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FixSation Couples Vibrator Review

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The FixSation Couples Vibrator is an excellent solution to a long standing problem – how can women have more orgasms during sex with their partners? Some women resort to using big, bulky vibrators during sex, or beg their partners to give them oral sex before getting it on. Other women just give up and resort to either only having an orgasm during masturbation, or never having an orgasm at all! This product has the potential to solve this problem for many women, ending their sexual frustrations forever!

The Good

The FixSation Couples Vibrator is uniquely designed to be worn by a woman during sex – so this means it fits all of a woman’s curves almost perfectly. This design makes it comfortable to wear, whether you’re using it with a partner during sex or alone during masturbation. This vibrator is quiet and slim enough to wear out in public, under jeans or pants.

This product was made specifically to be worn by a woman during sexual intercourse. Many women have never reached orgasm at all during intercourse, while some do only occasionally. By far, women who can’t reach orgasm during lovemaking with their partner outnumber the women who do. The FixSation Couples Vibrator gives a woman more stimulation to their clitoris during sex. Often, that extra “push” is all a woman needs to get to the big O. This new sex accessory has the potential to rekindle the fire in the sex lives of millions of couples by allowing women to experience orgasm during intercourse and allowing couples to achieve simultaneous orgasm, also called the “We-Gasm.”

When purchasing the FixSation Couples Vibrator, consider getting the lingerie top companion. It makes the purchase a little more expensive, but is totally worth it. It matches the panties perfectly and looks great on. The top is made to flatter a variety of body types and is built so even body conscious women will feel comfortable and sexy wearing it. The top, vibe and panty companion makes for a nice little lingerie set to break out whenever you’re feeling naughty or even to give as an intimate gift.

The Bad

There are very few “bad” things about the FixSation Couples Vibrator, but there are some things you want to keep in mind when purchasing this product.

First, the vibrations are not as strong as traditional clitoral vibrators. It wasn’t made to – the vibrations are weaker on purpose, because this toy is designed primarily to be worn while having sex. When worn during intercourse, the vibrator is pushed up against the clitoris. If the vibrator was very strong, it would numb the clitoris during sex, thus making it completely ineffective for what it was designed to do. When worn during sex, this thing works!

The FixSation Couples Vibrator requires minimal assembly, but it can be a little tricky the first few times you put the vibrator on the panty. The hooks are small, so unless you absolutely have to take the vibrator off the panty once you get it strapped in, just leave it on there. You can easily slip the panty companion with vibrator attached on and off without a problem.

Also, the panty size tends to run a little small. If in doubt, order one size larger for comfort. Petite women may be able to order their correct size and be comfortable.

The Bottom Line

If you are a woman who has ever struggled to reach orgasm during sex – or you are a man looking for something to help your partner who struggles to reach orgasm – the FixSation Couples Vibrator is an absolute must have. If you want something that will help a woman to climax during intercourse, or something that will help you and your lover reach simultaneous orgasm (or the “We-Gasm”), you definitely want to add this to your sex toy collection. In fact, it may very well be the only thing you ever need again!

The Full FixSation Couples Vibrator Review

The FixSation Couples Vibrator is an innovative sex toy that is unlike anything else on the market. If you’ve been looking for a couples vibrator that is easy to use, isn’t uncomfortable or ugly to wear, makes you feel sexy and spices up your sex life with your lover, look no further. They say the best things come in small packages, and that certainly holds true for this little guy. The FixSation Couples Vibrator is a sex toy that makes a fun and exciting addition to any toy box.

Wearing During Intercourse

The FixSation Couples Vibrator was specifically created for a man and a woman to wear while making love. The toy slips on the panty companion via two insertable straps, and is held in place over the woman’s clitoris by the panty. This actually makes it completely hands free, which is essential when keeping passion and spontaneity alive in the bedroom. The design of the product actually does not interfere at all with intercourse – a man can penetrate his partner without moving, bumping or shutting off the motor.

The vibrator is also designed not to be too strong when wearing during sex. Some “wearable” clitoris vibrators are way too intense to be worn while actually having sex. They’re great for masturbation, but end up being really uncomfortable to wear during intercourse. Also, the FixSation Couples Vibrator won’t bother your man either, like many other sex toys out there. He’ll feel the vibrations, but he won’t have the sense you’re wearing some strange contraption between your legs. This product is very slim, discreet and sexy to wear!

