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Wild Orgasm Pierced Lover Rabbit Vibrator Review

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The Wild Orgasm Pierced Lover isn’t for the faint of heart, but if you’re looking for WILD orgasms, this sex toy will really do the trick.

The Good

Strong vibrations and dual motors are what make this sex toy tons of fun, and if you’ve been looking for a toy with a “wow!” factor, this one is right up your alley. The rotating beads in the shaft add extra stimulation to the entrance of the vagina, however, where it’s really at is the rotating shaft. This toy doesn’t rotate slightly – it really rotates, stimulating every inch of your sensitive walls and zoning in right on the g-spot.

The clitoral attachment houses a separate bullet vibrator for those strong vibrations you need on the clitoris for an intense orgasm, and one of the best features of the Wild Orgasm Pierced Lover rabbit vibrator is the “tongue ring” at the end of the clitoral attachment. If you’ve ever received oral sex from someone with a tongue piercing, you know just how pleasurable body jewelry can be! Let this unique vibrator satisfy your desires for something more than just “rabbit ears” or “tickling antennae” with it’s hardcore tongue stud and awesome vibrations.

The Bad

Although the material is a TPR (rubber/polymer mixture), this toy looks, feels and smells like a jelly toy. Most jelly materials contain phthalates, which can be dangerous to the body. TPR is said to be phthalate free, but you may want to slip a condom on this bad boy before play. However, since it isn’t crafted from silicone, it’s definitely safe to use with all different types of lube, including both water based lubricants and silicone ones.

The controls are fairly easy to use once you get the hang of it, but you’ll want to check them out before use – they’re not something you can blindly manipulate without first knowing what button does what. Inexperienced users might be overwhelmed by all of the different control options, but with a little practice, it’s really not a big deal.

The toy requires 3 AA batteries, which is a lot of juice for a sex toy. It would be much better if this toy was rechargeable  but it’s not, so make sure you stock up on your batteries. Always have them on hand if you don’t want to run out of power mid-orgasm. You can use rechargeable batteries with this toy, but that does require an investment of the batteries and a recharging dock if you don’t already have them.

The Bottom Line

If you’re looking for a vibrator unlike anything you’ve ever seen before, this is a perfect choice. The Wild Orgasm Pierced Lover is big, bad and delivers intense orgasms for a solo session that has to be experienced to be believed. Well made yet affordable, this is a must have sex toy if you enjoy simultaneous g-spot and clitoral stimulation, or like a “full” feeling during masturbation. You can also have a partner use this on you during foreplay for wet and wild orgasms! Don’t be surprised if the intense shaft rotation and clitoral stimulation make you squirt!

The Full Wild Orgasm Pierced Lover Review

The material washes well, and doesn’t leave behind a super sticky or tacky feeling like some jelly or silicone sex toys. Once you take it out of the box, you will notice that it collects fibers and lint fairly easily, but this washes off easily or can be simply wiped off with a wet cloth. Keep this toy sealed in a plastic Ziploc bag when not in use to keep it clean and like new as long as possible.

The shaft is fairly flexible and although this vibrator appears like it wouldn’t be a good option for beginners, it’s actually not too big once you put some lube on it. Of course, beginners might be a little intimidated by the size and shape of the Wild Orgasm Pierced Lover, so definitely err on the side of caution and choose something smaller or avoid a penetrative vibrator all together.

The texture and ridges on the shaft are soft, and the rotating beads are strong enough to stimulate but aren’t too overwhelming. Although the shaft looks like it might feel a bit too rough, it’s not at all once you slip it in. Most women will notice that the metal ball just under the head of the shaft sits nicely on the g-spot and can induce seriously wet orgasms when the shaft rotates. You can use the Wild Orgasm Pierced Lover with only the shaft rotation and not the clitoral vibration, vice versa or with both. The toy is completely programmable for a customized orgasm experience.

