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What Men Really Think About Your Breasts

By loveandsex

Breasts are one of the most common places on a woman’s body to feel self-conscious about. Just like everything in life, some women are born with amazing breasts while others are lucky are fill an A cup. If you have ever wondered what men really think of your breasts, there are a few things that you must consider. Most women believe that men are not attracted to women unless they have at least a B cup, but this is simply not true.

Here are a few examples of what men really think about your breasts and why you should accept yourself for who you are.

What Men Think About Breast Implants

In a way, men feel like breast implants are a form of cheating. While they may look great while a woman is in clothing, once the shirt comes off it can be another story. Breast implants can be very deceiving and as the woman ages, they can start to look worn under the skin. When a woman stretches in certain ways, you can even see the imprint of the implant on the sides of her breast.

Although many new procedures have come out to minimize scarring, there are still scars associated with breast implant surgery. There are men who love breast implants though. If you are considering them, make sure that you know the ramifications of the surgery.

What Men Think About Smaller Breasts

There is a perception that women worry about the size of their breasts the way that men worry about the size of their penis. While this is definitely true during puberty, women with smaller breasts must learn how to feel comfortable with not having a larger size.

The truth is that there are men who love smaller breasts. Some men believe that more than a handful is a waste. And some women just look better with smaller breasts. If you have smaller breasts, you might feel inadequate compared to other women in the media, but know that guys are very realistic with the image of a woman and size of her breasts in comparison to her body shape.

What Men Think About Larger Breasts

Larger breasts are something that every woman thinks every man wants. This is not true. There is a forward look to the future where men and women think about how the breasts are going to sag. If you are worried about having sagging breasts, there are a few things that you can do.

Working out, toning with weights and doing push-ups are just a couple of the exercises that have been proven to help breast sag. This is a great alternative than having to go under the knife. Many women who have larger size consider an augmentation. If you are concerned about this, and many women are, talk to your doctor about getting a procedure done to prevent sag.

Separating Fantasy And Reality

There are a lot of misconceptions between men and women and what each of them think the other wants in a partner. While men may fantasize about having the perfect woman with the perfect body, everybody knows that this is not a reality. Men are much more attracted to women that they have an emotional fulfillment to than a physical. As men mature, they start to see the blessing of a fun, confident, smart woman over some girl that can’t spell. While the media tries to portray men as breast-hungry it’s not the truth.

Men will forgo a relationship with a girl that doesn’t fulfill their emotional and intellectual need over a woman that is portrayed as perfect. When you are meeting men you will notice that they are much more interested in how you speak, what you think and the kind of wife or girlfriend you will be over what you look like once your shirt is off.

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: breast implants, large breasts, small breasts

How Does Weight Gain Affect Your Relationship?

By dicksinthecity

People change. So do bodies. Some weight gain is natural, but when the pendulum swings too far one way and the scale is screaming for mercy, then things are a bit past the natural stage. Your partner has gained weight. Maybe you both have.

Does weight gain affect a relationship? We have your answer.

Here’s What “She Said” About Weight Gain

Just like dramatic weight lose can affect a relationship, so can weight gain.

When a guy starts to put on weight it can have a huge impact on a relationship.

A few pounds like 10-20 not such a big impact but more than that 30+ is a huge turn off.

A little weight gain is normal in relationships, you eat out more, you get comfy you get spoiled with having a dinner partner and drinker, that bottle of wine can’t finish itself!  But guys need to be careful about a little weight and a lot of weight.  Mostly because when guys put on weight it goes straight to their belly and face.  On average it doesn’t normally spread out evenly and it can be a turn off and unhealthy.

When a man puts on too much weight it affects his stamina in the bedroom and his endurance – two things that can rock a woman’s world!  And an even worse side effect of weight gain is it makes his dick smaller!  Mostly because now there is more fat hanging over it.  Hows that for a visual?

Women are not completely off the hook either…

When a woman puts on just a little weight it can affect a relationship.  Women have a window of about 5-10 pounds before it can be apparent and I know most guys will say “I love you at any weight”. Which may be true but how many women feel sexy about themselves when they put on weight? Very few.

