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Homemade Sex Toys – Should You Really Make Your Own?

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Homemade sex toys – you’ve heard about them. The housewife who selects a perfectly shaped cucumber at the grocery store but won’t be cooking with it, or the teenager who uses her spinning toothbrush on more than just her teeth…. With the availability of sex toys these days, not to mention just how very discreet they can be, why are people still using homemade sex toys? Are homemade sex toys safe?
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Why People Still Use Homemade Sex Toys

Both men and women still use homemade sex toys for several reasons – many people still believe that actual sex toys are hard to find or expensive, and they’re afraid of others (such as their children) finding their sex toys. Fortunately, these things just aren’t true anymore about sex toys. Many sex toys are inexpensive and a great number of them are incredibly discreet (tube of lipstick in your purse, anyone?) and no one but you will really know the difference. Sex toys are easy to buy online, will show up at your house in discreet packaging and even the transaction on your bank account will be discreet enough that someone simply looking at your bank statement won’t know what that particular transaction was about. Why not get a real sex toy?

Sex Toy Safety

While the benefits of homemade sex toys are that they’re inexpensive, readily available and discreet, they’re not worth risking your health with. Homemade sex toys aren’t safe – some of them can injure your most sensitive areas and even carry bacteria that can cause you serious infections that are expensive to treat under a doctor’s care. It’s not worth taking the risk! Read on about some of the great – and inexpensive – sex toys that you can use that will make your masturbation sessions better and safer.

Boy Toys

While a number of men masturbate with their hands, some men are into finding “toys” that they can masturbate with to try to recreate the feeling of a mouth or a vagina. Men have been known to use fruit, fabric, pillows and even harsh toilet paper rolls! Come on guys! Most sex toy stores and websites have silicone masturbators that you can use instead, that are soft and squishy and have a number of pleasure enhancing factors. A plain silicone masturbator is truly inexpensive, but for a real treat, you can try one with firm pleasure beads inside or one that is ridged or studded. Some are even shaped like anuses, mouths and vaginas to make masturbating even more fun! They’re safe too – just remember to use plenty of water based lubricant!

Girl Toys

While some men do use homemade sex toys, women are the ones who really get a bad rap about it. Women have been known to use everything from vegetables to hairbrushes to bottles and everything in between. There are a variety of sex toys available for women though, most of them so discreet you wouldn’t be able to tell them apart from a curling iron or even a fancy pen. Plus, homemade sex toys don’t vibrate! Real sex toys are easy to clean, and you don’t have to worry about bacteria that could cause an infection. They’re not expensive either! Real sex toys will give you everything you want in a toy, but without the worries that come along with homemade sex toys. If you are going to use a homemade sex toy though, throw a condom on it first to protect yourself.

Ready to graduate from homemade sex toys to the real thing?

Luxury Vibrators – The Best Sex Toys You’ll Ever Own

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Vibrators – they’re available almost everywhere. On the Internet, in traditional sex toy stores and even in some novelty mall stores and department stores. There are thousands of different kinds of vibrators in many different price ranges with a whole host of features. How on earth do you go about choosing one that you know will work for you?

High End Vibrators

While there are a number of modestly priced vibrators that are easily available for purchase, they often will break quickly or won’t do the job right. If you want a quality, whisper quiet vibrator, your best bet is to go with a high end vibrator. Although these types are more expensive than ones that you’ll find in novelty stores, you will get so much more for your money. If you’ve ever bought cheaper products and ended up having to replace them several times, you might already know that a more expensive product will actually save you money in the long run. But what if you could find the perfect vibrator with everything you wanted that was sleek and discreet? Believe it or not, sex toys have come a long way from the tacky dildos of the past and the perfect vibrator isn’t just wishful thinking anymore.

LELO Vibrators

Want the ultimate class available in a vibrator? LELO’s sleek toys are among the best the world has to offer in vibrators and you’ll be surprised at how well they do the job. The ultra sleek, Nea clitoral massager fits right in the palm of your hand and is incredibly quiet, while the GiGi will give you rocking G-Spot orgasms in mere minutes. LELO’s toys are made with body safe materials and are discreet enough to bring along with you anywhere. Don’t forget about the super chic men’s toys available from LELO – say goodbye to bulky, tacky anal plugs and say hello to “Bob”: the sleekest, most stylish ‘gentleman’s’ plug available.

