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10 Titillating Sex Toys Under $10

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Sex toys don’t have to be expensive to be fun. Whether you’re by yourself or with a partner, you don’t have to spend an arm and a leg just to get a decent sex toy. Heat it up between you and your lover with these ten great sex toys all under ten bucks!

Purrfect Pets Tickle Me Dolphin

A cock ring and a vibrator all in one, the Purrfect Pets Tickle Me Dolphin is a great couples’ sex toy. The cock ring portion of the product will keep his erection rock hard, while the vibrator will stimulate the woman’s clitoris and help bring her to an incredible orgasm. This is a must-have for couples who struggle with erectile dysfunction or difficulty reaching orgasm. It’s also available in other shapes for more excitement, including a “Buzz Bunny” and a “Buzzy Butterfly.”

Crystal Jellies 6″ Anal Starter

Lots of couples want to get into anal sex, but they’re not exactly sure where to start. Sex toys built specifically for beginner’s anal play are probably your best bet, and the Crystal Jellies 6″ Anal Starter definitely fits the bill. It’s small and slim, so it’s perfect for guys and girls who are just starting out. At it’s thinnest point, this product is about 1/2″ wide, and at it’s widest, it’s barely 1″. When you’ve never done anal insertion before, smaller is definitely better when you’re just getting into it.

Sugar Lips Nipple Gloss

Guys love breasts, so why not make yours noticeable with a swipe of nipple gloss before sex? It also works on your lips too – and wherever you put Sugar Lips Nipple Gloss, you’re going to feel a tingly, plumping sensation. Not only does it make your lips and nipples look ultra kissable, the taste is super sweet. Try flavors like Lick My Strawberry, Kiss My Cinnabuns, Cock n’ Candy, Whip Me Cream and Pump Me Colada.

Tenga Eggs

For guys on the go, this uniquely designed masturbation sleeve is a huge hit. Packed in an egg like container, the soft silicone masturbation sleeve includes it’s own package of lube to be used with the sleeve. Tenga Eggs come in tons of different styles and textures, such as Twister, Clicker, Stepper, Wavy, Spider and Silky. Each egg feels totally different during masturbation! The downside to this sex toy is that it is disposable – you can only use it one time (really, you should only use it one time) before throwing it away.

Tongue Teaser

While oral sex is always fantastic by itself, you can add some great feeling vibrations to the mix with the Tongue Teaser. The soft jelly toy slips over the tongue and vibrates. This is an especially great toy for men who want to please women who have difficulty reaching orgasm orally. A snug band makes sure this product doesn’t slip off the tongue, no matter how wet and wild things get! It also runs for about forty minutes, so that gives you plenty of time for orgasmic pleasure.

Sterling Sleeves

Sterling Sleeves are soft, stretchy silicone sleeves that fit over the penis and are designed to be used during sex. They can help make your penis just a little bit longer, and usually the textured outsides stimulate a woman’s g-spot in just the right way. If you’ve been trying unsuccessfully to have (or give) a g-spot orgasm, try slipping on a Sterling Sleeve. The extra sensations may be exactly what she needs to push her over the edge.

Frisky Fingers Clitoris Vibrator

Every girl needs a small, discreet and easy to use finger vibrator that fits nicely over the clitoris. Sometimes, a girl just wants to get the job done and a Frisky Fingers Clitoris Vibrator will do just that. It slides over the finger and the soft silicone nubs feel amazing in conjunction with the vibrations. It’s quiet, so you can even throw it in your purse and take it anywhere!

Astroglide Strawberry Lubricant

Whether you’re having sex au natural or using sex toys, lube is definitely a must have. But why should lube – especially when used with a condom – smell and taste like rubber, plastic and chemicals? Astroglide Strawberry Lubricant combines Astroglide’s popular lube formula with a great strawberry flavor, so you can smell and taste great during sex.

Fetish Fantasy Series Beginner’s Furry Cuffs

If you’ve never tried bondage before – or have and loved it – a pair of soft, furry handcuffs are indispensable. Fetish Fantasy Series Beginner’s Furry Cuffs are strong yet soft, so you can have fun locking your partner up and having your way with them! They do have a quick release mechanism that you can use if things get too intense or if you or your partner lose the key. Comes in black or white.