Wearing During Masturbation

Although the FixSation Couples Vibrator is designed to be used during intercourse, you can wear it during masturbation as well. The vibrations will be weaker, but it can be a great tease to build you up until your partner can finish you off!

Try wearing it to work one day – believe it or not, this toy IS quiet enough to wear in public? Probably not somewhere that is really, really quiet but a normal work environment or even the supermarket is a fun place to try out a secret exhibitionist fantasy. You can also plan a shopping trip to the mall while wearing your FixSation Couples Vibrator – let it tease you throughout your shopping trip, and when you get home to your lover, you’ll be ready to explode!

Best Sex Toys & Vibrators Of 2011

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Sex toys and vibrators make getting it on so much more fun!

Using a vibrator or a g-spot stimulator can help a woman to discover new things about her body and have orgasms like she’s never had before, while masturbating with a soft jelly or silicone sleeve can feel way better than his hand.

Items specifically designed for sexual pleasure are becoming more and more popular, with less and less taboo surrounding them. Many people are choosing to take sexual pleasure into their own hands and investing in sex toys for the very first time. Also, more and more couples are venturing into the sex toy arena in an effort to spice up their sex life. Using sex toys as a couple, either on each other or as an addition to oral sex or fingering, can make sex with your partner hotter than it ever has been before!

Check out our favorite sex toys articles and reviews of the year here!

Also, don’t forget to check out the all-time best sex toy articles!

Here are some our favorite sex toys that we’ve tried this year – don’t forget to get yours!

4 Sex Toys For More Adventurous Couples

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Sex toys range from tame to totally crazy – and everything in between. If you and your partner want to visit the wild side, these sex toys are a must have!a

The Accomodator Dual Penetrator

This little dildo is actually worn by the man during sex. It functions as a cock ring too, because one of the “straps” slides around the man’s shaft to hold the dildo in place. The second “strap” wraps around the scrotum, holding the dildo in place just below a man’s actual penis.

What is incredible about this sex toy is that it’s one of the first of it’s kind. Sure, a guy can use a dildo or a vibrator on his girl, but almost never while he is penetrating her himself. This toy changes all of that – for the first time, a man can have double penetration with his girl with only him! He can enjoy the feeling of doing her in both holes at once! A woman can also enjoy the feeling of double penetration without having to use something on herself and without having to engage in a threesome.

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Waterproof Prostate Massager

Many women love giving their men pleasure. Often, the greatest pleasure a woman can give her partner is with a blowjob. Give a man a killer blowjob and you’ll leave him weak in the knees! For some fellas, a blowjob is even better than actual sex. But what if a woman could intensify the orgasm she gives a guy, even on TOP of her best oral sex skills?

She can, if she massages his prostate at the same time. The prostate gland is often referred to as a man’s “g-spot,” and when stimulated, it can give a guy the most powerful, load shooting orgasms he’s ever had in his life. Try using a prostate massager next time you give your lover a blowjob. Yes, you have to put it up his bum, but the title of the article does say that these sex toys are for kinkier partners. Make sure you’re using plenty of lube and that you get him fully aroused. In fact, start with your finger. It never hurts to “start small” and work your way up.

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The Rhino

The Rhino is a penis extension that has lots of other uses also. Place it over your penis for a much longer, thicker cock (use the sizing core if your penis is too short), or use it as a masturbation sleeve, a dildo all by itself or even a vibrator sleeve! While it’s primary use is the best, this thing is pretty versatile if you want to use your imagination.

The thing that makes The Rhino such a “kinky” toy for partners is that it’s really, really huge! It’s extremely long (about 8″) and very thick. This makes it an excellent sex toy to use if you’re role playing different fantasies or if you and your partner want to experiment with a really huge schlong!

Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers

These vibrating nipple clamps were made with smaller nippled women in mind, so make sure you’re aware of what you’re getting (and what you’re packing in your bra) before you go making a purchase. However, if you do have small nipples (or your partner does) and you want to experiment with some extreme nipple action, these are the ones you want to get.

