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Top 10 Vibrators You HAVE To Try!

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Sex toys are something every girl should have stashed away in her nightstand. Of course, ladies like a buzz, so here are ten “must try” vibrators!

The Wild G

A scary looking purple rabbit-style vibrator that really isn’t so scary once you get to know it. It’s made of soft jelly, slips in easily and has both a rotating shaft and an attachment for clitoral stimulation. Also, the rotating beads just near the base of the shaft feel surprisingly good. The only thing the Wild G doesn’t do is knock on the back door.

How To Use It: At home, by yourself, with the door locked! The Wild G doesn’t get too loud, but if someone decides to interrupt your party, it’s going to be pretty obvious that you weren’t taking a “nap.”

We-Vibe Touch

The We-Vibe Touch is a palm sized sex toy that is molded and grooved to fit both a woman’s hand and her clitoris. With a variety of vibe patterns that require just the touch of a button to activate (yes, 1 button!) this is quite possibly the easiest to use clitoral vibrator out there.

How To Use It: In the shower – this baby is 100% waterproof. It’s smooth, it’s cordless, it’s small and portable. It fits nicely in a shower caddy too. What more could you want for wet and wild masturbation?

G-Gasm Delight

Honestly, it’s the perfect g-spot stimulator. The G-Gasm Delight is made of hard plastic, so it’s well built for hard, squirting g-spot orgasms. It gets loud – especially when you turn it upside down –  so make sure you’re covered as far as privacy goes.

How To Use It: Any way you like! This lovely vibrator also substitutes as a prostate massager, so you can use it on him too. This is probably one of the least likely sex toys out there you would think could be a couples’ toy!

Freestyle W by OhMiBod

Like other g-spot/clitoral vibrators, the Freestyle W by OhMiBod is designed to stimulate both the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time. However, this lovely toy has more to it than meets the eye. This guy is designed to hook up to your music player, and it will vibrate to the beat of the music.

How To Use It: With your iPod of course! Again, privacy is an issue here. If you get caught, you may end up showing off your toys’ cool features when they realize your mp3 player is hooked up to your vibrator.

Hitachi Magic Wand

An oldie but goodie. The Hitachi Magic Wand has been around for about 30 years and is marketed as a back massager. However, women who have used the wand know that there are many more good times to be had when using it as a clitoral vibrator than a back massager. This toy goes up to 6,000 rpm’s!

How To Use It: Alone, or with a partner. This actually makes a great couples’ toy for women who have trouble reaching orgasm during sex. He can finger her or penetrate her while she uses it on her clitoris so she can experience an orgasm with her partner.

We-Vibe II

The We-Vibe II is designed to be a couples’ sex toy. One end of the massager will slip inside the woman and rest against her g-spot, while the other end wraps up and around to the clitoris. While a woman can masturbate with the We-Vibe II, it is really designed to be worn during intercourse. It’s a great way for a woman to experience an orgasm with her partner during penetration if she usually can’t.

How To Use It: With your partner. Try it in a variety of sex positions to experiment with different levels of sensation!

Ogee Twistee G-Vibe

The Ogee Twistee G-Vibe is very like the We-Vibe II in that it can be molded to rest against both the g-spot and clitoris and worn during intercourse. However, unlike the We-Vibe II, this little guy can be twisted into other shapes as well! This is actually a great option for women who have a hard to reach g-spot or a tilted cervix.

How To Use It: With or without a partner. It’s such a versatile sex toy! Experiment with different shapes to find the one you like best. Bend it any way you like, but remember the best shapes because you’ll want to go back to those!

Lelo Mia

If you’re looking for a discreet vibrator, this is it! So tiny, the Lelo Mia looks like a tube of lipstick and fits right into your purse. It also charges via USB port, so you can charge it on the go on your computer or laptop. Just say it’s a jump drive. For busy women who want a clitoral vibe, this is your best bet. Classy and discreet, but with loads of naughty pleasure.

How To Use It: On a plane, in the car, in the bathroom at work – anywhere you want because this thing is quiet. It’s unlikely that unless you make a lot of noise, anyone will know that you’re having an orgasm. Even though it’s small, it’s powerful, so you may have a difficult time keeping your trap shut.

