If you still think that sex is all about pumping away between your bed sheets during the act, think again. There’s a myriad of other sex techniques which will enhance your sex life and give each other the ultimate pleasure.
For women, giving men a handjob is probably a skill that they are not too familiar with. Most of them fumble through the process while learning how to give a handjob. Otherwise, their grips are too limp, too tight, the pace is not something that men would like – in short, their techniques really need to be worked on.
Now, if you want to return the favor and be good at giving your man some love through manual masturbation, read the following guide to know exactly how you should go about doing it.
Step 1: Familiarize Yourself With His Penis
The first rule if to familiarize yourself with his penis – its length, girth, shape, whether it is curved or straight. By doing so, you will know which handjob techniques are best applied.
For example, if your man has an unusually large girth, there’s a big possibility that giving him a handjob with just one hand will not do the trick. For this, you should learn how to manually masturbate him using both hands.
Step 2: Be Somewhere Comfortable And Start Roaming Your Hands Down There
Although there’s a rule that men only need three to five minutes of direct stimulation to reach an orgasm, you don’t want things to be over for him too fast. Engage in some foreplay before roaming your hands down there.
Engage in some hot necking and petting, play with his nipples and put your hands all over his body before focusing all your attentions down south.
Step 3: Start Giving Him A Handjob
Men absolutely love it when women worship their penises – and this is a skill that you should definitely master. At first, feel the fullness of his erection and slowly let your fingers run from his balls. Using a slow, upward motion, swirl your fingers around the head of the shaft and slide it back down.
Make sure to do the up and down movements in a smooth motion – without bumping or stalling along the way.
Step 4: Focus On The Most Sensitive Parts Of His Penis & End Things With A Bang
Once you’ve hit a comfortable pace, bring your palm up to the top of the glans and spin your fingers around – this should make him groan in pleasure because this part is extremely sensitive. Don’t ignore his testicles – roll them up the underside of the shaft.
There are a number of ways that you can end things with a bang – but what’s important is to keep up what you’re doing until he groans in pleasure and reaches his orgasm.
Tips
When giving him a handjob, make sure to use plenty of lubricant to make things as smooth sailing as possible.
If your partner is having problems maintaining an erection, check out the many creams and lotions which are available in online and physical sex shops. The tingling sensation of the cream or lotion that you will apply should help bring him to a raging hard on.
Warnings
When you are playing with his family jewels, make sure that you never squeeze them – especially when you’re in the middle of a particularly smooth motion with your fingers. This can put a hamper on things and delay his orgasm.