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Wildfire Erotic Massage Oil – And You Thought Sex Was Good Before…

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I recently was introduced to Wildfire Erotic Massage Oils. They make all-natural intimacy products, and I was lucky enough to get to try them! I got the “All My Love” Gift pack with the Wildfire All Over Pleasure Oil. They offer three scent variations of this oil:

  • The Orginal All Over Pleasure Oil
  • Black
  • Enhance Her

Powerful aphrodisiacs from around the world infuse these Australian-made erotic massage oils – which you can smell as soon as you open the bottles. Seriously, they smell AMAZING!

Wildfire All Over Pleasure Oils claim the following four uses:

  1. Sensual Lubricant
  2. Intimate Body Massage Oil
  3. Nourishing Body Moisturizer
  4. Luxurious Bath Oil – Anyone who knows me, knows how much I love a mid-afternoon bath and a glass of wine!

At first, I was skeptical. How could one little bottle of oil work in so many ways? Plus, I’m not typically into the smell of natural, vegan products. They would usually smell relaxing to me, but not exactly sexy…

So how did these oils perform at the four different uses? In a word, impressively.

The Good

Firstly, all the oils are olive oil-based. They perform surprisingly proficiently at all four functions. Second, only to the bath, my favorite use of this magic elixir is as a massage oil. Even after the most stressful day, a whiff of one of these babies plus some sensual rubbing wipes everything away and immediately gets both of us going.

It’s a simple transition going from sexy massage oil to lubricant once things get heated up. Effective and long-lasting, these oils are some of the best lubricants I’ve have tried.

Baths are my ultimate stress relief. Since being introduced to Wildfire erotic massage oils, my mid-afternoon baths are now sprinkled with the pleasure oils, too. Some of the residues stay on your body afterward, leaving a subtly sexy scent.

If the bath residue isn’t enough, I rub some more of my favorite scented pleasure oil on afterward. It relaxes me and guarantees some cheeky behavior from my man immediately afterward. Plus, it keeps my skin really well hydrated.

Okay – onto the stuff that makes each of these products so special and sensual. As mentioned, all of them are olive oil-based, but the added aphrodisiacs and essential oils make each one exquisite and unique in their own way.

The Orginal All Over Pleasure Oil

Wildfire Massage Oil - Original
Wildfire ORIGINAL is packed with erectile and libido herbs that enhance your performance and longevity in the bedroom.

I’m pretty happy with myself for sticking to the logic that the namesake product would be the best – and I was right. The Original All Over Pleasure Oil works well at all functions as mentioned above, but I like it best as a lubricant and for when he works his massage magic on me.

It’s got ylang-ylang, and jojoba oils in the base which are incredibly heady and sensuous scents. The addition of Muira Puama, Horny Goat Weed (yep, that’s its name) and Tribulus – all naturally occurring aphrodisiacs – do something to us. Literally within a matter of seconds, we’re both turned on and rearing to go.


Black

Wildfire Massage Oil - Black
With vivid new fragrances and newly discovered herbs, Wildfire Black will ignite your passion like never before

When we’re looking for something a little more intense, we go Black. My guy appreciates the intoxicating scents, and it’s his request for a massage oil every time. Jojoba and Brazilian Ginseng give it an earthy aroma – something I would usually find off-putting, but the proportions of scent in the oil seem right. Also featuring Muira Puama and Horny Goat Weed, the Black potion adds powerful Ginkgo Biloba aphrodisiac plus damiana, more ginseng, and patchouli.

This oil is intense. But sometimes intense is what we need. 😉


Enhance Her

Wildfire Massage Oil - Enhance Her
Wildfire Enhance Her is specifically formulated to increase a woman’s pleasure and help her escape into a world of new sensations with exotic feminine fragrances and textures.

This oil was made for women. I mean, the name is ‘Enhance Her’ and claimed to be specifically formulated for female arousal but, little old skeptical me still had my doubts. I bathe in this oil and lather it on my body regularly – and I’m still not over it (a rarity, for me!). Now, although it’s for women, when I wear this as a moisturizer or fresh out of the bath, hubby cannot keep his hands off me. That’s because it’s got the same olive oil, jojoba and added aphrodisiacs as the other oils, which are now familiar to us, but has the added floral sweetness of Marigold, chaste tree berry and wild yam.


The Bad

Massage Oil And Condoms
Never use oil with latex condoms. The oil can actually break down the latex and cause the condom to fail. :/

The All Over Pleasure Oils are oil-based, which means they are not safe for use on latex condoms. For committed relationships or those riding solo, these oils will become your new bedroom besties. And remember – even if you do use condoms, you can still try out three other unique uses that guarantee to get you going. The oil-base also means your bathtub may need a scrub after use as a bath oil!