Eve’s Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator

If you’re looking for a more traditional, dildo style vibrator, this is a great choice. It’s pretty, it’s somewhat flexible and the turn dial is super easy to use. A good choice for beginners, because it’s slim – only 1″ wide. It’s also fun for girls who are experienced with sex toys, because it just reaches those hot spots. Not super awesome at clitoral stimulation though.

How To Use It: This is yet another toy that is great to use alone or with your partner. Guys, you can use this during oral sex on her to stimulate her g-spot at the same time and try to give her a blended orgasm. Ladies, if you’re masturbating alone and need more clitoral stimulation than the Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator provides, use it in conjunction with your favorite clitoris massager.

Lelo Elise

These are luxury vibrations at their finest. Like it’s cousin the Mia, the Lelo Elise is very quiet. It’s silky smooth and just feels luxurious in your hands and in your vagina. It’s designed for insertion and curved specifically for g-spot stimulation. It’s just one of those sex toys you have to have in your toy box.

How To Use It: You can use this with a partner, but it’s much more fun to keep this gorgeous vibrator to yourself. It’s like a decadent chocolate bar that you don’t want to share. Let it be your secret.

Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed Review

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Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed is a comprehensive guide on how to give a girl full body, earth shattering orgasms. If you’ve never been able to make a woman climax – or are with a girl who has trouble reaching climax – THIS is the guide you want to get. There is tons of information inside, and it’s definitely an easy read. You can skim it and pick up a few things to try TONIGHT, and then get into the nitty gritty later and really learn how to push her hot buttons. Whether you’re completely new to sex and giving a woman an orgasm – or you’ve had experience but want to really up your game – Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed has what you need.

The Good

Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed is comprehensive. It doesn’t skip over anal sex just because it’s “taboo” – because hey, some girls definitely dig the back door action. However, it also doesn’t go into so much detail about things that it becomes boring or monotonous to read.  It goes into detail about oral sex and gives you a few techniques to try, and also covers sex positions and communication. Basically, this guide covers all the bases when it comes to bringing a girl to climax.

If you’ve never been able to give a woman an orgasm before, this is a definite must read. Even guys that have some skill in the sack can pick up several tips and techniques, as well as learn some things they didn’t know about female desire and how to create it. The guide is also easy to read and easy to understand.

Each section features a “Hot Tips To Remember” at the end. This is kind of like a cheat sheet to each chapter – your take aways for the lesson, if you will. Jot these down and keep them handy.

The Bad

There’s not much bad to say about Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed. It’s a great book for the price, and you get lots of usable information. It doesn’t have a huge introduction that you’ll be tempted to skip, and it doesn’t have sections in it that make you go, “Why am I reading this? How does this relate to female orgasms?” The bonus guide Shower Sex Games only has 3 games in it – there definitely could be some more, because the three that are in there are super fun! All in all, this is a pretty great resource. If a guy can’t give a woman a leg shaking orgasm after reading this book, it’s because he didn’t read it.

The Bottom Line

Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed is one of the best resources on how to give a woman a toe curling, sheet soaking orgasm TONIGHT. It covers everything from female orgasm myths to techniques and sex positions. Gabrielle Moore doesn’t leave any stone unturned in this book, so you know that you’re getting everything you need to know about how to bring a woman to climax during sex in one purchase. If you want to learn how to give your girl the best orgasm she’s ever had in her life, Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed is a must have!

The Full Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed Review

Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed is bursting with usable information. It covers everything that has to do with giving a woman an orgasm, but there isn’t so much information that you’re overwhelmed. This is not a book that you’re going to want to start skipping sections in – each one has tips and techniques that you can use anytime to push your lover’s hot buttons and bring her to a climactic peak in minutes. It contains exactly what you need to do and when you need to do it to bring your partner to climax over and over again.

What Is Included:

  • Awesome bonus guide Shower Sex Games – 3 incredibly steamy sex games that will have you wanting to “get clean” as often as you can!
  • An ENTIRE chapter on why women have a harder time reaching orgasm than men – it could be physical, emotional and social for them.
  • Specific techniques you can start to use TONIGHT!
  • A section on anal sex if you and your girl want to get even naughtier
  • Tons of new sex positions, as well as new spins on old classics like missionary
  • Oral sex techniques that will leave her gasping for air!

