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Seduction Methods To Close The Deal With ANY Stripper!

By deancortez

A stripper will get typical customers trying to ask them out on a daily basis. YOU need to be different. Once you’re successfully escalating and you can tell she’s feeling the physical attraction, it’s time for you to close the deal.

Don’t Linger In The “ZONE”

Remember the old rule of show business: “leave ‘em wanting more.” You need to be the one to end the conversation and excuse yourself while the interaction is at a high point, so that she wants to see you again soon and pick up where you left off.

Otherwise, the longer you drag out the interaction, the greater the chance that she will feel she needs to get back to hustling and making money. Even if she’s totally into the conversation, she can only talk to you for so long before she’ll start to feel that she needs to get back to work.

2 Ways To Close A Stripper On Duty

1. Get Her Phone Number

Plan on calling her/texting her soon to see her outside of the strip club. Hopefully tonight. Be sure to find out during the conversation when her shift ends.

2. Use A 2nd Location

If her shift ends within the next few hours, make a plan to meet her at another location. I suggest you make it a late-night restaurant—strippers are usually hungry after working a long shift.  The key is to invite her to come along and join you somewhere. Lay out a specific plan that is easy for her to agree with.

Set Your Plans In Stone

You may have no intention of heading to this place later tonight, if you’re alone, but you’ve got to present it this way to her—as if your plans for later on are already set, and she’s welcome to come along so you can continue this cool conversation.

In U.S. cities, restaurants like Denny’s, I-Hop, etc are good locations for the meet. Even better are local pub-restaurants where you can grab a burger and some drinks afterwards.

Make it a place that she’s probably already familiar with. If she has no idea where it is, she’s very unlikely to try to drive around and find it in the middle of the night.

Don’t Even Bother Trying To Make A “Date Plan”

Inviting her to dinner or a movie next week while you’re talking to her in the club or while you’re getting a lap dance is pretty much hopeless. If you try to suggest this, she’ll probably agree to it, out of politeness, but she’ll forget all about it as soon as you leave. Besides, she’ll probably be working that night.

Always try to sleep with her tonight. Strippers usually lead busy, hectic (if not chaotic) lives and meet new guys every day. Trying to build a “friendship first” and taking it slow is the downfall of many guys when they’re trying to hook up with women—and this is especially true when you are dealing with strippers. Strike while the iron is hot and the sparks are flying!

Make The First Conversation A Winner!

The first conversation is all about gathering information on her,  communicating your confident, playful personality, and working towards the “close.” Guide the conversation along—never allowing her to control the conversation and the topics—and build your bond with her using the right body language.

Learn the special details about her that you know she doesn’t share with her customers. This ensures that when you do call or text her, she’ll immediately remember who you are, and you can refer to things you talked about—especially the private “in jokes” you shared.

Filed Under: Seduction Tips Tagged With: body language, physical attraction, seduction, stripper

Never Be Alone Again With This 1 Simple Tool! (It’s Not What You Think)

By david

Confidence is a problem for a lot of women. It’s time we all stopped obsessing about our weight. It’s time we start embracing the power of who we are. Face it, ladies: you’re never going to be the perfect wife—ever.

I know ladies that are skinny and wish they were five pounds heavier. I know girls that are chubby and wish they were 30 pounds lighter. I know women that are tall and they want to be shorter. I know some that are short that want to be taller.

But here’s the issue: you’ve got to stop obsessing about your weight because the more you obsess about your weight, the less life you live. There are men all over the world that love girls of all shapes and sizes.

Every Man Likes Something Different

I have a buddy that loves the exact opposite of what I like. I’m a work out person. I’ve been working out my entire life. I like girls that are short and petite—athletic ladies that love to run along the beach or spend hours in a yoga studio.

I like girls that work out. It’s just what I enjoy. These are the kind of women that I find to have the most physical attraction to.

My buddy laughs at me and he says “you’re only dating these wafers”—that what he calls them. He looks at them and says “you know, you’re going to break that woman! I don’t know how you do it, because for me, I need a woman with meat.”

He says, “I like mine big, powerful. I like a little cushion.”

The two of us are proof that men like the opposite sex to have all shapes and sizes. It’s time you started loving yourself, because that’s the important thing. If you love yourself—I mean, really you love who you are—do you know what’s going to happen?

You’re going to find the guy that loves you just as deeply. In fact, once you’re ready, you’re going to meet a man that love’s you in the proportion that you love yourself. Because that’s how it works.

Embrace Your Body

You might have saddlebags; you might have a little extra thickness on your sides; you may be depressed because one breast is slightly larger than the other being the exact same size—whatever.

But who cares? Men are attracted to girls that find themselves sexy and have confidence.  Using the right body language is key.

I’ve seen women that are heavy, with all of the above “conditions” that would normally upset another woman. But they accept their bodies and walk around confidently. They’ve got that twinkle in their eyes. They just exude sexual energy.

And I’ve got to tell you something: I’m not even attracted to that type of body style, but I can’t keep my eyes off of her because it’s the way she feels about herself.

Look Around!

Stop wasting time obsessing about your body and start obsessing about all the great men that want to absolutely indulge in everything that you are. They want to embrace your beautiful, round, full-figured body. Trust me, there are plenty of them and you should not be afraid of rejection.

Start practicing abundance and start realizing that full-figured women have a wide range of men to date.  Go to a Target. Go to a Walmart. Look at the local women that are built just like you.

Look at the wedding rings on their hands, look at the men that they’re with, and realize that there’s no reason for you to ever be alone. It’s your choice. Embrace your beautiful body now because it’s the only one you’ve got.

Filed Under: Dating Tips Tagged With: body language, confidence, Dating Tips, physical attraction

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