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PicoBong Kiki Clitoral Vibrator Review

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The PicoBong Kiki clitoral vibrator is designed to hit that one spot specifically – it doesn’t go in the vagina and it can’t really be used any other way. However, it’s made so that a woman can use this vibrator to achieve orgasm quickly and easily via clitoral stimulation, without having to do a lot of work to get there. It’s a great little vibrator you can pack in your purse and although it’s not necessarily stealth (it doesn’t look like a tube of lipstick or anything like the LELO Mia), it’s small enough to stay discreet and hidden.

The Good

Perfectly sized to fit in a woman’s hand during masturbation, the PicoBong Kiki clitoral vibrator is a great addition to any woman’s toy box. If you don’t yet have a vibrator made solely for clitoral stimulation, this is a great inexpensive yet still quality option. If you’re prepared to spend a little more, the LELO Mia is a better choice, but the Kiki is an excellent runner up.

Although you will feel the vibrations on your hand during masturbation (most clitoral vibrators are this way), you won’t notice it that much because the tip of the vibrator is crafted to put exactly the right amount of pressure and stimulation where it really counts! Some women may think feel the vibrations are a little weak for a quick orgasm, but most women will find that this toy satisfies just fine!

The Bad

The PicoBong Kiki clitoral vibrator requires 1 AAA battery that slips easily inside, but rechargeable sex toys are always preferable to having to replace batteries over and over again. And change the battery over and over again you will, because 1 AAA will last only about 2 hours. Certainly long enough to get you through a single masturbation session (unless you’re really going all out), but if you don’t have your batteries on hand, the vibrator may end up dying out before you’ve finished the next time. The controls are difficult to find the first time because they’re hidden in the lasered logo in the side of the toy, but once you know where they are, you can find them by touch.

The Bottom Line

The PicoBong Kiki is a good, inexpensive clitoral vibrator to get if you’re not super choosy about your sex toys or don’t mind using batteries. If you want the “Mercedes” of clitoral vibes, the LELO Mia is your best choice – but if you want something high quality that is also more affordable, the Kiki is an excellent option. While you may want to buy stock in Energizer before you buy this (you will likely be putting the CEO’s kids through college with as many batteries as you’re going to have to get), it’s still a good sex toy, especially for beginners.

Although a few women report that the vibes aren’t strong enough to push them over the edge with the Kiki, most women are very satisfied with this and the design and colors that are available make this a very appealing and fun toy to have in the bottom drawer of your nightstand!

The Full PicoBong Kiki Clitoral Vibrator Review

Sex toys are something every girl has to have! This cute little vibrator is made just for a woman and hits the right spot every single time! The specially curved tip is designed specifically to put pressure on the clitoris during masturbation, covering the entire thing with heart pounding, orgasmic vibrations.

The PicoBong Kiki clitoral vibrator is fairly quiet and although it’s not as quiet as some of its competitors, it will still do the job without letting everyone else know what’s going on. You can definitely use this under the covers without your roommate being aware of what’s going on – unless you have a roommate so quiet you could hear a pin drop. Then you might get found out. The motor isn’t as strong as some of the other competing clitoral vibrators out there, but for as quiet as the Kiki is, it’s surprisingly strong! It will definitely deliver where pleasure is concerned!

The PicoBong Kiki features both different vibrating patterns and softer and more intense vibrations, so you can find the combination that works best for you! The controls are well hidden in the lasered logo (they can be hard to find at first) but are easily manipulated during masturbation without breaking your concentration or the vibrator’s contact with your clitoris. The vibe is easy to hold and won’t cramp your hand – it’s angled to hit the right spot without a lot of effort on your part.

The silky smooth texture of the silicone casing feels great when combined with lube, but make sure you don’t use silicone lube with this toy because the outer covering of the Kiki will start to degrade over time. A good water based lubricant is all you need! The silicone is considered “food grade,” and is phthalate free, so you know this toy is safe to use on your body. It has no “plastic-y” odor to it.

The PicoBong Kiki is waterproof, so you can take it wherever you like, including in the shower or tub! Once you screw the battery cap on tightly, you don’t have to worry about water leaking in. It can be used alone during masturbation, or you can use it to show your lover how and where you want to be stimulated during sex!

All in all, the PicoBong Kiki clitoral vibrator is an excellent option if you’re looking for something smart, sophisticated and inexpensive to stimulate your clitoris just the right way!

PicoBong Honi Bullet Vibrator Review

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The PicoBong Honi Bullet Vibrator is a fun version of a classic bullet vibrator. Some women may find it’s not strong enough, while others will like playing with it during masturbation or with a partner.

