Express your intimacy and achieve intense orgasms with the See-Saw sex position. This is an easy one to do that both partners really enjoy!

How To Do It

The male partner sits on the floor, or the bed, with his legs stretched out and supporting his weight on his arms behind him. She straddles him, facing him, with her feet flat on either side of her lover’s hips. She sits on his lap with her legs spread wide for penetration (and for a great view for him!) and rests her own weight on her hands, which are behind her and grasping his ankles or shins. She does most of the work here, lifting herself up and down on his penis.

Where To Do It

The bed is the most comfortable place to do the See-Saw sex position, but any wide open space (like the floor) will also do.

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

For the See-Saw sex position to truly be effective, she must be totally and completely comfortable with her partner. Since she is open and displayed for him to see every inch of her in this sex position, she’s got to be comfortable with herself as well. Confident girls will like this sex position because it gives their lovers such pleasure to see them spread out. She’ll also enjoy the intimacy of being able to look him in the eye as they both experience orgasm.

His O-Meter

5

He’s comfortable in the See-Saw sex position, and he really enjoys it because he can simply sit back, relax and watch as she grinds, rotates and thrusts all over him. With her legs spread open, he can see everything that is happening, and that kind of visual stimulation is exactly what he needs to take a hot sex position to the next level.

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The more she gets into the show for him, the better this position will be!

The Pretzel sex position is a seated sex position that creates intimacy between both partners with its face to face rocking and grinding.

How To Do It

To get into the Pretzel sex position, the male partner must sit on a flat surface and lie back some, resting his weight on his hands behind him. His lover will then straddle him, lowering herself onto his penis. She grasps the back of her thighs and holds her legs up with her knees slightly parted so her partner can come in between them. The male partner then sits up so he is face to face with her. As he sits up, he will hook his legs over her arms and around her body, completing the “pretzel” configuration.

Where To Do It

The bed is your best bet for the Pretzel sex position. This is a difficult position to get into and maneuver in, so you’ll want the comfort and familiarity of your bed.

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

5

Her O-Meter

1

She’ll like the face to face intimacy of the Pretzel sex position, but that’s about it. This isn’t going to be on her “favorites” list, and it’s probably not one she’ll suggest to try. She might be on board if her lover is really into the exotic sex positions, but the penetration isn’t very deep here, and her clitoris isn’t adequately stimulated for her to be able to build a good orgasm.

His O-Meter

1

He likes the novelty of this sex position, but his penis is bent at a slightly awkward angle and thrusting is fairly difficult here – it’s mostly a rock and grind sort of motion. He’ll for sure want to try this move because it’s so exotic, but it’s not going to be one he does regularly.

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Focus more on actually getting into the Pretzel sex position than on making it hotter. You’re doing good if you can get in it and actually have sex for more than a few minutes!

The Laptop sex position is an interesting variation on the Assisted Lotus, and although it looks difficult, it’s really not. It’s definitely a must try!

How To Do It

The male partner sits in a chair normally, with his lover sitting on his lap, facing him. Instead of wrapping each of her legs on either side of the chair, she will put each foot on either of her partner’s shoulders, resting the back of her knees on his shoulders and her calves and feet on the back of the chair. She can grasp his neck to help maintain her balance, but he should be holding her lower back to help keep her steady.

Where To Do It

This is an awesome sex position for a quickie at the office or anywhere else you see a chair and an opportunity!

Props You’ll Need

A chair. Almost any chair will work, but for the Laptop sex position, you may want to use a more comfortable chair like a recliner or a nice office chair.

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

She enjoys the deep penetration that the Laptop sex position affords, because it’s perfect for g-spot stimulation.  Some women may need more clitoral stimulation to orgasm than this position can give, but it’s still a great one to try.

His O-Meter

He loves the feeling of his partner’s legs around his neck, and enjoys the deep penetration sensations. The Laptop sex position is perfect for “breast guys,” since he is eye level with her chest!

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The male partner can really focus on her breasts here, caressing them with his mouth, lips and tongue. This will help her to reach orgasm even faster too!

The Kneeling Embrace sex position is a sweet and sensual combination of sitting, rear entry and woman on top that is orgasmic for both partners.

How To Do It

In the Kneeling Embrace sex position, the male partner sits on a flat surface on his knees, with his knees together or spread only slightly apart. The female partner sits in a similar manner on top of her partner’s lap, facing away from him. Her knees are spread slightly to give her lover better access to her vagina.

Where To Do It

While you can do the Kneeling Embrace sex position on the floor, it’s going to be hard on your knees if you choose to do so. You’ll want the comfort and space of a bed or futon folded down. This could, however, be a fun sex position to try outdoors on a soft bed of grass!

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

2-3

If her lover has a smaller penis, the penetration isn’t going to be as deep in this sex position as others. However, she may enjoy the unique intimacy here, and the fact that he can reach around and fondle her breasts or clitoris.

His O-Meter

3

Because his legs are pressed together, his entire penile shaft isn’t going to get stimulated here, so the Kneeling Embrace sex position may not be his favorite. However, he’ll enjoy caressing and kissing his partner’s back as she grinds and thrusts against him.

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Either partner can reach forward and stimulate her clitoris for more orgasm potential for her, and if you’re fairly adventurous you might also want to try anal sex in the Kneeling Embrace sex position. This may work better for women who are new to anal sex since penetration isn’t quite as deep as with other anal sex positions.

If you have trouble with the Lotus position but still crave face to face intimacy, try the Assisted Lotus sex position. It’s easier and just as sensual.

How To Do It

The male partner will sit in a chair normally, with his legs slack. The female partner will straddle his lap while facing him, draping each leg over the side of the chair. She can wrap her arms around his torso for more stability during thrusting.

Where To Do It

This is a great one to do in a dining room you’re alone in, or if you’re alone and you spot a chair without arms. It’s perfect for a quickie if you don’t want to get caught, or a more sensual sex session.

Props You’ll Need

A dining room chair or similar. A reclining chair, computer chair or any chair with arms on it is going to be difficult to get into for the Assisted Lotus sex position.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

5

There’s nothing about the Assisted Lotus sex position that she doesn’t like.  She loves the face to face intimacy, she loves the comfort of doing it on a chair instead of on the bed in each other’s laps, and she loves the clitoral friction. This is a very easy sex position for her to reach orgasm in, because it provides the emotional and physical stimulation she needs to climax.

His O-Meter

4

He too enjoys the intimacy here, and although he can’t thrust in and out as well as he can in other sex positions, the rocking and grinding motions that the Assisted Lotus sex position affords are quite pleasurable. It’s a great sex position for men who don’t want to orgasm too fast during sex, and want her to reach orgasm first.

XXX Tip

Make out! Kiss and caress your lover with your mouth the entire time. Engaging this often forgotten sexual organ can really fire the Assisted Lotus sex position up!

To take this in another direction, blindfold him and ties his hands behind the chair with a neck tie. This will awaken all of his other senses!