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Top 10 Vibrators You HAVE To Try!

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Sex toys are something every girl should have stashed away in her nightstand. Of course, ladies like a buzz, so here are ten “must try” vibrators!

The Wild G

A scary looking purple rabbit-style vibrator that really isn’t so scary once you get to know it. It’s made of soft jelly, slips in easily and has both a rotating shaft and an attachment for clitoral stimulation. Also, the rotating beads just near the base of the shaft feel surprisingly good. The only thing the Wild G doesn’t do is knock on the back door.

How To Use It: At home, by yourself, with the door locked! The Wild G doesn’t get too loud, but if someone decides to interrupt your party, it’s going to be pretty obvious that you weren’t taking a “nap.”

We-Vibe Touch

The We-Vibe Touch is a palm sized sex toy that is molded and grooved to fit both a woman’s hand and her clitoris. With a variety of vibe patterns that require just the touch of a button to activate (yes, 1 button!) this is quite possibly the easiest to use clitoral vibrator out there.

How To Use It: In the shower – this baby is 100% waterproof. It’s smooth, it’s cordless, it’s small and portable. It fits nicely in a shower caddy too. What more could you want for wet and wild masturbation?

G-Gasm Delight

Honestly, it’s the perfect g-spot stimulator. The G-Gasm Delight is made of hard plastic, so it’s well built for hard, squirting g-spot orgasms. It gets loud – especially when you turn it upside down –  so make sure you’re covered as far as privacy goes.

How To Use It: Any way you like! This lovely vibrator also substitutes as a prostate massager, so you can use it on him too. This is probably one of the least likely sex toys out there you would think could be a couples’ toy!

Freestyle W by OhMiBod

Like other g-spot/clitoral vibrators, the Freestyle W by OhMiBod is designed to stimulate both the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time. However, this lovely toy has more to it than meets the eye. This guy is designed to hook up to your music player, and it will vibrate to the beat of the music.

How To Use It: With your iPod of course! Again, privacy is an issue here. If you get caught, you may end up showing off your toys’ cool features when they realize your mp3 player is hooked up to your vibrator.

Hitachi Magic Wand

An oldie but goodie. The Hitachi Magic Wand has been around for about 30 years and is marketed as a back massager. However, women who have used the wand know that there are many more good times to be had when using it as a clitoral vibrator than a back massager. This toy goes up to 6,000 rpm’s!

How To Use It: Alone, or with a partner. This actually makes a great couples’ toy for women who have trouble reaching orgasm during sex. He can finger her or penetrate her while she uses it on her clitoris so she can experience an orgasm with her partner.

We-Vibe II

The We-Vibe II is designed to be a couples’ sex toy. One end of the massager will slip inside the woman and rest against her g-spot, while the other end wraps up and around to the clitoris. While a woman can masturbate with the We-Vibe II, it is really designed to be worn during intercourse. It’s a great way for a woman to experience an orgasm with her partner during penetration if she usually can’t.

How To Use It: With your partner. Try it in a variety of sex positions to experiment with different levels of sensation!

Ogee Twistee G-Vibe

The Ogee Twistee G-Vibe is very like the We-Vibe II in that it can be molded to rest against both the g-spot and clitoris and worn during intercourse. However, unlike the We-Vibe II, this little guy can be twisted into other shapes as well! This is actually a great option for women who have a hard to reach g-spot or a tilted cervix.

How To Use It: With or without a partner. It’s such a versatile sex toy! Experiment with different shapes to find the one you like best. Bend it any way you like, but remember the best shapes because you’ll want to go back to those!

Lelo Mia

If you’re looking for a discreet vibrator, this is it! So tiny, the Lelo Mia looks like a tube of lipstick and fits right into your purse. It also charges via USB port, so you can charge it on the go on your computer or laptop. Just say it’s a jump drive. For busy women who want a clitoral vibe, this is your best bet. Classy and discreet, but with loads of naughty pleasure.

How To Use It: On a plane, in the car, in the bathroom at work – anywhere you want because this thing is quiet. It’s unlikely that unless you make a lot of noise, anyone will know that you’re having an orgasm. Even though it’s small, it’s powerful, so you may have a difficult time keeping your trap shut.

