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8 Handjob Techniques That Will Turn His Knees To Jelly

A handjob can be even more satisfying than a blowjob for a guy if you do it the right way. Check out these handjob moves that will leave your lover breathless!

1. Involve His Balls

Use any stroke that involves just one hand in combination with strokes that involve pulling, tugging, holding, cupping and lightly massaging your partner’s scrotum.

2. Start The Fire

Start at the base and pull gently upward while twisting (but not too hard) as if you were trying to start a fire with a stick of wood.

3. Thumb Massage

Hold your partner’s penis firmly in both hands and use your thumbs only to massage your partner’s shaft and head. You can do this in strokes or circles, depending on what your partner likes best.

4. Stimulate The P-Spot

Utilize the above technique (one-handed stroke combined with the other hand massaging another area) on the perineum. This will create delightful sensations between his “G-spot” and his penis. This move will bring your partner to orgasm quickly and it is a great move to use while he finishes off. If your partner enjoys this move, you can use it as the core of your genital massage.

5. Squeeze The Lemon

With a well lubed hand, cup your hand on top of his penis head and twist like you were squeezing a lemon on an old fashioned juicer.

6. Play With His Foreskin If He’s Uncircumcised

If your partner is uncircumcised, have fun with his foreskin. Massage it, pull it gently and twist it around to create a variety of sensations. Ask him to play with it in front of you so you can see what he likes to do with it.

7. Side To Side

While sitting in front of him on the bed – put both of your hands out as if you are going to “clap” and place one on each side of his penis – this side to side flat palmed action will be a different sensation and allows you both full view of his rock hard penis. It’s different for him from the way he would normally pleasure himself with his own hand.

8. Dry Massage

For a different approach, try a dry massage. Your partner may find this uncomfortable, however, especially if the skin around his penis is very tight and does not allow for much movement. This only works with light touches. When stroking his penis in a dry massage, just hold the skin tight enough so when you move your hand up and down the skin does not move but rather the inside of the penis moves. Men don’t always have the luxury of having lube on hand when they masturbate and they do just fine with a dry jerk off. It just takes a gentler touch.

How To Delay Ejaculation – Naturally!

By lloydlester

Premature ejaculation will ruin your sex life completely if you don’t get control over it. Learn how to wait as long as possible before ejaculation now!

Are you sick and tired of not lasting long enough during sex? Is delaying ejaculation becoming an arduous thing to do, one that causes you great embarrassment in front of your lover? There are many forms of sexual dysfunction that occur among men, and nothing is more debilitating than premature ejaculation. Yet the good news is also that premature ejaculation is the easiest to treat among all male sexual problems.

Indeed, you can completely cure PE using natural, practical methods without making embarrassing trips to the doctor. These are the key techniques and strategies:

1. Understand Your Ejaculatory Process And Sexual Responses

Without a proper understanding of how your body responds to sexual stimulation, you will never be able to control how soon you ejaculate during sex. Arousal control is key to keep PE in check. And before you can control your arousal, you have to understand how it works. In a nutshell, your body goes through 4 key stages of response during sex. The first stage involves “excitement” when your penis starts to fill with blood and becomes erect.

The second stage occurs when your penis is fully erect and you feel relaxed and under control. Stage 3 is when intense sensations begin to envelop your penis and you are about to “pop.” This leads into the final stage where ejaculation takes place. The arousal and erection fade away soon after.

2. Develop Mental Control

Much of a man’s inability to hold ejaculation stems from psychological or confidence-related issues. The very thoughts that run though your mind during sex will affect your sexual endurance. Some guys allow the sensations of intercourse to rule over their head and that is a quick and surefire way to blow early.

You must learn how to control your arousal right from the beginning. This can be achieved by focusing NOT on intercourse but on the entire sexual experience. This is a huge difference. To develop mental or arousal control, you need to focus on the ALL the sensations you experience and GIVE during sex, and not just focusing on how you feel in your own nether regions.

3. Regain Physical Control

Adding physical control to mental control will allow you to totally re-wire your ejaculatory triggers so that you can decide when you want to ejaculate. Training your ejaculatory muscles is critical to developing physical control. You see, your pelvic or perineal muscles control when you ejaculate. By strengthening the proper set of muscles, you are able to keep them relaxed at all times even with the most intense sexual stimulation.

There is no better time to start than now!

Many guys just lament that they can’t last long enough, and never make the effort to address this problem. Others resort to short-term tactics like desensitizing sprays and lube which don’t address the root causes. But if you are willing to put in the effort to understand how you body responds and develop both mental and physical control over your ejaculatory reflexes, you will be able to completely TRANSFORM your sex life and enjoy sex to the fullest!

How To Naturally Last Longer In Bed And Give Your Woman The Best Sex EVER!

By lloydlester

Premature ejaculation can make sex terrible for both you and your lover. Here’s how you can last longer in bed NATURALLY, and give your girl amazing sex!