Overall, this is an excellent toy to have if you’re looking for a rabbit vibrator that just has that little something extra.

How To Introduce Sex Toys To A Woman

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Sex toys can rev up your sex life, but introducing them isn’t always an easy task. How do you bring them in the bedroom without scaring her off?

When you and your partner first started dating, if your first introduction to her bedroom brought you face to face with a bed full of stuffed dolls, your first reaction might have been to run. Women have a similar reaction when men whip out their sexual implements; including toys, lube or specialized condoms. If you haven’t already shared your collection, make sure to follow these simple rules of etiquette first.

Show Your Cards

When things get hot and heavy and you reach for the drawer next to your bed, you may encounter some resistance. Why? If you’ve got a treasure trove of lubes, condoms, toys and vibrators hidden away, it could give the wrong first impression. Most women will already know if you’ve had other partners, but they probably don’t want to be reminded of it in the heat of the moment. Besides, having everything ready at your fingertips will let her on to the fact that you planned for sex, which in the first stages of a new relationship could dampen that “heat of the moment” sort of feeling.

So what’s a guy to do? Be prepared, but don’t pull out the big guns for a while. Use your favorite brand of condom and keep everything else, other than any necessary all-purpose lube, to yourself. After you’ve been together for a while and you’ve shared a handful of intimate experiences, feel free to delve into the toy arena. Just don’t make a big scene about the fact that you’ve used the sex toys with someone else.

Be Aware Of Health Concerns With Sex Toys

This leads to a discussion about sex toys and health concerns. One of the most important accessories in your ‘toy box’ should be a cleaner specifically created for sex toys, and you should use it each and every time you lug them out of their hiding place. Although some movies and TV shows talk about putting your sex toys in the dishwasher, it is a really a bad idea for most materials. Dishwasher water can be too hot, and might break down the material of many an expensive toy in just a few washes. Of course, nothing with batteries or moving parts should ever go into the dishwasher anyway, but you already knew that.

Instead, get a lint-free cloth and a bottle of toy cleaner to keep it on hand. Spray the liquid into the towel, and wipe off every crevice and curve possible. Rinse it with water and let it dry a few hours before putting it away. Most sex shops carry one or two different brands of cleaner, and you want one specifically made for a woman’s very gentle vaginal area; that means unscented and hypoallergenic. In a pinch, soapy water will usually do, but be careful not to submerge anything electric!

Another easier, albeit more expensive form of clean-up is to use condoms on any of your sex toys that will come in contact with either of your body fluids. You will still want to give them a quick wipe down with a damp cloth when you’re done, but most of the clean-up is already taken care of when you whip the latex off.

I should mention as well that all rubber and jelly sex toys are impossible to sterilize. You can clean them even with bleach but proper sterilization is impossible because of their physical makeup. Both hot water and bleach will actually break them down, so that they become unusable with time. That means that if you plan on using jelly or rubber sex toys on more than one person, or if there is both anal and vaginal use in play, you will be putting your partner at risk unless you insist on using a condom.

What Kind Of Sex Toys To Buy

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Sex toys come in all shapes, sizes and colors. You can do just about anything with them or put them…ahem, anywhere. How do you choose what sex toys to get?

There are a huge amount of sex toys available on the market today: dongs, dildos, vibrators, cock rings, G-Spot stimulators, eggs, bullets – the list goes on and on. We’ll get into each option in a second, but first, let’s discuss what kind of material you want to search for first.

Jelly or rubber sex toys aren’t the best option, mostly because of their inability to be properly cleaned. There are several other options available, depending on the kind of toy you want, but in most circumstances (unless otherwise noted) you’ll want to purchase sex toys made out of silicone. Although more expensive than regular jelly or rubber sex toys, silicone sex toys are:

  • Hypoallergenic
  • Warm up quickly to your body heat, touch or warm water
  • Sterile, and can be cleaned with gentle soap and water
  • Able to be used both vaginally and anally, provided they are properly sterilized in between uses
  • Non-porous and odourless
  • Lifetime purchases that won’t break, flake or melt

Now that you have a better idea as to what kind of materials to look for in a sex toy, let’s talk about the different options available to you that help with orgasms during intercourse.

