How to get her to make a sex video for you? This is a question that almost every guy on the planet has pondered at point or another during a relationship. Homemade porn can be a huge turn on for guys and girls, but getting your girlfriend, wife or “friend” to make a porno with or for you can be like pulling teeth if you don’t approach her the right way.
There are a lot of girls that will find this extremely hot, but for others, there are many issues that you’re going to have to discuss before hand. Making sure that your girl feels comfortable is only the beginning.
Here is a short guide on how to get her to make a sex video for you.
Address The Issue Head On
The first thing that you have to do when you are bringing this up with your girl is addressing the issue head on. How is she supposed to know that a homemade sex video is something that you would enjoy? Yes, this would turn on most guys, but you should bring it up with your girl so that she knows it’s something that you would like to explore with her. She might have even thought about this at one point or another herself so you need to discuss it honestly. Many women fantasize about seeing themselves on video with their lover so keep this mind if you’re afraid of rejection.
Deal With Digital Age Concerns
We live in a digital age. With everything from cell phones to tablets to the innovation inside our desktop computers, almost every girl is going to have the same concern. “What if it gets on the Internet?”
This is going to come up and you need to be prepared when you are trying to get her to make a sex video for you. Whether you are just trying to get her to masturbate for you on camera or you want to be in the video yourself, the concern is legitimate and you have to reassure your girl that it’s only going to be for private use.
Don’t even joke about putting her sex video on the Internet or she is going to lock up and you will never your have your fantasy fulfilled.
Talk About What Will Be On The Video
If there is anything that a girl is going to be more concerned with than having the video hit the net, it’s what’s going to be on the video. Some girls are going to have to work their way up to the total package. She may want to start off with a handjob or a blowjob before she puts intercourse on digital record.
Talk to your girl before you even hit that record button and she will be much more open about everything. Don’t pressure her into going all the way the first time. She might be testing you to make sure that you’re responsible enough to have a video of her performing sexual acts.
Get The Right Equipment
One of the biggest problems with making a homemade sex video is the fact that people don’t have the right equipment. While cellphone cameras are becoming more and more advanced, it’s kind of hard to get crystal clear images when you’re holding a 4-inch device in your hand.
If she’s going to make a sex video she’s going to want to the look as good as she can with the right angles. She going to want the video to reflect her in the best way possible and you can’t really do that if you’re holding a phone in your hand during the entire process. Consider using the webcam from your computer over a cell phone camera or buy a real camera with a tripod for stability. If you’re going to do it, do it right!
Give Every Copy Of Your Sex Video To Her
It’s so easy for people to share information nowadays that you shouldn’t even trust yourself with a copy of your girlfriend having sex on video. Make the video and then burn it to a DVD. After you have burned it to a physical disc, delete every digital copy that you have the video. This is going to put her at ease and could possibly lead to future videos. Having the footage on a physical disc can squash any concerns that the video will make it to the Internet, coworkers, friends or even an unsuspecting family member.