Eve’s Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator

If you’re looking for a more traditional, dildo style vibrator, this is a great choice. It’s pretty, it’s somewhat flexible and the turn dial is super easy to use. A good choice for beginners, because it’s slim – only 1″ wide. It’s also fun for girls who are experienced with sex toys, because it just reaches those hot spots. Not super awesome at clitoral stimulation though.

How To Use It: This is yet another toy that is great to use alone or with your partner. Guys, you can use this during oral sex on her to stimulate her g-spot at the same time and try to give her a blended orgasm. Ladies, if you’re masturbating alone and need more clitoral stimulation than the Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator provides, use it in conjunction with your favorite clitoris massager.

Lelo Elise

These are luxury vibrations at their finest. Like it’s cousin the Mia, the Lelo Elise is very quiet. It’s silky smooth and just feels luxurious in your hands and in your vagina. It’s designed for insertion and curved specifically for g-spot stimulation. It’s just one of those sex toys you have to have in your toy box.

How To Use It: You can use this with a partner, but it’s much more fun to keep this gorgeous vibrator to yourself. It’s like a decadent chocolate bar that you don’t want to share. Let it be your secret.

LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator Review

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The LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator is a tiny, computer mouse looking vibrator that is designed for female masturbation. It fits in the palm of your hand and rests over the clitoris, and offers a variety of speeds and vibe patterns. It’s crafted of phthalate free hard plastic, but it actually feels like super smooth and silky porcelain.

The Good

The LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator is so small, it can fit in your pocket, your purse or even your panties if you want to wear it somewhere! It’s battery free and rechargeable, not to mention it’s absolutely cute as a button. It’s great for virgins or women who aren’t ready for penetration, but it’s also an excellent sex toy for women who are sexually advanced. Use it alone during masturbation or with a partner – this little vibe is so versatile, you can pretty much do anything you want with it!

The Bad

There are only two things that could possibly make the LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator any better than it already is. Firstly, it’s not waterproof, so you can only use it out of the shower or pool. Second, the controls are actually on the underside of the toy.

To use the vibrator, the curved side goes over your body, with your hand over the top of toy just like a computer mouse. To change the controls, you have to stop the action, flip it over, switch the speed or vibe pattern and then resume masturbation. The controls would be much more convenient if they were on the top! However, this doesn’t make or break the LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator. It’s a minor inconvenience compared to the awesome pleasure that this sex toy can bring!

The Bottom Line

The LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator is an absolute must have for the ladies. Very few clitoral vibrators are this pretty, this small and discreet and this powerful. It’s perfect for travel and on-the-go, because it’s incredibly quiet too! It fits in the palm of your hand and will send you over the edge and into a full body orgasm in minutes. If you’re looking for a high class, easy to use clitoral vibrator, the LELO Nea is right up your alley.

The Full LELO Nea Review

The LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator is gorgeous, luxurious and made from extremely high quality materials – like all LELO products. It features a slick outer shell that is adorned with a delicate cherry blossom design, making it look and feel absolutely divine. This little vibe is especially powerful while still being small and quiet, so it’s an excellent choice for women who like to travel (and don’t want to get busted at airport security with a giant purple dildo) or women who just want to be able to easily hide their sex toy in their sock drawer.

Although the LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator doesn’t look small, it actually is about the size of a very small computer mouse. It fits perfectly in the palm of your hand, so it’s very comfortable to hold while masturbating. It can, of course, be used by itself to produce a toe curling orgasm, but it can also be used in conjunction with g-spot vibrators and insertable sex toys for multiple sensations.

You can also use this with a partner – let him use it on your clitoris while he penetrates you. This is especially useful for women who have trouble reaching orgasm with their partner during intercourse. While many men may be intimidated by sex toys, this one is small enough – and pretty enough – that he will most likely see it as completely harmless. Not so if you brought home the Wild G!

Have fun experimenting with all the different speeds and vibe patterns that the LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator has to offer. Use it to tease and please, then switch up your pattern to a higher setting to bring you to orgasm. You can use the more intense vibration patterns and speeds to have a hard and fast climax, or you can use it to tease and please by using the softer vibe modes.

Although it does have a couple of caveats (not being waterproof means that if you want to get off in the shower, you’re going to need another sex toy), and you’ve got to stop getting it on to flip the vibe over and change the controls, overall it’s an excellent addition to your collection. It also makes a great gift if you want to buy a woman a sex toy but are afraid of getting her something that she would be offended by. This sweet little vibe is so adorable (and not at all crude) she will love it from the very first time she opens the box.

LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System Review

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The LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System is a product that is designed to use weighted balls to help exercise the vaginal muscles and strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. The weighted balls are inserted into the vagina (either alone or with the included silicone girdle) and kept there. The vagina works itself out by keeping the balls inside and not allowing them to fall out – all without the woman doing a thing.

Many women enjoy using this product to strengthen their vaginal muscles after having a baby – because childbirth can make these muscles very weak – or simply to have better control during sex and enhance orgasms. Women who struggle with incontinence may also benefit from using the Lelo Luna Pleasure Bead System because the balls strengthen the same muscles that are used to stop the flow of urine.

The Good

The LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System is phthalate free, which is important in reducing the risk of cervical cancer caused by phthalates in sex toys. The materials used to manufacture both the silicone girdle and the weighted balls are very high quality, so you know you’re treating your body well when using these.

The free floating weights create subtle vibrations as you move, which can actually feel really good on the g-spot! The LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System is also smaller than some of the similar products out there, so it’s an excellent choice for women with a small vagina or a tilted cervix.

The string that helps you pull the weights out (like a tampon string) is thin and can’t be felt. Some products have a thicker string or the removal string is part of the girdle, so they can be quite uncomfortable to wear. This string virtually disappears until you need to take them out again!

The Bad

The silicone girdle requires lube to insert – however, you don’t want to use silicone lube, as this may deteriorate the girdle more quickly over time. Although the LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System is smaller than many of the other competing products out there, they may still be uncomfortable for some women. Depending on the position that you’re sitting or standing in, the balls can push up against your cervix and be uncomfortable or painful.

The Bottom Line

The LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System is well made, high quality and are very highly recommended. If you want to tone your vaginal muscles to be able to squeeze your partner more firmly during sex (and get more g-spot orgasms!) or if you want to have stronger PC muscles after childbirth or want to help incontinence, this system is exactly what you’re looking for.

The Full LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System Review

The LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System comes with two different sizes of weighted balls – 28 grams and 37 grams. Depending on how weak or strong your vaginal muscles are, you can use one ball without the silicone girdle, or you can use two of the smaller weighted balls with the girdle. You can also mix and match weights within the girdle, so you can start small and work your way up. If you have weaker vaginal muscles and choose a higher weight than what you should really be starting out with, they can be uncomfortable or slip out.

You definitely want to use lube when you go to insert the set. The silicone girdle actually makes it quite difficult if not impossible to insert without proper lubrication. If you’re inserting just one ball without the girdle, it’s a little easier because the plastic is smooth, however, you’re still going to want to use a good lube to get them in the right spot. A water based lube is good option, because silicone lube will deteriorate the girdle.

Keep in mind that you’re not going to see immediate results – the LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System is like a work out program for your vagina. It’s not a one time use thing. Just like you wouldn’t see immediate abs if you were to start an ab strengthening program, it will take some time and consistent use of the set for you to see and feel real results.

All in all, the LELO Luna Pleasure Bead System is a great option for women who want to tone their vaginal muscles for various reasons. Whether you want to get back to normal after having a kid, are older and have lost some of your ability to hold your bladder when you cough or sneeze, or you just want strong vaginal muscles for great sex and even better orgasms, this is the product you want to have!

Liberator Hipster Sex Furniture Review

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The Liberator Hipster helps you jazz up sexual positions. The high and low curves of the Hipster give partners access to an assortment of new sexual positions, taking everyday lovemaking to a higher level of intensity.

The Good

The Liberator Hipster offers excellent support during oral sex. The receiver’s hips are supported in an elevated position, and the giver is relieved from neck strain due to the much more natural angle. The giver may receive additional support by resting their neck on the large curve.

It is an excellent asset for “doggy style” sex. The large curve supports the hips, and the smaller curve supports the breasts. This combination allows the receiver to maintain a comfortable position for a longer period of time, and it offers the giver a better angle as well as improved leverage. The result is amazing!

Like all of their products, the Liberator Hipster, is very durable and easy to maintain. The Champagne foam core will not break down easily, and the microfiber and waterproof covers easily zip off and on for cleaning.

The Bad

The Liberator Hipster is 24” across and is designed to accommodate most bodies, however, a larger person may want to consider looking for a wider product.