Jimmy Jane Toys

Jimmy Jane’s products come in a variety of styles and colors, offering exquisite pleasure with the widest array of choices. Why limit yourself when it comes to your own pleasure? Try a classier version of the iconic “Rabbit” vibrator, or explore the incredible completely waterproof, rechargable Form 6 vibrator with a cordless charging dock. If you really want to wrap yourself in luxury, indulge in one of Jimmy Jane’s famous slim vibrators in real platinum or real gold, adorned with almost a carat of conflict-free diamonds. Set the mood with Jimmy Jane’s ultra luxurious fantasy suede play sets, or scent your room with sexy, delicious emollient candles. And for the men and their partners to use simultaneously, the Iconic Ring is a waterproof penis ring that will keep you erect and titillate your partner’s clitoris in a chic and modern way!

Vibrators can be a great addition to your sex life whether you’re flying solo or with a partner. Finding the right vibrator for you doesn’t have to be an ordeal of spending tons of money just to be disappointed. Just put together what you would have spent on a multitude of cheaper, tackier vibrators and just buy one luxe, perfect vibrator that you’ll keep for the rest of your life. Who says pleasure isn’t a smart investment?

Vibrators 101

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Vibrators are probably the most taboo yet most used of sex toys that are available around the world. Most couples have vibrators for extra fun in the bedroom, and there’s a great deal of single women and men that use vibrators to satisfy their sexual desires in the absence of a partner. So if so many people use vibrators, how come no one is talking about them? Here’s what you want to know about vibrators and sex toys – and more!

Vibrators For Couples

Contrary to popular belief, couples can get as much use out of vibrators and sex toys as single adults can! They can add tons of fun in the bedroom, as well as help women achieve orgasm who are not ordinarily able to without intense clitoral and G-Spot stimulation.

What kind of vibrators can couples use? Anything, really! Some vibrators are made specifically with couples in mind, however, such as vibrators that are remote controlled, or panty vibrators. These allow one partner to become in control of the other partner’s pleasure, bringing some big surprises in the bedroom! G-Spot vibrators, such as the rabbit vibrator, are also popular for couples because some men have trouble reaching and stimulating a woman’s G-Spot during intercourse. Using a G-Spot vibrator with your partner can help her to achieve intense, toe-curling G-Spot orgasms that she might not otherwise have!

Vibrators For Singles

Many single women – and men – keep vibrators and sex toys around to help keep their sexual desires satisfied when they’re not with a partner. This is probably the most common use for a vibrator and there are many different varieties and types of sex toys that can be used if you’re single and going solo. Bullet vibrators and finger vibrators are popular for women, because they’re easy to use and deliver intense vibrations for that quick, get-it-done orgasm that many women prefer to have when they’re “clicking their own mouse.” The rabbit vibrator is also a great option for single women, because it delivers incredible G-Spot stimulation in addition to clitoral tickling that can give a woman the type of body-rocking orgasm she’s never had before!

Discreet Vibrators

A lot of women and men prefer discreet vibrators – sleek, simple looking vibrators that really could be mistaken for a variety of different things. There are also a number of sex toys that are shaped like other things, such as lipstick tubes, cucumbers and rubber duckies, allowing you to never have to worry about where your vibrator is and who might see it. Some of these types of vibrators slip easily into a purse or pocketbook, so you can take your pleasure with you wherever you go!

Safety Note: Men using dildos/vibrators as well as women using dildos/vibrators for anal sex should always use those made with a wide base, because traditional vibrators can easily slip fully into the anal cavity, causing you a very embarrassing and completely preventable emergency room visit.

The most important thing to remember about vibrators is to never share sex toys with your friends, wash them regularly and have fun! Vibrators and sex toys are a great way for adults to explore their bodies and their sexuality in a safe way. If you don’t own a vibrator, now is the time to get one!

Sex Toys 101 – Vibrators Unleashed!

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Sex toys and vibrators are among the most taboo sex topics – who uses sex toys and vibrators? Where can you get them? Can couples use them, or are they just for solo play? What kind of vibrators can you get? Here’s what you need to know when it comes to sex toys and vibrators – and more!

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

I’d really like to try using a vibrator – how do I know which one is the right one for me?

–Lisa, Texas

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Vibrator Myths

There are a lot of myths surrounding sex toys and vibrators. First of all, vibrators won’t replace men! Many men are afraid that a vibrator will give a woman such intense sexual pleasure that she won’t desire actual sex anymore, but that’s simply not true! There’s nothing that replaces the closeness and intimacy of sex with your partner, not even the best and most expensive vibrator. Vibrators aren’t just for solo use either – couples can have a lot of fun with vibrators by sharing their pleasure with each other through toys. Vibrators aren’t all expensive and big either – they come in all shapes, sizes and prices to fit your needs best. Experiment with different types of sex toys and vibrators to find out which ones you like best!

