Making this critical sex mistake can easily wreck the sex life of you and your partner. There are so many guys that think they know exactly what their partners want and how they want it, but find out halfway through a two-year relationship that they have no idea what turns on their wife or girlfriend.
If you don’t know that there are different kinds of orgasms your girl can have then you’re in for a rude awakening. The g-spot, the clitoris, and deep spot are the 3 most common places for women to have orgasms.
No woman is the same, which means that you must cater to her needs with the type of orgasm that you give her. If you’re making this critical sex mistake, here are 3 orgasm tips to help you energize your sex life and give her exactly what she wants.
Orgasm Tip #1: Get It Right With Clitoral Stimulation
Clitoral stimulation is one of the most often misunderstood aspects of bringing a woman to orgasm with men. Guys tend to overwork the clitoris throughout intercourse to the point that they can make the woman sore. The clitoris is made up of thousands of nerve endings and once a woman reaches orgasm the sensitivity can be too much to take. If the woman reaches orgasm before the guy, it can even be uncomfortable to have sex.
Make sure that your fingers are lubricated with spit or lube before you touch her clitoris. If you are rubbing it during sex, start slow and gauge her breaths or moaning based on how hard your rub it and the frequency to which you move your fingers. Too much stimulation and you will make her uncomfortable. Too little and she’ll be wondering what you’re doing. Get it right and she will never leave you.
Orgasm Tip #2: Finding The G-Spot
There are a ton of guys that swear they know where the g-spot is, but ask their wives or girlfriends and they will tell you that their partners get it wrong 100% of the time. The g-spot orgasm can be the most intensive orgasm that a woman has so it’s important to know what you’re doing. Finding it can be the difference between making her reach climax within a few minutes and never giving her an orgasm.
Finding the g-spot is not difficult if you know her anatomy. The g-spot is located about 2 inches inside her vagina. Enter your finger palm-side up and motion to “come here” with your index and middle finger. You should feel something spongy on the inside and you will feel her start to grind with her pelvis. Once you find the g-spot she should start to get very wet very quickly so be ready for this.
The missionary position is excellent for hitting her g-spot during sex. Bend your body back a little so your penis is going in at a steeper angle to rub the tip against her g-spot. If you’re having trouble hitting her g-spot during sex, ask her to help you get the angle right. She should be more than willing to give you some advice.
Orgasm #3: Going With The Deep Spot
While the g-spot gets all the recognition, the deep spot is really that can separate you from the pack. There aren’t too many guys that know about the deep spot and this can help you make your mark on any girl. The thing that you have to watch out for is the cervix. When you are trying to give her an orgasm, brushing against the cervix can quickly kill the mood.
Use your middle finger for the deep spot. You probably won’t be able to reach this with any other fingers, but luckily, you won’t have to. Your middle finger is going to be more than enough to get the job done. Use some lube when you are trying to reach the deep spot so you do not irritate the inside of her vagina. Insert your finger as far as it will go and then bend your finger back and forth with light pressure.
She should respond very quickly when you are doing it correctly. If you aren’t doing it correctly you might need some help. Guys with smaller hands might find this technique a little difficult, but with the right amount of practice you will get it. Hitting the deep spot during sex should not be that difficult unless you have a penis that is less than 5 inches long. Simply go in as far as you can go and start grind upward in small movements.