If you want to experience the utmost intimacy with your partner during sex, the Lotus sex position is definitely the way to go. While relaxed and sitting with each other, you can slowly rock back and forth and gradually work your way up to an intense orgasm!

How To Do It

The Lotus is probably the most intimate sex position out there. If you want to fully connect with your partner emotionally and physically during sex, the Lotus is the way to do it. Both partners sit cross-legged facing each other, but the female partner will actually sit on her lover’s lap with her legs wrapped around his hips so their pelvises touch. Once in position, it is more difficult to “thrust.” Sex in the Lotus position involves more “rocking” than it does thrusting. This is what makes the Lotus one of the more unique sex positions that isn’t as difficult to achieve!

Where To Do It

Floor, bed, large rocking recliner, anywhere you have enough space

Props You’ll Need

None

Difficulty Level

3

Her O-Meter

4

Women love the Lotus sex position! Not only does she get an extra dose of the physical and emotional intimacy she craves, the rocking and pelvic grinding does an excellent job of stimulating both her clitoris and her g-spot. This is definitely a position that she can orgasm in!

His O-Meter

If he’s the sensitive type, he’s going to like the emotional connection he gets out of the Lotus too. Men generally dig anything their partners are into, simply because they’re psyched to have a partner who is actually enjoying herself. The rocking motion, however, will put pressure on his penis in a different way, making it feel unique and extra pleasurable for him.

XXX Tip

He should give her oral sex before getting into this incredible intimate sex position. She will literally explode on top of him!

The Lap Dance sex position is a fun rear entry sex position but can lack intimacy due to the way each partner is facing. Thrusting can also be a little difficult, but he can have a lot of fun playing with her breasts while she rides him. It can also be a great follow-up sex position to a real lap dance!

How To Do It

This is another rear entry sex position, but it happens to be a little more difficult than some of the others. In this sex position, the male partner is seated on a surface such as the edge of the bed, couch or a chair with his feet flat on the floor. The female partner lowers herself onto him facing away from him with her back against his chest. That sounds easy enough, but the difficult part of this sex position is getting the female partner’s feet in position – her feet are tucked behind her, facing away from her on either side of her partner’s body. This can be an awkward position if a woman is not very flexible.

Where To Do It

Couch, bed, chair – anywhere that allows the male partner to sit on the edge with his feet on the floor.

Props You’ll Need

Couch, bed or chair

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

2

This sex position is more difficult for her to get into and stay in than her partner. It can be a little awkward, especially since the thrusting is mainly her responsibility. This is where it can get tough, because she’s going to have to raise up on her shins and most women aren’t used to maneuvering that way during sex. It can take some time getting used to how to move here to create the best penetration.

His O-Meter

3

Since he’s in a natural sitting position with her facing away from him and sitting on his lap, this sex position isn’t really that uncomfortable for him. He doesn’t have a view though, unless he and his lover are getting it on in front of a mirror.

XXX Tip

The male partner can reach around and hold or fondle her breasts during sex, and he can also reach down and fondle her clitoris, which is getting almost no stimulation in the Lap Dance sex position. This will make sex more enjoyable for her and increase her orgasm potential.