The clamps are comfortable if you’re small enough and can be worn by both men and women. They tiny vibrating bullets actually cause the clamps to heat up somewhat, so they’re even more fun once you get going. You can also use them as clitoris or labia clamps, which can actually feel better than using them on the nipples. The vibrations and heat are intense, so these really are for kinkier lovers! Use them during sex with your lover or during masturbation for a totally new, orgasmic experience.

Read the full review for the Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers here!

No matter what sex toys you choose for your bedroom fun, how kinky and wild you get all depends on your attitude. Sex toys and other props can help, but you can also have tons of naughty fun without a single prop – just use your creativity!

5 Signs YOUR Sex Toy Is Potentially Hazardous To Your Health!

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Sex toys touch the most sensitive parts of your body, so safety is top priority! Most people don’t know they can be dangerous. Is it time for YOU to upgrade?

Sex toys are wonderful things and can enhance any sexual experience whether it’s just you, you and your partner or you and a bunch of people! But not all sex toys are created equal. Some are low quality and won’t last very long but some are actually harmful to your body. Cigarettes come with a warning label now but sex toys don’t. Consider this your warning label! Here are 5 signs that your sex toy is potentially hazardous.

It Smells Funny

Have you ever had a sex toy that smelled bad? Whether it smells like old tires, old gym socks or just plain stinks, it’s a sure sign that all may not be right with that toy. Materials such as Jelly, rubber, PVC, vinyl, cyber/real-skin varieties and even some TPR/TPE can leach out any one of the many plastic softening chemicals used to create the material. These chemicals carry a strong odor. Other causes of odd smells can be something as simple as an error in the manufacturing process – maybe they didn’t let the glue cure long enough before packaging it up; maybe they used too much cleaner during the end stages and the smell is trapped inside the packaging. If the sex toy is made from a porous material it will likely “soak up” these odors and hang on to them. Not everyone has a reaction to these chemicals; but at any given time any sex toy can contain various levels of these chemicals and there are no regulations. You could be fine with one jelly toy and then have another one leave you with a burning/itching feeling inside.

You Feel All Tingly Inside

And I don’t mean from an orgasm. If you’ve not used a lubricant, or have switched to a “sensitive” formula lubricant and still get a tingling/burning/itching feeling or visible inflammation then the culprit is the sex toy. As mentioned above, some sex toys contain plastic softening chemicals or other chemicals that can be an irritant for some people. The reaction you get might range from a vague, short-lived tingle or itch to a full-blown low-grade chemical burn that takes a week or more to heal.

There Is A Crack Or Tear In The Material

Always examine your sex toys before you use them. Any sex toy can get damaged for any number of reasons. A crack in plastic or a gash in soft material means that it is time to ditch the toy. Bacteria can harbor in those cracks and tears. Do you own a wooden dildo? They’re wonderful (and no splinters, I promise!) but if you ever notice that the varnish/shiny coating is missing in a spot or looks like old, crackly paint then the dildo needs to go. It’s the coating that keeps a wooden dildo non-porous.

It’s Made From Porous Material

A lot of the less expensive sex toys are made from materials that can be porous. The same materials that can harbor foul-smelling chemicals are also usually porous. Porous means that it can never be disinfected or sanitized from bacteria. Anyone who uses a toy anally that is porous should trade up for something made of silicone (or glass, or metal!) to keep bacteria in check. If you won’t get rid of the toy and it doesn’t have a smell, you should at least cover it with a condom for added safety.

You Have No Idea What Material It’s Made From

So you purchased the sex toy from an online reseller that didn’t list all the properties and specs of the toy. Or you went to your local “adult bookstore” and purchased a vibrator where the packaging is merely a blisterpack with a photo of a hot girl or guy and some marketing words that promise orgasmic nirvana. It’s ok, we’ve all probably done this at some point in our lives. If you don’t know what the material is then don’t buy it or stop using it.

Silicone Is The Way To Go!

Now that you’re looking at your sex toys with a suspicious eye and wondering if you should just give up on sex toys altogether let me give you some advice: Silicone. Purchased from a reputable manufacturer, silicone (as long as it’s 100% pure medical grade silicone) is the perfect sex toy material. Non-porous, it never stinks, and lasts a long time (just don’t use a silicone-based lubricant on it, that will ruin it). Silicone can be sanitized/disinfected; so can glass, hard plastic, ceramic and metal. Are you still dubious? It’s understandable since there are no regulations and manufacturers can say what they want.

