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Romantic Valentine’s Day Cocktail Recipes

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Spice up this Valentine’s Day with a few drinks concocted with cupid’s special day in mind. These drink recipes will invoke everything that makes Valentine’s Day special – sex, kissing, orgasms, romance and love! Surprise your significant other with a super special, pink frothy drink on the 14th, or have fun making different cocktails together and trying them out. You can also host a trendy Valentine’s Day bash and serve a few of these drinks to your guests! Enjoy!

Strawberry Kiss

  • 1 1/2 oz. vanilla vodka
  • 1/2 oz. strawberry liqueur
  • Splash of cranberry and pineapple juice
  • Splash of champagne
  • 1 strawberry

Mix together vanilla vodka, strawberry liqueur, cranberry and pineapple juice in an ice shaker. Strain into short hurricane glass or wine glass. Drop the strawberry in the bottom of the glass and top with a splash of your favorite champagne. This drink will remind you of kissing your lover sweetly on the lips!

Chocolate Covered Cherry Cocktail

  • 1 part pink or rose vodka
  • 1/2 part maraschino liqueur
  • 3/4 ounce creme de cacao
  • 1 tablespoon chocolate sauce
  • 1 chocolate covered cherry
  • 1 maraschino cherry

Everyone’s favorite Valentine’s Day treat is a chocolate covered cherry. Turn this delectable treat into an adult beverage! Drizzle the inside of a martini glass with chocolate. Set it aside and mix together vodka, maraschino liqueur and creme de cacao into a drink shaker with ice. Shake well and strain into your chocolate drizzled martini glass. To garnish, thread a chocolate covered cherry and a maraschino cherry on a cocktail pick. Simply divine!

Love Potion

  • 1 oz gold rum
  • 1 oz orange liqueur
  • Splash of lemon juice
  • 2 oz grapefruit juice

Make your partner fall in love with you all over again with this pretty potion. Mix all ingredients together and pour over ice in an old fashioned glass or a lowball glass.  Garnish this delicious drink with a twist of lemon or an orange slice.

Chocolate Kiss

  • 1 oz. White Creme de Cacao
  • 1 oz. Frangelico
  • 1 oz. Vodka
  • 1 Hershey’s Kiss Chocolate

Everyone loves chocolate on Valentine’s Day, so why limit it to a simple box of chocolates? Take your love of chocolate to the next level with this sinful martini. Start by mixing all liquid ingredients into shaker filled with ice, shaking well. Strain into a martini glass. Add the Hershey’s kiss to the bottom of the martini glass and serve immediately. If you really want to make this drink perfect, melt a bit of chocolate in a double boiler and dip the rims of your martini glasses in the chocolate. Set glasses on a cookie sheet and chill until chocolate is set!

Orgasm

  • 1 oz. Irish Cream
  • 1 oz. Triple Sec
  • 2/3 oz. Grand Marnier
  • 1 maraschino cherry

Who doesn’t want an orgasm on Valentine’s Day? Give your partner an amazing orgasm in bed and follow it up with an orgasm nightcap for an incredible evening! Shake all ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice and strain into a glass. You can serve this drink in a variety of ways, including in a shooter, a lowball glass or an old fashioned glass. Garnish either with a cherry dropped in the glass or threaded on a cocktail pick.

Raspberry Truffle

  • 1 part raspberry liqueur
  • 1 part Godiva liqueur
  • 1 part cream
  • 3 raspberries
  • Chocolate shavings

If you want a drink that is as pretty as it is delicious, go with the Raspberry Truffle. Take a chilled martini glass and layer the ingredients in thirds, starting with the raspberry liqueur, then the chocolate liqueur and then finally the cream. The trick to layering cocktails is to pour the liqueur over the back of a spoon into the glass. Top with chocolate shavings and garnish with 3 raspberries threaded on a cocktail pick. Dark and decadent!