Sportsheets Rubber O-Rings

If you want an inexpensive pack of basic rubber cock rings in different sizes, Sportsheets Rubber O-Rings are exactly what you’re looking for. No frills, just plain black rubber in a variety of different sizes to accommodate both a large and small penis size. You can also use them with harnesses that have straps – just don’t forget to use lube so you can slide the O-Ring off easily when you’re finished.

Fleshlight Pink Lady Original Review

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The Fleshlight Pink Lady Original is pretty much known as the original male masturbator. Before disposable squishy eggs or jelly ribbed masturbation sleeves, there was the Fleshlight. Some men are apprehensive about trying a masturbation sleeve, but once they do, they very rarely go back to masturbating with just their hand. That’s because the Fleshlight product line is made from the softest, squishiest material out there – Superskin.

The Good

The next best thing to a real vagina, hands down. This product is crafted from Superskin, which feels really great on your penis. It’s really the closest material out there to real skin. Once you lube it up, it slides up and down the penis and takes masturbation to a whole new level. It’s easy to use, and when the cap is put on, looks like an ordinary, extra large flashlight making it easy to hide in plain sight. Once you put lube in it and start pumping away, the holes in the sides of the case create a vacuum, so you actually feel like you’re getting a blowjob too!

The Bad

The Fleshlight is a little large and cumbersome for small hands. Fortunately, most men have larger hands so this isn’t a problem unless your lady friend wants to use the toy on you for a handjob. Also, be careful not to use too much lube – the pumping action will squirt the lube out of the holes in the case, getting your hands sticky. If you like a lot of lube, just wrap a washcloth or hand towel around the case to keep your hands dry. The major issue with this product is that it’s difficult to clean. Still worth it though!

The Bottom Line

There’s a reason that the Fleshlight Pink Lady Original is the number one selling male sex toy in the world – it feels THAT good. In fact, men that have never used masturbators before have never gone back to using their hand after trying this product just once. While it can get messy if you use a lot of lube, it’s well worth it for the sensations you’re going to get. There’s only one thing better than a Fleshlight – the real thing!

The Full Fleshlight Pink Lady Original Review

The Fleshlight Pink Lady Original is the first sex toy of its kind – a Superskin vagina that gives guys intense pleasure while masturbating. It feels so incredibly real that many men may have trouble telling the difference! The only thing that the product doesn’t offer is temperature – a real vagina is warmer than the Fleshlight. But other than that, it’s soft, wet and textured inside just like a real woman.

Superskin

The Fleshlight Pink Lady Original is a soft, “Superskin” vagina that sits inside of a black, flashlight looking case. Superskin is a material made from elastomer, which is designed to feel as close to human skin as possible. While this is probably the realest feeling sex toy you’re going to find on the market, it does require quite a bit of cleanup.

Keeping It Clean

The website suggests that the toy can simply be flushed out with warm water and stored, but this definitely isn’t going to get all the “funk” out, especially the crevices. If you really want your Fleshlight Pink Lady to be clean, take the Superskin vagina out and rinse it with warm water – without soap – separately from the case. Lay it on a towel to try, and then take a baby bottle brush with a bit of dish soap and go to work on the case. A quick scrub is all you need. Once the Fleshlight  is completely dry, take cornstarch or cornstarch based baby powder and dust the entire surface and the inside of the tube. This is what keeps it feeling soft like human skin! This can be troublesome if you like to use your Fleshlight often, however, if you neglect dusting it with powder after use, it’s not going to last as long as it could. All in all, the Fleshlight Pink Lady Original is an excellent male masturbator – in fact, it IS the #1 selling male sex toy after all! The cleanup is well worth the pleasurable sensations it gives during masturbation, hands down!

10 Beginner’s Sex Toys You’ve GOT To Have (If You’re A Novice)

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Sex toys can be intimidating if you’ve never used them before. This is especially true for virgin girls who wish to masturbate but aren’t sure what kind of product to get, or for men who have never used masturbating sleeves or other “toys for boys” before and aren’t sure where to begin. If you’re just starting to use sex toys, here are the ones you definitely want to try!

Lots Of Lube

Lube is extremely important to use when playing with sex toys. In fact, it’s also great to use during sex but many people that haven’t made the foray into sex toys have never tried using lube before either! Whether you’re having sex with a partner or masturbating with a vibrator, even just a dab of lube will make things slip and slide much better. Of course, the wetter the better so lots of lube is preferred, especially with anal sex!