Clitoral Sex Toys

There is a certain angle and thrusting mechanism required to rub up against a woman’s clitoral complex well enough to have her orgasm during sex. If for whatever reason you aren’t able to use these positions to attain the proper movement or angle, or if your partner can’t let go of her vibrator habit, a clitoral stimulator is the first type of sex toy to try. These implements are meant to be worn during intercourse, and they provide sensation, vibration or rubbing along the clitoral head and frenulum.

For example, the Ladybug made by Nasswalk is an unusual vibrator that a woman wears on her hips like a pair of underwear. It sits along her pelvis and stimulates her clitoris using two feelers that encircle her genital region. Many women have shared with me that this one toy saved their sex lives, and they couldn’t imagine having an orgasm during sex without it. I recommend this product wholeheartedly.

G-Spot Vibrators

G-Spot toys during intercourse? How is that possible? With a new and highly recommended toy called the We-Vibe, you can do it all. This small C-shaped vibrator offers both clitoral and G-Spot stimulation, where the woman wears the toy snugly inside herself and her partner thrusts. Once inserted, you don’t need to use your hands to hold it in place, and it packs a powerful vibratory punch. This incredible little gadget is easy to clean, rechargeable, and fully waterproof.

Eggs

Egg vibrators are sex toys that are shaped like an egg and are sold in pairs. Most eggs are meant to be worn inside while a woman goes about her day, prior to intercourse, so she can strengthen her pelvic floor muscles in an attempt to enjoy stronger orgasms. Some eggs even vibrate when they touch one another inside her body, so she gets a little thrill each time she moves! Although these aren’t meant to be used during sex, they will assist your partner with feeling more in touch with her body and how orgasms work. Ask her to put two inside her a few hours before you’ve planned a sex session, and see just how wet and excited they make her.

Bullets

Bullet vibrators are sex toys that are powered by either small internal watch batteries, or an attached remote. They range in size from two to four inches long and come in a variety of similar shapes and sizes. Bullets are fantastic pieces of equipment because they are:

  • Tiny, thus fitting into small or cramped areas when your bodies pushed together
  • Powerful, offering strong vibrations in a focused manner
  • Versatile, and can be used solo or with a multitude of attachments

Bullet vibrators are great sex toys to give to your partner. She can use them during sex whenever she needs an extra thrill, and because they are highly focused vibrations, she’ll be able to pinpoint her itchy spots with ease during sex.

Finger Vibrators

Sex positions that allow for a free hand are perfect for finger vibrator use. They fit neatly over your finger like a ring and provide extra stimulation through the pads of your fingertips. The Fukuoku 9000 uses silicone sleeves and makes your finger the actual vibrator, while the Ophoria loops around the base of your finger to give you an extra, vibrating digit.

Vibrating Cock Rings

One of the newer additions to the sex toys family are cock rings. All are meant to fit around a man’s penis, stopping the flow of blood so that he can maintain a longer erection. Some are plain rings that only provide support to the gent in question wearing one, while others have clitoral and anal attachments to stimulate those parts of her body as well. My favorite types of cock rings however are the ones that vibrate. Easily found at most grocery stores today, some come with a condom already attached. Because the batteries in these cock rings are small, they usually don’t cost a lot of money, and wear out quickly.

These lovely little sex toys offer a lot of benefits when having sex and wanting some extra stimulation, such as:

  • Ease of use. You don’t need to read an instruction manual to use these sex toys, and they are ready to use as soon as you open the package. All you do is stretch the ring around your penis, put it as far down your penis as you can, and then pull it around your balls as well. Let go gently until it gets back to the size it came out of the package. It should fit snugly but without any pain.
  • No thinking required. Once you’ve put the cock ring on, you can forget about it. It won’t move, and you’ll both have your hands free to try out any of the wild and sexy positions shared in this eBook.