Too many pounds can zap a woman of her sexual confidence and make her feel less sexy and less willing to have sex.  Maybe it leads her to keeping a shirt on or the lights off.  Maybe there are positions she doesn’t want to do because she doesn’t want her guy to see anything on her body shake or look flabby.

A little softness in both sexes is ok.

Women can be more curvy and guys can fill out but in relationships you should try to be the best and healthiest for your partner!

It can be tough when one person has sort of let them self go especially if the other partner is staying in shape!  But all doesn’t have to be lost!  If you are a couple you can do couple things that involve working out together, walking together or sharing a gym membership.  Keep yourself looking good and keep yourself healthy so you can be the best for yourself and your partner.

Here’s What “He Said” About Weight Gain

Does weight gain affect your relationship? Yes, hell yes.

I don’t know why it’s so taboo to admit this.

Yes, I get it. A relationship is supposed to be about to becoming one, soul mates uniting against the tides of time, in sickness and in health, through thick and thin for the rest of our lives, until the end of time, blah blah blah.

When do we start admitting that the most important thing is for our partner to be fuckable?

Sure, you may not be a supermodel and he may not look like a shirtless vampire or male porn star, but you should want to fuck your partner and they should feel the same about you.  A shift in appearance is one way that weight gain affects a relationship.

I think the general rule of thumb is that you should always look hot for your woman or man. You should always do the things that made you want to fuck the shit out of them and vice versa. Everyone knows that weight gain undeniably affects a relationship, but no one wants to say that. Apparently that’s too difficult.

Maybe it’s eaiser to just quietly work out like crazy. Maybe that’s more politically correct than having an honest discussion about how your weight (or your partners) gain has affected your relationship and put added stress on your relationship and your hips and shoulders and neck and back.

Somehow women think that guys have more wiggle room in the weight gain realm.

I’m not sure why this attitude is prevalent, but it’s increasingly untrue. Seems like everywhere you go, buff shirtless ripped dudes are everywhere, just begging you to do laundry on their stomach. Men are feeling increasingly like the relationship will suffer if they gain weight as well.

Insecurity! It used to be for women only! Thanks

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice

Sex Dilemma: She Sucks In Bed – But How Do You Break It To Her?

By loveandsex

She’s cool, she’s smart, she’s successful, but boy is she a dud when it comes to sex.

If you want to tell her that she’s bad in bed there are a few things that you have to consider beforehand. Think about how it would make you feel if somebody told you that you have sucky sex moves. It would probably hurt, right? Before you go through the embarrassment of telling her that she leaves a lot to be desired in the bedroom, you need a game plan. You need a way of indirectly telling her that there are a lot of improvements to be made when it comes to your sex life.

Here is that game plan to get your passion back and put her on the right path to sexual splendor.

Encouragement

When it comes to feedback about sex, encouragement is ALWAYS going to work better than discouragement.

When you are trying to tell your girlfriend or wife that they need to improve the sex moves, the best thing that you can do is not tell them. This way you can encourage the things that they are good at without having tell them that they stink in other aspects.

Maybe she’s really good at girl on top sex but just lies there in missionary. Tell her that you really love when she’s on top. She’s going to want to do it more because she knows that it turns you on. Of course, this isn’t going to fix the issues, but it allows her to focus on what she is good at to forgo the other sex positions she’s not good at. Consider using this the next time you have sex and work your way up to the other steps.

Give Gentle Guidance

No guy or girl wants to be given instructions on how to have sex, but sometimes you have to. When she is doing something that doesn’t feel good, tell her. You don’t have to be a jerk about it, but you can correct her with just a few words. Go faster, go harder, and other phrases can turn a girl into a sex machine.

You have to consider the fact that she may have been with a guy that really did get turned on by what she was doing. She might not know that you like sex harder or faster or more passionate. When this occurs, instructions are needed. She’s never going to know what you want or what you like until you tell her. Even if you don’t want to take charge, you might have to. You’ll thank yourself in the end and so will she.

Cater To Her Needs

It should never just be about you. Relationships and sex are a two way street.

