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6 Sex Positions That Make You Look Good

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Sex positions come in all varieties, but not all of them will flatter your best body attributes. In fact, many women avoid certain sex positions because they’re afraid their lover will see the cellulite in their backside or the wrinkles in their tummies. Rest assured women, that guys aren’t usually picking apart the girl they’re scoring with. But if you really want to hide your least favorite body parts, here are six sex positions that you’ll want to try.

Doggy Style

If you have a flabby tummy, or your tummy just isn’t your favorite part of yourself, doggy style is one of the best sex positions to hide your flaws. You may only think that doggy style is good for anal sex, but it’s actually great for g-spot stimulation too. Your partner will only be able to see your butt, your thighs and your back. Your stomach isn’t in view in this position, so you can “let it all hang out.” Doggy style is also great to use if you’ve just had a big meal or feel a little bloated. You can also arch your back and push your buttocks out a little, giving you a feminine and enticing curve that is very attractive to a man!

Cowgirl

Cowgirl is also one of the sex positions you can use to flatten out your tummy, but it requires a little bit of strength in your thighs since your thigh muscles are what you will be using to move yourself up and down on your partner’s penis. Straddle your partner and face him, but sit up tall and stretch your midsection out. Square your shoulders and flex your abdominal muscles to flatten out your tummy and make you look like a sex goddess!

Missionary

You may not think of the missionary position as being one of the sex positions that will make you look fantastic, but it is actually very useful for camouflaging your upper and inner thighs, as well as your butt. If these are your “trouble areas,” you can wrap your legs around your partner’s waist during intercourse, keeping them out of his view completely. He will get a good glimpse of your breasts and tummy if he’s up on his knees a little bit, and even less if he’s stomach-to-stomach with you. Mostly he will be looking at your face to see how much you are enjoying it (especially when you have an orgasm), not paying attention to your body flaws!

Spooning

Spooning is among the best sex positions to hide your tummy, your breasts and the front of your body. Lay on your side facing away from your partner, and have your partner come up behind you, also laying on his side and facing your back. He will enter you from behind, and can reach his hand around to stimulate your clitoris. Since men are visual creatures though, you might want to have a porn flick playing to give him something to look at – or else he’ll probably be staring at the wall!

Sixty-Nine

If your partner is going to perform oral sex on you, you might be nervous about him checking out your thighs and upper body in all its glory. As far as oral sex positions go, there are a few you can use to put your partner’s attention elsewhere. Sixty-nining with him on top will keep him from staring at your least favorite parts of your body (namely because all he’s going to see is your legs if he lifts his head out from in between them) and he’ll also be blissed out from the blowjob that you’re giving him at the same time.

Standing

Not only are the standing sex positions awesome for the “I-need-you-right-now” quickies, but they’re also great for making you look your best when you’re in your skivvies – or your birthday suit. Standing up while having sex allows your body to stretch out, so nothing is bunched up or wrinkled where it shouldn’t be. If you have excess skin that creates “rolls” when you bend over or lift your legs up, you’ll definitely love the standing sex position.

Remember that sex is all about having fun – not worrying about what you look like. Your partner most likely isn’t looking at your every flaw – they’re enjoying having sex with you! If you do get a guy that picks apart your least favorite parts of your body, ask yourself if he’s really someone you want to spend time with. There are lots of guys out there that will enjoy having sex with you and think you look great, even if you have a little cellulite!

The Best Sex Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm Quicker

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Most any woman is able to orgasm quickly when she’s being fondled during penetration. Sensations from penetration and fondling combine, leading to an intense orgasm that will leave her stunned. So where should a man touch a woman to get her off fast? Some women prefer breast stroking, while some women like torrid kissing, but the true secret to a quick orgasm is clitoral touching during sex.

However, doing this is easier said than done. The usual sex positions (like missionary) require you to use one or both hands to balance. Some men also find it difficult to do another task when foreplay is over and sex is in full swing. A remedy to this is to get into sex positions that allows touching of the clitoris without much effort on the guy’s part. You can also get into a sex position that will make it easier for the woman to reach her clitoris and stimulate herself without getting too tired.

Here are three sex positions that will do the trick.

Coital Alignment

Despite the technical term for this sex position, it’s pretty simple. The man lies directly on top of the woman and penetration angle is similar to that in the missionary position. However, in the coital alignment position, a man’s pubic region is pressed against the woman’s. This makes it seem like he’s grinding or rocking to and fro, rather than pulling in and out. The rhythmic grinding on the woman’s clitoris will induce orgasm quickly. One more benefit to this technique is that you can kiss her lips and moan into her ear while you’re in this position.

