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Hustler Dare Devils Vaginal Balls Review

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The Hustler Dare Devils vaginal balls are a form of “ben wa balls” that are designed to be inserted into the vagina and exercise the PC muscles. The pelvic floor muscles can become weak over time or after a woman gives birth, which can lead to urinary incontinence and trouble reaching orgasm. When inserted into the vagina, the weight of the product will inadvertently exercise the PC muscles without the woman actively exercising the muscles herself, because the vagina is trying to keep the balls in on its own.

The Good

If they are able to be worn, this product will help strengthen the vaginal muscles while the women is going about her day to day life. Stronger PC muscles mean better control over urine flow and stronger, harder, faster orgasms. Using the Hustler Dare Devils vaginal balls will strengthen the PC muscles, leading to a more satisfying sex life. The product itself is cute – who won’t love the little devil tail that acts as the “string” to remove the product.

The Bad

The product is fairly large and heavy, which may not be well suited to smaller women. Some women may have trouble with insertion (use lots of lube!) and may find them uncomfortable or painful to wear while standing or sitting. Women with very poor muscle control may find that the vaginal balls slip out often and the product can only be worn for a few minutes at a time. Beginners should definitely choose something smaller and lighter weight. Also, the hearts on the side actually end up being upside down when you go to insert it!

The Bottom Line

The concept of the Hustler Dare Devils vaginal balls is great, and some women will really be able to benefit from them. Other women, such as girls who are very small down there and have trouble inserting most objects, will find that these are too large and don’t fit well. These women should definitely go with something lighter weight and smaller.

The Full Hustler Dare Devils Vaginal Balls Review

The Hustler Dare Devils vaginal balls are a form of “ben wa balls” that are made to be inserted into the vagina and left there. The weight of the balls will inadvertently exercise the muscles in the vagina, because the vagina will actually work to keep the vaginal balls inside without the woman wearing them doing anything at all. It’s an excellent way to passively exercise the PC muscles when you don’t remember to do your kegels on your own.

These particular vaginal balls are a little heavy and large, which may not be well suited for beginners or smaller women. They may find the product uncomfortable and difficult to wear while doing daily activities. Beginners should use a smaller, lighter weight sex toy. However, if a woman finds that the product is constantly slipping out, it may be because the PC muscles are just that out of shape and can’t keep the product in for any length of time. Doing more kegels and wearing the Dare Devils more may help with this.

Better Bladder Control

Older women or those who have given birth may find that they have less bladder control than they used to. Hustler Dare Devils vaginal balls can help with this as well. The PC muscles are not only responsible for great orgasms, they’re also responsible for starting and stopping the flow of urine. Exercising these muscles and strengthening them will help decrease the instances of incontinence that some women experience after birth or as they age.

All in all, The Hustler Dare Devils Vaginal Balls are a great concept and can be used by many women to improve bladder function and strengthen orgasms. While some women may not like them, others will find that they help a great deal. If you’re typically very small, look for another product. If you don’t have trouble with inserting most things into your vagina, try this product and see if it works for you!

We-Vibe Touch Clitoral Vibrator Review

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The We-Vibe Touch is a cordless, rechargable vibrator that fits in the palm of your hand. Designed for clitoral stimulation, it offers several different pre-programmed vibrations, from waves that are designed to build your climax to short bursts that are designed to tease. It’s made for women to use during masturbation, but it can also be used by a woman’s partner to tease her before sex or during sex to help her reach climax faster and harder.

The Good

There are many, many great things about the We-Vibe Touch, from the size to the powerful vibrations and numerous settings. It’s small and discreet, so it’s easy to take with you wherever you go. One of the most unique features of this vibrator is that it is completely waterproof. It’s perfect for use in the shower, pool or tub, so if you like to masturbate in the shower or bath, this is an excellent toy to use. It’s shaped like a tongue and has a grooved head that fits right on the clitoris, but it can be held any way you like and it still works great. It fits into the palm of the hand, so it’s easy to hold during masturbation, even when things get really wild.

The Bad

Although the We-Vibe Touch is made from silicone, the material gets dusty (which is another reason it’s great for use in the shower). However, it can easily be rinsed or wiped clean. It’s not made for insertion, so if you’re looking for a g-spot vibrator, this isn’t the one for you. It’s a fairly strong vibrator, but it gets weaker the more you use it without charging it in between. Some women that find it difficult to climax may find this vibrator isn’t strong enough, but charging it in between each use may help. If you need a really, really strong clitoris vibrator, try the Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Bottom Line

The We-Vibe Touch is a powerful clitoral vibrator with tons of different modes, so you’ll never get bored. It’s easy to hold, easy to use and it’s not going to slip out of your hand even when using with lube. It’s surprisingly quiet too!

