Recently I ran across a fellow relationship coach’s online sales copy for a membership site she offers to women. It promised all kinds of yummy things. Better sex, greater intimacy, your man looking … [Read more...] about What Gives A Woman Sex Appeal?
The problem with pleasure is nothing…except the interpretation we bring to it. Sometimes I think the only other topic with more confusion around it is that of money (i.e. the misreading of scripture … [Read more...] about The Problem With Pleasure
I got a phone call this week from a woman whose relationship was falling apart. It had been fading for a long time and likely didn’t have the potential to be re-birthed. She wanted a magic cure for … [Read more...] about R-E-S-P-E-C-T Is How Men Spell Love
Our beloved dog, Buddy, died this week. As a rescue dog, we were never sure of his age, but believe he was at least fifteen. He was a big black dog with white and black dotted “socks” on his feet. … [Read more...] about Grief Can Affect Your Relationship In Surprising Ways
“Most power conflicts in intimate relationships occur when one partner tries to treat the other as a child, mother, or father.” - Bert Hellinger Over the weekend, I watched as newlyweds innocently … [Read more...] about A Big Mistake Newlyweds Make
My husband, Joseph, and I recently attended a workshop where we heard the following relationship truth. “Usually, women want their men to change. Usually, men do not want their women to change. … [Read more...] about The Ugly Truth Revealed
Erotic fundamentalism doesn't have anything to do with the fundamentals of eroticism! Think "religious fundamentalism" and we're getting closer to the term's meaning. Are Opposite Sex Friendships … [Read more...] about Erotic Fundamentalism
A friend I love dearly was recently asked out on a date as a result of an online dating site she belongs to. She was thrilled and frightened. But she was scared in that good way when you are facing … [Read more...] about Online Dating Sites Begin The Dating Process, Not Be The Engagement Period!
Every once in awhile, I get emails from women who need unique relationship help. They have identified their significant others as mama's boys and want to know if they should continue to try to love … [Read more...] about I Think My Boyfriend is a Mama’s Boy – Can You Help Me?!
There are times when the stuff of life gets in the way of good loving. Whether it’s the demands of work, raising children, or friends and family who need extra attention, life is messy and therefore … [Read more...] about When Preoccupation With The Stuff Of Life Interferes With Your Love Life