Woman On Top

This position will do more than help a woman to reach climax faster, it will increase the intensity of her orgasm. This is much like the coital alignment position but instead of the man being on top, the woman stays on top. The woman can lean her torso forward, arch her back, and keep her crotch in constant contact with the base of his penis or his pubic region. In this position, she can control the rhythm as well as the depth of penetration. Moreover, she can press down on the man’s pubic region so that her clitoris is sensitized by rubbing on his skin.

Doggy Style

In this position, a girl can play with her clitoris all she wants while you penetrate her. Doggy style is a sex position that lets the girl touch her body herself with one hand while balancing with the other. She can also free up both hands by balancing with her shoulders and head. If you really want to give your girl the best orgasm of her life, these sex positions I mentioned will help you find a way to touch her clitoris during sex. The clitoris is very sensitive, and any girl will tell you that the clitoris plays a big role to inducing orgasm during masturbation.

3 Sex Positions To Make Her Think Your Penis Is BIGGER!

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Sex positions can work wonders – they can revive a dull sex life or give a woman screaming orgasms. But did you know that the right sex positions can even make your girl think that your penis is larger than it really is! Try these to give yourself a size boost.

Position #1: Straddle Missionary

Missionary is the original man-on-top position, and the most common one for most people. It also happens to be one of my favorites or clitoral stimulation, and that great feeling of really being stretched out, when we make a slight adjustment.

The next time you are on top, ask her to put her legs together while you spread yours a bit. You should now be straddling her while remaining face-to-face. This will help you to slide against her clitoris with every thrust you take. Since her legs are together, she will also feel tighter for you and also make you feel much wider for her.

To create a feeling of complete surrender, pin her hands down to the bed. You can also sit upright, which will allow you to thrust much faster and harder. Remember to have enough lube on hand, because this position can go from amazingly pleasurable to uncomfortable pretty quickly.

Position #2: Fork & Spoon

In the spooning position, both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, while you enter her from behind. You will be doing most of the work of work in this position for both penetration as well as other stimulation including kissing her neck, fondling her breasts, or massaging her clitoris, with either your fingers or a tiny vibrator.

After you’ve been enjoying the spooning position for a few minutes, you can try an amazing variation; where she will move her bottom leg under your top leg, and her top leg on top of yours. This will allow your bodies to become wrapped up in each other’s, which helps to build incredible levels of intimacy while giving her very deep penetration.

For even deeper penetration still, lift her top leg towards the ceiling while you lean your body away from hers. This will give you an angle that allows for much deeper penetration, as well as a great view to look at.

Position #3: Froggie Style

The Froggie position is a variation of Cowgirl, where you are laying on your back, and she crouches on top of your penis while still on her feet. This will give her tons of freedom to ride you very vigorously while putting less strain on her knees. However, it does work several muscle groups in her legs and core, so she has to be fit in order to sustain this position.

If you really want to give it to her good, grab her waist or ass and pull her on to your penis. She can place her hands on your stomach, chest or the beds backboard to brace herself. This will also give her a chance to relax while you take over, thrusting upwards from below. And for even MORE stimulation, you can always slip a small vibrator in between her legs and right on to her clitoris.

The point of all of these positions is to help give you a little creative insight in to what it takes to be a truly amazing lover. The next time you have sex, go ahead and give some (or all) of these positions a try, and of course feel free to use your imagination to come up with some new variations of your own.

Best Sex Positions For Losing Weight

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Having sex can make you feel great about your body. If the sex is with someone you care about, sex can become more than just another “fun” event. Sex can be a tool you can use to make your relationship stronger. However, did you know that sex could also make you thinner?

The physical exertion involved in having sex can amount to a significant amount of calories burned. I cannot think of a more enjoyable way to shed the pounds. If you’re looking for an excuse to have sex with your man tonight, tell him that sex is now a part of your daily workout routine. He’ll be glad to participate, and you can lose weight in the process.

Here are three of the best sex positions for losing weight.

Pushups In The 69 Position

Normally, you would hold your body steady and bob your head up and down while you’re in the 69 position. However, instead of doing it this way, you can change the way you perform a blowjob by moving your whole torso instead of just your head and neck. Think of it as doing half-push ups while having sex.

The Squat

This sex position is just a variation of the woman on top position. Instead of kneeling during penetration, you can plan your feet on both sides of his body and squat. Going up and down while in this position can be tiring, but you can be sure it will burn some calories.