The Full We-Vibe Touch Review

If you’re looking for a versatile, multi-mode clitoral vibrator, the We-Vibe Touch is a great choice for a go-to vibe that not only gets the job done, but is small and quiet enough to literally take it with you anywhere. It fits right in your purse or travel bag, and it’s super easy to use, because once you charge it, it’s completely cordless.

Simply push the lighted button on the back of the vibrator to turn it on, and push it again to switch between several different modes of vibration. It’s also super easy to switch between modes in the middle of masturbation, whereas some vibrators don’t allow you to change modes without stopping.

Quick Facts About The We-Vibe Touch:

  • Lighted button is easy to use in the dark
  • Easy to clean silicone material
  • Tongue-shaped vibe is comfortable and hits all the right spots
  • Feels super slick with lube
  • Remember never to use silicone lube with silicone toys

Experiment with the different modes that this sex toy has to offer, because you can really play with your orgasm and find the modes that bring you to climax quickly, as well as the modes that draw it out and build your pleasure until you can’t hold it in anymore. Use it alone for quiet and discreet masturbation, or use it with your partner for more clitoral stimulation during intercourse. This sex toy really has become an all time favorite of many women!

All in all, the We-Vibe Touch is a great vibrator for any woman – and every woman should have one tucked away in her drawer. It’s lightweight and doesn’t require a degree in rocket science to operate. It can be used anytime and anywhere, and unless you really need or want g-spot stimulation, it may very well be the only toy you need to stay completely sexually satisfied.

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LELO Nea

A similar sex toy to the We-Vibe Touch is the LELO Nea. This adorable little clitoris vibrator is small, feminine and compact enough to take with you anywhere. Although it’s not waterproof, the LELO Nea is a great alternative to the We-Vibe Touch!

We-Vibe II 9 Mode Vibrator Review

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The We-Vibe II is one of the only toys of its kind – designed to be used by a couple during sex to enhance orgasms for both him and her. One end of the toy slips inside the woman’s vagina and sits up against the g-spot, and the other end wraps around the woman’s vulva and nestles against the clitoris. The toy is small and curved enough to allow a man to insert his penis in to a woman’s vagina while the toy is being worn, so he can feel the vibrations too.

The Good

Not very many sex toys can be used by a couple together. Masturbation sleeves are designed for men, while most vibrators are designed for women. Sure, you can use a sex toy on your partner, but how many of them can you actually use with them so both of you can get off? There are very few couples sex toys, and even fewer of them are as well made as the We-Vibe II.

The We-Vibe II is waterproof, so you don’t have to worry about body fluids affecting the function of the vibrator, and you can even take it into the shower or bath. With 9 different modes of vibration, it’s going to be awhile before you and your lover get through them all. From soft, teasing vibrations that will add to you and your lover’s movements to strong, overwhelming vibrations that will take you under, this toy just about has it all.

Not only does the We-Vibe II provide intense stimulation for both a woman’s g-spot and her clitoris, her vagina will also feel smaller and tighter to her man when the toy is inserted. Plus, he may like the vibrations – although not every guy does.

The Bad

The We-Vibe II is small and most women can wear it comfortably alone or during intercourse with a partner. However, some women that are exceptionally small or sensitive may find that this sex toy is difficult to use or may find that it doesn’t fit right.

Many men aren’t too thrilled by vibrations (it just doesn’t do it for them), so some guys just aren’t going to be totally enamored by the We-Vibe II – although if it really gets their women off (and makes it feel tighter for him), they won’t complain too much. Despite the few caveats that this sex toy has, it’s definitely worth the purchase.

The Bottom Line

If you’re looking for a couples’ sex toy, the We-Vibe II has exactly what you need. If sex become dull and you need something new to bring to the bedroom, or you just want to experiment with new and different sensations, this is an excellent addition to your toy drawer. So few sex toys are designed with couples in mind, so it’s nice to have one that you can bring out when you and your lover are together. While some people may find it slightly uncomfortable to wear, overall, the  We-Vibe II is a great choice for most couples.

The Full We-Vibe II Review

The We-Vibe II is a uniquely designed vibrator to be worn by a woman alone during masturbation or during intercourse with her partner. Women who have trouble reaching orgasm during sex can really benefit from using this vibrator, as it allows for extra stimulation while still making love with your partner. Sure, women that can’t reach climax can always use a vibrator later – or have their partner use a vibrator on them – but nothing can replace having an orgasm while being held and embraced by your lover. You and your partner may even be able to experience a simultaneous orgasm with the We-Vibe!