If you expect her to always cater to what you need then you’re never going to have great sex. You need to find out what really turns her on. When she’s turned on enough she’s not going to care about the ramifications of embarrassment.

Cater to her needs instead of thinking about yourself and you will that she’s going to come out of her shell very quickly. You have to let her know that it’s okay to go wild and pleasing her the way that she wants to be pleased is the easiest way to do this.

Deal With Your Own Expectations About Sex

Porn, the media and other influences can easily put too many unreasonable expectation on women when it comes to sex.

Unless you’re actually dating a porn star there is not much of a reason to actually think that she’s going to act like one in the bedroom. Turn the questions inward and ask yourself if you have unrealistic expectations to what you need as a guy. Maybe you have unrealistic expectations to how you think your sex life should be. Not all guys are going to have these expectations, but outside influences are a definite concern that should be taken seriously.

Sexual Incompatibility

This is a tough one, but sexual incompatibility is something that you are going to have to diagnose yourself.

  • Maybe you love having sex in the morning and she hates it.
  • Maybe she’s just not that into sex.
  • Maybe she has libido issues that aren’t going away.
  • Maybe you like it rough and she likes it soft.
  • Maybe there’s a size mismatch between your penis in her vagina.

Before you commit to a real relationship you should ask yourself if these sexual incompatibilities are going to be a real issue in the future. Sex is what separates friends from lovers. If you aren’t having great sex with your partner you might want to call it quits before it goes any further.

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice

Best Places To NEVER Have Sex In Public

By dicksinthecity

The idea of sex in public is so hot because its forbidden! It’s naughty and illegal in most places. Now I am all for spur of the moment sex and know sometimes it can be hard to keep your pants on and your legs off a guy’s shoulders.

But, be careful! Its all fun and games until you get arrested or embarrassed.

If you are thinking of spicing up your sex life by taking it into the public arena, take a moment and take note of these places where you should always avoid public sex!

What “She Said” About Sex In Public

Here are my top 6 places to never have sex in public.

I know the list might be upsetting to some, but do not fear, there are a million other places that are not so public and not so illegal to do the deed. Never under-estimate a big back seat of a car or well shaded bush or even a slow-moving elevator. Just be prepared to get out, zip up wipe off and run!

1) In A Church

Maybe you are not a religious person but you know who is? 80 year old women and they do not look kindly on kinky going down on church grounds.

Plus even if you aren’t religious there is still some sort of bad karma that has to come out of coming in a church.

2) In A Plane WHEN ONE OF YOU IS THE PILOT

This is just not safe. A few things i have learned in my years is to never have sex while handling heavy machinery especially if that machinery is thousands of feet up in the air!

3) Near An Elementary School/Playground

This is just creepy. Not only could you scar children for life, I also would question why a couple would get turned on over the laughter of children? If anything when I hear children, the last thing I think about is having sex.

4) Near Law Enforcement Of ANY Kind

Do not even consider doing it near a cop, near a cop car, nor near a cop station. The same goes for getting it on at a court house! You are just asking to be caught.

5) Your Marriage Bed With Your Secret Lover

OK, this really isn’t a public place but it’s still needs to be mentioned for all the morons out there.

Aside from the fact that you are having an affair, this is a huge no-no! Have you ever seen a lifetime movie or any movie? The cheater always gets caught by the wife/husband and a lot of the time it happens at their house! If you are going to cheat stop being so cheap and get a hotel. Or nut up and get a divorce first!

6) In A Porta Potty

It’s movable sewage room! I do not care how horny you are, no one is ever that horny. Seriously, if this is your only option then you need to stop working at a carnival.

What “He Said” About Sex In Public

I’m not a fan of sex in public – PERIOD. But, here are my top 2 places you should never, ever have sex in public.

1) The Beach

Yes, it’s hot. But there’s this thing, called the internet. If it’s night, you have some cover, so to speak, but if you’re having sex on a beach in broad day light, do you really think it’s a good idea to have sex in public here, really?

You have nothing to hide behind, so there’s nothing to prevent someone from posting pictures and or video of you and your lover all over the internet, Tumblr, on free or pay porn sites, or wherever. And that shit can have a life of it’s own and someone you know may eventually wind up coming across it.

