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Blowjob Therapy Sex Position

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Perhaps one of the best oral sex positions for him, Oral Therapy allows a man to lie back, relax and enjoy a blowjob in the utmost comfort. He can lie all the way back and close his eyes, or check her out while she goes down on him. This is truly an oral sex position he will love!

How To Do It

The Oral Therapy oral sex position is an exceptionally comfortable and enjoyable one for a man. He’s laid back on the couch or the edge of the bed, relaxed and comfortable. His female partner is kneeling at his groin, leaning over the couch or bed to perform oral sex on him. It’s a fairly easy oral sex position to use, and it is much more conducive to the male orgasm than a standing oral sex position, since it can sometimes be difficult for men to ejaculate when they’re concentrating on standing and not falling backwards if their knees get weak.

Where To Do It

This is a perfect position for the sofa, a lounge chair by the pool, or even the edge of a low bed.

Props You’ll Need

Pillows for her under her knees and under his head

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

2

This oral sex position is fairly comfortable for the female partner and does reduce neck cramps somewhat, which can be a huge problem when it comes to giving great head. She can also reach down and stimulate herself in this position, making the experience more enjoyable for her.

His O-Meter

4

He’s relaxed, he’s comfortable and he’s kicking back while getting a blowjob – what’s not for a man to love with the Oral Therapy oral sex position? He can lay back and concentrate on the pleasure with his eyes closed, or he can prop his head up on a pillow or underneath his arm if he wants to watch the action.

XXX Tip

Ladies, if you reach down and fondle yourself while you’re giving your man oral sex in this position, he’ll love it. He may not be able to see exactly what you’re doing, but he’ll really get off on the fact that you’re so turned on by going down on him that you can’t help but touch yourself!

If he’s game, this is a great position for a little prostate stimulation to really give him an explosive orgasm!

Kneeling Blowjob Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Kneeling BlowjobThe Kneeling Blowjob sex position is perhaps one of the most popular oral sex positions for him, and it’s definitely one of his favorites. He loves being able to look down and see her going to work on him, but if she’s really good at it, she might make him weak in the knees! Keep a chair nearby!

How To Do It

The Kneeling Blowjob is one of the most common oral sex positions for him. It’s an extremely powerful position – he will feel very dominant when he receives a blowjob this way. In this position, the male partner is standing and the female partner is kneeling in front of him to perform oral sex. This is a very simple yet effective oral sex position for him, although some men won’t be able to orgasm well in this position because they are standing and cannot relax. Ladies, if you’re good enough to make him weak in the knees, you might want to switch to a sitting oral sex position for the finish!

Where To Do It

Anywhere he can stand!

Props You’ll Need

Pillow or folded blanket/towel to slip under her knees

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

1

This position can help reduce neck cramps when the female partner is giving oral sex, but may be uncomfortable due to extended periods of time spent on her knees.

His O-Meter

5

He loves getting head this way because it makes him feel very manly, as though the female partner is submitting to him – and in a way, she is. He’ll enjoy looking down and watching his lover give him oral sex, and making eye contact with her when she looks up from doing her job.

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This is an excellent “quickie blowjob” oral sex position. He can drop his drawers almost anywhere at any time and if you have enough privacy (and sometimes if you don’t) she can suck him off quickly. It’s a standard oral sex position that you can make very, very naughty if you get creative!

Lap Dance Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Lap DanceThe Lap Dance sex position is a fun rear entry sex position but can lack intimacy due to the way each partner is facing. Thrusting can also be a little difficult, but he can have a lot of fun playing with her breasts while she rides him. It can also be a great follow-up sex position to a real lap dance!

How To Do It

This is another rear entry sex position, but it happens to be a little more difficult than some of the others. In this sex position, the male partner is seated on a surface such as the edge of the bed, couch or a chair with his feet flat on the floor. The female partner lowers herself onto him facing away from him with her back against his chest. That sounds easy enough, but the difficult part of this sex position is getting the female partner’s feet in position – her feet are tucked behind her, facing away from her on either side of her partner’s body. This can be an awkward position if a woman is not very flexible.

Where To Do It

Couch, bed, chair – anywhere that allows the male partner to sit on the edge with his feet on the floor.

Props You’ll Need

Couch, bed or chair

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

2

This sex position is more difficult for her to get into and stay in than her partner. It can be a little awkward, especially since the thrusting is mainly her responsibility. This is where it can get tough, because she’s going to have to raise up on her shins and most women aren’t used to maneuvering that way during sex. It can take some time getting used to how to move here to create the best penetration.

His O-Meter

3

Since he’s in a natural sitting position with her facing away from him and sitting on his lap, this sex position isn’t really that uncomfortable for him. He doesn’t have a view though, unless he and his lover are getting it on in front of a mirror.