100% pure, medical grade silicone is easy to clean, but needs to be kept away from any kind of silicone based lube. Silicone based lube will deteriorate the material on the outside of the toy, so choose a good water based lubricant for sex. When dry, the silicone material on the outside can get kind of dusty, so wrap in a soft, non-linty cloth or use the silk pouch included to wrap it in when not in use. If it does get dusty, simply rinse with plain water before use.

The We-Vibe II is easy to use because it doesn’t require batteries, so when it’s time to recharge, just plug into the wall jack that is included with the toy. Even though there’s a way for the vibrator to be plugged into an outlet, the material on the outside of the vibrator keeps it from getting wet when used in the shower.

With 9 different modes of vibration, it’s unlikely that you and your lover will get bored with the We-Vibe II any time soon. You can experiment with the different modes of vibration during foreplay, and you can change over to your favorite one as things get more and more heated. If you and your lover are feeling adventurous, try inserting one end of the We-Vibe II into the vagina and the other in the anus, while you perform oral sex on her!

Under The Bed Restraint System Review

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The Under The Bed Restraint System is an excellent bondage kit for beginners. If you like the idea of tying your partner up or being tied up, but aren’t into the whole BDSM scene, this is the perfect solution for you. It’s an arm and leg restraint kit that allows you to immobilize your partner on the bed without having to use any hardcore BDSM or bondage stuff.

This also isn’t the pink fuzzy paddle type of restraint either – if you don’t want to make the foray into hardcore bondage but are tired of seeing nothing but fuzzy handcuffs, feather ticklers and heart shaped paddles, you’ll love the Under The Bed Restraint System.

The Good

The Velcro cuffs are soft enough not to chafe, but strong enough to ensure your partner isn’t going to be getting out of them without some serious effort – if they’re able to at all. The cuffs are adjustable, so it’s very nearly one size fits all. It includes four cuffs for arms and legs, and also features adjustable straps – so you can tighten or loosen them based on how much you want your partner to be able to move.

The Under The Bed Restraint System is also very versatile – it is made to slip underneath the bed, with the cuffs stretching out from under the bed, but it can also be used on the couch, on the stairs or on a kitchen table. This is a great sex toy to have fun with, because you can adjust the straps to make it fit just about anywhere – just use your imagination!

Perhaps one of the best qualities about the Under The Bed Restraint System is that it is easy to put away and keep hidden from small children or guests. You can keep it “hooked up” under the bed, but when it’s not in use, you can tuck the cuffs in between the mattress and box spring, so no one can tell that you actually have a bondage kit on your bed at that moment! When you’re ready to use again, simply pull the cuffs back out.

Unlike Velcro cuffs and straps on some of the other similar products out there, these straps and cuffs are very strong and durable. This isn’t a flimsy kit at all – you can really “play” with your partner without worrying about the straps breaking or the cuffs coming undone.

The Bad

There’s not much “bad” to say about the Under The Bed Restraint System – it’s so versatile, it will pretty much go anywhere and work for just about anything you want to do with it. However, If you have very small wrists or very large wrists, the cuffs may be difficult to secure. However, they would either have to be really small or really large for the cuffs not to fit properly – they’re going to fit most people just fine.

Also, make sure you keep the Velcro cuffs away from anything silky, like lingerie or Japanese silk rope. The rope will adhere to the Velcro and you may not be able to get it off! Keep the Under The Bed Restraint System in a drawer or box by itself to keep it and your other toys and lingerie in good condition!

If you’re really into BDSM and bondage, and enjoy more hardcore toys, this may not be the kit for you. It’s more of a “middle of the road” kit for people who want to experiment with bondage but don’t want to cross that line into harder stuff. If you’ve already crossed that line, this kit may not give you the level of “hardcore” that you want.

The Bottom Line

The Under The Bed Restraint System is a simple, easy to use arm and leg restraint that fits under the bed and is easy to use and easy to hide. It’s a great option for couples who want to play with bondage but don’t want to go too far with it. If you’re only going to buy one arm and leg restraint, this is definitely the one you should buy! It’s strong, durable, comfortable and a great addition to your toy box.

The Full Under The Bed Restraint System Review

The Under The Bed Restraint System is a complete arm and leg restraint kit that allows you to play and experiment with bondage without having to go buy a whole lot of scary, hardcore stuff. It’s also not pink and fuzzy – so guys who want to experiment with being tied up during sex or tying their partners up are going to like it better than some of the other “beginner’s kits” out there.