Bullet vibrators are among the “must have” sex toys for both women and couples. They’re versatile, small, discreet and you can pretty much take them anywhere and put them anywhere. Many bullet vibrators of the past were attached to a remote control with a cord, and there are some still designed that way, but newer bullet vibes are cordless and wireless. Such is the case with the PicoBong Honi – it’s a wireless, cordless bullet vibrator that is perfect for use alone or with a partner.

The Good

The PicoBong Honi is cute, modern and cordless. The silicone covering is smooth and silky, and feels great when used with a water based lubricant. The bullet can go on either the outside and stimulate the clitoris, or be placed inside and stimulate the g-spot – such as during oral sex with a partner. It can even be used on the nipples, scrotum or anywhere else you please! It’s exceptionally versatile, small and discreet.

The Bad

Unfortunately, the PicoBong Honi only takes one AAA battery – and as a result, the vibrations are actually quite weak, especially when compared to other bullet style vibrators. For some women, especially those new to sex toys, this product may be enough to take them over the edge – but it’s not going to satisfy all women. Many women will find that the vibrations are nice and will definitely turn them on, but the highest setting doesn’t do much more than simply create the desire for more intense, harder vibrations. This may be a good toy for foreplay, but during masturbation, you may want to select something a little stronger.

The Bottom Line

The PicoBong Honi Bullet Vibrator is definitely a cute toy, but it really doesn’t hit the mark as far as vibrations go. With only one AAA battery to power the bullet, it can fall short of “orgasmic” for many women. However, it can make a fun toy to play with when you’re with a partner, or to use during foreplay to “awaken” the nerves in preparation for sex or another sex toy that is more powerful. It technically can be inserted since there is a loop to hang on to when you need to remove it, but the vibrations aren’t any better inside than they are outside. If you’re a beginner, this may just work for you but if you’re not, you’re better off getting another bullet with more vibration power.

The Full PicoBong Honi Review

The PicoBong Honi comes in three colors – black, pink and teal. It’s good for both women and couples, and can be a lot of fun when used on the nipples, clitoris, scrotum or inside the vagina. It’s cordless and requires only one AAA battery. The different vibration levels and patterns are controlled by simply pushing the plus or minus sign that is embedded in the PicoBong logo.

The bullet has a loop attached to it that makes it easier to hold, and easier to get out of the vagina if you decide to use it for g-spot stimulation. The soft, silky silicone covering feels nice on the body, but cannot be used with silicone lubricant or the material will start to degrade. Use only with water based lubricant.

Unfortunately, as cute as the PicoBong Honi Bullet Vibrator is, it falls short in the performance department. There are a number of stronger bullet vibrators out there – even cordless ones – and even though the Honi looks great, it just doesn’t deliver as far as vibrations go. The vibrations are weak and even the highest setting will leave you wanting more. It may do the job for some women, but it won’t for most, especially for women who are more experienced with sex, masturbation and sex toys.

The PicoBong Honi is, however, hypoallergenic and body safe – it’s made only with silicone and hard plastic, so there are no phthalates here. It’s small enough to fit in your purse or pocket, and it is fairly quiet – most likely because the vibrations aren’t all that strong. You could even use it in the same room as someone (say, under a blanket) and they wouldn’t be able to hear you. It’s also waterproof, so you can take it in the tub, shower, pool or bath. However, these positive features may not be enough to outweigh the one glaring negative – that it’s just not strong enough to take you all the way to orgasm-land. You’ll likely be left turned on without being able to go over the edge when using this product.

Overall, if you like the look of the PicoBong Honi and aren’t concerned with strong vibrations (or don’t need them to reach climax), then this product may be a good choice for you. If you’re looking for stronger, more intense clitoral or g-spot vibrations, another bullet vibrator like the LELO Mia may be a better option for you.

How To Choose The BEST Lube!

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Lube comes in all different kinds, consistencies, flavors and formulas. Here’s how to select the best one for what you’re going to be doing.

You’ve decided to go ahead and get some lube, but there are so many different kinds out there that it’s completely overwhelming! What kind do you get? How much money do you have to spend? Should you get one, two or four bottles? Should you get different kinds or stock up on one kind? Here’s what you want to know about what kind of lube to get for what you want to use it for.

Water Based

What It Is: Water based lubricant is just that – a lubricant made with mostly water and other inert ingredients. Water based lube feels the most natural, although it can come in both slippery thin versions and thick gel versions. It’s the most condom compatible lube and the easiest to wash off. It almost never stains sheets!