XXX Tip

The male partner can reach around and hold or fondle her breasts during sex, and he can also reach down and fondle her clitoris, which is getting almost no stimulation in the Lap Dance sex position. This will make sex more enjoyable for her and increase her orgasm potential.

5 Great Sex Positions If You Want To Pull Out

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Sex positions for pulling out can be handy if you don’t want to ejaculate inside of your partner. Here are five that you definitely should know about!

Pulling out is a essential if your girlfriend or wife is not on the pill and you’re trying to prevent pregnancy but aren’t at risk for STD’s. Although pulling out is not a 100% effective method of birth control, new studies show that it’s on par with condoms.

If you are worried about getting her pregnant, there are a few ways that you can avoid an orgasm inside of her, but have it be hot. A lot of guys don’t like to pull out, even with a condom on, but pulling out can lead some very kinky fun. Having your girlfriend finish you off her in her mouth or masturbate you to orgasm can be a nice change of pace. Here are the top five sex positions for if you want to pull out.

1. Missionary

By far the easiest sex position for pulling out is missionary. While mission can be seen as very boring by the sexually elite, there are a lot of couples that love the intimacy that comes with this position. Add to the fact that this is an excellent position for pulling out and we have a winner.

When you are having sex in missionary position, your girlfriend or wife will have access to your penis. This means that they can reach your penis when you start to orgasm. Other sex positions do not give you this access. Once you feel your orgasm coming up, she can either masturbate you or you can move up so can perform oral sex during your climax.

2. Doggy Style

Doggy style is another position that will like if you need to pull out. Doggy style allows you to get away from her faster if she doesn’t want your semen all over her body. Some girls think that it’s kinky to have you orgasm all over their butt, breasts or even their face. If your girl isn’t into this, doggy style can give them a chance to get out of the way while you climax into a towel or something else. If you want your girl to masturbate you or give you oral sex during your climax, she can simply turn around.

3. Girl On Top (Facing You)

Girl on top is another sex position that you can utilize if you want to pull out. When the girl is on top, she has access to your penis at any time. This is a great position for giving her more control during sex. She will be able to control the amount of penetration and the amount of movement.

Once you give her the signal, she can either start to give you oral sex or she can jerk you off while your having the orgasm. Girl on top can also set you up for climaxing into a towel if your girl doesn’t want any of your semen on her. This is one of the best sex positions for her to give you oral sex during your orgasm because she can just hop off and go to town.

4. Spooning

While spooning is typically used for intimacy after sex, spooning is a great position for pulling out during sex. Line up for the spoon and enter your girlfriend. This sex position allows you to enter her at an angle for better penetration and for massaging her g-spot.

This is also a great position for kissing her neck and massaging her breasts during sex. When you start to feel your orgasm coming, you can pull out and she can masturbate your penis while you climax. Be sure to have a towel handy or you can orgasm onto her pelvis area.

5. Reverse Cowgirl

Reverse cowgirl is a great position for your girl to take control. This can also be a pretty good position for pulling out. Have the girl sit on top of you facing away. Enter her and allow her to take control of the sex. She will be moving up and down and probably grinding on your penis.

When you start to feel the orgasm coming, Slide back and pull your penis out of her vagina. You will probably have to finish yourself off as this doesn’t leave much choice for her to finish you off. She will either have to turn around or reach back, leaving her in an awkward position. This isn’t the greatest position for pulling out, but it can still work.

Pulling out is not a fool proof method of preventing pregnancy. However, consider pulling out even when using a condom or other contraception to ensure that you don’t have any surprises. These 5 sex positions will surely give you just as much pleasure as staying in when you have an orgasm.

6 Side By Side Sex Positions That Will Leave Her Breathless

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Sex positions will ramp up your sex life in ways you never thought possible! Try these killer “cuddle” sex positions that your girl will absolutely LOVE!

Sideways sex positions are more of a hybrid than a category of positions in their own right; they offer all the benefits of rear-entry without the physical taxation that most partners experience doing it doggy style. Side-by-side sex also offers unique angles for penetration and usually a strong G-Spot aspect, all of which are beneficial to your gal’s bottom line. The perfect time to try a sideways sex position is when either (or both) of you need a bit of a relaxing sex session, or have exhausted yourself before reaching the Big O.

1. Three Quarter Cross

Lie your partner down on her side with her hand supporting her head. Bend her knees and get her to lift one of her legs. Lie on your side and squeeze in between her legs so that your bodies form a T. Put yourself into her, and lean forward slightly. Hold onto her hip for support and thrust into her. She can move her upper leg to determine how much you can penetrate, and it’ll be easier for you if you use her upper leg to prop yourself up.

