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The Best Sex Positions You’ve Never Tried

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Sex positions can get old if you’re using the same ones night after night. Do you wish that you could break out something new from your “bag of tricks” that would feel amazingly good to your lover, whether it’s she’s your long term partner, or a girl you just met?

There’s probably nothing worse than the feeling that comes when you know that your partner is bored with you in bed. While you are thinking about how you can keep things interesting, fun and fresh, you also might be worried that if you try anything too drastically new, that you might scare her off for good.

Well I’ve got good news for you. Some of the most amazing sex positions that I (and most women) ever experience are not much more than slight modifications to some of regular positions that we all know and love. In this article, I’m going to show you how to perform a few of my absolute favorite positions, as well as some tips you can use increase the intensity further still.

Straddle Missionary

Missionary is the original man-on-top position, and the most common one for most people. It also happens to be one of my favorites or clitoral stimulation, and that great feeling of really being stretched out, when we make a slight adjustment.

The next time you are on top, ask her to put her legs together while you spread yours a bit. You should now be straddling her while remaining face-to-face. This will help you to slide against her clitoris with every thrust you take. Since her legs are together, she will also feel tighter for you and also make you feel much wider for her.

To create a feeling of complete surrender, pin her hands down to the bed. You can also sit upright, which will allow you to thrust much faster and harder. Remember to have enough lube on hand, because this position can go from amazingly pleasurable to uncomfortable pretty quickly.

Fork And Spoon

In the spooning position, both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, while you enter her from behind. You will be doing most of the work of work in this position for both penetration as well as other stimulation including kissing her neck, fondling her breasts, or massaging her clitoris, with either your fingers or a tiny vibrator.

After you’ve been enjoying the spooning position for a few minutes, you can try an amazing variation; where she will move her bottom leg under your top leg, and her top leg on top of yours. This will allow your bodies to become wrapped up in each other’s, which helps to build incredible levels of intimacy while giving her very deep penetration.

For even deeper penetration still, lift her top leg towards the ceiling while you lean your body away from hers. This will give you an angle that allows for much deeper penetration, as well as a great view to look at.

Froggie

The Froggie position is a variation of Cowgirl, where you are laying on your back, and she crouches on top of your penis while still on her feet. This will give her tons of freedom to ride you very vigorously while putting less strain on her knees. However, it does work several muscle groups in her legs and core, so she has to be fit in order to sustain this position.

If you really want to give it to her good, grab her waist or ass and pull her on to your penis. She can place her hands on your stomach, chest or the beds backboard to brace herself. This will also give her a chance to relax while you take over, thrusting upwards from below. And for even MORE stimulation, you can always slip a small vibrator in between her legs and right on to her clitoris.

The point of all of these positions is to help give you a little creative insight in to what it takes to be a truly amazing lover. The next time you have sex, go ahead and give some (or all) of these positions a try, and of course feel free to use your imagination to come up with some new variations of your own.

Best Sex Positions Of 2010

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Trying new sex positions in the bedroom is one of the best ways to spice up your sex life and have better sex with your lover. There are tons of different ones to try, ranging from the sweet and sensual to the downright dirty. You can switch up what you do in the bedroom based on your mood and you can of course try several different positions in one sex session!

Don’t let the sex positions you use in the bedroom define who you are – for example, you’re not a “kinky” girl so you’re not going to do it doggy style. Instead, use them to make each and every time with your partner new, exciting, different and fun – depending on you or your partner’s mood. If you’re feeling a little naughty, try some positions that are designed for deeper penetration or sixty-nining, or if you’re feeling like having more romantic sex, try woman on top.

You may be worried that you’re not flexible enough for a lot of our suggestions, but you can always modify them or choose something else fun and exciting to suit your physical capabilities. You can use different sex positions to stimulate your partner in different ways, whether you want to have anal sex, stimulate the g-spot or create more friction to rub the clitoris and create a clitoral orgasm. There are also lots of ones that will feel great for the guys, although he’s bound to enjoy just about any of them! So here you have it – our top sex positions articles of 2010 so you can keep getting busy well into the new year!

The Best Love Making Positions To Try

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If you want to become a sex god, you won’t get far unless you know the differences between the sex positions. These differences may have something to do with the way the position increases sexual pleasure and urge, or the difficulty of the sex position. No two sex positions are the same when it comes to these two things.

Like me, you may have one or two favorite sex positions. However, if you’re going to continue having intimate moments with a particular girl, you have to learn more about the other sex positions that you can try during sex to keep things going…

Man On Top

I’m not going to diss the Missionary position in this article, because it will always be a favorite among guys. It’s the ideal sex position for dominance and for controlling the rhythm during lovemaking. However, if you’ve been doing it with a girl for a while, the same old man-on-top that you usually do won’t create a reaction on her part anymore.

You have to put a creative spin on the old Missionary style. You can put a pillow under her thighs to create a different angle of penetration. You can also put her feet up and hold them steady with your shoulders . On the other hand, you can try lying on top of her, with your weight on your elbows and your pubis directly rubbing her clitoral region (this position is often called coital alignment).

Woman On Top

Some women find it difficult to stay on top, either because of their weight or because they never received proper guidance from their previous lovers. Some women also think that getting up there and grinding away is the most pleasurable way to do it, but you know that too much grinding (and grinding the wrong way) can be painful.

How do you pull off the woman on top position and still control what’s happening? First, you have to make sure she’s comfortable. By this I mean her weight is managed well. You can have her squatting if she’s short, or kneeling if the upper part of her legs is long enough to wrap around your thighs comfortably.