The Bottom Line

These oils blew my expectations away. Next time, I will be purchasing the full-sized bottle of each oil :). My recommendation if you don’t want to shell out the cash for all three, then go for the Original All Over Pleasure Oil. It has all the crucial ingredients and effects of the other oils but keeps it simple and sexy at the same time. It’s rare that we find a product (even perfume or cologne, for Pete’s sake!) that we both find appealing – but the Wildfire Original seems to be that product.

Next, we’ll be testing out their Arousal Oils, Edible Body Butters and Mood Mists so stay tuned!

Sexy Fun With Candy – 5 Sweet Treats To Try Tonight

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Edible panties aren’t just for bachelor and bachelorette parties anymore – you can actually have a lot of fun with your partner when you incorporate a few sweet treats into your foreplay routine. Fortunately, you don’t have to go to the novelty shop for a pair of slightly sweet but strange tasting gummy underwear if you want to have sexy fun with candy. These yummy creations are available at almost any store, so you can satisfy your partner’s sweet tooth tonight.

Candy Necklace

There are lots of fun things you can do with a candy necklace, ranging from the tame and sensual to the downright naughty. Start off slow by putting the necklace on your partner and nibbling each piece of candy off the necklace slowly to start getting things heated up. This is a great way for you to sneak in kisses on your partner’s neck in between kissing them sensuously on the lips. To take things up a notch, wrap the candy necklace around your partner’s penis and tease him by slowly removing the candy pieces one by one. Just be careful not to nip the skin!

Chocolate Sauce

Chocolate sauce is a great way to turn your partner on, because chocolate is an especially powerful sexual aphrodisiac and it is also downright delicious! Entice your partner by drizzling a little chocolate sauce on their lips and then kissing them deeply, sucking the chocolate sauce off. Drizzle some over their chest and nipples, and then all the way down to their genitals. Leave yourself a chocolate sauce trail to follow from their chin to their inner thighs, stopping a few times to give your partner oral sex. Guys may want to keep a glass of water nearby to rinse their mouth before going down on a girl, because a lot of sugar near or in the vagina can disrupt the pH in the vagina and cause yeast infections.

Red Hots

Don’t underestimate the power of a little heat when it comes to sex and giving your partner head. These little cinnamon candies are great for freshening up before kissing your partner and then surprising them with an extra long, deeply sensual kiss with a hint (or more) of cinnamon candy. They definitely won’t be expecting the cinnamon punch! Bring the Red Hots into the bedroom for even more fun, because they’re great for oral sex. Give him a blowjob with a few of the candies in your mouth and he’ll be clawing at the bedsheets. Not only does the cinnamon create a tingly, warm sensation while you’re going down on him, the candies moving around in your mouth will stimulate spots even he didn’t think he had.

Fruit By The Foot

Fruit By The Foot or Fruit Rollups are a much more inexpensive and better tasting alternative to edible panties. With a little creativity, you can create edible bras, underwear or even a bra and panties set! To turn your partner on, create some fruity, sexy panties and show your partner your creation by modeling them for him. Then, offer him a lick or two – or the whole thing! It’s a great way to get a guy that doesn’t like going down a little more incentive to give you oral sex. You can also wrap Fruit By The Foot or Fruit Rollups around your partner’s penis before you give him a blowjob. You can nibble the treats off his penis or you can wait until they disentigrate, although this may take awhile.

Pop Rocks

Everybody knows that this fun, popping candy is a great for oral sex and if someone hasn’t tried using Pop Rocks when giving your partner head, they probably kn0w someone who has. Before going down on your partner, toss a small handful of Pop Rocks in your mouth and wait until they start to pop and crackle. When the candy starts popping, place your partner’s penis in your mouth and be still for just a few moments, allowing him to fully experience the popping sensations. It will drive him wild! Then give him a few good strokes with your mouth before putting another handful of Pop Rocks on your tongue and giving him some more snap, crackle and pop. Guys can also use Pop Rocks when going down on their girls, but they need to be careful not to get any candy inside the vagina. Instead, try placing the Pop Rocks on her clitoris and holding them there with your tongue, allowing the popping action to titillate her most sensitive spot.

Sexy Gift Ideas

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You’re looking to get a sexy gift, eh? Well, this is the internet. You’ll have no trouble finding plenty of suggestions here. From garter belts and sensual candles to fake ding-dongs and edible jock straps, it’s all here. But you’ll have to put a little thought into it if you want to really impress anyone. After all, the brain is our most important sex organ and, when it comes to sexy gifts, the thought really does count.

