Dirty talk can make a woman absolutely ecstatic with pleasure – here are some great ways to get started with dirty talk!
Making Erotic Noises
Most everyone is comfortable with erotic noises and it is a very good place to start. They are as natural as making a deep exhaled sigh as you relax down into a hot bubble bath or when you are getting a massage. Moaning, groaning, sighs and breathy exhales are normal and instinctive when something feels so very, very good.
“Nice” Phrases
Nice phrases are simple, yet effective, and step two to the process. They are an easy way to dip your toes in the water of dirty talk and will add a little excitement to your romp.
- “Yes, right there!”
- “Oh yeah, that’s nice.”
- “You smell wonderful.”
- “That feels soooooo good!”
- “I am so happy to be wrapped up here with you.”
- “Your mouth feels amazing.”
- “I have been thinking about doing this to you all day long.”
HOT, HOT, HOT Phrases!
Once you have mastered some erotic sounds you will feel a little more comfortable vocalizing with your mate. Try adding some of these hotter phrases, but feel free to change up the ‘body part’ words with what you are most comfortable with. Below are some examples:
- “My panties get wet just thinking about what you are going to do to me.”
- “I want your ____!”
- “I love your breasts!”
- “Oh baby, I want to come all over you.”
- “Who makes that cock so hard, cowboy?”
- “Let me suck on those nipples.”
- I want to ___ you all night long!”
- “Mmmmm, harder… don’t stop!!”
- “Can you feel how wet you get me?”
- “Oh yeah, that’s it, don’t you dare stop _____ me.”
- “You like banging this slick ____, don’t you?”
- “Put me on my knees and bang me until I come all over you!”
- “You are so tight!”
Hardcore Phrases
Edgy, raw and being totally frank about what it is that you want, hard core phrases convey just that. Not for the timid and not the first thing you should throw at your partner during your first ever encounter with dirty talk. Consider this the ultimate walk on the wild side compared to the basic ‘tamer’ talk we just read.
Many couples will never make it to this level. And that’s okay. It is not some video game where the higher you go, the better. It is really all about your partner. If you find that hardcore phrases turn both of you on, then go for it. But if it ruins the lovemaking experience for your beloved, don’t go there. Take it down a notch or two. We are all a little bit different in what rocks our world.
Here are some examples of hardcore dirty talk phrases:
- “I want your fat cock to spew all up inside me!”
- “Whip it out and come all over my ____.”
- “Watch me while I’m sucking your ____.”
- Get on your knees and suck my _____ dry!”
- “Do you want to spank my ass while you’re grinding me from behind?”
- “Tell me you want to swallow my load!!”
- “Do you want me to deep throat that cock of yours, baby?”
- “I want you to sit on my face!”
- “I’m going to ____ that dripping wet ___ all night!”
“Play By Play” Dirty Talk
If you are at a loss for words, you can do “play by play” dirty talk. Simply describe what’s taking place as you are doing it:
- “Oh yeah, you’re sucking on my nipples and it’s getting me so wet!”
- “I’m fingering your dripping, wet ____.”
- “I’m going to climb on top of you and ride you, cowboy.”
- “I’m going to lift my legs so you can watch yourself _____ me!”
- “I can see your dripping cock sliding in and out of me from this position and it’s getting me even wetter!!”
- “I’m going to explode!”
Asking Questions
Asking questions works also, because you can often get a response out of your partner that way and engage them in dirty talk, even if they’ve never done it before or are nervous about doing it.
- “How hard does my cock feel inside of you?”
- “Do you like the way my tongue feels on your clitoris?”
- “How sloppy do you want it to sound when I’m giving you a blowjob?”
- “Can you feel my cock getting harder inside of you?”
- “Do you like the way my breasts bounce around when you’re giving it to me like that?”
Use Your Imagination
With dirty talk comes creativity. Use your imagination and speak whatever comes to mind. If you’re really in the moment, what comes out of your mouth is going to be as hot as what you’re doing!