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Doggy Style Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Doggy StyleThe Doggy Style sex position is probably the most popular sex position for rear entry and for good reason! Couples love this position because of how submissive it is for the female partner, and he can watch the action while he thrusts. It’s a great position for some good old-fashioned animal sex!

How To Do It

Doggy style is one of the more popular sex positions, both for vaginal and anal sex. It’s simple – the female partner gets on all fours, with her weight being supported by her knees and her palms, which are all on the floor. Her partner approaches her from behind, holding on to her hips with his hands and supporting his weight with his knees on the floor. This is a great position for rough sex – he has more leverage with his hands on her hips and can pull her to him or push her away with his arms. It’s also an excellent position for deeper penetration.

Where To Do It

Floor, bed, couch, the bathtub/shower, any flat surface with plenty of space

Props You’ll Need

A rolled up towel or a pillow is almost essential for doggy style unless you’re doing it on the bed. It’s easy to get carpet burn on your knees if you’re having sex on the carpet, or if it’s a hard surface like a tiled floor or bathtub, it’s just not comfortable. Both partners may need some sort of padding under the knees.

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

3

The doggy style sex position is an excellent one for deep penetration, but not so much g-spot stimulation. Most men have a penis that angles upwards, which means that during doggy style, his penis will “point” towards her lower back – the side of her vagina that her g-spot is not on. However, a woman can really get into doggy style if she enjoys rough sex or being dominant in this way. He can also increase her orgasm potential (or she can) by reaching in between her legs and stimulating the clitoris.

His O-Meter

5

Doggy style is a favorite among men, simply because many men enjoy being dominating over their partner. That’s what the doggy style position is all about – it’s named this because it mimics the sex position dogs use when a female dog presents herself to a male to be mounted. The act of “presenting” herself in this way makes the woman feel very submissive and the man very dominant – which can be a huge turn on for a man. Not to mention that he gets to stare at her backside the entire time and watch all the action!

XXX Tip

A woman isn’t going to get much out of the doggy style position unless her clitoris is being stimulated. Her partner can reach down and stimulate the clitoris or she can do it herself, either with fingers or a vibrator. This will make doggy style so much better for her! To make it super naughty, the female partner can lean all the way down and put her elbows and forearms on the floor or bed, raising her buttocks even more. Her lover will really enjoy this!

Standing Doggy Style Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Standing DoggyThe Standing Doggy Style sex position is easier on the knees than traditional Doggy Style, and still provides the same perks for both female and male partners. This is another fun “animal” style sex position because all you have to do for a quickie is pull your pants and underwear down!

How To Do It

Standing Doggy Style is a little bit easier on the knees than traditional Doggy Style, mainly because both partners have their feet on the floor instead of their knees. This does require some kind of prop, like a chair, couch or bed, but it’s relatively simple to do. While standing, the female partner bends at the waist and places the palms of her hands on the chosen prop. The male partner enters her from behind, standing the entire time. This position can be a lot of fun for a quickie – just drop your pants and get it on!

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, shower, over the hood of the car – just use your imagination!

Props You’ll Need

Anything the female partner can put her hands on for support

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

3

Like traditional Doggy Style, this position is fairly good for g-spot penetration. It’s much more difficult for her to reach her clitoris, however, because she’s supporting the majority of her weight with her hands. It’s much easier for her to enjoy this sex position if he reaches down and stimulates her clitoris.

His O-Meter

4

Standing Doggy Style provides as good a view as traditional Doggy Style, and men really dig the idea of the backdoor action – even if they’re not actually getting to go in the “back door.”

XXX Tip

Standing Doggy Style is another one of those “got to have it now” sex positions. Both partners can drop their drawers and go at it pretty much any time, anywhere. It’s incredibly hot to want your partner so bad, you really can’t even stand to take the time to undress all the way.

4 HOT Advanced Sex Positions

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Sex positions can make a dull sex life incredible all over again! Here are four advanced sex positions for you to try TONIGHT to turn the heat UP!

1. Side By Side Position 1

If you’ve never tried having sex in a side-by-side position, then now is the time. Many couples find these positions are not only conducive to orgasms but it also allows for more physical contact and a mutual feeling of closeness which, let’s be honest, you want to feel with a special partner. With this first example, you and your partner must lie on your sides facing each other. You’ll need to be as close as possible. Also, make sure that your feet are facing your headboard. The sturdy surface will act as a brace for you when things get really hot.

