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How To Date Two Women At Once (Part 2)

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Dating two women at once isn’t all that hard, but guys always screw it up. When you have two women on the hook and you just can’t decide which one is the winner, there are a few things that you have to do to make sure that you do not get caught. Some guys can’t even get on date so if you’re lucky enough to be dating two women at once, it’s your responsibility to keep it going as long as you can.

By following a few very simple rules you should be able to have your fun without either of the women knowing any differently. Here are some basic rules for how to date two women at once.

Separate The City

The number one thing that you have to do when you are dating two women at once is to separate the city that you live in. Make it a point to only take one woman on side of the city and to only take the other woman on the other side of the city. This can make sure that you will almost never run into the other woman while you’re on a date with the other.

Separating the city will also keep your having an embarrassing moment of running into friends or family members when you’re on a date. This can be difficult if you’re dating a free spirited kind of girl, but try your best keep the two women and their locales separated.

Audit Your Home Frequently

Dating two women at once can wreak havoc on your home. Middle of the night romps can easily lead to underwear and other evidence tossed about your bedroom, kitchen or even your living room. Most guys that are dating two women at once get caught because they were too lazy to pick up after one of the women.

If you want to avoid this, audit your home. Make a mental note of everything that your girls bring over. Lipstick, toothbrushes, hair ties and jewelry are dead giveaways. Try to spend a few minutes right before your date leaves to make sure that they have everything they came over with. An innocent flick of the hair can lead to a big argument if your other girlfriend finds a hairpin under the couch.

Turn Off Your Phone When You’re With One Of Them

We live in a digital age and the number one reason that men get caught dating two women is because they went to the bathroom and left their phone on the coffee table. While you’re taking care of nature, a text message rolls in and you have to explain what it was and who it came from.

Turn your phone off while you’re at one of the girl’s houses. If the other girl calls you and can’t get ahold of you, tell her that your phone died. You might even want to invest in a burner phone for one girl and leave it at home. Guys love to keep sexy texts, but this could get you in trouble.

‘Separate the two worlds by taking control of your phone. At a minimum, take a few minutes to clear those calls and texts from your history.

Clear Your Browser History

As stated before, we live a digital world. At some point or another, one of the girls is going to ask to use your computer to show you a video or check her email. So what would you do if she jumped on your laptop and the first thing that popped was your email?

Clear your browser history that you aren’t automatically logged into your email when she gets on your computer. This is the best way to keep your secret a secret. Men all over the world have been busted because they forgot to click that small button that says “logout.” Don’t be the next victim.

Keep Your Stories Straight

As much as you might not want to do it, at some point, you’re going to be forced to lie to one of the girls. If you’re going to have to lie, make sure that you don’t get caught. One lie can lead to another, which can lead to another and so on and so on.

Get your stories straight so that you aren’t stuck in the “uhhhh” moment. Write everything down if you have to, but don’t get caught. If you do get caught the girl is going to start questioning everything about you and everything that you have told her. Small lies are okay to a point, but big lies will always get you in trouble.

How To Seduce A Man In 1 Night

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Read this short guide to learn how to seduce a man in one night.

Seducing a man is not all that difficult if you know what you’re doing. Men are sex-hungry so getting him into bed isn’t going to be all that hard. However, if you really want the sex to be good, you need to follow a few steps. Men that are instantly given the opportunity to take you into the bedroom are more likely to give you the old wam, bam, thank you ma’am and leave. If you want to have great sex with a good emotional connection, you can do this by following these simple steps.

Decide If He’s The Right Guy To Seduce

Seducing a man is going to have consequences. If you’re going to use this opportunity to get him into bed you need to make sure that he’s worth it. Although women are known to get clingy, the same can be said about men. The last thing that you want is some guy that you have no connection with calling you 20 times a day.

Decide if you really want a relationship with him or if you just want a little fun. If you think that you could have something special, do not try to seduce him in a single night. A relationship is much more meaningful than one night of great sex and you could be missing out on a great thing.

