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5 Red Hot Rear Entry Sex Positions

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Sex positions are fun to play around with and many guys love rear entry sex positions. Here are five that are so hot, you’ll have to take a cold shower!

1. Rear In The Air

The rear entry position has long been heralded as one of the best positions to use to help a woman reach orgasm. However, you need to know the right positions to achieve maximum effectiveness. Here’s one way. Have your partner get in the “doggy style” position on the bed. You stand behind her.

Now before you begin, ask her to lower her top half and rise up her bottom so that her back is arched. When she’s comfortable, you can commence with penetration. In this position, you should be able to stimulate her G-spot (another sensitive area on a woman), plus you can reach below her and use your hand to massage her clitoris.

2. Fun In The Tub

If your foreplay began with you giving your partner a bath, then this may be a good way to take it to the next level when she’s ready. Keep the tub partially filled with warm water (and bubbles if you like). Your partner gets into the tub first and kneels down. She should be close to the faucet so you have plenty of room behind her.

When you get into the tub, you’ll kneel down behind her and penetrate her from behind. As you’re both enjoying this, you can use a showerhead to direct a stream of water directly on her clitoris or you can use a waterproof vibrator to stimulate her. Either method will work wonders, particularly if she has enjoyed masturbating in the tub before.

3. The Leg Clench

While most rear entry positions require the “doggy style” position, this one does not. In fact, if your partner is partial to the missionary position, this may be a good one to try. Your partner stretches out on the bed face down while you straddle her body from behind.

Once you’re deep inside her, ask her to clench her legs together and cross her ankles. This position will keep your bodies close together, which many women enjoy. Plus, she can add even greater pleasure for herself by clenching and unclenching her PC muscle in time with your thrusts. Another benefit of this position is that if you have difficulty preventing yourself from ejaculating before your partner climaxes this technique will slow you down and can buy you some extra time.

4. She’s In Control

One of the most erotic things for a woman to experience sometimes is being in complete control of the sex act during a session. This position can make that possible. In this technique, you sit down on the bed with your legs straight out in front of you. Your partner lowers herself down onto your penis by straddling your legs and facing away from you. You do not move; you allow her to move in the anyway she wants and to set her own rhythm. This gives her more control so she can determine what feels the best for her while you enjoy the view from your end.

5. One Leg Lifted

Women do tend to enjoy this particular position more than others in the “doggy style” category, so it’s definitely one you’ll want to try out. As usual, your partner will be down on all fours. However, one of her legs should be lifted up at angle. Since this position is difficult to hold for long, you should assist her by sliding some soft pillows under leg to prop it up. Instead of penetrating from straight on, you’ll want to position yourself at an angle to her body.

Now slowly insert your penis into her vagina all the way. Don’t stop until your testicles brush against her bottom. Just as slowly, pull it out and repeat. You can speed up a little, but the idea with this technique is to use long, slow strokes. The deeper penetration gives you a better chance of stimulating her clitoris and/or her G-spot, plus most men get off on watching their penis slide inside their partners. Maybe it’s a little like watching a self-made adult movie.

3 Super HOT Techniques For Any Sex Position

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Sex positions are a great way to spice up your love life – but it’s time to go outside the “box.” Here are three tips you can use with any of the sex positions!

1. Angles & Reverses

Have you ever noticed that almost all sex positions have reverses? They’re not always performed face-to-face, they can also be done back-to-face or butt-to-face.

The Woman-On-Top for example, has the ‘Reverse Rider’ Position where the lady rides with her back to you. The Man-On-Top has two reverse versions, the male ‘Reverse Rider’ – where the gentleman rides with his back to the lady, albeit a difficult one. And of course, the classic ‘69’ Position.

Not all Side-by-Side Positions are executed face-to-face, one may penetrate coming from the back – which can also be classified under Rear Entry. (Like when it’s late in the evening and your lady is sleeping with her back to you, and you suddenly get the idea for a quickie. You simply slide her undies half-way and wiggle from behind – hoping she won’t wake-up before you’re done.)

These variations are not for aesthetic purposes. The feel for each is unique as the strokes come from unique angles – it’s a different set of sensual experience.