Second, you can guide her when she starts to move. Set the rhythm yourself by moving your thighs according to the rhythm you want, or by gently holding her torso or hips and simulating the movement you want her to do.

Rear Entry

A sex positions list isn’t complete without the rear entry sex positions. There are two ways to maximize the effect of the doggy style, which is said to be the best position for a gspot massage during penetration. First is the high angle doggy style, in which you’re thrusting slightly upward. Second, the woman-on stomach variation, in which the girl is lying on her stomach and you’re doing the rear-entry version of the missionary.

You will never run out of ideas for different sex positions if you keep on experimenting and taking note of the positions that work best for you and your partner.

Best Sex Positions To Last Longer In Bed – Are You Ready For Explosive Sexual Endurance With These?

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Are you embarrassed by how soon you finish in bed? Is premature ejaculation making you feel less of a man and more like a lousy lover?

There is probably nothing worse than your wife, girlfriend or lover anticipating a night of pleasure, only to have you ending up being “too quick on the draw”. It can happen to ANY guy (and you probably know it all too well). And one of the questions I get more than ANY other is whether there are positions that help men last longer in bed. The simple truth is, there are! But here’s the thing – most couples adopt at most 2 different positions during lovemaking.

Well, considering that most guys climax within two to four minutes, that does not provide much leeway for experimenting with different positions. But ironically, the converse is also true. The more positions you experiment with, the more likely you will find some positions that will give you better control over your arousal and stimulation levels. In short, how long you last in bed can be directly controlled and improved by the sex positions you use. There are certain positions that put undue stress on the core muscle groups in your body – particularly your abs, arms, thighs, buttocks and pelvis. This stress makes it difficult to control your arousal.

The “Culprit” Of Quick-Fire Sex

The missionary position is a surefire position for quick ejaculation. This is a common position that most guys use during sex, so is it any wonder that many men don’t last the distance? What happens is that this position requires you to prop yourself up. And after thrusting for a couple of minutes, the amount of stress and tension in the muscles on your arms and legs will gradually build up and push you over the edge, making you lose control over your arousal. So which sex positions are the best for prolonging orgasm?

Woman On Top Or Cowgirl Position

The woman-on-top or cowgirl position gives you far better ejaculatory control even though your woman is actually controlling the movements and thrusting.

Why? Firstly, this position allows your body to be completely relaxed and stress-free. You are lying on your back and just enjoying the sensations coursing through your body. When you are relaxed and your main body muscle groups that precipitate ejaculation are not tensed, it becomes much easier for you to control your arousal.

Secondly, the part of the penis that is most sensitive to touch is the frenulum (the small fold of skin located on the underside of the rim where the penis head meets the shaft). Thrusts that are direct upwards instead of downwards in a woman’s vagina will cause less friction, and hence lessen stimulation on this ejaculation trigger point.

The Reverse Cowgirl Position

The “reverse cowgirl” is another great variation you can try out. As the name implies, this is the reverse of the woman-on-top position – your partner mounts you, but with her back facing you. You can try this variation after adopting the traditional cowgirl. It can help vary the stimulation, without losing the fun and pleasure from the act.

The key is to experiment with different positions, until you find a few that give both you and your partner pleasure and help you last longer at the same time. If you need a quick head start, try these recommended positions and see your endurance get a healthy boost!

3 Titillating Sex Positions For Women

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Guy on top, doggy style. Guy on top. The same sex position over and over can really bring your sex life down and many positions that men use aren’t all that great for women. But here’s the good news – men generally like any sex position as long as his penis is . . . well, you get the idea. So ladies, here are four awesome sex positions you need to try tonight!

Woman On Top

Okay, we’ve all heard of woman on top. We’ve all done woman on top. But here’s a reason that you need to make the woman on top position one of your regular, go-to sex positions. Did you know most women can climax when they’re on top? That’s because the angle between your man’s penis and your g-spot is perfect for just the right amount of stimulation.

The Variation: Face your man’s feet instead of his head. This is called the “Reverse Cowgirl” position. This gives your guy a great view of your backside and you can even use a vibrator in this position to stimulate your clitoris and make this position mind blowing.

Sitting Face To Face

Have your partner sit Indian style on the bed or couch, or wherever you like. Face him, and lower yourself onto his penis, wrapping your legs around him. This sex position is great on a bed because the springs inside help your partner to propel you up and down because he’ll be doing most of the work. Why is this position great for women? The face to face contact and emotional intimacy you can experience in this position is off the charts.

The Variation: Both of you will still be sitting, but try facing away from your partner. This is almost a sexy, sultry version of Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost.

Side By Side

Many “new sex positions” are invented by a bunch of guys sitting around a conference table with stick figures, trying to find the weirdest ways they can fit them together. Right? Okay, maybe not, but to for a woman who is looking up new sex positions to try, some of these acrobatic moves can seem downright outlandish. Are they really supposed to work? In the Side By Side position, you are simply lying down and facing your partner with your legs intertwined so his penis can enter you. This requires no special maneuvers, yet gives you the emotional and physical intimacy you need to have an orgasm.

The Variation: Try this position while you’re facing away from him, like spooning. Hold a pillow to your chest and groin for better control and let him reach around and fondle your breasts.

Don’t be afraid to try new things in the bedroom, but remember that you don’t have to act like you’re from the Cirque du Soliel just to please your partner either. Find positions that you and your partner both enjoy and rotate between them when you have sex so your sex life doesn’t become stagnant. Focus more on spending time with your partner and enjoying the sexual sensations you’re sharing with them instead of focusing on getting to the Big O. Chances are, the Big O will come on it’s own, no pun intended.