The Flirtini

  • 1 oz. Triple Sec
  • Splash of champagne
  • 3/4 oz. vodka
  • 2 oz. pineapple juice

What’s Valentine’s Day without a little flirting? Make this delicious drink with  by shaking all of the liquid ingredients (with the exception of the champagne) in a cocktail shaker with ice. Strain gently into a tall champagne flute with two ice cubes. Add the splash of champagne on top and get ready to get your flirt on.

Red Hot Lover

  • 2 oz. peach schnapps
  • 2 oz. vodka
  • 1 dash grenadine
  • 2 1/2 oz. orange juice
  • 2 1/2 oz. strawberry margarita mix
  • Pair of cherries

Be a red hot lover this Valentine’s Day with this delicious and addicting drink. Mix all liquid ingredients together and pour over ice into a hurricane glass. Garnish with cherries – preferably a pair of cherries that are still stuck together at the stems so you can drape the cherries over the side of the glass with one cherry inside the glass. Don’t be surprised if this drink gets your partner in the mood for sex!

5 Cheap Valentine’s Day Surprises For Your Partner – For Under $10

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Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to surprise your partner with some amazing gifts, but does that mean you have to buy flowers, chocolate, champagne or jewelry to make the day special? Absolutely not! You can make Valentine’s Day the best one your lover’s ever had by being creative – and checking out these great ideas that your wallet will definitely appreciate.

Jar Of Hearts

Before Valentine’s Day, buy one of those huge jars of pickles from the grocery store and transfer the pickles into a large plastic container. Your shopping list should also include red or pink paint and red, pink and white construction paper. Yes, this is starting to sound like a kid’s Valentine’s Day craft project, but rest assured that your partner will absolutely love it when you’re done. Cut the construction paper into medium sized hearts, enough to fill the jar as full as you’d like – the fuller it is with paper hearts, the better. On each heart, you’re going to write something you love about your partner. Put all the hearts in the jar and swipe a layer or two of red or pink paint on the jar lid. Tie a red ribbon around the top for an extra-special touch. Leave it somewhere your lover will find it on Valentine’s Day!

Project Estimate:

Pickle Jar $5, Construction Paper $3, Paint $1 = $9

Photo Montage

If you have a lot of photos of you and your significant other together, consider putting together a photo montage together for Valentine’s Day. There are lots of ways the end project can turn out, but you have to get your photo prints first. Most places (both online and off) will do a single 4×6″ photo print for about $0.08, but watch for special offers from online companies like Winkflash – where you can sometimes get 50 free prints and $0.99 shipping if you’re a new customer. Using an online photo printing company is also better if your pictures are in a digital format. Buy a poster size frame and a sheet of poster board, cutting the poster board to fit the frame. Glue the pictures to the poster board and mount in the frame. Voila! A sweet, thoughtful photo montage that will sweep your partner off their feet.

Project Estimate:

Frame $5, Poster Board $0.50, Glue $1, Photos $3 = $9.50

Sensual Massage

Women love getting massages, but coughing up $50 for a Valentine’s Day gift certificate for an hour long massage isn’t within a lot of guys’ February budgets. Try giving your partner a erotic massage yourself for Valentine’s Day instead! It’s a great gift because you can make it last as long as you want and it’s incredibly inexpensive. You probably want to splurge on some kind of scented or pheromone laced massage oil to set the mood and relax your partner, such as Adam & Eve’s Pheromone Massage Oil. Candles are optional but definitely well worth it if you decide to get them – you can often find a large bag of plain tea light candles at the dollar store. Imagine the romance you’ll create with a hundred tea light candles! Bonus points if it leads to sex!

Project Estimate:

Adam & Eve’s Pheromone Massage Oil $5 (50% off and free shipping with offer code DANJENN), Tea Lights $2 = $7

Dinner And A Movie – At Home

Instead of going out on Valentine’s Day, why not stay in? Plan a romantic candlelight dinner at home cooked by you, followed by a night of romantic movies (or whatever movies you and your partner enjoy most). Make whatever you were planning on making for dinner anyways, but spice it up by putting it on your best dinnerware and eating by candlelight at the table. Play some soft music and definitely don’t turn on the TV! Pop some microwave popcorn and rent a few movies from your local movie kiosk. Enjoy!