Recommendation: Astroglide! It’s basic, easy to use and has been used for years. It’s an all around great lube to use that is safe for both sex toys and use with condoms.

A Masturbation Sleeve

Every guy starts out masturbating with their own hand, and many guys still do. If you haven’t discovered how really great masturbating with a sex toy is, you’re in for a real treat. Try slipping your penis into a lubed up masturbation sleeve before your self-love session and see what a difference it makes! You can get all kinds of sleeves to satisfy whatever desires you have, whether you’re into lots of texture or something really nice and tight. Masturbation will never be the same again!

Recommendation: Climax Gems Crystal Hand Job Stroker. It’s a great way to start using a masturbation sleeve if you’ve never used one before, especially since some of the more “anatomically correct” strokers can seem a little intimidating at first. This one is extra ribbed for pleasure too!

A Slender Vibrator

Women that have never used a vibrator inside before will definitely want to try something small and slender at first. A slender vibrator doesn’t hurt going in when used with lube – even for many virgins – and the torpedo design will reach the g-spot in no time. This is a great product to start out with when you’re just beginning to use sex toys during penetration.

Recommendation: 5″ Grrl Toyz Waterproof Slimstick. This is a great vibrator for women who are interested in trying insertion during masturbation or couples play but don’t want to start with a giant dildo. It’s slim design is great for even very small women or virgins.

A Clitoris Vibrator

Most girls start out rubbing their clitoris with their fingers or palms when they first start to masturbate. This is because the clitoris is packed with over 8,000 sensitive nerve endings and is responsible for most women’s orgasms. Many women prefer to masturbate with a clitoris vibrator, even if they’ve had sex before or masturbated with a vibrator or dildo designed for insertion. Using a vibrator on the clitoris can induce very intense, very powerful orgasms!

Recommendation: Ophoria Finger Vibe – 3″. Every girl needs to start out with a clitoris vibrator, especially if she’s a virgin. Women can reach orgasm most often through clitoral stimulation, so this can even be a great toy to use with a partner as well. It fits easily on the finger and also comes in a variety of fun, bright colors.

A Traveling Vibrator

Once you get into using sex toys, you’re going to want to take them wherever you go. Especially for those long business trips away from your partner where you know you’ll be “flying solo” so to speak! But if you’re flying, or even driving for that matter, you don’t necessarily want to take your most conspicuous vibrator in case your luggage gets checked. A travel safe vibrator is a must have for women on the go.

Recommendation: Grrl Toyz Lipstick Vibe. It looks exactly like lipstick. Enough said.

Toy Cleaner

Even if you’ve never used sex toys before, it’s not difficult to guess that they can get pretty nasty if you don’t clean them thoroughly before and after each use. While you can use soap and water to clean most sex toys, getting a good anti-bacterial toy cleaner is a must to keep your sex toys looking and feeling like new each time you use them. Often, it’s a lot easier to use a special toy cleaner than it is to bust out the soap and hot water.

Recommendation: System Jo Toy Cleaner. Priced right, all you have to do with this easy to use toy cleaner is spray it on and wipe it off. It’s a quick way to keep your sex toys lasting longer.

A Cock Ring

Just like with masturbation sleeves, most guys don’t think about using cock rings – or any sex toys, really – during masturbation. Since they can simply use their hands (and there’s rarely any evidence laying around if all you’re using is a hand), most guys don’t think about how much better a masturbation session can be by using and experimenting with different products designed for sexual enhancement. Next time you masturbate, try slipping on a cock ring to keep your erection rock hard and lasting long. You’ll be surprised at how good everything feels with a cock ring on!

Recommendation: M2M Nitrile 1.75″ Cock Rings (Pack Of 5). You definitely don’t want to use a metal cock ring, and these soft rings are made from nitrile, which is compatible with all kinds of lube, including silicone and oil based!

A Butt Plug

If you’re starting to get into anal sex or even just a little anal play, a beginner’s butt plug is a must have. Whether you’re enjoying anal stimulation during sex or during masturbation, a small butt plug can give you just enough stimulation without being painful to make your sexual escapades feel radically different – and amazing! Make sure you use any anal toy with lube and never insert anything into your anus that isn’t designed to go there, because it could get lost!

Recommendation: Basix Rubber Works Mini Butt Plug. Comes in four colors and is super small for beginner’s use. You definitely want to use water based lube with this one though.