“Help me out here,” you’re probably saying. “If I wanted to think, I wouldn’t have turned on my computer and Googled ‘sexy gift ideas.'” Well, go ahead and order the Ima Virgin Sexy Bride costume then. But deep down you’ll know that you just picked something off of the first page of search results. Even worse, so might your partner! Trust me. Put a little bit of effort out and it will be worth it.

Find Their Fantasies

First of all, does your partner have any fantasies? If you know what they are, your job is pretty easy. Many times, however, you won’t. People tend to be shy about these things. Do a little digging. If you happen to find out, for example, that your babe has dreams where she’s a damsel in distress and you’re her knight in shining armor, a trip to Medieval Times might get the night off to a great start. Maybe his fantasy is to be with nurse. Don’t stop at buying (or renting for the risk-taking folks) a costume. Arrange an evening that puts him in a “hospital” bed—maybe even where he is incapable of moving, due to whatever injuries you have concocted—with you taking care of his every…need.

Do something surprising. A dim desk lamp with a light blue cloth over it makes a great fake moon. Set up a moonlit beach picnic in your living room. Googling ‘sexy gift ideas’ won’t point you towards the Ocean Moods CD, but that can be part of your plan. With the right background ambiance, a bottle of Yellowtail wine, and a basket full of goodies, you’ve got yourself some sex on the beach in the privacy of your living room (without the sand in your you-know-what). What’s more, this can be yours for under a grand total of thirty bucks. You can bet she’ll be bragging to her buddies about the crazy, romantic, sexy thing her man did last night!

Get Creative

Or maybe a beach setting isn’t his thing. Maybe your man prefers the rustic outdoors in a camp setting. Pitch a tent (ahem!) in the living room—though I don’t recommend driving stakes into the floor—and roast s’mores. Rather than telling scary stories, take turns telling erotic stories.

Creativity is the key here. You can be as tame or as raunchy as you think is appropriate. The point is, you’re the one who knows. Or, at least, you’re the one in the best position to figure it out. It’s all the things that happen day to day that inspire the thoughts that come to us by night. Don’t be afraid of looking nerdy or whipped. Pay attention to what’s going on. Listen. Try new things.

DON’T Try These Homemade Sex Toys!

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Economy cutting into your sex toy budget? Looking to save a few bucks by making your own. Don’t. We have some great “don’t try this at home” information for you.

Here’s What She Said About Homemade Sex Toys

Let me begin this with WTF? Why would you even want to try a homemade sex toy? It’s not like sex toys are expensive. Nor are they hard to come by. Every drugstore sells them under the veil of being a “personal massager” and if you really want to be discreet, you can order one online and it will arrive in a discreet package!

If you are thinking of using a homemade sex toy, then proceed with caution. And if you must, make sure you do not try any of the ones that i mention below.

Candle Stick

Sure it looks all innocent and hard and safe to jam up in your private places but this candle stick is made of wax!

Wax may begin in the sold state but does not stay that way. Waxing your bikini line is one thing, waxing the inside of your vagina is another! And if you even think bout having it lit, you deserve the pain that will come to you.

Cucumbers, Yams, And Carrots

If it goes in a salad, it should not go in your vagina or your anus! Ever!

You are just asking for a carrot to break off in your mans butt or get a cucumber piece in your vagina. The vagina and anus are not crispers, that food will rot and that is not sexy. Plus, you don’t know where that vegetable has been! And if you have sex with it, what the hell are you going to make for dinner?

Grapefruit, Orange, And Mango

Sure this fruit taste so sweet and feels so good on your tongue, but do not poke a hole in it and then stick your penis inside it!

I have heard stories of guys cutting a hole in grapefruit, heating it up in the microwave and then just going to town. While going to town, they also can burn their junk! Even if they don’t heat up the fruit, there is still the possibility of getting citrus juice in a hole where no juice should go – ouch!

Small Animals In Nylons

We all remember that urban legend about Richard Geer having to go to the ER because he had a had a gerbil stuck up his rear. If you haven’t heard of it, Google it, it’s funny. Regardless do not use family pets as a sex toy ever. Its dangerous and illegal, and just poor form all the way around.

Napkin Rings

The idea of using a napkin ring as a cock ring during sex is incredible funny and also makes me think twice about the
table setting for Thanksgiving dinner. A napkin ring is not a good choice for a sex toy. Sure those bright colors or steel plates look sexy, but it is a hard ring,a hard ring that when put on an engorged penis might not come off until that penis gets soft.