Project Estimate:

Taper Candles $3, Candle Holders $2, Movie Rentals $2 = $7

Balloon Notes

Buy a pack of Valentine’s Day themed balloons and some construction paper. Cut the construction paper out into hearts, making as many hearts as there are balloons. Write something you love about your partner on each heart and place it inside the balloon. Blow the balloon up and tie it off, writing “Pop Me” on the balloons with a Sharpie marker. Scatter the balloons all over your partner’s bedroom floor before they wake up in the morning and make sure you set the alarm a little earlier than usual so they have time to pop all the balloons and read your loving messages before heading to work for the day!

Project Estimate:

Construction Paper $3, Balloons $2.50, Sharpie Marker $1 = $6.50

10 Valentine’s Day Sex Toys That You’ll Both Love

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Giving the perfect Valentine’s Day gift is easy when you remember that Valentine’s Day is all about love, romance and hot, steamy sex! Sex toys make great gifts for the 14th, and they’re usually things you and your partner can enjoy together! Plan a night full of trying new things and give her a brand new Valentine’s Day vibrator or glass dildo that she’ll absolutely love. Adam & Eve has tons of great cupid themed gifts that will make your partner swoon.

Don’t forget – use offer code DANJENN when checking out to save 50% on any one item AND you’ll receive free shipping and some great mystery gifts! This is an offer that is too good to pass up!

Red Hearts Glass Dildo

This gorgeous glass dildo is clear with a flared tip and a wide base, making it suitable for both vaginal and anal penetration. The shaft of the Red Hearts Glass Dildo ($17.50 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN) has raised hearts made from glass piping to add extra texture and stimulation with every thrust. You can cool your glass dildo down by placing it in the fridge or freezer, or warm it up by running it under hot water. It’s truly the sexiest Valentine’s Day gift you can get!

Adam & Eve’s Lover’s Ring

Take a cock ring to the next level and give the Lover’s Ring ($4.98 with 50% off  – offer code DANJENN) to your partner this Valentine’s Day. The Lover’s Ring is a 3″ long cock ring that stretches over most of the penis shaft and it’s crafted from pink silicone hearts for her pleasure. The heart-shaped ridges make his penis feel thicker than ever and will also help prolong his orgasm so sex lasts as long as you want it to. This really is a must see – and a must have!

My Secret Valentine Tingle Gel

Up the pleasure factor for her this Valentine’s Day with Adam & Eve’s My Secret Valentine Tingle Gel ($4.98 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN). Plan a night of amazing oral sex and apply the tingle gel to her vagina and clitoris before going down on her. What a difference it makes! Special herbs and hormones in the gel stimulate blood flow to the vagina and clitoris, enhancing every sensation! Packaged in a sweet pink lip-gloss style canister, this strawberry flavored gel is a treat for both you and your partner. Bonus gift included with your purchase is a clear silicone vibrating cock ring for even more fun!

Hustler Heartbreaker Vibrator

The Hustler Heartbreaker Vibrator ($16.50 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN) is a smooth and sleek vibe with a gorgeous, deep red color. Both ends of this vibrator are flared so you can stimulate your g-spot with one side and operate the easy to use controls with the other. Your partner will absolutely love how chic and expensive-looking this toy is, and she’ll think you spent a fortune on a name-brand vibrator just for her. Only you’ll know that you actually got it for half price!

Adam & Eve’s Heart Warmer Massager

Why not seduce your partner this Valentine’s Day with an erotic massage before giving her the best sex of her life? Use the Heart Warmer Massager ($4.98 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN) to get her relaxed before giving her an amazing orgasm. This heart shaped, red liquid filled pillow has a secret “snap button” inside that magically heats up the gel without hot water or a microwave. Perfect for use with massage oils or lube. Plus, it’s reusable!

Sexy Slave Kit

Why not try a little BDSM or bondage this Valentine’s Day? Adam & Eve’s Sexy Slave Kit ($13.50 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN) is perfect for beginners, and the red hot colors are perfect for the 14th – and any day after that! The kit includes four deep red, velvety soft wrist and ankle restraints, making it easy to tie your partner up and have your way with her. The kit also features a red velvet blindfold and a feather tickler to help you tease and seduce!