A Bullet Massager

Often, a bullet massager is a woman’s first vibrating sex toy. Even if it’s not, a bullet vibrator is something you definitely want to have on hand. It too is a great vibrator to take with you on trips! A bullet vibrator is also the kind you want to use with a lot of couples’ sex toys, such as cock rings with a place for a bullet vibe to go on top. Sometimes, a simple bullet vibrator is all you need to get and stay satisfied.

Recommendation: Power Bullet Vibrating Massager – 3 Speeds. Small, discreet and easy to use. Tiny enough to take with you anywhere but it’s vibrations are powerful for how small this toy really is!

A Blindfold

A blindfold is a great way to get your feet wet with BDSM if you’re just starting to get interested in it but don’t want to go too far with the whips and chains at first. A blindfold adds such an incredible element of mystery and most of them are incredibly inexpensive. You can use a silk tie or other things from around the house to create a blindfold, but buying one isn’t very expensive and are much more comfortable to wear – especially for longer periods of time.

Recommendation: Fetish Fantasy Series Satin Love Mask. It’s just your basic love mask, but if you’ve never tried BDSM before, a blindfold is where you want to start. You can’t imagine how sexy things can get once you take away the sense of sight!

Do Penis Pumps Really Work?

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Sex toys for guys can be touch and go – some are great and some aren’t. And the same sex toy might be wonderful for one guy but not work at all for another. Penis pumps are a popular male sex toy because most guys are obsessed with penis size – but do they work? Here’s why a penis pump can definitely be an asset in the bedroom, but why you need to be careful with one!

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What Is A Penis Pump?

A penis pump is usually a plastic type, hollow cylinder that is fitted over the penis that has either a manual or motorized pump to put suction on the penis. When the pump creates a vacuum around the penis, it pulls blood into the shaft and head of the penis, making it erect and engorged with blood. Most men choose to use a cock ring in addition to a penis pump so the blood doesn’t go back into the body after being pumped into the penis. A cock ring fits snugly around the base of the shaft to keep blood inside the penis after pumping and to keep it erect

Are Penis Pumps Dangerous?

Most sex toys aren’t at all dangerous, but if used incorrectly, some of them can be. Penis pumps definitely fall into that category and if you have a penis pump, you really want to use it responsibly to keep from doing damage to yourself. For example, very hard or extreme suction of the shaft and head can cause things like:

  • Blisters
  • Bruising
  • Broken blood vessels

You can avoid these unwanted side effects by reading the manufacturer’s instructions on your penis pump thoroughly and following the instructions for use exactly. Not every penis pump is the same, so don’t assume that because you know how to use one, you know how to use them all.

How To Be Safe When Using A Penis Pump

Penis pumps can be a great way to make your penis, bigger, stronger and harder but you definitely don’t want any broken blood vessels or blisters from using it. So, there are lots of ways you can make sure you are using your penis pump safely and effectively.

  • Don’t use for extended periods of time. You’ve heard the warnings on Viagra commercials – if you experience an erection for longer than 4 hours, seek medical attention immediately. The same goes for penis pumps. A man’s body isn’t designed to maintain an erection for that long. Don’t use your penis pump longer than necessary.
  • If it hurts, stop. Just like with anything during sex, if you’re feeling discomfort or pain, it’s your body signaling you to stop and that what you’re doing is damaging your body. It’s common sense – if you feel pain, it’s a signal to stop immediately.
  • Never use an actual vacuum as a penis pump. The suction on a vacuum is way too harsh and WILL cause broken blood vessels and bruising which could require an expensive trip to the emergency room.
  • Learn how to use the valve release. Almost all penis pumps have an valve release that you can use which will release the pressure on the penis. If the product you’re looking at doesn’t have this feature, you need to be looking at a different product! Learn how to use the release so that you can take the pump off immediately if you begin to feel pain, discomfort or experience blisters or bruising with your erection.

So Do Penis Pumps Actually Work?

The short answer to this question is yes, a penis pump can actually work, depending on what you’re using it for. If you’re expecting to gain 4″ of penis size when you use it, you’re probably going to be disappointed. But if you experience problems with impotency and erectile dysfunction, a penis pump can help you achieve and maintain a good erection and enable to you to have more satisfying sex with your partner.