Don’t Use With: Underwater sex or sex in the shower. It will rinse away almost immediately.

Best For: Vaginal sex, use with sex toys

Silicone

What It Is: Silicone lube is not water based – it’s made from silicone (a type of plastic) and is typically “oilier” feeling than water based lube. (Never use oil for lube – it will ruin any latex product including condoms). It lasts longer and doesn’t wash away that easily. It requires washing off with soap and water and can be more difficult to get out of intimate areas like the vagina. It can also stain sheets and clothing, so be careful!

Don’t Use With: Silicone sex toys. Silicone + silicone doesn’t mix – it will degrade the toy and the outside will start to get sticky and gross looking!

Best For: Underwater sex, anal sex

All Natural/Hypoallergenic

What It Is: For sensitive women, there are “all natural” or “hypoallergenic” lubricant formulas available. Some are even considered “organic.” Most, if not all of them are water based, since silicone can be more irritating to some individuals. All natural lubes are usually unscented and feel very natural.

Don’t Use With: Nothing. These lubes are very versatile!

Best For: Women with very sensitive vaginal tissues, or men who have sensitive penises. Also good for couples who simply desire to use lubricant that is closest to their own natural bodily fluids.

Flavored

What It Is: Flavored lube is almost always water based, since consumers typically associate flavored lube with “edible lube.” And it usually is edible, although there isn’t really a lubricant out there that doesn’t taste like some sort of poorly flavored plastic. It’s tolerable though, if you must use lube during oral sex. However, the scents are what make flavored lube so great! They come in a variety of scents like chocolate, mint, strawberry and more. When using them for anal sex, the scents can come in handy when covering up any unwanted body odors.

Don’t Use With: Some flavored lubes are made with sugar, which can cause yeast infections in women. Read your labels carefully!

Best For: Oral sex or anytime you want a better smelling lubricant

Desensitizing Lube

What It Is: Desensitizing lubricant is a special formula with “numbing” ingredients that numb the surface of the skin it’s applied to for a short period of time. This type of lube was created specifically with anal sex in mind, but should not be used for this.

Don’t Use With: Anything! Desensitizing lube was created with anal sex in mind, since anal sex tends to be painful when not done correctly. However, if you use this type of lube with anal sex, it can prevent you from feeling pain – which can be a very, very bad thing contrary to popular belief.

You may think you want to numb yourself against feeling pain during anal sex, but you need to be aware if something hurts while you’re engaging in that type of activity. Tearing and bleeding can occur and when severe, require immediate medical attention. If you can’t feel what’s going on, you may not know there’s an issue until it’s too late.

Best For: Nothing, really. You can’t use it for oral sex because you don’t want a numb tongue (what good would that do?) and you don’t want your lover to have a numb vagina and clitoris either. You can use it if you’re a particularly fast ejaculator, but it’s not going to numb you to feeling the pressure of stroking during intercourse, which is typically what causes a man to orgasm anyways. It may buy you a minute or two, but it’s not really worth it.

Stimulating Lubricants

What It Is: Like desensitizing lubes, stimulating lubricants are either water or silicone based lubes that are made with special ingredients to stimulate the vagina or penis during sex. There are warming lubes or cooling lubes, both of which provide a tingling sensation. Some formulas of warming lubes get really, really hot and can burn quite a bit, while most cooling lubes aren’t as strong. These can be fun to play with!

Don’t Use With: Oral sex. Do you really want your tongue to be on fire?

Best For: Experimenting with a drop or two on the penis or the clitoris. Fun for handjobs! Use in moderation.

What Not To Use

Oils

Never, ever use oil based products like olive oil, coconut oil, baby oil or mineral oil during sex. These will break down latex condoms and latex sex toys faster than you can say, “Oh ****!” Technically, you “can” use oils like this if you’re in a monogamous sexual relationship with someone and you are both STD free and are either trying for a baby or are protected against pregnancy in other ways (such as birth control), but water and silicone based lubricants are so much better and more natural feeling. They’re also easier to wash off!

Saliva

Saliva is NOT lube. No matter how many times you’ve used it in a “pinch” and it’s worked okay, it’s just not the same. It doesn’t last as long, there’s usually not enough of it and it’s really not that erotic to be smearing your spit all over yourself and your girl’s vagina during sex. Just get some lube, okay?

Lotion

Lotion isn’t lube either. You may have used it during masturbation and sure it was thick, but it was better than nothing, right? It’s not going to work that way if you’re with a woman. It’s too thick and it will likely irritate her delicate vaginal tissues. Lotion is meant for the outside, not the inside.

