A female orgasm can be a bit of a mystery to most guys. Picture this. You are making love with your beloved girlfriend or wife. She appears to be enjoying the moment. Just as you think she’s about to reach the big orgasm, she pulls away and asks you to stop, saying that it is too intense for her. Well, for a guy who prides himself as being a great lover, this can be one of the most frustrating things that could happen during sex. Does this sound familiar? Fret not!

The Truth About A Female Orgasm

Guess what? Statistics have shown that one in seven women never had the good fortune of experiencing an orgasm during sex. The fact that your girl even comes close to one, means that you can actually bring her over the edge, if you know this simple binding principle in any sexual relationship – trust. This means she trusts both herself and you.

Achieving an orgasm while having sex can be fulfilling, but it can also be a scary experience for any woman. Sounds strange? It is but this is a very real fear in a woman. The intensity of the sensations that she is about to experience can make any woman “chicken out” at the last moment. It is like pulling out at the last moment when you are just about to do a bungee jump.

The Element Of Trust Is What’s Going To Push Her Over The Edge

You cannot just rely or learn a new technique to get her to orgasm. You have to let her trust you enough to make her totally surrender and release all her hang ups and inhibitions, before she is ready to let herself go.

So how do you give her that element of trust? Simple. Give her the confidence that you know what you are doing, and that you are doing all you can to give her the most powerful sexual experience any woman could have. Ask her to close her eyes, lean back and relax. Continue talking to her during lovemaking, even in the throes of passion so that she knows you have her emotional well-being at heart.

Once she knows there is NO judgment on her and that you are giving her the emotional space to go crazy and let it all out, she will be ready to take the plunge with full gratitude! This is the key to giving her a powerful female orgasm on the spot that will rock her world!