G-Spot Vibrators

G-Spot vibrators are some of the most popular vibrators available. They’re curved and when used properly, they can help you reach the ultimate G-Spot stimulation! They’re fun to use with a partner or just by yourself and can be incorporated into many different types of sex play. Many G-Spot vibrators come equipped with clitoral stimulators that can help give you dual pleasure.

Clitoral Vibrators

Clitoral vibrators are also popular, because many women can only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. They can be used with or without a partner, and there are many types of clitoral vibrators that can be used during sex to provide heightened pleasure. Many are available in waterproof versions and most of them can fit almost any budget.

Discreet Vibrators

Many women prefer to use smaller, discreet vibrators that can’t easily be distinguished from another item. They often fit in a purse or a pocketbook and can be disguised as a lighter, a tube of lipstick or other types of every day items. They’re economical and contrary to popular belief, the right discreet vibrator can pack quite a punch.

Finger Vibrators

Finger vibrators are exactly what they sound like – vibrators that fit right onto your finger! While many couples use finger vibrators together, they’re great for female masturbation because they work well with the way a woman naturally masturbates. Some finger vibrators can be expensive, but many can be found at a good price.

Remote, Bullet and Egg Vibrators

Remote vibrators are best shared with a partner, although it can be equally fun to use a remote vibrator by yourself. It can be really fun to put your pleasure in someone else’s hands! Not all vibrators are big and bulky – bullet and egg vibrators are small and shaped like bullets or eggs, providing comfort, versatility and intense pleasure.

If you’re interested in buying a vibrator for use by yourself or with your partner, there are a multitude of websites that offer the widest variety of vibrators so you can find the one you’re looking for. Just remember, have fun and experiment with different vibrators! You might find that you like more than one!

What You Need To Know About Anal Sex Toys

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Anal sex is becoming more and more popular among couples as people take the time to learn about anal sex and how it can be stimulating, satisfying and safe!

The most important thing to consider when using sex toys for anal sex is safety – having anal sex is nothing like having vaginal sex because you have to be a lot more careful. Here’s what you need to know about anal sex and the most popular anal sex toys.

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

I’d like to have anal sex using toys – are there toys built just for anal sex? What is the best toy to use?

–Sarah, Idaho

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Before You Begin

Before you begin anal sex, make sure you have what you need on hand, such as plenty of lubricant. Don’t use a numbing lubricant during anal sex, because you could inhibit pain receptors that play an important factor in letting you know if something goes wrong. Anal sex should be introduced slowly and be very aware that anal tissue is more sensitive than vaginal or oral tissue and can tear easily. Remember that the anal cavity is not self lubricating like a vagina is – make sure to use lots and lots of lubricant during anal sex whether you’re having anal sex with your partner or using an anal sex toy.

Which Toys Are Safest?

The safest anal sex toys are those that are designed for anal sex only. Most of these toys have a wide enough base to prevent the toy from “getting lost” in the anal cavity, and this is an important feature to have on an anal sex toy. Many vaginal sex toys don’t have wide bases because a woman’s body prevents toys or other things from getting lost – they can always come out. This isn’t true of the anal cavity though and if something goes too far in, you might need a doctor’s help in getting it out. Make sure your anal toys have a wide base to prevent the toy from slipping to far in the anus. Another benefit of the wide base is that they fit nicely into strap on harnesses, allowing more freedom of sex play both vaginally and anally.

Curved Anal Toys

Anal toys can be fun for both men and women, and men actually have an inner pleasure spot within their anal cavity, similar to a woman’s g-spot. This is called the prostate gland, and you can use a curved anal toy to better stimulate a man’s prostate for increased pleasure and more satisfying anal sex.

Remember The Most Important Thing

The most important thing about having anal sex and using anal sex toys is not only to go slow and only go with what you’re comfortable with, but to have fun! If something is painful, or if you’re just not comfortable with something, find another toy or try another sex activity that works to satisfy both you and your partner. If you like anal sex and enjoy using toys for anal sex, make sure to get the ones that are manufactured specifically for that purpose. If anal sex or anal sex toys just aren’t your thing, there are thousands of different ways to pleasure yourself and your partner that doesn’t involve the backdoor at all. If, however, you really enjoy that backdoor action, keep it safe and keep it fun!