to get a really nice view, although she’ll need to be pretty self-confident to do this because everything will be on display! However, this move will take the “hot” factor up a few notches. The Inverted Spooning sex position can also be used for anal sex if both partners enjoy a little backdoor action from time to time.

For a super exotic sex position that you can add to your “we tried” list, the Crazy Starfish sex position is fun yet very challenging for both partners.

How To Do It

Both partners will lie on their sides facing the same way, but head to toe with each other. The female partner will lower herself onto him  with her legs wrapped around his waist, and he will in turn wrap his own legs around her waist. He can brace his hands on her thighs to help facilitate thrusting, and she can support her weight with her arms behind her.

Where To Do It

The bed – this one requires a good deal of space. The floor works too, but carpet burn hurts! This is definitely not one you can do in a narrow space like the couch or the backseat of a car. Too many limbs everywhere!

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

3

She doesn’t have a whole lot of clitoral contact here from the Crazy Starfish sex position alone, but the g-spot stimulation helps make up for it.

His O-Meter

4

He absolutely loves the view he gets in the Crazy Starfish sex position, and he loves to watch the action. Bonus points for the “exotic” factor here! The only caveat for him is that his penis is bent slightly at an awkward angle, but it’s likely not enough for him to be uncomfortable.

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He can make the Crazy Starfish sex position way hotter for her by using his hands or a sex toy to play with her clitoris. She is at a perfect angle for him to do this, so he really needs to be doing it so both partners can get off! If she wants to give him something even more to look at, she can, of course, take her pleasure into her own hands.

Traditional 69 is one of the most exciting ways to give and receive oral sex, because both partners get to give and receive at the same time. This is a great way to bring each other to simultaneous orgasm orally, and it can be a great position to use when one partner is less enthusiastic about giving oral sex.

How To Do It

The 69 oral sex position is a favorite among many couples because it allows both partners to give and experience oral sex simultaneously. In the 69 sex position the male partner lies on a flat surface on their back, and the female partner straddles her lover’s face, facing towards his feet. She then leans down and performs oral sex on him while simultaneously receiving it.

For the 69 position to be successful, however, both partners must be clean and very comfortable with each other. The partner on top may feel exposed, since their lover’s face, mouth and nose are so close to their buttocks and genitals. If you’re comfortable with your lover though and do some basic hygiene (such as a sexy shower together) beforehand, you shouldn’t have any issues.

Where To Do It

Floor, couch, bed, reclining chair, outdoors, anywhere you can both comfortably lie down

Props You’ll Need

A shower beforehand, pillows for comfort

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

4

69 is a great way for a woman to receive oral sex when her partner is reluctant to go down on her without getting anything in return. By offering to 69, she can entice her lover to do something for her, because she’s doing something for him. Some guys enjoy performing oral sex on a woman regardless, but other men have difficulty enjoying oral sex if they’re not being stimulated in some way as well. The only caveat here is that she’s focusing on giving him oral pleasure, so her own is reduced somewhat. She cannot fully focus on the sensations and pleasure of receiving oral sex, simply because she’s trying to do two things at once.

His O-Meter

4

Guys like the idea of being able to receive oral sex at the same time they give it, because for some men, giving oral sex isn’t enjoyable in and of itself if their penis is not being stimulated in some way. 69 is an excellent solution to this problem! However, he cannot focus solely on his own pleasure, because he’s also trying to give her oral pleasure as well. It’s definitely enjoyable for him, but just slightly less enjoyable than if he were to be able to sit back, relax and enjoy a blowjob.

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Take your time and enjoy giving each other oral sex at the same time. Learning to move in sync with each other and communicate sexually without speaking to each other can be extremely sexy and intimate!

As far as romantic and intimate sex positions go, the Spooning sex position is really where it’s at. Much like spooning when sleeping or cuddling, this sex position provides full body contact and plenty of opportunities for touching, hugging, kissing and whispering in each other’s ears.

How To Do It

This is an excellent intimate sex position that will give both partners a sense of emotional connection. While both partners are lying on their sides, he enters her from behind, with his chest resting against her back. This is very much like the “spooning” position that many couples use while sleeping – which makes this sex position so comforting and sensual.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor

Props You’ll Need

Pillows for your head

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

She will really enjoy the intimacy of this sex position. It feels very much like cuddling to her, which is right up her alley. The penetration might not be as deep as other sex positions, however, he can make up for it by reaching around and stroking her skin with his hands, cupping her breasts and fondling her clitoris.

His O-Meter

3

With this sex position, there’s not much in the way for him to look at, which can be a huge damper during sex. Fix this by installing a mirror next to your bed if you don’t already have one – he can enter her from behind, while still getting to enjoy checking her out from top to bottom.

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This is the perfect position for spontaneous middle-of-the-night sex. To add a BDSM twist, he can pull her hair or grab her throat from behind.