Food Products Like Mayonnaise, Etc.

If the thought of using condiments like mayo for lube makes you shudder and sends you running in the other direction, good for you! However, people have been known to use whatever they have on hand instead of just going out and buying a bottle of damn lube. It’s ridiculous, yes. But it happens. Mayo and other condiments can have oil in them, so refer back to why you should not use oil as a lubricant during sex. Also, using condiments (unless it’s licking chocolate sauce off her nipples) during sex is just plain nasty.

Vaseline/Petroleum Jelly

These are oil based products. Read the label.

Lube is a great item to have on hand and it can be found almost everywhere, including your local supermarkets and drugstores. It’s inexpensive and you don’t have to be a certain age to buy it. Try several different brands, types and consistencies to find out what works for you and your partner! Sampler packs are great for this because it allows you to try different brands without spending money and wasting an entire bottle of lube if you find that you don’t like something. Above all, have fun with it because that’s what it’s all about!

LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator Review

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The LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator is a great choice if you want a technologically advanced orgasmic experience with your partner.

Sex toys for couples are becoming a hot commodity, with more and more couples choosing sex toys that they can use together to spice up their sex life. There are many different brands and models of vibrators now that are intended to be worn during intercourse, however, none are quite like the LELO Tiani. The closest is the We-Vibe II, with a rechargeable, wireless device that fits inside the vagina and is designed to be worn during sex. The LELO Tiani works the same way and is worn in the vagina during intercourse, however, the controls are much more technologically advanced and it works just a little bit differently.

The Good

As with almost all LELO sex toys, the LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator is a high end luxury item that looks and feels absolutely divine. You’ll feel like you’ve absolutely spoiled yourself with this toy! The silky soft feel is similar to some of the other LELO vibrators, and is nothing like the tacky, sticky silicone of the We-Vibe II. You’ll love the texture almost as much as you love the wireless controls. The LELO Tiani employs something called SenseMotion technology, where the wireless remote controls the device just by moving it one way or the other. This technology isn’t perfect yet, so you may find that the Tiani doesn’t always do what you think you’ve just told it to do, but it’s definitely the most technologically advanced couples vibrator out there!

The Bad

Again, the SenseMotion technology isn’t perfected yet, so you’re going to have a lapse in communication between the wireless remote and the vibrator every now and then. Sometimes the reaction will be a little delayed, or sometimes it just won’t do what you told it to do at all. The LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator works better when the remote is closer to the device, so the farther away you go with it, the more spotty the connection will end up being. This is not one of those sex toys you can control from across the room! Even though the connection between the remote and the device leaves something to be desired, it’s still a really fun toy to play with and one of the better couples vibrators of its kind out there.

The Bottom Line

The LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator is one of the best couples vibrators on the market today, more so than many of the other similar vibes out there. The look and feel is top notch, and the material is high quality like all LELO products. Women will love the comfortable fit that stays comfortable even when her partner is inside (although some very small women may still find it a bit crowded), while men will love playing with the SenseMotion technology. It’s innovative, sleek, modern and makes a great addition to your sex toy collection. A definite must have if your sex life isn’t as hot as it used to be!

The Full LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator Review

Like all LELO sex toys, the LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator is a high quality sex toy designed for use by couples who want to take their sex life to the next level. It fits inside the vagina and is worn while the couple engages in intercourse (the fatter end sits outside the vulva on top of the clitoris) and provides both clitoral and g-spot stimulation for women who may otherwise have trouble reaching orgasm during sex. It’s sleek and high end and the materials feel smooth and silky against the skin.

Unlike other couples vibrators – even ones that are worn the same way – the LELO Tiani is controlled by a wireless remote with SenseMotion technology. This means if you move the remote certain ways, you control the vibration level of the Tiani, without pressing any buttons or using any dials. This can be super fun when you’re in the bedroom! You can experiment with holding the remote and moving it to find the best vibration level for you, or you can put it in your hand and lose yourself in the passion, allowing yours and your partner’s body movements to move the remote so you’re always surprised with something different. The LELO Tiani allows couples to increase their orgasmic potential while still staying passionate and spontaneous!

Unfortunately, the remote does require batteries, while the Tiani device itself is rechargeable. It would be excellent if both pieces were rechargeable, but that is perhaps coming soon. There’s little doubt that LELO will continue to perfect the SenseMotion technology and come out with a new and better version of the LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator, which may have a rechargeable remote and other fun features! If you want perfect technology, than you might want to wait for the next version of this fun sex toy, however, if you want to experience the best technology that is currently offered, the LELO Tiani will definitely satisfy you. It can be worn alone as well, although it works better when used during intercourse because the vibrator portion that sits up against the clitoris functions much better when body pressure holds it down against the vulva.