A simple test to be sure that your silicone toy is truly medical-grade 100% silicone is called the “flame test.” Using a lighter, apply the flame carefully to a small spot on the toy for 5 seconds. Silicone can withstand temperatures past 500 degrees Fahrenheit, so if it melted, it is not silicone. If there is a black scorch mark that doesn’t rub off, then it’s not pure silicone. Glass and metal are also favorites of mine but can be a little scary for the uninitiated. Just be sure to keep the size down since hard materials are less forgiving.

Q&A: Sex Toys For Virgins

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Sex toys aren’t just for advanced users. Virgins who choose not to have sex yet still want satisfaction! Whether you’re a teen looking into exploring your body before choosing to become sexually active, or you’re abstaining from sex but still want to have great orgasms, you definitely want to have a great sex toy in your nightstand! However, a huge dildo probably isn’t the best choice. What are good sex toy choices for virgins or women who are abstaining from intercourse?

Question: I’m a young virgin, and I want an inexpensive sex toy that won’t stretch me out. Any suggestions?

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Clitoral Vibrators

First off, if you don’t want to deal with insertion at all, your best option is a vibrator designed specifically for the clitoris. All it does is sit on top of the clitoris and vibrate – no insertion required! This is also the perfect choice if you’re a virgin and don’t want to stretch yourself out or damage your hymen in any way. In fact, many women prefer clitoral vibrators over other styles of sex toys simply because they can provide some of the best orgasms! The clitoris was designed for sexual pleasure – and that’s it! It has no other function at all except to provide pleasure. Many women – even very sexually experienced ones – choose clitoral vibrators again and again simply because it’s one of the easiest and best ways to reach climax!

Small, Slender And Discreet Vibrators

There are many small and slender vibrators out there that are designed for insertion, but they are so slender, they’re not going to stretch you out at all. In fact, many slender vibrators are thinner than a tampon! While you definitely want to stay away from Rabbit style sex toys (those can be quite large and are better suited to advanced sex toy users) and large dildos, small and slender vibrators might just be right up your alley. Most of these types of sex toys are designed to be discreet, and can fit in your purse or may look like a tube of lipstick. These make excellent starter sex toys, especially if you’ve never had sex before and are just starting to experiment with sex toys!

Bullet And Torpedo Style Vibrators

A bullet style vibrator is a must have for every woman, simply because it is so small and versatile. A simple bullet vibe can be placed on the clitoris or in the vagina, and some of them can be inserted into cock rings and used for couples pleasure (when you get there). Torpedo style vibes are also popular – they’re generally just a longer version of the bullet vibe. Jimmy Jane makes excellent torpedo style vibrators – they’re extremely classy and barely even an inch in width. G-spot vibrators are also popular, because they typically have a larger bulb on the top, followed by very slender handle.

Remember That Your Vagina Is Made To Stretch

While you certainly don’t want to purchase any sex toys that make you feel uncomfortable or feel too big for you, keep in mind that your vagina is designed to stretch and return to it’s normal shape. It’s not as though you’re going to put a vibrator in there and your vagina is going to stretch out and never return to it’s normal size. It will! The vagina will even return to it’s normal size and shape after giving birth – and that is definitely stretching. The only thing that won’t return to normal after using an insertable sex toy if you’re a virgin is your hymen – once you break that, it’s done and over with. But also know that the hymen can be broken during a variety of non-sexual activities, such as horseback riding, gymnastics, or even inserting a tampon.

Inexpensive Sex Toys

While there are lots of inexpensive sex toys out there that are great, there are many that aren’t so great. While price is a good thing to keep in mind when shopping for sex toys, you really don’t want to compromise on quality. Make sure whatever toy you choose is manufactured with body safe, phthalate free materials (or slip a condom over it if you’re not sure) and is made by a reputable company. Buying cheap sex toys may make your wallet feel better now, but you won’t be pleased when you open the package and find that it stinks like chemicals or the vibrations are weak. If you can find actual user reviews on the sex toys you’re considering purchasing, read through them! They can really help you decide whether or not a particular toy is right for you.