CLIMAX CUE

Both of your hands are free to play with her breasts or clitoris, so move around to make sure it’s comfy for you both before going to town. Your legs are also in a prime position to rub up against her mons pubis and clitoral hood, and she can tilt her groin towards you to increase the pressure. Because this is an easy position for both of you to perform, use it when she knows it might be a while for her to orgasm, or when either of you are in the mood for a long, languorous love session.

2. Just Chillin’

You’ll need a bench or the side of the bed for this position. Have your lover lie down on one side with her legs bent, right at the side of the bed or bench. Get her to raise up her top leg so her knee points toward the ceiling, and put your whole body in the hole her legs create. Put your outside leg on the ground and place your other leg on the bench or bed. Hook her leg in the air with your elbow and pull it tight in to your body before entering her. You can move by pushing with your legs or moving her captured leg under your arm, and she can rotate her hips or clench her buttocks for some extra tension.

CLIMAX CUE

Even while moving your penis inside your partner, you’ll still be closely connected in the most intimate of ways. This is a really snug position where clitoral contact is almost constant but it is definitely more of a grinding movement than a thrust. You can put a bit of power behind the movement if you like, really pushing her up and down along your penis, which will thrill many women immensely. Just make sure that your pubic bone is in constant contact with her mons pubis and labia, and you’ll be well poised for the kind of stimulation she’ll need for orgasm.

3. Leg Up On The Competition

Start with your partner on her side with her knee on top bent to face the ceiling. Have her grab onto the ankle of her bent leg for support. Lie down on top or beside your partner, depending on how your bodies line up, then hook your top leg over her bent leg and put your foot on the ground for support. Leave your other leg straight, and line it up with your partner’s outstretched limb, perhaps intertwining your legs if you so desire.

Put your hands above her head to use as leverage. In this position, you can move as you would if you were in missionary position, just at a slightly different angle. You have full control over the depth of penetration and the speed in which you do it in this position, so mix it up a little!

CLIMAX CUE

There’s a lot of depth to this position, and she’s wide open for the taking. You are raised up higher than you normally would be in plain ole missionary style, so you will be hitting her clitoris exactly where she needs it. She can control the angle of penetration by rolling from side to side and taking you along for the ride.

4. The Figure Eight Mambo

Your partner lies on her side with her knees bent, her ankles touching and her legs parted as wide as she can. Have her prop herself up on the arm beneath her. Lie down in front of her on your side and face her feet. Slowly move forward until she has to open her legs even more to accommodate your body, and your pelvic areas meet. Get her to wrap her legs around you, and do the same to her. Insert yourself into her. You may have to move down her body somewhat, press your penis down, and have her tilt her bum toward the ceiling to fit. Either of you can move by pushing forward, backward, or to either side.

HOW TO GET HER TO ORGASM USING THIS POSITION

The magic of this position, as with most sideways positions, is in the tilting of her body. She can rock back and forth to find the perfect angle, and you can thrust away while she’s looking. Both your hands are free to play with buttocks, nipples and other sexy parts, and you’ve both got a great view of the action. She can also grind herself on your leg or tuck her hips up for more clitoral stimulation.

5. Scissors

Lie down next to each other, with your feet at each other’s head. Have her spread her legs with her knees bent, and squirm your way over so that one leg is underneath her lower leg, and the other lies between her parted thighs. Join together by entering her, and hold onto her knee which should end up around your armpit or mid-torso so you can push against her. Her leverage comes from planting her body into the bed, and holding onto your bent leg closest to her. Move by pulling on her leg, pushing with your hips, or opening and closing her legs.

CLIMAX CUE

Quite a few of these sex positions look a lot more complex than they really are, and this is one pays off in spades, if you just give it a try. When you push your upper thigh down, you will rub up against her pleasure palace. Grinding and shallow movements are the name of the game, and the highly unusual angle offers some amazing sensations. She can easily play with herself as well, or move around to ensure she’s getting the clitoral stimulation required for orgasm, and can even make eye contact with she really wants to feel connected.

6. Reverse Snuggle

Lay down on your side with your body straight and legs together. Have her lay down next to you, facing away and also on her side, with her head at your feet and her buttocks pressed firmly into your crotch. Enter her from behind, asking her to move further down your body and tilt her bum towards her belly button if you have a hard time entering her. Move with either her pushing back against you, or you pushing into her.

CLIMAX CUE

It’ll be a tight squeeze getting into position, but one well worth trying out. With her legs held together, you’ll both feel every inch of one another, and there are few positions like this one for G-Spot play because your penis will push right up inside where it needs to be. Both of you can reach over and play with her clitoris, and she can also get some breast stimulation if she chooses to masturbate. Either of you can control how fast sex propels her toward orgasm, all without anyone expending too much effort to get there.