Sure it’s hot if they swing and you swing and you wind up hooking up, but if it’s the fat dude at the gym, or the crusty old lady who runs your school’s PTA, then that shit is going to get weird. Fast.

2) ANYWHERE (For Certain Professionals)

If you’re joe the plumber and you and your lover decide to have public sex, and you get busted by the cops, who cares? But if you’re a doctor, or a lawyer, or a cop or an elected official, and you hook up in public and you get caught, you’re loosing your license not to mention your job.

If you have a job that requires a certain licensing or high level of public interaction or a certain level of standing in the community, there’s never a good place for you to have sex in public.

You just can’t afford to risk it.

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: sex in public

How To Give Him A Handjob That Will Trump All Handjobs

By dicksinthecity

Handjobs are like snowflakes, no two are alike. But how do you give a really, really special handjob? You know, the kind: the ones that are hot, sexy, and stand the test of time. Truly earth shattering and amazing handjobs. We have your tips and tricks to best handle the dicks.

What “She Said” About Giving A Great Handjob

Monkey See. Monkey Do.

There is something so magical about handjobs! Maybe its the remembrance of prom dances of the past or the thrill of discovering yourself.

But giving a good hand job is an art form that any woman should do her best to master. The key to giving him a hand job that will trump all hand jobs is to cater it to what he likes and of course lube!

The best way to cater to what he likes is to pay attention to what he does when he plays with himself. If you have not gotten to the level of masturbating in front of each other, have no fear! You can ask him while making out how he likes to pleasure himself (maybe don’t use those exact words though). A simple”show me” or “i think it’s so hot to watch you play with yourself”. Then as he starts jerking off, pay attention! Watch his grip, speed and pace. Then when you feel like you can take over, grab hold of his cock and let him sit back and relax.

Another way to give him a handjob that will trump all handjobs is remember to be gentle!

Yes it’s called jerking off but pay attention to what he likes. Listen to his moans! You can also straight up and ask him if he likes what you are doing, if he wants you to switch it up or change your pace. And while you are so close to his ear, you might as well let out some moans of your own and let him know how much you enjoy pleasuring him.

Maintain Eye Contact

Once you have him in hand, keep maintaining eye contact with him. This can intensify things for him and be super hot. Of course you do not want to stare at him the whole time, mix it up! Make out with him kiss his neck and chest.

Lube It Up

Another way to give him a handjob that will trump all handjobs is lube! Lube is the best invention since the hand job was invented. And I am not talking about regular lotion here. I mean really good, slick, moist, wet lube! Lube that has only one purpose and it is for sex and handjobs.

You can find lube everywhere from sex shops to target! KY has some great lube if you are shy, or specific sex store sell lubes for different appetites if you are daring. Regardless, once you have the lube use it! Let it slide all over your hands as you wrap them around his member. I guarantee he will be in paradise.

Enthusiasm

And lastly, the number one thing that will make you the best at giving him a hand job is your enthusiasm! BE excited to get him off and tell him how much you like it and of course let him know he is a god with a penis like you have never laid hands on!

What “He Said” About Giving A Great Handjob

Focus

The most important key to giving a great handjob is focus. You need to care about nothing else on earth except giving the best handjob on record. You need to do it like the fate of the world depends on it. You need to work that cock like it’s the first time you’ve ever had your hands on it, and that you’re finally getting your hands on it after a long, long wait.

Patience And Variety

The other thing is patience, you need to make him ride the wave of pleasure with your handjob. Give it to him fast, then slow, get him on the verge of coming, then back off, vary speeds from kind of fast to super slow to really fast to you know.=

Eye Contact Is Key

Keep eye contact while giving the handjob at all costs. You don’t need to do anything with your eyes except devour him. He needs to feel wanted. You have to have him, and you love worshipping his cock. You are the goddess who is the center of his universe and you love worshipping at the altar of his member. That dick is your key to heaven and you’re going to make sure you get there.

That shit is hot. So is spitting on it. But that’s another story, a porn story…

Filed Under: Masturbation Tagged With: handjob

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