2. It’s All About Legs

Your hot rod hangs between the legs, the vagina resides between her legs – and the objective is to acquaint these two so they can do each other some good.

So guess what – those legs (yours and hers) play one of the most principal roles in determining variations. If you think about it, positions have a lot to do with how the limbs are configured. And it’s usually the woman who has legs shifting and flailing about. (Are they spread, crossed, raised, wrapped around your body?) The man, affecting the strokes, often needs leg support for balance and stability.

Changes in leg poses can create a variety of sex positions. One may not be aware of it, but a simple shift in limbs could result in many different configurations.

But more than that, seemingly innocent limb placements do affect the dynamics of penetration, and therefore, the resulting sensations. Leg configurations affect how your penis approaches her vagina, even the nature of the stroke itself. It’s not just for the sake of pose variety; it carries consequences that modify shape, size, depth and tightness of the vaginal barrel because internal changes take place in consonance with those leg movements.

For example, every time a woman brings her legs together and brings both her knees to her chest, like in a fetal position, she’s actually shortening and tightening her vaginal barrel. Thrusting in this position results in maximum penetration. The position is therefore advised for gentlemen with tiny weiners. This way, his penis feels bigger and longer in a shortened, tightened and tensed vaginal barrel.

Conversely, the knees-to-the-chest thing is not prudent for men with a big penis. Theirs will just drive straight into her cervix, and that’s way too intense for comfort. Not good.

3. Pelvic Positioning

Just as minor shifts in limbs create different sensations, simple adjustments of the pelvis also bring distinct delights. This is caused by the change in how the penis approaches the vagina. As said before, the penis can penetrate the vagina in different angles and sexual variations align the thrusting & receiving pelvises in different ways.

In some sex positions, a woman’s pelvis is tilted up. But every time she raises or lowers her pelvis, she changes the angle of entry – causing different vaginal areas, such as the g-spot, to be targeted.

In the same manner, a man leaning backwards or forwards while inside a woman varies the tension between his erect penis and the vagina. (Twitching his rod while inside also has the same effect, but to a lesser degree.)

The idea here is for the couple to move their pelvises around, experiment, even gyrate them sideways or in circles, and find that specific angle that leads to greatest enjoyment.

5 Weird But Awesome Sex Positions!

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Sex positions don’t have to be the same every single time you have sex. Here are five strange but totally erotic and orgasmic sex positions you can try tonight!

1. Comfy Cozy

Sit up with your legs straight while your partner lowers herself, facing you, onto your penis. Ask her to bend her knees so that her legs are tucked underneath and her ankles meet your hips, then sit up partially and hug her, slowly bending forward. As you move toward her she will naturally move back, arching her spine slowly so that her back rests comfortably on your legs.

Open up her chest even more to allow you breast access by putting her hands on your ankles and her elbows out to the side. Move by pulling her with your arms onto your penis, or bouncing slightly with your hips.

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She is wide open and vulnerable in this position, while you act as the protector. Nurture her by showering her with kisses and telling her how amazing she looks impaled on your love-spear and you’ll get her even closer to orgasm. Slow and sensual is this position’s game, and the more you arch her back with your arms behind her, the more G-Spot action she’ll receive, along with plenty of clitoral coaxing.

2. The Creeping Spider

A challenging but intriguing position that plays on a man’s core strength and a woman’s sense of play, this move starts with you lying flat on your back and pressing your shoulders into the ground, arms at your side. Bend your knees as much as you can and place your feet firm and flat on the ground. Your partner should then squat down on top of you with her feet planted strong as well. Enter her while raising your hips off the ground so that you are in a straight plank position.

Your lover should still be squatting on your manhood. Once you find your balance, lift one leg so the ball of your foot faces the ceiling, and get your partner to hold onto it like she’s driving a stick shift. Movement occurs when she subtly bounces on you, with the tension and pressure flexing back from your hips, thighs and core.

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If you can get the hang of it, this is a deeply penetrating position, and one that offers a lot of leverage for your woman to really grind into. It will be a lot easier for you if you keep your spine as straight as possible, and bounce only slightly during sex. She can hold onto your leg for balance, and grind herself into you as she feels necessary to get off. The lady is definitely in control here, so let her show you what works.