Start Out In A Dark Place

If you’re going to seduce a man in one night you need to start out in an intimate setting. Dark bars with cool music are great for setting the scene. Try to find a place that isn’t that crowded or loud so you can have a good conversation. Many women find that going to overly crowded clubs only delays an emotional connection.

If you’re trying to seduce him you need to be able to talk to him. Low lighting and soft music is enough to get any guy in the mood, but being in a place where he can’t tear your clothes off is going to naturally set up sexual tension. He’s going to want to take you into the bathroom or right on the table, but he can’t. Use this strategy to set up the natural barriers.

Have A 2nd Place To Go To

The thing about seduction is that it’s hard to do it in one place. When you have a second location you will be building the connection between the two of you. Men and women feel much more comfortable with each other when they have experienced different things together.

Psychologically speaking, men are going to feel a bigger connection to you when they have been to 2 or 3 different places rather than a 3 hour conversation in a bar. The connection should have already be laid out by the first location. Now that attraction has been built, it’s time to show him your fun side. Pick a more crowded bar or a place that he has to get closer to you to talk.

Touch Him

There are a lot of signs that women can use to show a guy that she’s interested in a physical relationship, but touch him is going to be the one that gets the best response. Touching his arm while he talks or grabbing his hand on the street is something that guys know.

Don’t play games with him. The last thing that you want when you’re trying to seduce a man is a mixed signal. Make it clear that you want him and he will pick up on it very quickly. He wants you to want to be with him so touching will only reinforce what you actually want.

Go Back To His Place

Going back to his place is one of the best moves that you can make. There are a few reasons why you want to go back to his place over you own. The first is that you can leave if things don’t work out. The second is that you won’t have to push him out the door the next morning when you just want to sleep.

Making a calculated decision to sleep with him requires forethought and taking him back to your place could be a recipe for disaster. If he gets clingy and knows where you live you could have to deal with unexpected knocks on your door. Don’t fall into this trap. Always go back to his place and you’ll be in the clear.

5 Tiny Sex Toys You Can Carry In Your Bag

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Sex toys are essential to getting through rough spots and even keeping the spark alive in a relationship. But the problem with sex toys is that they are usually very bulky, making them extremely hard to transport without detection. If you’re a fan of a little enhancement in your sex life this can make it difficult to keep the spontaneity of using sex toys at the spurt of a moment. So what can you do? Finding the right kind of adult toys that are easily transportable is one solution that will make things a little easier. Here are 5 tiny sex toys that you can carry in your bag.

Bullet Vibrator

The bullet vibrator has made a tremendous difference in the sex lives of couples all over the world for a couple of reasons. The first reason is that it works. It’s very powerful and it is concentrated, making it one of the best sex toys for clitoral stimulation. The second reason that’s so successful is the fact that it’s tiny. This is a great toy that you can carry around with you in your bag without having to worry about it clunking around. There are bullets that come with a control switch on the bottom of the unit and there are units that have wired remote controls. The remote controls usually give you more control and come with speed variations.

Here are 3 of our favorite bullet vibrators:

  1. The Power Bullet Mini
  2. Lelo Pico Bong Ipo Finger Vibrator
  3. Black Magic Super Bullet

Pocket Rocket

The pocket rocket is another type of sex toy that you can easily conceal in your handbag. These vibrators usually come in sizes that range from 2-4 inches in length, making them very easy to hide. One of the best things about this type of vibrator is the fact that they are very powerful for their size. Pocket rockets also come with various heads that you can change out for different sensations.  These vibes usually run on a single AA or AAA battery, which are also very easy to keep hidden in your bag.

Here are 3 of our favorite pocket rockets:

  1. I-Vibe Pocket Rocket
  2. I Scream Vibrator
  3. Adam & Eve Waterproof Pocket Rocket Vibrator

Clitoral Vibrator

Clitoral vibrators are one of the most frequently used sex toys for women. There are about a billion types of clitoral vibrators out there so you can choose the one that is best for you. Not all women enjoy clitoral stimulation the way that others do so it’s important to find the right kind of sex toy with the right amount of stimulation.

