Penis size is a big issue for men – literally. Many men feel like their penises aren’t large enough. While the majority of these men are perfectly well equipped for most women and men, there is a small percentage of the male population that does actually have a small penis.
How can someone with a small penis still please their partner?
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
I have an undersized genitalia (penis.. haha.. oopsys!!!). I want to know how I can still pleasure my male or female partner despite my disability. Thank you
–Alfonso, TX
Sex isn’t all penetration, you know.
For women, and some men, sex isn’t all about penile penetration. For women, penile penetration is only a very small part of sex with their partners. Unless a woman is already excited and has been fully aroused before penetration, she won’t be very sexually responsive to penetration all on its own whether you’re large, medium or small!
A woman needs to be sufficiently warmed up before penile penetration of any size will feel good. With that said, there’s much more to sex than just penetration. There is all types of genital massage that can help warm a woman up and even bring her to orgasm that way, and of course there is always oral sex.
Many women achieve better and more frequent orgasms through oral sex anyways, regardless of their partner’s penis size. You can also incorporate a number of sex toys into the bedroom, including vibrators, lubes and more.
Penis extenders, pumps, etc.
If you’re bent on obtaining a larger penis, with some investment it can be done. You can purchase penis extenders that are somewhat like “dildos” that simply fit onto the penis, adding inches to the end, or you can purchase a penis pump that forces more blood to fill the penis, therefore making it larger.
There are some types of surgery as well that can help enhance penis size. If you’re considering taking any drastic measures to enlarge your penis, you should speak with your doctor.
Talk to your partner.
Men who are afraid that their small penis won’t please their partner should definitely talk to their partner about how they can improve their sex lives. To be frank, the majority of partners of men who are afraid they have penises that are too small are actually still pretty satisfied with their partner’s genitals.
If you’re concerned that your partner finds your penis too small, talk to them. You might find that your partner is perfectly happy with the size of your member, even if you’re not.
If your partner does find that your penis doesn’t quite cut it, together you and your partner can come up with ways to overcome that before resorting to any drastic measures. For example, you might find that your partner would like a little more oral sex, or a little more foreplay before sexual intercourse.
If you’re concerned that your penis is a little too small, it’s important to do what you can to help relieve the situation. Life is too short to be unhappy with your sexual performance!
You can talk to your partner to find out what they would like to see happen in the bedroom, or you can incorporate a number of sex toys and lubricants into your sexual repertoire to help increase you and your partner’s sexual pleasure.
If you’re still not satisfied with the size of your penis or your sexual performance, you can try extenders or talk with your doctor about more permanent options.