3. Choker

In my opinion, this is one of the most unusual sex positions I’ve found. I hadn’t heard of it before researching sex positions for this series, but as soon as I saw it I immediately had to try it – and with great results, believe me! Still, it’s a bit tricky to get into position correctly and then to find a rhythm that works well for both of you, but well worth the added time.

Sit down with your legs slightly bent and ask your partner to straddle your hips, facing away from you. Slide into her, pushing her forward onto your knees if need be. Have her pull her arms back and hold onto your shoulders or the back of your neck, whichever is more comfortable. She may need your help to get her arms back far enough, while leaning further forward to reach.

Get her to lift her feet at the knees so you can hold onto them for leverage, and you are in position! Move with her pulling on the back of your neck while you raise and lower your thighs, or have her push against your hands with her feet. It will be a subtle movement, but highly effective if she’s positioned correctly.

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You are at a prime angle for deep penetration, G-Spot stimulation and symphysis friction: all three in one position is rare. Moving your legs will allow her different angles for clitoris pressure, so play around to see what direction she likes most. Giving her the ability to do most of the movement might tire her out, but she’ll get to choose the tempo and speed with which you have sex. If she needs a break, she can lean forward and put her hands on the ground instead, which may give her enough balance and strength to release.

4. Comfy Corner

Place a chair without arms perpendicular to the edge of a bed. Lie down so that your waist is at the edge of the bed and your calves and feet lie comfortably on the chair. Tilt your body to one side and lift a knee high along your body so that it faces the ceiling. Bend your lower leg so that calf and foot are flat on their side on the chair. Your hips and upper legs should lie free of the bed and chair, suspended in air. Have your partner straddle one of your hips and the leg that sits on the chair, facing away from you.

Both her legs should bend slightly so that her feet are on the floor, or prop up against the bottom of the bed with only her toes flat on the ground. Put your penis inside her vagina. Lean her forward so that she’s lying along the leg on the chair, with one breast on either side of your leg. Use her arms above her head as a pillow and to prop herself up so her back remains straight. Get her to push herself back and forth against your groin and watch her masturbate with your body.

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An excellent, relaxing position for both of you to get exactly what you want: she gets tons of stimulation between her legs and there is a great view available for you. If the bed and chair are positioned close enough to one another, you should be able to sustain sex for an extended period of time. Moving the leg she’s draped over will help her grind against you, and may even enable her to find a sweet spot for clitoral and symphisis stimulation. Use this when both of you are tired and want a slow, comforting session together, or when she’s perfected her pelvic thrusting technique and wants to try it out for a mind-blowing release.

5. Sitting Pretty

Have your partner lie down on her stomach with a pillow wedged firmly under her hips. Get her to prop her upper body up with her forearms so she’s looking forward comfortably and only her breasts remain on the floor. Walk up behind her and sit down so that your bums touch. Straddle her body with your legs, your feet up against her elbows. Use your hands to put your penis inside her; she may need to move forward somewhat to angle her buttocks back and up for you to fit.

Once you’ve penetrated, lean back and put your hands on the floor, outside of her feet, and push your backside up against hers snugly. Move by rocking your body slightly and very slowly back and forth, thrusting from both your arms and feet; if you don’t go slow and gentle, you’ll likely fall out. She can help by arching her back and using her forearms to push back against you, and by opening her legs slightly so that her mons pubis gets some contact friction from the pillow.

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Because you can’t take advantage of any symphysis in this sex position, you’ll want to use your hips to push her down into the pillow to creating a similar sensation to pelvic thrusting. Keep your penetration deep, yet your movements shallow, and you’ll play with her G-Spot and the most sensitive parts of her vaginal opening nicely. Tilting her pelvis will help with both penetration and arousal foreplay for her. Lying on a waterbed or soft, bouncy bed will add to the thrill.

4 Exotic Sex Positions That Will Blow Her Mind

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Sex positions can’t always be the same during lovemaking or your partner will easily get bored. Here are four new and adventurous sex positions she will love!