What You’ll Learn:

  • Common myths about the female orgasm. You may think you have to have a large penis to please a woman sexually, but you really don’t.
  • The two main types of female orgasms. There are more types of orgasms a woman can have, but Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed covers the main two – vaginal and clitoral orgasms. These are your primary targets – you want to get really, really good at working these two areas before you explore more advanced and complicated techniques such as stimulating the AFE zone.
  • What an orgasm feels like to a woman. Can you imagine what she feels like as waves of pleasure (that you created) roll through her body?
  • The differences between male and female orgasms, phase by phase.
  • How to create incredible, burning desire that will make her BEG for release!
  • How to communicate with your lover about what feels good and what she likes
  • 3 amazing scenarios that will start seducing her before you even lay a hand on her

Bonus Guide: Shower Sex Games

Shower sex is so much fun! You’re both wet, naked and covered in slippery soap. The hot water relaxes you and the sensations are intensified by the sounds and smells. However, sex in the shower can actually turn into a quickie simply because there’s really not that much that can be done in there, right? Wrong! Shower Sex Games gives you fun, naughty games that will heat up sex in the shower even more.

While there are only 3 games in this awesome bonus guide (more, please!) they are kinky and exciting. Wet Wheel Of Fortune, anyone?

Free Report: 4 Sex Secrets To A TRULY Wild Sex Life

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[Click here to download the Free Report: “4 Sex Secrets To A TRULY Wild Sex Life”]

Passionate, wild sex is possible and you can have it. You can literally have the sex life of your dreams!

There’s one thing you need to know before we get started. Women DO judge new lovers, and all of their friends will hear about you. (I know it sucks, but it’s completely true)

There is nothing that can ruin an amazing sexual experience more, than a guy who doesn’t know what he’s doing in the bedroom…

And no, it’s not just about giving her an orgasm; it’s about the entire experience, right from the very beginning. Hot women know that they have their pick of any guy they want. So if the entire sexual experience isn’t enjoyable, and doesn’t feel right, they are going to move on to the next guy, and you are going to be left at home with nothing more than your hand and some internet porn.

Sex Secret #1

Being a great lover in bed is NOT about Size, it’s about knowing how to use what you’ve got! Most guys think that the only way to pleasure a woman is with a big penis. This is totally and completely NOT TRUE!

If all a woman wanted was a huge penis, we’d all be racing to the sex shop to buy the largest toys they had. Being a great lover is about knowing how to tap in to what your partner really wants, and having the skills to give it to her.

Men are the same way… what feels better to you?

When a woman performs the same motion over and over with little to no variation?

Or when she is so in sync with you and what your body wants, that it feels like she’s in all the right places and exactly the right time?

Sex Secret #2

Women cannot orgasm if you can’t lead BOTH her body AND mind!

Women know that you judge how we look with our clothes off – but we judge A LOT more than just ‘that’ about you.

And guess what. We judge your sexual  foreplay techniques more than anything else. Why? Because, it is absolutely vital to us, if we are going to get warmed up and relaxed enough to have an orgasm. Getting us warmed up properly involves knowing how to drive us wild with your words, your touches, your kisses and everything else that leads up to us taking our clothes coming off.

If you don’t know how to make a woman feel excited with your sexual intelligence, care, and mind-blowing sex techniques, then we will feel uncomfortable. And at that point, there is no chance we can orgasm.

Sex Secret #3

The #1 reason a woman will cheat is because you don’t satisfy her the right way in bed!

Women crave great sex (maybe even more than men). But without excitement in the bedroom, the sex can become mundane and feel more like a chore than the Earth-shaking, body-rocking experience we really want. And when a guy doesn’t know how to pleasure us the right way, we may go out and look for a guy who can.

Sex Secret #4

Most women are a lot more open and wild than you’d ever expect! Women talk about their sexual encounters A LOT more than guys do. We tell our girlfriends about EVERY detail when we have sex with a guy. And I can tell you from experience, that when one of us can’t stop talking about how amazing a guy was in bed, big things are going to go down

For starters, some women openly share their guys name and number with a friend so she can have some “fun” too. Women will also be a lot more open to inviting their girlfriends over for a threesome. So if you truly ever want to have truly wild sex life you are going to need the bedroom skills required.