Storage can be a bit tricky for some. It is too large to slide under most beds, and it’s size and dimensions make it an awkward fit in most places. One solution is to invest in some bed risers (roughly $10).

This product is a bit pricey, but quality craftsmanship and hours of pleasure make it well worth the investment.

The Bottom Line

The Liberator Hipster is high quality, well designed and durable, and it offers support for all of the traditional sex positions while opening the possibility for endless experimentation. What’s not to love?

The Full Liberator Hipster Review

The Liberator Hipster may look like just a funny pillow, but in reality, it is a highly technical and very functional piece of sex furniture. It’s design is ideal for raising the hips while supporting the lower body during “doggy style” sex, but that’s not all it does. When laying in a supine position, the Hipster’s large roll lifts and supports the hips in a way that allows for deeper penetration and easy lifting of the legs.

This all sounds well and good, but what everyone really wants to know is, “does it really make a difference?” The answer is simple. “Yes it does.” It is truly amazing how this product makes finding that perfect position a no brainer. It also makes it easier to stay in that position for a much longer period of time, the result is mind blowing, so to speak.

The Liberator Hipster is made from a high caliber, high density foam that the company calls Champagne foam. This foam is then encased by a waterproof nylon cover which is then encased by a very soft microfiber cover. The microfiber cover is easily spot cleaned with a gentle detergent and a damp wash cloth. It is also machine washable and easy to remove, and replace.

The cushion is 33” in length, 24” wide, and the top of the large roll rests about 10” high. In short, it is a pretty good sized piece of furniture. This makes it a priceless asset when working out new positions and very usable by a large variety of body sizes and styles. The only real draw back, is that it can propose a problem when it comes to discreet storage.

All in all, if you only get one piece of sex furniture to help you get into lots of different sex positions and oral sex positions, the Liberator Hipster is definitely the one you want!

Curved Swirl Glass Dildo With Mushroom Tip Review

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This unique glass dildo features a full length swirl for added stimulation! The Curved Swirl Glass Dildo is a very classy wand to add to your collection.

The Good

If the Curved Swirl Glass Dildo is well cared for, it will last a very, very long time. It’s also easy to clean and care for. Hypoallergenic properties and beautiful color and design really make this a must have for your sex toy drawer.

The Bad

The Curved Swirl Glass Dildo is made of glass, and can therefore be broken if dropped or used irresponsibly. However, it IS Pyrex so it’s not all that easy to break. Keep it in the padded pouch that is included to keep it safe while not in use.

The Bottom Line

A glass dildo a work of art, and they offer an experience that is unparalleled by any other product, or person for that matter. The Curved Swirl Glass Dildo by Don Wands is an affordable piece that will still make you feel luxurious. The size and shape of this sex toy make it a great choice for just about anyone. And, it makes a very nice gift.

The Full Curved Swirl Glass Dildo Review

A glass dildo is a great addition to any woman’s sex toy collection. I am not overly experienced when it comes to dildos or any other sex toys, but I received the Curved Swirl Glass Dildo by Don Wands a few weeks ago. At first, I wasn’t sure what to say, I’d never seen a glass dildo up close and personal before. But after the initial shock wore off, I took it out of it’s packaging and turned it over in my hands. It’s heavier than I would have expected, and I was immediately stunned by the beauty of the shape and color of it. I couldn’t wait to try it out.

This glass dildo is intended for g-spot stimulation – it’s 7” long, 1 3/8” in diameter, and it weighs about half a pound. It’s made of Pyrex glass (same as your corning ware) and is therefore easy to clean, non-porous, latex free, and hypoallergenic. You can even wash and sterilize it in your dishwasher! It also comes with a padded bag for safe keeping.

After reading up a bit on my new sex toy, I learned that it can be held under warm or cold water to produce different sensations, and that due to its very solid and unyielding material, it enables a very unique type of orgasm that cannot be produced in any other way. I can now attest that both are true.

I would imagine that there are a lot of people looking for a gift for someone they love. A gift that can be used to enhance their sex life without offending their partner, and a glass dildo definitely fits the bill. The Curved Swirl Glass Dildo has been a lot of fun to experiment with, both with my husband, and on my own. I felt it to be a fun, classy, and thoughtful gift, and I’m very happy with it.