B3 Onye Fleur Vibrator

This tiny, glossy red bullet vibe is a perfect Valentine’s Day gift for the girl on the go. The B3 Onye Fleur Vibrator ($17.50 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN) offers 3 vibrating speeds for discreet pleasure that rivals even the big rabbit vibrators! Unlike many bullet vibrators, this one has a textured silicone grip that allows your girl to hang on tight while she rides the waves of pleasure. It’s waterproof too, so don’t forget to take it in the tub for some wet and wild Valentine’s Day fun.

Adam & Eve Bag Of Love

Treat yourself and your partner to a bag of sexy Valentine’s Day goodies this year. Adam & Eve’s Bag Of Love ($24.98 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN) contains tons of great sex toys and intimate products that will make your evening absolutely amazing. Stimulate your partner with the mini red vibrator (with different textured tips) after you tape her up with red bondage tape, or get her relaxed with a hot oil massage using the Liquid Love massage lotion and the Heart Warmer heated massager. Also included are a heart shaped jelly cock ring, a red satin blindfold, Lover’s Lotto Cards and a mini red silicone butt plug and red glossy anal beads! Of course, a bottle of toy cleaner is also included to keep your kit looking brand new every time you use it!

Inflatable Lover’s Pillow

What’s Valentine’s Day without trying a few new sex positions? Make trying out different sex positions easy with the Inflatable Lover’s Pillow ($8.48 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN). This red, heart shaped blow up pillow is about 15″ wide and 15″ long, so you can use it to get in all kinds of fun new sex positions! Use it for deeper doggy style or to lift her buttocks up while you perform oral sex on her. The possibilities are endless!

Red Hot Butt Plug

Try a little anal play on Valentine’s Day with this gorgeous red silicone butt plug. While the Red Hot Butt Plug ($6.48 with 50% off – offer code DANJENN)may look big (it’s flared at the tip and in the middle of the shaft), it’s actually only 4″ long and about 1/4″ wide, so it’s great for both anal sex beginners and those looking to add a new toy to their anal sex collection.

How To Buy Erotic Lingerie For Valentine’s Day

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Erotic lingerie makes the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for your partner. It’s fun, sexy and will make her feel like a million bucks! Unfortunately, buying lingerie for your lover isn’t always as easy as it sounds. It’s easy to get the wrong size or buy something that doesn’t flatter your partner at all. Here is a simple erotic lingerie buying guide so you can get her something that will not only look great on her, but will also be something that she feels super sexy wearing!

If She Has A Large Bust

If your partner has a large bust, it may be difficult to find lingerie with an underwire bra that will accomodate her. Often, lingerie bust sizes are a little different from regular bra sizes, so the underwire may not fit right at all. Choose something without wire at all and better yet, without cups too! Even if the erotic lingerie has a “line” where the fabric of the bust meets the rest of the fabric, it still may not fit right on her – for example the “line” that should sit underneath her breasts may sit on top of them or in the middle, making  it look disproportionate.

If She Has A Large Tummy

Many women are self conscious about their stomachs, especially if they’ve had children. If this is your partner’s “trouble spot,” select erotic lingerie this Valentine’s Day that doesn’t show her midriff. Babydoll teddies are perfect for this, because they boast a layer or two of chiffon that is attached to the bottom of the bust and flows gently over the stomach area.

If She Has A Large Butt

If your lover doesn’t like the size of her butt (even if you do!) don’t purchase lingerie with a thong. Wearing a thong may make her feel as though her worst aspects are on display for everyone to see. Instead, choose panties that have a full rear. You may be thinking “granny panties,” but boy shorts or cheekies are actually incredibly sexy and will make her feel sexy too. You may even be able to get crotchless panties that allow for easier access to oral sex!