INTRODUCING – The Porn Star Sex Life “Incredible Sex Video Series”

Who better to teach you the secrets to blowing a woman’s mind than October 2009 Penthouse Pet, former Playboy Radio host, Adult Film Star, Exotic Dancer and sexual educator Ryan Keely? Ryan is here to help you by demonstrating (in explicit detail) all the right moves, techniques and sex positions you need to know to have your lover begging for more.

The Incredible Sex Video Series includes 10 exciting modules – All of which you can watch INSTANTLY in our private ‘members only’ website.

It is quite simply THE BEST program on giving this kind of pleasure to women, of it’s kind EVER MADE! It’s Your Complete Guide To Getting Her Off!

The Incredible Sex Video Series isn’t simply a collection of amazing sex techniques… It’s your complete step-by-step system to achieving the wild and exciting sex life you’ve always fantasized about – And giving your partner the greatest sexual pleasure they’ve ever experienced.

I want to share with you the 10 modules that make up “The Incredible Sex Video Series”… I’m positive you’re going to love it as much as I do.


Module 1 – “Sensual Touch” – Find out how to how to touch, kiss, and undress any girl in a way that will have her begging for more.

Module 2 – “Fingering Techniques” – There are things you can do with your fingers that you can’t do with any other part of your body.

Module 3 – “Advanced Fingering Techniques” – These advanced fingering techniques that will get her so hot and bothered that she’ll be begging for more. And deep emotional orgasms that are so intense, most women refer them as “The Ultimate Orgasm”.

Module 4 – “Oral Sex Techniques” – Discover  why most men are losing their women to other women (Here’s a hint: Women are better at giving oral sex) AND the techniques to become a “master” of going down on her!

Module 5 – “Things You See In Porn That Are Bad Ideas” – If you try to imitate most of what you see in the movies, your partner will most likely walk out and never come back.

Module 6 – “Amazing Positions A to Z” – Being an amazing lover has nothing to do with those “fold her up like an origami crane” positions. It’s all about knowing how to “compliment” each others bodies by making tiny changes to your favorite positions.

Module 7 – “Anal Sex And Dirty Play” – So, if you’re interested in trying out “backdoor sex” with your woman (or any woman for that matter), then you need to pay close attention.

Module 8 – “Fetish And Advanced Dirty Play” – WARNING: This module is ONLY for the most adventurous of lovers! However, if you are daring enough to explore your “inner-freak” you may never want to go back.

Module 9 – “Staying In The Game” – If you want to last longer in bed, and drain your girl of ALL her energy, by giving her the most intense sexual experience of her life – Then this may be the most important module of all for you.

Module 10 – “Safe Sex” – Trust me, if she starts pissing razor blades, she will NEVER sleep with you again. Not only that, but if YOU catch something nasty, it won’t be a picnic for you either.

Click Here to Learn More About The Incredible Sex Video Series…

LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator Review

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The LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator is a tiny, computer mouse looking vibrator that is designed for female masturbation. It fits in the palm of your hand and rests over the clitoris, and offers a variety of speeds and vibe patterns. It’s crafted of phthalate free hard plastic, but it actually feels like super smooth and silky porcelain.

The Good

The LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator is so small, it can fit in your pocket, your purse or even your panties if you want to wear it somewhere! It’s battery free and rechargeable, not to mention it’s absolutely cute as a button. It’s great for virgins or women who aren’t ready for penetration, but it’s also an excellent sex toy for women who are sexually advanced. Use it alone during masturbation or with a partner – this little vibe is so versatile, you can pretty much do anything you want with it!

The Bad

There are only two things that could possibly make the LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator any better than it already is. Firstly, it’s not waterproof, so you can only use it out of the shower or pool. Second, the controls are actually on the underside of the toy.

To use the vibrator, the curved side goes over your body, with your hand over the top of toy just like a computer mouse. To change the controls, you have to stop the action, flip it over, switch the speed or vibe pattern and then resume masturbation. The controls would be much more convenient if they were on the top! However, this doesn’t make or break the LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator. It’s a minor inconvenience compared to the awesome pleasure that this sex toy can bring!