There really isn’t a lot to these bundles of joy, but there are a few things to remember:

  • When putting on a cock ring, make sure your hands are dry. You don’t want to slip and let go of it midway through and accidentally hurt yourself.
  • Think about the sex positions you’ll try out that evening before putting on the ring. If you’re focusing on woman on top or missionary, put the vibrating bit farthest away from your scrotum so that your lover gets the buzz around her clitoral network. If however you want to use mostly sideways or doggy-style positions, flip the ring around so that it sits just at your balls.

Kama Sutra Intimate Caress Shave Cream Review

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Kama Sutra Intimate Caress Shave Cream is one of the best intimate shaving lotions on the market. Specifically designed to be used in places with the most sensitive skin, this great smelling formula leaves skin feeling soft, silky and supple. It’s intensely moisturizing with both aloe and jojoba oils, much more so than your typical shaving foam. Even exceptionally sensitive women will find that this lotion doesn’t irritate their delicate tissues and really can be used anywhere.

The Good

Kama Sutra does it again with their Intimate Caress Shave Cream! Like many of their other products, you can tell this one is made with high quality ingredients and it smells absolutely divine. It will give you a super close shave and when used with a good razor, you’re going to find that your shave rivals even the smoothness of a Brazilian wax! It’s created to be hypo-allergenic, so it will never burn or itch even your most sensitive areas.

It’s way better than any foam or gel that you can buy at the store if you want to shave your most private areas, because that’s specifically what it’s designed for! It also works great on legs, underarms and anywhere else that you want to shave. The Intimate Caress Shave Cream is definitely a must have if you want silky smooth skin all the time.

The Bad

Don’t use this product with a cheap razor – you’re not going to get a smooth shave no matter how awesome the Intimate Shave Cream is! Invest in a good, triple blade razor designed specifically for women if you want to get the kind of shave you’re looking for. When used with a cheap razor, you’re still going to get a closer shave than if you used regular shaving foam, but you’re still going to have some stubble left over. Good shaving lotion requires a good razor!

Also, keep in mind that the consistency of the Intimate Shave Cream is more of a lotion consistency – it’s not a foam or a gel that turns into a foam. It really does go on like a lotion and you only need a thin layer, so you can’t see it go on and you can’t see it come off. You can, however, feel it so make sure to run your hand over your legs and whatever other areas you’ve shaved to feel for stubble.

The Bottom Line

The Kama Sutra Intimate Shave Cream is definitely a must have for women who shave their intimate areas often. Gel or foam from the supermarket just doesn’t cut it, no matter how “high end” you get with that stuff. This shave lotion is designed specifically for sensitive skin, and works perfectly for areas with very delicate tissues. While you definitely want to use a good razor for this (even this stuff can’t save you from a crappy razor), it’s going to give you a closer shave than you’ve ever experienced before. You and your partner are going to both love the way Kama Sutra’s Intimate Shave Cream makes your skin feel in and out of the shower!

The Full Kama Sutra Intimate Caress Shave Cream Review

Shaving your personal areas before sex no longer has to be an ordeal when you use Kama Sutra’s Intimate Caress Shave Cream. This product is amazing for your skin, and with it’s specially created formula, it’s not going to irritate you even a little bit, no matter how sensitive your personal “bits” are! It comes in Coconut Pineapple, Pomegranate and Honeysuckle scents and the scent is not too powerful or overwhelming and leaves your skin lightly scented.

It’s a shave lotion, so it’s not going to go on like a foam or a gel that turns into a foam like most shaving creams. If you like your shaving products foamy, then this is not going to do it for you. However, if you like the consistency of a lotion and want to use something thinner that leaves your skin feeling softer, then the Intimate Caress Shave Cream is likely right up your alley.