When you pull the Under The Bed Restraint System out of the package, it can be a little confusing as to what goes where. It looks a bit like a crazy spider! Looking at the pictures on the box will help though and there’s pretty much zero assembly required. Move your mattress and place the long strap in the middle of the bed. Place your mattress back on top and pull the cuffs out from under the bed. You should have two cuffs coming out on either side of the top of the bed, and two cuffs coming out on either side of the bottom of the bed. Five minutes later and you’re ready for some bondage play!

The Under The Bed Restraint System is also easy to put away. Just tuck the cuffs back under the bed and throw your comforter on the bed and you’re good to go! No one – including guests or children – will have any idea that you have this beginner bondage gear set up under your bed! It also makes it more convenient to get out when you’re ready to play again. You don’t have to take it off and set it up each time you want to use it. Just pull the cuffs back out and you’re good to go!

All in all, this is an excellent beginner’s bondage kit, especially for people who don’t want to go too hardcore but aren’t interested in the pink fuzzy stuff or feather ticklers. Make sure that with any bondage play, you choose a safe word and use it if things get too out of hand.

Male Sex Toys – 5 Things That AREN’T For Her!

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Male sex toys are becoming more and more popular as guys realize that they’re not only for women. Men can have just as much fun during masturbation as a woman can! Here are some must have male sex toys!

A Masturbation Sleeve

Every guy needs one of these! Forget masturbating with your hand – these soft jelly or skin-like sleeves are specifically designed to maximize a man’s pleasure during masturbation. Male sex toys just don’t get any better than this – there are hundreds of different materials, sizes and looks to choose from, so it’s not at all difficult to find one that you really enjoy. Men who use masturbation sleeves report better, deeper orgasms and more overall satisfaction.

Also, keep in mind that to use a masturbation sleeve, you need a bottle of lube hanging around. Most lube will work, but pay attention and don’t use silicone lubes with silicone sleeves, or oil based lubes with latex sleeves. A good, water based lubricant will work with any material.

A Cock Ring

Most guys don’t think about using a cock ring during masturbation, but it can make a world of difference! Cock rings aren’t just for guys who have erectile dysfunction and can’t keep it up, nor are they just for couples who like a vibrating bullet in between them. A soft jelly cock ring can just feel great during masturbation, while a stiffer one can prolong a man’s erection and make his orgasm absolutely incredible.

A Prostate Stimulator

You may have heard that the best male orgasm comes from massaging the prostate gland – however, many guys are still too shy to try anal stimulation. If you can get past the “ick” factor that many men have when thinking about playing with the anus during masturbation, you can have a lot of fun and even more pleasure.

A good drawer full of male sex toys isn’t complete without a prostate stimulator. If you’re new to it, or are still a little creeped out by it but want to achieve that amazing orgasm that everyone is always talking about, try starting with a smaller prostate stimulator. A tiny butt plug will get you used to anal play during masturbation, and as you get more and more into it, you can replace your beginner’s sex toys with more advanced ones.

A Penis Pump

Penis pumps are also not male sex toys that are confined to men that struggle with erectile dysfunction. Any man can enjoy a penis pump, especially if he wants to mimic the sucking feeling produced during oral sex or if he just wants a bigger, harder erection. Penis pumps are often inexpensive, and you can even get pumping models that have a soft jelly or skin-like “masturbation sleeve” attachment.

Be careful when using a penis pump, and never, ever use a vacuum cleaner instead of a pump made specifically for sex. If you pump too hard, you can cause bruising or pain and discomfort. Not worth it! But when used correctly before or during your masturbation session, you can experience more pleasure with a bigger, longer and harder penis.

A Masturbator Mount

If you really want masturbation to feel like a vagina, try purchasing a masturbator mount. Some mounts may only be compatible with some brands of masturbation sleeves, while other types of sleeves cannot be mounted at all. If you’re looking into a mount, make sure you choose one that is compatible with the masturbation sleeve that you already have or are willing to purchase a new one.

A masturbator mount will hold the masturbation sleeve for you, so you can enjoy it absolutely hands free. There are different styles of mounts depending on which sex position you enjoy most – and you can pick the one you like instead of trying to find one that you and someone else will enjoy!

You will love the hands free action that a mount can provide, because it makes it feel even more like sex. Even with a masturbation sleeve, there’s something about doing it with your hands that makes it feel not as good as the real thing (probably because it isn’t the real thing). However, with a mount, you can trick your brain into thinking you’re actually doing the dirty, especially if you close your eyes or have your favorite porn playing on the television in front of you. Just don’t forget to lock the doors!