If you do enjoy clitoral stimulation rather than penetration when you’re masturbating, a clitoral vibrator could be your new best friend. Some of these units will require you to hold it in your hand while others can be attached to the finger. Find one that you like and try it out.  You can choose from various textures. Some women do not like the feel of metal while others prefer the stiffness. Choose one that you like and find a special pocket in your handbag for your new friend.

Here are 3 of our favorite clitoral vibrators:

  1. Jimmy Jane Form 2 Vibrator
  2. We-Vibe Touch
  3. Lelo Pico Bong Kiki

Vibrating Cock Ring

While this isn’t exactly a solo toy, it is a great one for couples. The vibrating cock ring solves one of the most common problems with bringing sex toys into the bedroom. Couples are constantly running into the difficulty of being intimate with kissing and physical closeness, but also awkwardly trying to using a sex toy in the process. With a vibrating cock ring couples can easily solve this problem. You will no longer have to use your hands to control a vibrator because the man can do it with his hips.

These little sex toys are great because as the man thrusts into the woman’s vagina the vibrator will offer clitoris stimulation. Some couple may feel awkward when they first use one of these sex toys, but you will quickly get over the site of a toy strapped to your man’s penis when you realize all of the benefits it offers.

Many of these units offer vibrator controls so you can control the amount of stimulation going to your clitoris. Experiment with this to find the right setting for best results. These units are also extremely easy to conceal within your handbag.

Here are 3 of our favorite vibrating cock rings:

  1. Big O Multi-Stage Vibrating Cock Ring
  2. Fifty Shades of Grey Yours & Mine Love Ring
  3. Macho 3 Cock Ring Set

What He Really Wants In Bed – How To Decode His Bedroom Behavior

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Men can be extremely cryptic with what they want in bed. Some men get very embarrassed talking about what they like when it comes to sex, while others will openly admit to being a freak. If you find that your boyfriend or husband is hard to read in the sack, there are a few things that you can take notice of to truly make him happy. Decoding bedroom behavior is not as hard as it sounds when you take a keen eye to what he does and how acts when you do certain things in the bedroom. Here is a short guide to help you along the way.

During Sex He Likes You On Top

When a guy likes a girl on top he’s most likely a submissive at heart. When the girl is on top she has control of the movements and the thrust of the penis. She is also in a dominant position over the man, making her seem like the person in charge.

If your guy really likes when you’re on top he secretly wants to be dominated.  This doesn’t mean that you have to break out the chains and whips, but being more aggressive and telling him to do what you like is really going to turn him on. Men that like to be dominated find it sexy for a girl to have confidence in the bedroom and order them around a little bit. Try this out the next time you have sex and you will see what a difference it makes in the way he responds to you.

During Sex He Likes To Be On Top

A guy that likes to be on top is going to be much more dominant than a guy that likes to be on the bottom. A guy that is on top is traditionally the more dominant figure in the relationship. He can control the situation, control how much you move and control the thrust of the penis.

If your guy likes to be on top he would probably like to add a little more to the mix. Consider using dirty talk during sex to make him feel more like a man. Guys that are dominant get very turned on when women fulfill their fantasy of being a powerful lover. Make the sex more passionate when he’s on top and you will find that he is much happier with your sex life.

He Insists On Doggy Style Sex Every Time

Here’s one that you need to watch out for. Doggy Style is a great sex position for women because it puts the penis at a very unique angle in their vagina. However, if the guy is always insisting on Doggy Style he might not be that into you. Doggy Style is an extremely impersonal sex position that doesn’t allow for much passion or intimacy.

If your guy is always trying to get you into this position you might need to reconsider the reason he is with you. There are a lot of positions where can enjoy the backward view and you shouldn’t be relegated to an object every time you have sex with your partner.

He Gets Offended When You Don’t Orgasm

This can be a real drag on the relationship. A guy that gets offended when you don’t reach climax with him can be annoying and lead to you faking your orgasms. You should never have to fake your orgasm with a partner in order to make him happy.