You can use this before or after soaping your body down – if you use it before, then you’re going to wash off the light scent that’s left and you’ll just have smooth skin that smells like your regular body wash. If you use it after, it’s going to leave your skin significantly softer (it rinses away fairly well, but does leave a lightly moisturized feel to your skin) and you will have a light leftover scent that smells really divine!

Even though it technically contains alcohol, it’s not going to irritate you at all, even if you’re very sensitive. That’s probably the most important thing to note about this product – many of the gels and foams from the supermarket can burn or irritate the delicate skin when you use it to shave before sex, and this product does not do that. If you prefer a foam for your shaving needs, consider using a foam for your legs and underarms, and using this product for your personal areas. That burning, tingling feeling after shaving with foam just doesn’t fly, especially if you plan to have sex soon after shaving!

The pump dispenser is super easy to use in the shower and prevents you from having to pick the bottle back up to get more when your hands are covered in the stuff. The bottle is actually pretty substantially sized – it’s not a “trial size” or anything like that – you get a fair amount and it will last you as long, if not longer, than a full sized can of shaving foam.

All in all, you’re going to love the way your skin feels after using Intimate Caress Shave Cream. The moisturizers within will hydrate even the driest skin and you’ll be left feeling silky smooth and soft. When used with a good razor, you’re going to notice a closer shave than you’ve ever had and that you don’t have to shave again as soon as you normally would. It smells great and doesn’t irritate, so it’s a definite must have if you regularly shave your intimate areas!

Extase Elegance Vibrator Review

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The Extase Elegance Vibrator is a “luxury” style g-spot vibrator that is affordable and has great quality. It’s an excellent choice if you don’t want to spend a lot of money.

If you’re looking for an elegant, high quality vibrator that isn’t as expensive as some of the luxury vibrators out there, you’ve found it in the Extase Elegance Vibrator. It looks, feels and acts just like a $200 vibrator, without the exceptionally hefty price tag. It’s still a little pricey if you’re really on a budget, but if you’re not willing to spend over $50 on a vibe, you’re not going to get the quality you’re looking for. The Extase Elegance Vibrator is a great blend between high quality and affordability.

The Good

Like many of the higher end luxury vibrators, the Extase Elegance Vibrator is rechargeable. This is almost a must with good vibrators, unless you want to be buying batteries left and right – which happens with many of the less expensive vibes. Although this is a more affordable higher end vibrator, it can still be outside the budgets of some women – but keep in mind that if you’re looking for a cheaper option that uses batteries, you’re going to be eventually spending on batteries what you would have spent on the rechargeable toy in the first place. Seriously, rechargeable is the way to go!

The Extase Elegance looks, feels and has many of the same functions (if not more) that a higher priced vibrator does. It’s silky smooth with textured ridges at the top for even more pleasure, and it’s fairly quiet. It’s super easy to use, easy to clean and store and looks fabulous! If you’re not going to get a luxury vibrator like the LELO Elise, the Extase Elegance Vibrator is really the next best thing.

The Bad

There’s not a whole lot of bad things to say about this vibrator, but there are a few issues which may or may not be a deal breaker for you. There is a small seam in the silicone covering that can be felt with the hand, but you can’t feel it when it’s inserted and you’re using the toy. This seam unfortunately means that more bacteria, lube and body fluids can get trapped in the creases and possibly inside, under the silicone covering, so make sure you wipe your vibrator off directly after each and every use, and make sure to wipe inside the ridges and the creases in the silicone. It’s not waterproof, so it cannot be used in the tub, shower, bath or pool.

It’s considered “splash proof,” so if you do get some water on it, it’s not a huge deal. But you definitely don’t want to submerge it, which also renders a really good, thorough cleaning with hot soapy water near impossible. A great way to keep this toy clean and lasting long is to slip a non-lubricated condom over it before you use it. You can lube up the outside of the condom, but the inside is non-lubricated, keeping the Extase Elegance Vibrator dry and clean.