Do several repetitions until you simply can’t go anymore, or until he has climaxed. This can be your cardio exercise for the day. You can also strengthen your leg muscles by doing this repeatedly.

Participative Missionary

The typical missionary position calls for more action on the guy’s part, but if you want to lose weight while having sex, you can try “participating” while in the Missionary position.

While he’s on top and you’re lying flat on your back, lift your torso up to kiss his lips or his neck. Hold this position for a while and then go back down. The trick is to not use your arms to lift your body off the bed. Instead, use your torso.

To effectively lose weight while having sex, try doing it on the floor or on your yoga mat. This is better than doing it on the bed because the mattress might be too soft for any exercise to be effective. You can also do some leg stretches while your man is on top of you and your legs are over his shoulders.

It is important to let your man know about your new exercise program so that he will not think it’s strange when you mutter rep counts under your breath or when you start stretching your legs and arms in weird angles.

4 Sex Positions To Make Your Vagina Feel Tighter!

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Sex positions can make or break how great sex feels. Whether your partner has a small penis or you have a larger vagina, you may have some trouble getting enough friction going for it to feel really pleasurable for both you and your partner. This can also happen after a woman gives birth, because the vagina stretches out and takes some time going back to its original shape. Lots of girls (and guys) want a tighter sensation during intercourse – and finding the right sex position can make all the difference. Try these 4 great ideas TONIGHT for tighter, more satisfying sex for both you and your lover!

Legs Up, With Your Feet On His Chest

Start out on your back, like you and your lover were getting into the missionary position. However, instead of spreading your legs wide and having him enter you that way, lift your legs up and place your feet on his chest. This will allow for deeper penetration, however, it will also make your vagina squeeze tighter around his penis. Use this sex position after you’ve gotten your fill of kissing and caressing, because since your feet and legs are actually in between the two of you, there’s not going to be much room for kissing and intimacy of that nature.

An Even Tighter Variation

Cross your ankles – in fact, if you’re able to, cross them as close to your thighs as possible. If you can only cross them at your ankles or knees, that’s fine too. What this does is it brings the two sides of your vaginal walls even closer together, so he’ll actually be rubbing up against each side with his penis. This will feel more snug to him and create more friction – which will be pleasurable for both of you!

“Planking”

Yes, the popular social activity now has a place in the bedroom, but you probably don’t want to put this picture up on your social media websites. This is one of the best sex positions to make intercourse feel tighter, and women love it because it still allows for that great face to face interaction and intimacy during sex. Lie flat on your back like with missionary style, but with your legs completely closed. Make sure you’re lubed up enough and let him enter you like that – not only will he rub up against your pressed-together thighs, your vagina will also seem much tighter to him this way.

An Even Tighter Variation

Flip over and give the planking sex position a “doggy style” spin. Let him enter you from behind, but still with your legs all the way closed. He will love seeing your whole body laid out or him, and he’ll especially enjoy getting to caress your butt as you two get it on. This can also be one of the best sex positions for tight anal sex if you’re into that!

The Lotus Position

The lotus sex position is another great one for creating more friction during penetration. Have your partner sit on a flat surface, with his legs crossed “Indian style.” You’ll straddle him, lower your vagina onto his penis, and then wrap your legs around his hips and back. Getting a good rhythm going can be a little difficult here, so don’t be surprised when this sex position feels slow and sensual to you. Not only will his penis rub against the walls of your vagina more, having your legs wrapped around him will give him the illusion that he’s completely surrounded by you.

An Even Tighter Variation

When he’s sitting, instead of having your lover cross his legs “Indian style,” have him lay them straight out in front of him as though he would bend forward and touch his toes. Again, you’ll straddle him, but don’t wrap your legs all the way around his hips and back. Instead, rest your knees on the bed, on either side of his legs. This brings your legs even closer together than the actual lotus position, which will cause your vagina to hug his penis even more snugly.

Standing Sex

Stand up against the wall and have your partner enter you. To get standing sex to work properly, you may need to stand on a foot stool, or cock your leg out just a little to give him more entry room. Once you get going though, he will love the feeling of shoving you up against the wall and having his way with you. Plus, your legs are (mostly) together, so he’ll feel every inch of your vagina.

An Even Tighter Variation

Stand with your back to your lover, and bend forward as though you were trying to touch your toes. This gives your lover a great view and again, he’ll feel all sides of your vagina as you make love.