We only recommend stretchy cock rings, just in case you need to get it off in a pinch.

Cell Phone.

Sure it vibrates and might feel a little too good between your legs when you are getting a phone call but do not stick your phone up any of your orifices for any reason! This is also super dangerous and lets face it, what if your mother calls you? That’s just awkward.

There you go, a handful of homemade sex toys that should never be used. Seriously, just nut up and buy the real deal. There are so many sex toys that can be bought online or at your local sex store or pharmacy. Remember ordering a discreet package is a lot safer then using something at home.

Sure you might not want your roommate or mailman know you like big black dildos, but its better than having to go to
the ER because you got a hamster stuck up your rectum or the OB Gyn for that weird bacterial infection that you got from your cucumber.

Here’s What He Said About Homemade Sex Toys

There’s really no such thing as a good homemade sex toy, unless of course you’re a carpenter and can make your own “red room of pain” from 50 shades of grey your self.

Sex toys are mainstream. Everyone has them. You should feel good about buying whatever sex toy you want. Get them online if you want to buy discreetly OR go to a local sex shop and pay cash if you want to take it even further.

Don’t ever make your own sex toys. Yes, they do it in movies sometimes and yes it is hot – when they do it. When you do it, you go to the hospital. Don’t be that guy. Or girl. Or couple.

Use the “DANJENN” offer code at AdamAndEve.com – you can save 50% and get free shipping.

4 Ways To Get Her To Love Sex Toys

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Sex toys can be one of the best ways to spice up you and your partner’s sex life. If you feel that the spark is quickly dying you can easily breathe a little more life into your bedroom affairs by taking advantage of the technological innovations of modern sex toys. There are so many to choose from that everybody can find something they like.

A lot of men and women feel that sex toys are a way of cheating, that if their partner can not bring them to orgasm then a sex toys can become a crutch. However, if you love using sex toys and your girlfriend or wife is on the fence, there are a few ways that you can break down the barriers and get her love using them.

Here are 4 ways to get her to love sex toys.

#1 Dispel The Myths About Sex Toys

As stated before, there are a lot of women that are overly cautious when it comes to sex toys because they believe that they could become dependent on them. If their partner cannot bring them to climax during intercourse, but they can reach intercourse with the use of a sex toy, they might feel like they’re cheating or that it could hurt their partner’s feelings. If your girlfriend or wife has these concerns make sure that you dispel these myths.

Women cannot become physically dependent on sex toys to reach orgasm. Sex toys are enhancements that help a woman to have stronger, more powerful orgasms, but they will not become dependent on them. Dispel these myths with your partner and you will find that they are much more open to trying out sex toys with you.

#2 Find The Right Sex Toys For Her

Finding the right sex toys for your partner is going to be an important step to getting her to love using them. There are so many different devices with so many sizing options that any couple can quickly get lost in all of it. When you want your girl to love sex toys, it’s best to get her the right size and the right functionality.

Whether she is into vibrators or dildos, she needs to find something that is going to be comfortable for her. Smaller girls can’t handle the thickness of some dildos and even the size of some vibrators. Make sure that you are using the right sex toys so that they can get the maximum amount of pleasure. Some sex toy websites will even offer sizing options based on various aspects of her physique such as height and weight.

Check out a few different sex toy web sites to find the right options for her.

#3 Experiment To Find New Toys She Will Like

Experimentation is the bread and butter of almost all relationships. You try something out and see if it works. If you don’t like it then you move onto something else. The same goes with sex toys. If she thinks that she might like a vibrator, but actually responds better to a dildo, go from there.

You can’t know what she is going to like until she tries it out. She needs to try out a few different toys before she will be able to figure out exactly what she likes. Another thing to remember is that she isn’t always going to want the same old vibrator.

Take things a step further and surprise her with a new toy every month or so. This will make her want to experiment and find out what she likes. There is no use in buying a bunch of sex toys that do the same thing. Branch out and try a wide variety of things to find out what she responds to best.

#4 Tell Her About Your Desires And How Sex Toys Can Help

Every guy likes to watch his girlfriend or wife get off. That’s not exactly a well kept secret. However, many women don’t think of it in this light. For some women, their own pleasure is secondary. Some women can get wrapped up in pleasing the guy that they put their own orgasm at the back of the line.

‘Let her know that you like it when she is being pleased. Tell her that it’s a turn on for her to get off and she will be much more open to trying out new sex toys. A sex toy is also a way for you to get her off with a much more powerful orgasm. Once you make it known that you want to give her all of the satisfaction, she will be open to letting you experiment with these new toys.