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How To Bring Out Your Inner MILF

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I remember when I first heard the term MILF. I spent time wondering what it was and ‘googling’ my way to becoming more informed on the code name. Coming across such websites as ‘milf hunter’ (kinky and somewhat funny because it’s so fake, in my opinion) and then realizing that MILF actually meant ‘Mother-I’d-Like-to-Fuck’.

I gotta admit, a devilish grin came across my face. Was this the category I was now in? No longer the fresh little kitty who could make men purrrr… Now I was identified as a ‘mother’ – it was different.

For me, the term MILF just inspires those of us who crave to hold fast to our desirable & sexual side of life. It means there is a SEXUAL creature under all of the “mommy-ness” that shields us.

Perhaps the ‘kitty’ had just evolved into a well experienced TIGRESS – and that was okay with me. After all, I happen to believe a true TIGRESS can make a man scream with passion v.s. a little kitty who can only entice a purr….

Losing Sight Of Our Sexual Prowess

On another note however, many women tend to lose sight of their sexual prowess once they become consumed by motherhood. It happens – a lot. It’s the tried & tested rule that most couples experience a lowering in sexual activity when children come into their lives.

I feel it’s so important for us “Mamas” to celebrate our sexuality and continue to harvest it. Too many women lose their individuality and the sexual connection with their partners with being so Mommy-focused.

It’s important to find the space where your sexual being still exists & to NEVER lose it. We all know who these Mommies are. They carry themselves well. They still have the swagger yet benefit from having more life experience and most often are in the throes of their prime sexual years.

Believe me, I take my kids to the park, I grocery shop with them, etc, etc. That doesn’t mean I can’t look good doing it! When you feel sexy, people know it.

I think in most cases a MILF is even more desirable then a fresh kitty. We are sexually mature women in our prime!  We know what we want & more importantly, how to get it!

Bringing Out Your Inner MILF….

Bringing out your MILF-iest self doesn’t have to be a grandiose undertaking.  Sometimes it’s the little things.  Wear heels when you grocery shop, walk like you KNOW you’ve got a great thong on under those jeans.

Even the kinkiest of MILF’s can carry off that prowess with the just rolled out of bed look. A hot pair of sunglasses and some flirty lipstick is sometimes all it takes. 

The important point here is that you BELIEVE IT! FEEL like you are the erotic sexual being you know exists beneath the surface of your Motherly responsibilities. 

Not everyone with GREAT sex appeal is the best looking, but FEELING the sexual vibe can do a lot for yourself and your confidence and for getting noticed.  Don’t dread your 30’s & 40’s ladies. WORK ‘em! 

Isn’t this the age where we feel the most comfortable in our own skin?  Take it a step further and exude your most sexually MILF-charged self! 

Here’s to my MILF sistas of the world; never lose your swagger ladies! Someone is always taking notice.

MILF Fantasy – Should I Have Sex With My Ex’s Mom?

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When it comes to dating, finding the opportunity to make your move can be intimidating and frustrating. Fortunately, sometimes the universe smiles in your favor and gives you a golden opportunity.

What if you don’t take it, only to realize later on that you wished you would have taken it? Have you lost the opportunity forever?

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Realizing It Too Late

Whether you were at a dinner party where your prospective partner had a little too much wine and let you give them a massage, or whether you’re in a dark theater and their hand gently caresses yours, a golden opportunity is what it is. It’s the perfect time to make your move and see what happens and where it goes.

If you find that you’ve only noticed this opportunity after the opportunity has already passed, you may be feeling angry at yourself for missing it or realizing it too late. You’re not alone!

Plenty of people miss great opportunities in the dating world, although that might not make it any easier for you to cope with an opportunity missed. The question then becomes, have you totally blown it?

Recreating The Chance

Sometimes when you miss a chance to get with someone, you have a chance to recreate the opportunity and try again. While this doesn’t always happen, you can try. Think about how to recreate what happened when you missed your “golden opportunity.”

Did it happen at the movie theater? Invite your prospective date to another movie. Do what you can to recreate the mood and ambiance of your opportunity.

You Might Have Missed Out

Recreating your missed opportunity might be a good idea, but it doesn’t always work and you should realize that before giving it a go. Many times, people make decisions that they wish they hadn’t later. For example, that great massage after the dinner party might have been something that person regretted or wished hadn’t happened.

They might be grateful it didn’t go any farther than that. Be prepared to find out that your missed opportunity happened only because of a lapse in judgment.

Picking Up The Spare

Being successful in recreating your golden opportunity can feel a bit like picking up the spare in bowling. Consider that your potential partner may have opened up the opportunity the first time because they like you. It is certainly possible.

If this is the case, they might be disappointed that you didn’t take them up on it, but they could still be open to taking it further if you pursue making a move of your own. If this is the case, you’ll likely be more successful in recreating your opportunity and nabbing a date or a kiss.

If this should happen, you can easily explain to your date that you didn’t realize the opportunity was knocking the first time around but you’re definitely into them and want to take it further.

No matter which way you go about it, you’re going to have to accept the fact that you might have blown it. Then again, you might not have. The only way to find out is to try again. Recreate your opportunity and see what happens. You might be surprised!