If She Has Large Thighs

While a lot of men really enjoy seeing their woman wear garter belts and thigh high stockings (especially on Valentine’s Day), a woman with larger thighs may not appreciate wearing them at all. Most thigh high stockings come in one size only, and may cut into the tops of her thighs creating a “muffin top” sort of look. Even if it looks fine to you, she may still be very self conscious about it. Instead, choose  erotic lingerie that reaches her knees or ankles, such as a piece with a long skirt or one that looks more like a dress but has a sexy slit up the side. You may be able to choose something that covers her thighs but accentuates her breasts to make her feel great about herself and still give you a show!

If Her Breasts Are Small

If she has small breasts, an underwire bra is your best bet. Simply check the size of her bras at home and get lingerie that is closest to that size. Even padded or push up bras are appropriate in this case – as long as it accentuates what she’s got and doesn’t cover it up. Avoid purchasing anything with too much padding, even if her breasts are very, very small. She’ll feel like you think she doesn’t have anything up there at all! If you pick the right lingerie, she’ll feel great strutting around you on Valentine’s Day with a delectable cleavage and you’ll certainly enjoy the way she looks too!

If Her Legs Are Short

No matter what type of erotic lingerie you buy for her this Valentine’s Day, if she has short legs, make sure you pick out a pair of stilettos or high heels to go with it. You don’t necessarily have to get the super tall ones that strippers wear (unless she’s worn them before and knows how to use them without breaking her neck) but anything with at least a three or four inch heel will make her look and feel tall and sexy.

If She’s Fit

If your partner is fit and looks great in just about anything, your job really is easy this Valentine’s Day. You can pretty much buy any erotic lingerie and she’ll feel good in it. Just pay attention to her attitude and if she’s a more demure kind of girl, don’t go out and get something super slutty (unless you’ve discussed the idea with her beforehand). Alternatively, if she’s a kinky gal, lingerie that covers everything up just won’t do.

Q&A: Valentines Day Gift – Anonymous Or Not?

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Valentine’s Day is coming up soon, and if you’re admiring someone from afar, you may be wondering whether to get them a gift or not. Should you give them a gift at all, or give them an anonymous gift? Here’s what to do if you’re stuck on getting your crush a gift – or not.

Question: I have a question seeing as its nearly February 14. I was going to get the girl I really like gifts, but I’m afraid to because she will know it’s me [we’re both teenagers]. What should I do?

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Afraid Of Rejection

If you’re afraid of getting the girl (or guy) you like a gift for Valentine’s Day, it’s more likely that you are not so much afraid to get them a gift (and them knowing it is you who got them the gift) but you are afraid of rejection. Everyone is afraid of rejection, especially when it comes to dating, such as asking a girl or guy out. Here’s a sound piece of advice – don’t worry so much about rejection. Many times, when you get rejected, it has nothing to do with you. It’s not you who is being rejected. Most of the time, the girl or guy already has some things going on in their life that they are just too involved with at that time to be accepting of a gift or a date. For example, a girl may say “no” to a date because her puppy just died, or because she’s in a relationship, or because she’s a lesbian. Hey, you never know. More often than not, it has absolutely nothing to do with you as a person.

Don’t Regret What You Didn’t Do

If you hold out on yourself, and don’t ask out the girl you like or give her the special gifts you want to give, you’re going to be regretting it your entire life. Many people spend the rest of their lives wishing they did something they didn’t do, because they wonder how it would have turned out if they had done it. Don’t let life slide past you that way! Give her the gifts, say they’re from you, and tell her you like her. Do you really have all that much to lose? Even if you do get rejected, you can at least say that you took that step and weren’t afraid of making your feelings known. If you don’t do it, you’ll wonder for the rest of your life what it would have been like if you had.

Valentine’s Day is about showing the people you like or love that you care. Whether it’s your spouse, your girlfriend or boyfriend or simply someone you have a crush on, Valentine’s Day is the day to let it all come out. Don’t hold back! If you like them or love them, let them know. Let them know how special they are to you, and don’t be afraid to say that you enjoy having them in your life, even if it’s just your friend! Valentine’s Day is the best day of the year to let your feelings about someone be known. So go for it, take the risk and show someone that you care!