The vibrations are strong – the LELO Tiani is no weak little vibe! Don’t try to control this thing from across the room however – it’s maxed out at about five feet. The vibrations also seem to work better the closer the remote is to the device. It’s also quiet and discreet, so you can use it for travel if you like.

Overall, this is a fun vibrator to try, although if you go in with expectations of perfect technology, you may be disappointed. The best feature of the LELO Tiani Couples Vibrator is the SenseMotion technology, but that also happens to be its worst feature since the technology isn’t 100% flawless yet. If you have some patience with it though and your expectations are more realistic for the first product of this kind, then you’re going to have a lot of fun experimenting with it – and that’s what it’s all about! Relax and enjoy the ride!

PicoBong Ipo Finger Vibrator Review

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The PicoBong Ipo finger vibrator is a cute little bullet vibrator that is designed to be worn on the end of a woman’s finger during masturbation. It’s not made to be inserted into the vagina – only to be used on the clitoris, where it hits exactly the right spot every single time. Small enough to fit in your pocket or your purse, this is an excellent travel companion or just a good all around discreet bullet vibe. This type of vibrator is definitely something every woman should have in her toy box!

The Good

The best feature of the PicoBong Ipo is the special silicone finger sleeve. Made specifically to slip over the finger and part of the vibrator’s actual design – not just an “add on feature,” this sex toy is really and truly innovative! When masturbating, many women want something small and simple, that will hit the clitoris and take them to orgasm in just minutes. The PicoBong Ipo does just that! The vibrations are good, the motor is quiet and boy is this thing ever “handy!”

The Bad

Probably the only caveat here is the fact that the PicoBong Ipo requires batteries. This vibrator would be absolutely perfect if it were rechargeable! Be prepared to have some batteries in stock – you definitely don’t want to run out of juice in the middle of doing your thing and not have any back ups on hand.

The Bottom Line

The PicoBong Ipo is absolutely something every woman must have if she enjoys using a bullet style vibrator during sex play or masturbation. Since it is easily slipped over the finger, it’s almost “hands free!” You can more easily position this vibrator to hit your sweet spots than you can bullet vibes that you have to hold, and although you’ll still feel the vibrations in your fingers, you’re less prone to “finger itch” with this little guy. Plus, it’s super cute and portable! The bottom line here is that if you don’t have one of these, you’re missing out. It’s a functional yet attractive twist on your classic, must-have bullet vibrator.

The Full PicoBong Ipo Vibrator Review

A vibrator that is small, classy, discreet and portable is something every girl needs to keep in her arsenal of sex toys. The PicoBong Ipo fits the bill and more – so if you don’t ditch your old, worn out corded bullet vibe for this adorable little guy, you’re really missing out.

Made from silky soft silicone, this vibrator has a special “finger holder” that allows you to wear the bullet on the tip of your finger – perfect for a “hands free” sort of action! You’ll love using this on your own when you’re looking to get off quick, but it’s also great for your guy to wear during sex if you have trouble reaching orgasm in other ways. Just have him slip this on his finger and start touching you and voila – you’ll be in orgasm city soon!

There’s hardly anything that is bad about the PicoBong Ipo – it’s waterproof so you can take it in the bath or shower, it’s small enough to take with you anywhere, and it fits well on both smaller and larger fingers. The only two very minor issues with this toy are that you cannot use a silicone lube with it (or you’ll start to degrade the silicone covering of the vibrator) and that the vibe requires batteries. It would be awesome if the vibe were rechargeable, but you can definitely use rechargeable batteries and save yourself some money that way.

The vibrations aren’t super intense, but they’re still powerful enough to get the job done. This means that the PicoBong Ipo is exceptionally quiet and discreet! You can even use it when you’re in the same room with someone (like in a roommate situation) and as long as you’re quiet, no one will be the wiser. The vibrator is really easy to clean, although you want to rinse it right after use. If you let it sit, lube and other fluids can get gunked up in the cracks of the toy and in the logo etching (where the controls are).

Overall, this is an excellent finger vibrator for the price! It’s as smooth and silky as a luxury vibrator but without the hefty price tag. It also makes a great gift for a friend or the special someone in your life, and doubles as a couples vibrator when used by your partner on you during sex. It’s all around versatile and a great one to have in your toy box!