A guy that easily gets offended when you don’t orgasm with him has very little self-confidence. The reason that he gets offended is because the fact that you’re not reaching climax just reiterates his lack of self-esteem. Men like this have a very hard time understanding why you have not come with him. Reaching out and telling him that you are happy with your sex life is the best way to help him through his lack of confidence.

He Won’t Give You Oral Sex

There are a lot of reasons that a guy won’t give a girl oral sex.

The first reason is that the girl does not use proper hygiene on her vagina. While this might not be true for every woman that has tried to shove their husband’s face downtown, it can be said for a lot.

The second reason that a guy won’t give his girl oral sex is because he’s selfish. He simply wants to get off and does not care about the girl. The last reason is that he doesn’t think that she enjoys it when he does it. Notice I said when he does it and not a general statement of her not liking it by anybody. Tell him that you love when he gives you oral sex and you will get a lot more.

How To Convince Your Girl to Make A Sex Video

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How to get her to make a sex video for you? This is a question that almost every guy on the planet has pondered at point or another during a relationship. Homemade porn can be a huge turn on for guys and girls, but getting your girlfriend, wife or “friend” to make a porno with or for you can be like pulling teeth if you don’t approach her the right way.

There are a lot of girls that will find this extremely hot, but for others, there are many issues that you’re going to have to discuss before hand. Making sure that your girl feels comfortable is only the beginning.

Here is a short guide on how to get her to make a sex video for you.

Address The Issue Head On

The first thing that you have to do when you are bringing this up with your girl is addressing the issue head on. How is she supposed to know that a homemade sex video is something that you would enjoy? Yes, this would turn on most guys, but you should bring it up with your girl so that she knows it’s something that you would like to explore with her. She might have even thought about this at one point or another herself so you need to discuss it honestly. Many women fantasize about seeing themselves on video with their lover so keep this mind if you’re afraid of rejection.

Deal With Digital Age Concerns

We live in a digital age. With everything from cell phones to tablets to the innovation inside our desktop computers, almost every girl is going to have the same concern. “What if it gets on the Internet?”

This is going to come up and you need to be prepared when you are trying to get her to make a sex video for you. Whether you are just trying to get her to masturbate for you on camera or you want to be in the video yourself, the concern is legitimate and you have to reassure your girl that it’s only going to be for private use.

Don’t even joke about putting her sex video on the Internet or she is going to lock up and you will never your have your fantasy fulfilled.

Talk About What Will Be On The Video

If there is anything that a girl is going to be more concerned with than having the video hit the net, it’s what’s going to be on the video. Some girls are going to have to work their way up to the total package. She may want to start off with a handjob or a blowjob before she puts intercourse on digital record.

Talk to your girl before you even hit that record button and she will be much more open about everything. Don’t pressure her into going all the way the first time. She might be testing you to make sure that you’re responsible enough to have a video of her performing sexual acts.

Get The Right Equipment

One of the biggest problems with making a homemade sex video is the fact that people don’t have the right equipment. While cellphone cameras are becoming more and more advanced, it’s kind of hard to get crystal clear images when you’re holding a 4-inch device in your hand.

If she’s going to make a sex video she’s going to want to the look as good as she can with the right angles. She going to want the video to reflect her in the best way possible and you can’t really do that if you’re holding a phone in your hand during the entire process. Consider using the webcam from your computer over a cell phone camera or buy a real camera with a tripod for stability. If you’re going to do it, do it right!

Give Every Copy Of Your Sex Video To Her

It’s so easy for people to share information nowadays that you shouldn’t even trust yourself with a copy of your girlfriend having sex on video. Make the video and then burn it to a DVD. After you have burned it to a physical disc, delete every digital copy that you have the video. This is going to put her at ease and could possibly lead to future videos. Having the footage on a physical disc can squash any concerns that the video will make it to the Internet, coworkers, friends or even an unsuspecting family member.