This vibrator isn’t terribly loud, but it’s not super quiet either. It does get louder as you turn the vibrations up and the higher settings do make a decent amount of noise. It’s not something you want to try to use under the covers in the same room that someone else is in – you’ll definitely get caught. But if you’re using this vibrator in a room alone, with the door closed, the person in the living room isn’t going to be able to hear what you’re doing.

The Bottom Line

The Extase Elegance Vibrator is a great choice for women and couples who want a rechargeable, higher end vibe without paying a lot of money. You’re still going to be out a Benjamin or so, but there are many vibrators out there that would cost you two or three and aren’t that different from the Extase Elegance Vibrator. You’ll end up saving money in batteries, that’s for sure! It’s not waterproof and if you like your sex toys really clean, you’ll want to use a non-lubricated condom over the shaft to keep lube and body fluids from settling into the creases and ridges in the silicone covering, since you can’t submerge the vibrator in hot soapy water for a good cleaning.

There are many functions and the vibrations are strong, but the toy can be a little noisy when used on the higher levels. However, the Extase Elegance vibrator is a really excellent addition to your sex toy collection if you’re looking for a high end vibe without the luxury price tag!

The Full Extase Elegance Vibrator Review

Sex toys are usually better with the more money you spend (when it comes to sex toys, you really do get what you pay for) but the Extase Elegance has found a great blend of affordability and quality. It feels silky soft to the touch due to the body safe silicone covering, and the base is a hard plastic with a number of controls that you can use to program your own custom orgasm!

The vibrations range from low, soft “rumbles” to high buzzing, strong vibes and pretty much everything in between. You can program the vibrator to vibrate throughout the entire toy, or just concentrate in the tip of it – which can actually be used on your clitoris if you like clitoral stimulation along with vaginal stimulation – however, if you really like your clitoris stimulated, you’re going to be better off getting a rabbit style vibrator with a clitoral vibe attachment, or just a small bullet vibe of some sort. The Extase Elegance is designed more for use with vaginal penetration than anything else.

The controls can be a little difficult to manipulate when you’re in the throes of passion so to speak, so get to know your toy well if you like to change speeds and vibration patterns throughout masturbation (and get to know how the controls work upside down). However, most women are going to prefer the fact that there are lots of speeds, patterns and sensations to choose from!

It’s curved in just the right way to hit the g-spot, and it’s fairly comfortable to hold while you have the entire length of the shaft inserted, although if you like very deep penetration, you’re going to find yourself clinging to the edge of the controls wishing the shaft was just a tad longer. But for most women, the shaft is going to be plenty long enough.

Couples can also use the Extase Elegance Vibrator and although it’s primarily designed for use on a woman, her partner may find that using this toy during an activity like oral sex (where he is concentrating on her clitoris) will produce stronger, faster and more pleasurable orgasms.

The fact that the Extase Elegance is rechargeable is probably its best feature, and it has cords that plug into the wall and into any USB port for your convenience. Unfortunately, the vibrator does not turn on when it’s plugged in, so if you ran out of juice mid-masturbation and are hoping you can just plug it in real quick and finish up, you’re sadly mistaken. However, it doesn’t take that long to charge. Don’t use this vibrator with silicone (unless you’re using a non-lubricated condom over the shaft) because silicone lube and silicone toys just don’t mix. You’ll notice the soft, silky covering of the Extase Elegance start to get sticky and nasty over time as it begins to degrade. Water based lube is definitely your best choice here.

Overall, the Extase Elegance Vibrator is an excellent choice if you’re not keen on spending as much as you would on a LELO product, but the quality is almost just as good and if you’ve never tried a true luxury vibrator, this is probably going to be the best thing you’ve ever used! The box is great for storage (it’s really a nice box!) but you can also use the little drawstring pouch that comes with it too. If you’re looking for something nicer that doesn’t require batteries, the Extase Elegance is the way to go.