Now gently lift your partner’s top leg in the air and slide inside her before placing her leg over yours. She should wrap her leg around you to give you more leverage during penetration. This way the two of you can work together to set a rhythm pleasing to both of your bodies while you also continue some heavy foreplay.

2. Side By Side Position 2

Here’s another way you can enjoy the side-by-side position while helping your partner reach orgasm. This time you won’t be facing each other. Instead, you’ll be on your side behind her. In order to penetrate her, you may need to raise her upper leg a little. Once you are inside and have found a steady thrusting rhythm you should gently lean her backward so she is almost lying on top of you.

Now while you are still thrusting in and out of her vagina, use your hand or a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris.

3. Grinding

When women masturbate with their fingers, they often rub their clitoris using circular movements. Since you know that, you should attempt to use similar circular motions during penetration. To do this, you need to grind into your partner the way you would if you were doing some erotic dancing. Move your hips in a circular motion and make sure that you are pressing against her groin area. The combination of your movement and the pressure on the area will stimulate her clitoris and bring her to orgasm.

4. Alphabet Position

If your partner is more comfortable with the missionary position, but she is still having trouble reaching orgasm, then this position may help. Again, she should be lying on her back, preferably on the floor or a large comfortable bed. You’ll spread out across her on your side, perpendicularly so that the two of you resemble a lowercase “T.”

Place her legs over your body or have one of them hanging off the bed, whichever is most comfortable, and slide your penis inside of her. At the same time you penetrate her, begin using your finger to gently massage her clitoris. Try to mimic the intensity of penetration with your clitoral stimulation. For example, if you’re doing a slow grind, use slow circular motions to stimulate the clitoris.

Spooning Sex Position

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As far as romantic and intimate sex positions go, the Spooning sex position is really where it’s at. Much like spooning when sleeping or cuddling, this sex position provides full body contact and plenty of opportunities for touching, hugging, kissing and whispering in each other’s ears.

How To Do It

This is an excellent intimate sex position that will give both partners a sense of emotional connection. While both partners are lying on their sides, he enters her from behind, with his chest resting against her back. This is very much like the “spooning” position that many couples use while sleeping – which makes this sex position so comforting and sensual.

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor

Props You’ll Need

Pillows for your head

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

3

She will really enjoy the intimacy of this sex position. It feels very much like cuddling to her, which is right up her alley. The penetration might not be as deep as other sex positions, however, he can make up for it by reaching around and stroking her skin with his hands, cupping her breasts and fondling her clitoris.

His O-Meter

3

With this sex position, there’s not much in the way for him to look at, which can be a huge damper during sex. Fix this by installing a mirror next to your bed if you don’t already have one – he can enter her from behind, while still getting to enjoy checking her out from top to bottom.

XXX Tip

This is the perfect position for spontaneous middle-of-the-night sex. To add a BDSM twist, he can pull her hair or grab her throat from behind.

Cowgirl Sex Position

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Sex Positions: CowgirlThe Cowgirl sex position is by far the most conducive to female orgasms, and many women can only orgasm in this position. Guys love it too because they get to sit back and relax while their girl takes care of most of the thrusting action. This is a must have sex position in your repertoire.

How To Do It

The Cowgirl sex position is a favorite among women! It’s also known as the “Woman On Top” sex position. The male partner lies flat on his back (like the woman does in standard Missionary) and the female partner straddles his pelvis with her legs on either side of him, resting her weight on her knees. He can bend his knees some to help support her, or he can leave his legs lying flat on the bed. She can sit straight up, but it is more common for women to lean forward some for more clitoral stimulation.

Where To Do It

Couch, bed, chair, floor, car – any flat surface will do.

Props You’ll Need

A soft blanket or pillow to go under her knees.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

5

The Cowgirl sex position allows a woman to control almost everything about sex – the speed and depth of penetration, as well as the angle. She can change any one of these things to better facilitate an orgasm, and this makes it much easier for her to achieve the big O. Because this sex position offers such excellent g-spot and clitoral stimulation, many women can have blended orgasms!

His O-Meter

4

If she’s getting off, he’s getting off. He really loves watching her do her thing, so this sex position gives him a great show. He really digs her riding him and using his body to get herself off.

XXX Tip

If she’s sitting straight up, he’s got a much better view, and she can touch herself while having sex to give him the ultimate show!