The Bottom Line

The LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator is an absolute must have for the ladies. Very few clitoral vibrators are this pretty, this small and discreet and this powerful. It’s perfect for travel and on-the-go, because it’s incredibly quiet too! It fits in the palm of your hand and will send you over the edge and into a full body orgasm in minutes. If you’re looking for a high class, easy to use clitoral vibrator, the LELO Nea is right up your alley.

The Full LELO Nea Review

The LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator is gorgeous, luxurious and made from extremely high quality materials – like all LELO products. It features a slick outer shell that is adorned with a delicate cherry blossom design, making it look and feel absolutely divine. This little vibe is especially powerful while still being small and quiet, so it’s an excellent choice for women who like to travel (and don’t want to get busted at airport security with a giant purple dildo) or women who just want to be able to easily hide their sex toy in their sock drawer.

Although the LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator doesn’t look small, it actually is about the size of a very small computer mouse. It fits perfectly in the palm of your hand, so it’s very comfortable to hold while masturbating. It can, of course, be used by itself to produce a toe curling orgasm, but it can also be used in conjunction with g-spot vibrators and insertable sex toys for multiple sensations.

You can also use this with a partner – let him use it on your clitoris while he penetrates you. This is especially useful for women who have trouble reaching orgasm with their partner during intercourse. While many men may be intimidated by sex toys, this one is small enough – and pretty enough – that he will most likely see it as completely harmless. Not so if you brought home the Wild G!

Have fun experimenting with all the different speeds and vibe patterns that the LELO Nea Clitoral Vibrator has to offer. Use it to tease and please, then switch up your pattern to a higher setting to bring you to orgasm. You can use the more intense vibration patterns and speeds to have a hard and fast climax, or you can use it to tease and please by using the softer vibe modes.

Although it does have a couple of caveats (not being waterproof means that if you want to get off in the shower, you’re going to need another sex toy), and you’ve got to stop getting it on to flip the vibe over and change the controls, overall it’s an excellent addition to your collection. It also makes a great gift if you want to buy a woman a sex toy but are afraid of getting her something that she would be offended by. This sweet little vibe is so adorable (and not at all crude) she will love it from the very first time she opens the box.

Incredible Techniques To Give Your Girl The ULTIMATE Orgasm!

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The path to orgasm looks very different for a woman than it does for a man. It is infinitely easier for a man to cum than a woman. However, a woman can cum exponentially more times than a man can. That is, when she can climax at all.

A lot of women can only achieve climax through self stimulation. However, the quality of her orgasm tends to be better when she has a partner. You need to learn the correct way to get those orgasms flowing. Here are a few things to keep in mind when you’re touching her downstairs.

Direct vs. Indirect

How you make contact with the clitoris is very important to her orgasm. Before she is properly turned on, direct clitoral contact can feel quite irritating to a woman. It is best to start with indirect contact. Run your fingers along either side of the clitoris shaft. Tap the clitoral hood.

However you move around, do not go for direct stimulation until she is good and ready for you. Once her breathing is heavy, and you can feel the throb below, then you can move to the sweet spot to send her over the edge.

Rhythm vs. Speed

An incredibly important distinction to make is the rhythm of your touch versus the speed of your touch. A lot of men think they are the same thing, but they are not. Speed may vary, but rhythm should not. Most women like to start with slow, easy caresses, but they invariably increase speed the closer they become to achieving climax.

However, they still maintain the same rhythm with which they started. It’s their “beat,” if you will. So no matter how much you increase the speed of your caresses, maintain a consistent flow to the activity.

Thrust vs. Grind

Did you know that women get very little stimulation through penetration alone? There are very few nerve endings in the walls of the vagina. Sending her into blissful orgasms simply by sticking your penis in her is a long shot. No matter how hard you rail her, you will not get her off. However, that doesn’t mean that she is completely incapable of climaxing while you are inside her if you do it right. Instead of a poke, try a grinding motion.

It will allow your pubic bone to make contact with her clitoris, which will give her the stimulation she needs to reach orgasm. It’s why so many women report the woman-on-top position as their favorite. They can control the action, so they’re able to get that clitoral stimulation by rocking their hips forward to allow contact with the head of the clit. Most men like it when their woman rides them. It provides great visual stimulation, and you penetrate very deeply.