Remember that any erection you get after using a penis pump isn’t going to be there for long if you don’t use a cock ring as well. A cock ring is designed to keep the blood in the penis after pumping, instead of allowing it to flow back into the body and leave the penis flaccid.

What Penis Pumps Can Be Used For

Penis pumps can be used to effectively treat erectile dysfunction, and they can also be used to treat Peyronie’s Disease (when the penis is severely curved or bent). While you probably don’t want to expect miracles when it comes to using a penis pump, the vacuum suction created by one is definitely enough to make a difference when treating impotency and a bent or curved penis. Of course, you definitely want to see your doctor first before using a penis pump for either of these conditions – he or she can recommend the best treatment options for you, which may or may not include the use of a pump.

10 Sex Toys For Married Couples

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Sex toys aren’t just for singles who are flying solo – they can make sex with your spouse ten times hotter. Sex toys can be especially helpful after the fire has died in your sex life, which is common after couples have been married for awhile – no matter how much they love each other. Here are ten picks for those who have said “I do.”

Adam & Eve Couples Enhancer Ring

A cock ring and a clitoris vibrator in one, this enhancer ring will give you and your partner both heightened sensations. It’s made of soft silicone rather than a hard material that could get stuck on the penis and also includes an outer ring that can be slipped behind his scrotum for a tighter feel.

Hustler Bang Bang Bullet Vibrator

This pretty pink vibrator has a cordless remote control that can be controlled by a woman’s husband. The motor is quiet enough that you and your spouse can use it in public, making sex even more fun and exciting. She’ll love never knowing what is going to come next and when she’s going to have an orgasm!

Super Head Honcho Masturbator

Women are much more likely to enjoy giving their husbands a handjob every now and then if they have a little help. It’s easy for her hands to get tired, but when using a masturbation sleeve with a generous amount of lube, he’ll orgasm quicker and her hands won’t cramp up as easily. It’s a win-win!

Oral Delight Couples Kit

Make oral sex more fun for him and her with a kit full of flavored lubes and toys. She’ll get a flavored lube to use on him and he’ll get one to use on her, and they’ll both get an easy to use vibrator with a pink silicone “tongue” sleeve. This is a great option for husbands who don’t always enjoy giving their wives oral sex.

Swiss Navy 2-in-1 Enhancement Gel For Couples

When both a husband and wife need a little extra sensitivity, this his-n’-hers arousal gel does the trick. Both gels are stored in one convenient bottle with separate containers, making it easier to use and keep discreet. This is a great option for men and women who would rather use natural herbal compounds than pharmaceutical substances, because the base of the gels are comprised of herbal extracts.

Sexy Slave Kit

Since married sex can sometimes get boring, bondage can be the next step that couples take when spicing up their sex lives. The Sexy Slave Kit is a simple kit with easy to use items that make introducing BDSM and bondage in the bedroom a lot more fun. Restrain your partner with sexy handcuffs and tickle them with a feather tickler. Make sure to use the blindfold so they don’t see what you’re doing!

X-Large Ben Wa Balls

For wives who feel like they have lost the muscle tone in their vagina (especially after having kids) and want to be tight for their husbands again, Ben Wa Balls give the PC muscles a great workout. The balls move around inside the vagina and the muscles are worked by keeping the balls from slipping out of the vagina. Use with a tightening cream to make him feel like you’re a virgin all over again!

A&E Beginner’s Power Pump

After being married for so many years, a man may begin to experience problems keeping his erection like he could when he was young. Erectile dysfunction is common in older men, but that doesn’t make it any less disappointing when it happens. A penis pump can help a man get and maintain a rock hard erection.

Sexy Stripper’s Kit

A woman can spice up her sex life with her husband by learning how to give a little striptease. The Sexy Stripper’s Kit is a novelty item that includes lots of fun props that can help her feel even more like a stripper. However, some of the items are a little cheesy – skip the play money and slip some real dollar bills in your wife’s g-string. Better yet, make it a few five spots!

Bottom’s Up Finger Rimmers

Many married couples would love to try anal sex (especially after they’ve been doing the same thing over and over again in the bedroom) but aren’t sure how to get started. The Bottom’s Up Finger Rimmer is a teeny tiny little butt plug that is perfect for beginners – whether you’re a guy or a girl. It’s less than 2 inches long and 1 inch wide. Start by using this and work your way up to bigger sizes.