Let’s face it. When it comes to sex, one of the worst things that can happen to a man is not being able to last long enough to fulfill their female partners. The simple truth is that over 70% of women are unable to achieve an orgasm during intercourse. Unfortunately, a lot of the blame is placed squarely on the man’s shoulders. But there is also another truth about lasting longer and giving a woman an orgasm. Curious to know what it is?

Lasting Longer Is NOT The Key To Great Sex

Despite conventional wisdom, that is true. You see, for the vast majority of women, how you bring them to an orgasm is much more important than the end climax. Many guys want to improve their sexual stamina thinking that is the only way to satisfy a woman. It is great to have an exceptional stamina. But the thing is, most women are not able to have penetrative sex for more than 15 minutes without feeling uncomfortable or even painful, due to the vagina drying up from the constant thrusting.

What women want is really simple – proper foreplay and an emotional connection during lovemaking. Many women like oral sex, so it pays to incorporate this into your sexual routine before heading into intercourse.

Why? Well, your tongue has the strongest muscle in the human body. It can easily provide the stimulus to bring her to an amazing orgasm through clitoral stimulation using just the tongue. In addition, having an orgasm BEFORE intercourse can make her multi-orgasmic during actual sex!

So Is Stamina No Longer Important?

It is still vital in a sexual relationship. You just need to last as long as it is required to bring her to a climax FIRST. Most women need about 10-15 minutes on average to climax, so it’s great to be able to last at least that amount of time.

But more importantly, pay attention to HER needs first. Do whatever you can to bring her to an erotic boil. Adequate amounts of foreplay, oral sex or even verbal seduction can get her aroused and prime her for an easier (and faster) orgasm during intercourse.

Something “magical” happens when you are able to satisfy her first. You see, for most men, the inability to last during sex arises from “performance pressure”. But once you have given her an orgasm BEFORE intercourse – for example, through oral sex – you will no longer feel the pressure to perform. And ironically, that will naturally help you last longer and give her the wildest time in bed imaginable!

Your Blowjob Questions – Answered (Part II)

By loveandsex

Oral sex isn’t always easy to figure out. Here are the answers to your most common oral sex questions!

What Can I Practice Giving Head With?

Learning how to give great head takes lots of practice, but you’re probably wondering just what you can practice on to get really good at it. The best way to practice is to practice on your partner – he can give you feedback about what feels good and what doesn’t, and let’s face it – a banana isn’t going to give you any responses about what it likes and what it doesn’t. Experimenting with new oral sex techniques and positions with your lover is part of the fun of discovering fellatio!

If you want to get really good at giving head before you go down on your man and surprise him with excellent blowjob skills, you can use other items to practice with, but you still won’t know if you’re any good or not because again, these items just can’t give you any feedback.

Food items like peeled bananas and cucumbers are popular for practicing giving head, but these can often pose a choking hazard – for example, if part of the banana breaks off into your throat and you’re not prepared for it. If you’re practicing a blowjob on an unpeeled banana – or any other food item, you can also risk scratching and scraping the inside of your mouth, your tongue or the back of your throat. To put it simply, food items were created for eating, not sucking off.

The best item to practice giving head with is an actual dildo. Choose one that is as lifelike as possible – complete with vein, head and scrotum details. This will allow you to practice many different oral sex techniques, such as swirling your tongue around the head or gently sucking the scrotum in and out of your mouth.

While a dildo can’t give you any more feedback than a banana can, if it’s realistic enough, it will train you how a certain technique feels. You’ll feel the coronal ridge of the head of the penis beneath your tongue and be able to find that same spot on your man when you go to perform oral sex on him later. You’ll know exactly what that spot feels like and what to do with it if you’ve practiced on a lifelike dildo first. If you get one with a suction cup on the back of it, you can stick it to the wall or a chair to practice oral sex positions as well!

Just lock your door first and make sure you have complete and utter privacy – this is something you really don’t want to get caught doing!

How Can I Get Over The Fear Of Giving Head For The First Time?

First time blowjob jitters can really put a damper on whatever sexy mood you’ve got going. However, there’s less reason to be afraid than you think. Remember how much guys love getting a blowjob? Pretty much any blowjob is a good one, even if all the girl knows how to do is suck up and down. As long as you’re not using your teeth, you’re good to go. Relax and enjoy the process!

Pay attention to his body language and the noise he is making, and do whatever causes him to make the most noise, buck his hips or breathe the heaviest. Know that you’re not going to be an oral sex master the second you put a penis in your mouth, and just enjoy the ride! You’ll get better as you continue going down on your man!

Is It Normal For Some Guys Not To Be Able To Orgasm From A Blowjob?

Sometimes you can give a guy head before and no matter what you did or how long you did it for, he still won’t get to the point of no return. Does this mean you’re bad at oral sex or don’t know how to get him off? Probably not. Some men just can’t let go when it comes to oral sex.

He may be afraid of ejaculating in your mouth or on your face, or he may be afraid he’ll break wind or so some other equally embarrassing thing if he “lets go” while your face is down there. So they hold back mentally and physically and just can’t reach the finish line, no matter how good the blowjob is. This is actually often subconscious – your man is likely not even realizing he’s holding back on his orgasm.