1. Rocker Over

A rocking chair makes this position so much easier for you, but it can work just as well with any other sturdy surface. Your partner sits, slouching somewhat, with her head back against the back brace (or a wall) and her buttocks at the edge of the seat. Straddle her legs with your back to her torso. Lean forward until your arms are on the ground, using your forearms to hold yourself up in a semi-push up position.

Your legs should automatically lift in turn, so that they bend at the knee. Your feet should either rest on the top of the chair, or on your partner’s shoulders. To enter her, both of you will need to move your hips somewhat and use your hands to put your penis inside of her. It might be easier if she lifts her hips to straighten out her back before trying. Settle into each other once you’re connected, and start moving by using your forearms and legs to push and her hips to thrust.

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You offer a lot of pressure to her mons pubis and clitoris network with this position, as well as some unique G-Spot stimulation because of the angle of entry. Capitulate on these positive aspects by getting her to lift her genitals to meet yours, asking her to play around a bit until she finds the perfect spot. Grind against her by pressing down into her body, and make sure to use your whole body instead of just your penis. Because your head is below your heart, the blood will pool somewhat in your genitals, allowing you to last longer than you normally would.

If it isn’t too hard on your arms and doesn’t get you light-headed, this is an excellent position for longer-term pleasure, especially since the rocking movement helps reduce pressure on any one body part. Stay in motion constantly, and you’ll rock her world.

2. Dippity Do

If you missed this week’s upper body workout at the gym, these tricep dip positions will more than make up for it. Grab a sturdy low chair, stool, or ottoman and place it near the couch to get started, then sit on the middle of the couch like you would any normal day of the week.

Scoot your bum forward so that your arms are the only thing holding you up from the couch – as if you were doing a triceps dip – and place your feet together with knees slightly bent on the low stool in front of you. Your partner stands over you with her legs around yours and squats down for you to enter her. If there are height issues, she can squat further down until you meet. Movement occurs when either you perform a triceps dip or she raises and squats down on your member – or both.

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Because your hips are angled in this position and she’s able to squat down and move as quickly or as slowly as she needs to, there’s a lot of orgasmic possibility wrapped up in this little number. G-Spot stimulation comes naturally and she can grind her clitoris up against you too. The only thing stopping either of you from enjoying this position full tilt is the difficulty for those without the upper body strength.

Perhaps then use the position to get the feel and angle right, then move the ottoman underneath your hips so that you’re still angled properly, but you’ve got some support so your arms don’t give out from a lengthy go-around. Put some pillows under your feet to ensure they are still raised, and you’ll offer a pretty close position substitute.

3. Dippity Do Two

Similar to the previous position, a variant really, this move offers a tremendous amount of control to the ‘dipper’, but requires extensive arm, shoulder and back strength to execute.

Lie down perpendicular to two sturdy objects, such as an ottoman and a couch. Put a pillow under your hips if you want extra leverage and support. Your partner can then lie across your body with your genitals touching, feet on the ottoman and arms on the couch as if she were doing a triceps dip. Help her to get her body into the right position to put your penis inside of her vagina, since she’ll need both her arms to move about and keep sturdy.

Take some of the work off your partner by thrusting upwards, or lie back and let her exhaust herself on top of you. If her arms get tired too quickly, lie down on the ottoman and use the pillows for her feet to simulate a similar, but much easier position.

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Even the strongest of women will have a hard time getting to orgasm in this position. Still, it’s a novel angle that few will experience otherwise, and there’s something uber-sexy about lowering oneself down onto an unseen phallus. Try it when she’s already highly aroused, or when she missed a workout and wants to make it up via double duty. With her legs held tightly together, she’ll feel every inch of your member, and she can alter the angle of penetration easily with just a flick of her hips.

Add a cock ring vibrator for extra thrills, or reach over and play with her clitoral head to see if the movement helps get her closer to peaking.

4. The Head Rush

While standing, have your partner straddle your hips and wrap her legs around you. Look at each other eye-to-eye, and hold her hips firmly while you penetrate her. Then slowly get her to arch her back and lean away from you. Your hands should provide the pivot point for her hips, giving her all the support she needs to slowly lean backward until her hands reach the floor. Don’t let go!