If this is the case, have fun with the blowjob and move on to sexual intercourse when you’re ready. There’s no hard and fast rule that says you have to give a man an orgasm from a blowjob for it to be any good. If you really want to get him to the point of no return, make sure you’ve set the mood well.

Allow him to shower first, go to the bathroom if he needs to and make sure he’s in a comfortable position with the lights down low. Give him every opportunity to relax and get into it. Don’t ask him if he’s there yet, or if he’s close. This will take him back to square one almost as fast as taking your mouth off of him all together. Talk with him about what turns him on the most and what might help him cross the border into Orgasm-land. If you can’t get him there, don’t sweat it too much. He still enjoys getting great head from you.

How Can I Tell If He Really Liked It?

Many guys aren’t going to tell you that a blowjob was really good or really bad – you’re going to have to make a lot of these inferences yourself. You can judge how good oral sex for him is by gauging his body language. If he’s breathing heavy, bucking his hips or grinding them in conjunction with your movements, moaning or talking dirty, he’s most likely enjoying himself. If he’s laying there like a cadaver or his penis starts going limp, he’s most likely not enjoying himself.

You don’t need a fancy litmus test to tell you whether you suck at sucking him off or not. However, keep in mind that if your man loses his erection often, no matter what you do, it may not have anything to do with you at all. That’s an excellent question for his doctor.

Will He Urinate In My Mouth?

Chances are, he’s not going to pee in your mouth when you’re going down on him, unless he’s got a fetish and forgot to tell you – but that’s not likely. When a man is turned on, it’s very difficult for him to urinate because his body just won’t let him do it. The valves from the bladder to the urethra shut and the valves from the vas deferens open. If your partner ever tries to urinate when he’s erect, notice that it takes him longer.

He has to mentally concentrate on relaxing the muscles needed for him to release the flow of urine while his penis is hard. If your lover has to urinate, he likely won’t be able to achieve a full erection or he won’t be able to reach orgasm and may have to stop the action to go take a bathroom break. If you feel a warm gush of thick liquid, he’s probably ejaculated in your mouth. However, it’s not impossible for him to urinate while you’re giving him head – it has happened to women before.

If the liquid is thinner and saltier, it’s likely urine. Go spit it out and brush your teeth. Relax, it won’t kill you. It will probably embarrass him more, so give him a break and don’t make a big deal about it.

How To Make Your Lover Orgasm Faster During Oral Sex

By david

Oral sex is fun, but when you’re going down on someone for what seems like hours, it can get boring!. Here’s how to make your lover orgasm fast during oral sex!

Why You Want To Get Down To Business!

When it comes down to oral sex, some people just dilly-dally. They do one thing or the other. This and that. No rhythm. No awareness. That’s wrong.

Oral sex for a woman isn’t just about a man going down on a woman’s vagina, licking her clitoris, and bringing her to orgasm. That’s just basic stuff that we learn right from the get go.

When a woman goes down on a man, she shouldn’t just suck and lick and that’s it. She should involve her hands!

The hands are the key to making anybody come faster.

Oral Sex For Her

Whenever you go down on a woman, you want to kiss her vagina all around and do it really slow. Kiss all around her lips. Take your tongue and flick it in very slowly. Don’t go for her clitoris right away.

When you finally do kiss it, it’s like almost like the flower opening. Every time you kiss her vagina, it just opens up just a little bit more and a little bit more and a little bit more.

You will be able to feel the moisture on your lips. Take your lips and just move them all around so she can feel and anticipate the gliding. Of course going by her clitoris several times so she starts building up pressure inside her body. When you finally do go for her clitoris, slip one finger deep inside her and go right to her G spot, because if you spend enough time getting her prepped, her G spot at this time will be swollen and spongy.

It will feel great to touch.

Then start licking her slowly, changing your techniques up, figuring out what type of rhythm she likes. At the same time, start taking your finger and moving it back and forth on her G spot, adding pressure and building that pressure up ever so slowly. Now she has two sensations going, she’s got her G spot going and she’s got her clitoris going. She’s going to come really fast. She might come from both spots at the same time and explode all over you!

That’s hot!

That will get her wanting more, desiring more, thinking about more. That will distinguish you as a good lover.

Oral Sex For Him

If you’re a woman, don’t immediately go suck a man’s penis.

Kiss his body, tease him, kiss his inner thigh, lick his balls, get involved in the whole area before you go right for his penis and just start sucking. When a woman just goes and sucks on her partner’s penis instantly, it almost feels like he needs to start masturbating. It won’t work for him at all!

He will love when you start altering between his penis and his balls. It will feel great when you start sucking both of them. A favorite move men love when a woman is sucking his penis and tickling his balls at the same time, or playing with his balls or tickling the perineum.

Get your hands more involved because then you’re going to give him the best blowjob of his entire life.

This is how you master oral sex!

You don’t just go for it, you tease, touch and use your hands. Use everything that’s available to you. You’re going to give your partner and lover one of the best experiences they can ever have.