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This isn’t a position for the faint of heart, but it offers some amazing perks for both of you. You’ve got an incredible view of the length of her body and your united genitals, and she’s got all the blood rushing to her head with G-Spot stimulation like no other. Depending on her flexibility, you may be able to thrust a fair amount in this position, but don’t expect her to hold it for any length of time.

Try moving into this position when she’s just about to climax, and slowly push and pull her off your penis to watch the fireworks start. If you have a hard time getting into position from standing, try lifting her up from a kneeling position with her hands supporting both her head and shoulders, so they don’t get banged around when you make the transition to standing.

3 Standing Sex Positions That Will Make Her Weak In The Knees

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With most standing sex positions, at least one of you will require a fair amount of strength and/or stamina to execute it properly. Most that I came across were either ridiculously difficult or they didn’t provide enough stimulation for the female partner to conceivably orgasm.

That’s why there are only a handful of positions in this section but all of them are great ones to try out and come highly recommended from my clients, fellow experts and readers alike.

1. The Door Is Ajar

Have your lover stand with her back against a door jam and lean her head back. Stand upright and facing your partner, so that your legs are between hers and your back is against the other side of the door jam. In tandem, scoot your legs forward until your penis and her vagina meet; you’ll likely need to bend your legs, and she’ll sit on them slightly. Enter her and grasp her bum firmly. Have her hold onto your shoulders or put her arms around your waist or neck if she’s feeling off balance or wants some support.

Have her push her back firmly against the door jam while you thrust up and push her back and forth along your pelvis. To get out of this position, as it’s a bit trickier than the others, bend your knees until you’re squatting down. When her legs reach the floor again she’ll be able to hop off effortlessly.

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This is a hard position to sustain for any length of time. If her legs come off the ground because of a significant height difference, you can make it easier on both of you by squatting down more. You can also have her bend one leg and drape it over one of your elbows, then lean to the opposite side slightly and put her foot on the ground. It will open her up more as well so you can penetrate even more deeply.

Whatever you do, don’t let on that the position is a difficult one for you. If it is, move on to another position after you give it your best shot for a short period before you try something else. The feeling of weightlessness is a huge turn on for most women, but knowing that you’re struggling will bring her back into reality when all you want is for her to let go. If she wants to move around more, or feels like she’s not getting enough clitoral or G-Spot stimulation, suggest she lean back even more and move her hips in a circle, grinding herself into you and rubbing around to find more G-Spot pleasure.

2. Kneeling Face To Face

Face your partner and kneel on the floor together. Scoot forward so that you are extra close to one another. Place your opposing legs flat on the ground with your knee bent, and slowly inch forward until your privates touch. Lean forward to connect your penis to her vagina. To move, take turns lunging forward.

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There are few better positions than this one to even out the odds between you. With this move, you are both in the exact same position, performing the same moves. Provided you are about the same height and are both doing the same amount of work, plus both your arms are free to roam and play, perhaps to tweak nipples, coddle her clitoral head or pinch her buttocks. There won’t be a lot of heave-ho in this position, but because you are so snug against one another, she’ll get tons of clitoral stimulation grinding up against you, and even better eye contact to slide towards orgasm.

3. Get A Leg Up

Are you ready for this? Get your partner to do the splits mid-air, so that one leg is on the floor and the other is lifted as high toward the ceiling as it can go. Walk up to her and hold the outstretched foot, bending down slightly to enmesh your bodies. When you start having sex, you can use the one hand on her hip and the one on her leg as leverage to move. If her leg gets tired, have her bend it at the knee and lock it over your elbow instead for a rest.

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She’ll be off balance in this position, which isn’t a bad thing if you want to catch her arousal off guard. Just make sure that she’s supported well enough so she doesn’t fall over, and she’ll be able to enjoy the unusual angle and experience. Pull her close when you want to rub up against her clitoris, or ask her to finger herself if she’d prefer. Make sure your knees are bent to offer her enough clitoral and G-Spot stimulation, as you won’t thrust terribly deep in this position.